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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So its been 2 years since ive had so much as a kiss and a cuddle nevermind sex, and the thing is im not even that bothered (obviously i am to a degree because ive rejoined fab) but i miss intamacy more than anything, anyone else had this happen to them? Thoughts?

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Surprising for a bi guy usually there are plenty of guys for other guys.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

You need to find yourself a cuddle buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't wank regularly you'll spunk powder dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So its been 2 years since ive had so much as a kiss and a cuddle nevermind sex, and the thing is im not even that bothered (obviously i am to a degree because ive rejoined fab) but i miss intamacy more than anything, anyone else had this happen to them? Thoughts?"

nope never had a long dry spell, is it by choice or just not crossed paths with the right people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So its been 2 years since ive had so much as a kiss and a cuddle nevermind sex, and the thing is im not even that bothered (obviously i am to a degree because ive rejoined fab) but i miss intamacy more than anything, anyone else had this happen to them? Thoughts?

nope never had a long dry spell, is it by choice or just not crossed paths with the right people "

Its mostly by choice i think, i was in a relationship that became plutonic for the final year and we sat down and agreed to call it a day, but since then ive not activley sought out anything other than friendship (i think im defective ) ive had moments where i could have had fun but im that used to not doing ive made excuses or backed off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you don't wank regularly you'll spunk powder dude "

I dont even bother with that anymore i think im broken

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surprising for a bi guy usually there are plenty of guys for other guys. "

Yep its not like i havent had oppertunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't wank regularly you'll spunk powder dude

I dont even bother with that anymore i think im broken "

Have you tried to turn yourself off and on to reboot yourself ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you don't wank regularly you'll spunk powder dude

I dont even bother with that anymore i think im broken

Have you tried to turn yourself off and on to reboot yourself ? "

yeah i just look in the mirror then watch porn

Still nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't wank regularly you'll spunk powder dude

I dont even bother with that anymore i think im broken

Have you tried to turn yourself off and on to reboot yourself ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't wank regularly you'll spunk powder dude

I dont even bother with that anymore i think im broken

Have you tried to turn yourself off and on to reboot yourself ?

yeah i just look in the mirror then watch porn

Still nothing"

I can't help you then... That's all they taught us at IT school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming up 11 months for me, I'm thinking of becoming a priest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did 8.5 years by choice and tbh it was very liberating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you don't wank regularly you'll spunk powder dude

I dont even bother with that anymore i think im broken

Have you tried to turn yourself off and on to reboot yourself ?

yeah i just look in the mirror then watch porn

Still nothing

I can't help you then... That's all they taught us at IT school "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did 8.5 years by choice and tbh it was very liberating "

Maybe im looking at it the wrong way then, maybe im fine and the mojo will return

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Coming up 11 months for me, I'm thinking of becoming a priest "

To be fair youd look hot in a dog collar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did 8.5 years by choice and tbh it was very liberating

Maybe im looking at it the wrong way then, maybe im fine and the mojo will return"

Oh it'll be fine! Just put that energy into other things and when you feel like it it just returns all hunky dory!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did 8.5 years by choice and tbh it was very liberating

Maybe im looking at it the wrong way then, maybe im fine and the mojo will return

Oh it'll be fine! Just put that energy into other things and when you feel like it it just returns all hunky dory!"

I hope youre right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could go that long tbh.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish I could go that long tbh....."

Really?

Its wierd its like im denying myself, a close friend of mine tried to give me a hug the other month and i pulled away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I could go that long tbh.....

Really?

Its wierd its like im denying myself, a close friend of mine tried to give me a hug the other month and i pulled away "

I've never gone without hugs though couldn't imagine that but there again I'm a natural hugger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish I could go that long tbh.....

Really?

Its wierd its like im denying myself, a close friend of mine tried to give me a hug the other month and i pulled away

I've never gone without hugs though couldn't imagine that but there again I'm a natural hugger "

Under "normal" circumstances so am i, its like im punishing myself for something but i dont know what, i think i break the cycle

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