FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever been blocked by someone you have never even spoken to?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I know of but I do it all the time for all sorts of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea. Probably. I don't often look at a profile unless there's an avatar that catches my eye... yep. It's been a while!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,mainly because Iv disagreed with them in here,children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's proper weird they messaged to tell you though

Flipping oddball on here!!

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

It's happened to me, and I do it to others. Its nothing personal, I just do it as I know we wouldn't be suited and it saves both parties wasting time.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I have once or twice. And I’ve done the same.

Not everyone is attracted to everyone so it’s fine.

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

"Yes,mainly because Iv disagreed with them in here,children"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not that I know of but I do it all the time for all sorts of reasons. "

That's fair enough, but what I don't get is why not just block?

When no actual chat had happened in the first place.

Hi, you are blocked. Bye.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I block people I have never talked to all the time.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes Tom Hardy refuses to return my calls...

Or letters...

Or emails...

Or mind messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's proper weird they messaged to tell you though

Flipping oddball on here!!"

Yeah that’s true. I’ve never messaged to tell them!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Have considered blocking you for some of your furom posts..

Lol pot calling the kettle black but I am a hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's proper weird they messaged to tell you though

Flipping oddball on here!!"

I'm starting to think this place is full of crazies

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I'd rather be blocked if they're not interested. Saves messaging again I guess

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Yes people on the forums never even spoken to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that I know of but I do it all the time for all sorts of reasons.

That's fair enough, but what I don't get is why not just block?

When no actual chat had happened in the first place.

Hi, you are blocked. Bye. "

Yeah I don’t get that bit. I’ve never messaged someone to tell them. That’s a bit odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's proper weird they messaged to tell you though

Flipping oddball on here!!

I'm starting to think this place is full of crazies"

Oh come now. You've been here a while!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block people I have never talked to all the time."

Yeah but do you message them before you do it to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people block people that they don't want to meet, saves on the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's proper weird they messaged to tell you though

Flipping oddball on here!!

I'm starting to think this place is full of crazies"

Really?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have considered blocking you for some of your furom posts..

Lol pot calling the kettle black but I am a hypocrite.

If people don't like my posts, I get that. Block and move on. It's life. But just do it, don't advertise it.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yep I have that T Shirt

On another site there is a group chat,

I cracked a joke that was ment for a few in the know who were on at the time, got a msg within group that I was rude,. Fast fwd to joining here I'm blocked without ever talking to me bar to tell me I'm rude months before ,,

Pitty , she was hot stuff 2

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?"

Make sure you block them back, sounds like the sort of twat who unblocks just to send more abuse lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most bizarre.

I clicked on someone earlier as I thought they seemed interesting on another thread... They had blocked me yet as far as I'm aware I've had no previous interaction with them and don't even live near enough to know them in real life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea

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By *udistcpl1Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

"Yes Tom Hardy refuses to return my calls...

Or letters...

Or emails...

Or mind messages...

My wife keeps having the same problem. Does he not answer anybody?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Probably, But I've blocked loads without ever speaking to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's proper weird they messaged to tell you though

Flipping oddball on here!!

I'm starting to think this place is full of crazies

Oh come now. You've been here a while!!"

Yeah true

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By *0NyorksMan
over a year ago

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Have been blocked a few times for very odd reasons. Worst was after I sent them the face pic they asked for. No offeñce taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?

Make sure you block them back, sounds like the sort of twat who unblocks just to send more abuse lol!"

Cheers, have done. They did send abuse but they are only words

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Oh yes lots of times I've clicked a profile of someone I've ever spoken to, only to find I'm blocked, they don't usually message to tell me first though!

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

Can't message if ya blocked... Unless they unblocked u and then told u????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh yes lots of times I've clicked a profile of someone I've ever spoken to, only to find I'm blocked, they don't usually message to tell me first though! "

That's what's weird

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By *ecorating GiggloMan
over a year ago

carnforth

My guess is they saw you looking at profile checked you out and thought fuck that but not in that sense . And blocked without chance to message. What I found strange was I sent a lass a really I thought well worded message to try catch her eye. Really thought into it so to try get noticed a little more than a quick glance. For her to reply sorry don’t do copy and paste happy fabbing. Then blocked. Some lucky people must get all the luck and odd jobs to think like that . I get the ladies will get loads of messages and after time it seems all single guys are chancers and copy paste to the masses. Not me all mine sincerely for who I message. Everyone is different approach I actually mostly anyway read all the profiles before I do . Give or take a few lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't message if ya blocked... Unless they unblocked u and then told u???? "

They messaged first. I have never spoken to them ever, called me a name then blocked me.

Childish lol

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Yes, mainly women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. I thought a guy had blocked me, had never spoken to him at all. Got talking to him on the forum and he thought I had blocked him. Neither had blocked the other. Not sure how that happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me. Don't mind.It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good luck to you

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I sometimes check out profiles if they are new names to me and a few times I have been blocked, I’m not bothered by it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few. They have never even messaged us once...

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

"Can't message if ya blocked... Unless they unblocked u and then told u????

They messaged first. I have never spoken to them ever, called me a name then blocked me.

Childish lol

Fake account!! Alert lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't message if ya blocked... Unless they unblocked u and then told u????

They messaged first. I have never spoken to them ever, called me a name then blocked me.

Childish lol

That has happened to me too! Counterblock so they can't keep peeping at your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block folk all the time for no reason at all its the block lotto

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By *inx80Woman
over a year ago

London

I think I might be blocked by some(one) strangers because I notice people quoting messages that I can't see in the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't message if ya blocked... Unless they unblocked u and then told u????

They messaged first. I have never spoken to them ever, called me a name then blocked me.

Childish lol

That has happened to me too! Counterblock so they can't keep peeping at your profile.

Been done. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block folk all the time for no reason at all its the block lotto"

The National Blockery

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

I have a question, how do I bulk unblock? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block so wouldn't be surprised I would get blocked.

I'm still ok about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, why is unknown, but assumed due to my ethnicity they got scared and blocked me, but I am happy don't have to put effort to impress result would have been same BLOCK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?"

Yep. Had a fair few messages off people I've never chatted to, messaging things like "club whore"/"fake"/insulting my appearance etc. Then blocking me.

Spotted a few people on forums who have me blocked.

Even a couple who attend my events have me blocked. I tend not to take it personally anymore. People block for all sorts of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads, take it as a compliment if they're a twat....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently ........... just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block so wouldn't be surprised I would get blocked.

I'm still ok about it

;-)

Needs must.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yes stupid bitch.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes I have been and it does seem a bit odd when you’ve never spoken but it’s no biggy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, they've obviously looked and decided they'd rather I didn't make contact. Not bothered at all.

I do it too, for various reasons.

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By *eesside lingerie wearerMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Yes,I have

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

We have been blocked by plenty, and we block plenty. We presume certain people block us for the same reasons as we block others.

That's all good. No problems with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people if they have said something In the forum that I really don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I might be blocked by some(one) strangers because I notice people quoting messages that I can't see in the thread. "

Blocks don't affect the forums. Their post may have been removed by a Mod but if others have quoted it they may have missed removing those posts too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block people if they have said something In the forum that I really don't like."

Bloody hell... I'd have most blocked if I did that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guy took offence because I did not reply instantly to a message and messaged me to tell me all about it so I went to reply only to find he blocked me, I mean heaven forbid that we have things to do in real life that is not on fab lol. Some people really think they are super important and that you must reply in 1 minute or under.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?"

I’ve had some message me to tell me I’m about to be blocked, yep odd...

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By *houldibedoingthis!Man
over a year ago

london

It's quite sad actually. You send a message to a person that's caught your eye; a polite one I might add, and you get blocked for not attaching a pic. I must be messaging the wrong people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Possibly down to rugby comments though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes people on the forums never even spoken to them

This! And I just don't get why, because I haven't even disagreed with anything they said.

But hey ho, I do a lot of blocking and I never take offence at being blocked either...

Niki xx

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By *houldibedoingthis!Man
over a year ago

london

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?

I’ve had some message me to tell me I’m about to be blocked, yep odd...

Oh the power ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had that a couple of times... just one sentence saying “Now blocked” and I have never even seen their profile before or spoken to them before.

Given up trying to understand why people

Behave in certain ways on here....

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Yes, most bizarre.

I've had this happen to me. I've never had previous conversations with this particular person and I live 4300 miles away.

I smile and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. Possibly down to rugby comments though

Are you on about me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea. How would you know if you’ve never spoken to them? #confused

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No idea.. they’re not exactly relevant if we’ve never spoken..

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

"I’ve had that a couple of times... just one sentence saying “Now blocked” and I have never even seen their profile before or spoken to them before.

Given up trying to understand why people

Behave in certain ways on here...."

Hmm same here.. We should probably meet up to discuss this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?

I’ve had some message me to tell me I’m about to be blocked, yep odd...

Oh the power ..."

Exactly this. Some people do odd things to get a little bit of power.

There’s a few profiles that stalk the forums then send really nasty messages to people referring to threads they’ve posted on. It seems this is entirely what those profiles are for.

I just assume they’re mainly freelance Stella drinkers with not a great deal going on in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?

I’ve had some message me to tell me I’m about to be blocked, yep odd...

Oh the power ...

Exactly this. Some people do odd things to get a little bit of power.

There’s a few profiles that stalk the forums then send really nasty messages to people referring to threads they’ve posted on. It seems this is entirely what those profiles are for.

I just assume they’re mainly freelance Stella drinkers with not a great deal going on in their lives."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Possibly down to rugby comments though

Are you on about me?"

You haven’t blocked me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. Possibly down to rugby comments though

Are you on about me?

You haven’t blocked me?"

Nor would I. I actually think you are really lovely

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes I have and I couldn't care less!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yep

And I've blocked people I've never spoken to, too.

I have my reasons, they have theirs.

Life goes on, I won't lose any sleep over it

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, many times.

I block those that I am not interested in meeting up with, those that have viewed my profile and many do the same to me...It saves unnecessary msgs etc.

A very useful option..

My block list is very long lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked for saying hi. No skin off my nose tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea. Probably. I do it all the time for all sorts of different reasons. Nothing personal usually. It’s a good tool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

I have done this too.

There are many reasons for this and sometimes it just depends what mood I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea.. they’re not exactly relevant if we’ve never spoken.. "

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It happens a lot with people posting on pro bareback threads apparently I thin kits the well i will never go near them so block. Well thats what I have been told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Possibly down to rugby comments though

Are you on about me?

You haven’t blocked me?

Nor would I. I actually think you are really lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal. "

I'm sorry for my part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal.

I'm sorry for my part."

Me too. Wanna hug?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal.

I'm sorry for my part.

Me too. Wanna hug?

Ahhhhh you guys!!

this proper made me smile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal.

I'm sorry for my part.

Me too. Wanna hug?

Yes!

*Ghengis bounds over like a puppy*

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Yes, it's happened on a couole of occasions. I've seen a profile on the forums i've never spoken to or interacted with and when I click to view, states i've been blocked. I don't dwell on why this woukd be the case and just move on. People are free to do as they wish. Though to be fair this isn't a practice I engage in personally. I've only one person on my block list and she,was put there after being unreasonably unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal.

I'm sorry for my part.

Me too. Wanna hug?

Yes!

*Ghengis bounds over like a puppy*"

Well that's that sorted then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal.

I'm sorry for my part.

Me too. Wanna hug?

Ahhhhh you guys!!

this proper made me smile x"

Hush you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal.

I'm sorry for my part.

Me too. Wanna hug?

Ahhhhh you guys!!

this proper made me smile x

Hush you

She's a sucker for a happy ending.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal.

I'm sorry for my part.

Me too. Wanna hug?

Ahhhhh you guys!!

this proper made me smile x

Hush you

She's a sucker for a happy ending.

Damn right!!

I loves it!!!! X

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By *axo25Man
over a year ago

lightwater

I got blocked by a couple because they asked for a rating on their video and I gave it a four.

They wrote me a tonne of abuse directly then blocked me so I couldn’t reply

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Nope but I block a hell of alot of people just because I can cause they seem to be anything from annoying with spamming the update feed or just a total cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got blocked by a couple because they asked for a rating on their video and I gave it a four.

They wrote me a tonne of abuse directly then blocked me so I couldn’t reply

See Iv never understood why anyone would ask anyone to rate them, especially if they are not prepared to take a negative or indifferent response.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

No idea, don't really care either as it's no loss is it? Lol. You can't miss what you never had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block list cleared....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’d say I was on a lot of people’s block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive blocked many people ive never spoken to im here to meet not social media if i know i wont meet someone and they are local i will block saves time later for both

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?

I’ve had some message me to tell me I’m about to be blocked, yep odd...

It’s generally after disagreeing with some of the clique this happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got blocked for not displaying their veri!

She made a cracking home made battenberg though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?

I’ve had some message me to tell me I’m about to be blocked, yep odd...

It’s generally after disagreeing with some of the clique this happens

Not alwa..i have had messages paying a compliment but then saying I don't think i would be your type and then block,so I can't even see them

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Blocked a few, mainly because I do not like their personality when engaging in the forums.

I will also block ladies who have been kind enough to message a ‘no thanks’ message back from my initial ‘hello’ message, not because I’m bitter about their choice, just I know that some ladies get inundated with messages and I wouldn’t want to be adding another because I’ve forgotten they had already said ‘piss off fugly’

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Yep lots of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and the weird thing is, I had no idea until they messaged me to tell me.

I don't think this thread is against site rules?"

Yes I have & no idea why... I just return the block as it stops them from unblocking me when they wish

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. It does make me scratch my head a little when you realise. I guess my shit sense of humour rubs some people up the wrong way

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm sure I'm blocked by quite a few people, but only one felt the urge to tell me about it, sad thing is I think she got the wrong end of the stick, but by blocking, we were unable to resolve it.

Sad, but I've not lost sleep.

Some times this happens and sometimes it's just because you have cought that person on a bad day and sometimes it's because what was said was triggering or a mix of both It's often not personal.

I'm sorry for my part.

Me too. Wanna hug?

Yes!

*Ghengis bounds over like a puppy*

Well that's that sorted then.

Yayyyyy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. It does make me scratch my head a little when you realise. I guess my shit sense of humour rubs some people up the wrong way

I know what you mean .I used to take it personally and it would wind me up and I would to myself wonder what I had done to upset them? . At the end of the day it's their choice and so be it ..I don't worry about it these days

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yes. It does make me scratch my head a little when you realise. I guess my shit sense of humour rubs some people up the wrong way

Agreed. Better to concentrate on those who do want to know me!

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

I don`t know if I have been blocked, but I do sometimes block people if I have no chance or intention of meeting. It just trims down the status feed or searches and also stops me messaging the same people twice accidentally if we have chatted already but decided not to meet. It is nothing personal, it just keeps things tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block list cleared....

Am I unblocked now then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I usually get a message from a stranger saying something like OI YOU FUCKING SLAG and then when I go to look at their profile I'm blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I usually get a message from a stranger saying something like OI YOU FUCKING SLAG and then when I go to look at their profile I'm blocked. "

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Yep but don’t worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block list cleared....

Am I unblocked now then?

No, it holds ppl who've reported you or who you have reported.....

Its weird, having it empty now though, but a fresh start

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Yep but don’t worry about it

The joys of fab

Some people just do it as a filter so they don't need to check you out again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but I only notice when I check a profile out who's posted on the forums.

Perhaps it was something I said? Guess I'll never know!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We often block supposed single guys where there profile says that they are married looking for extra fun.

In our book, that’s not swinging, just cheating.

Instablock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I usually get a message from a stranger saying something like OI YOU FUCKING SLAG and then when I go to look at their profile I'm blocked. "

So, you're suggesting I should change my approach....?

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Yes.. This morning I received a strange message that made no sense in response to a post I made which was friendly & encouraging. then blocked..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.. This morning I received a strange message that made no sense in response to a post I made which was friendly & encouraging. then blocked.. "

Sorry about that I was high

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By *razysexysingleWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Depends what you mean by never spoken to. I block people I have no intention of meeting, for example they send me a message and I’m not interested. Saves everybody’s time in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We often block supposed single guys where there profile says that they are married looking for extra fun.

In our book, that’s not swinging, just cheating.

Instablock!"

Oh my word

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

"Depends what you mean by never spoken to. I block people I have no intention of meeting, for example they send me a message and I’m not interested. Saves everybody’s time in the long run."

It`s ok to block people your not interested in. What`s strange is sending them a weird message & then blocking them, So they cannot respond.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I block those that irritate me or don’t take no for an answer.

Been blocked, yes but not by anyone I give a minutes thought too, it’s normally those that like to start with an opening rant message and block so you can’t respond... they let out their rage irrelevant to me

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Yes and I’ve blocked people I’ve never spoken to also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I usually get a message from a stranger saying something like OI YOU FUCKING SLAG and then when I go to look at their profile I'm blocked.

So, you're suggesting I should change my approach....?

I think it would help if you did!!

In all seriousness though I'm just thankful I don't know these men in real life. Some people are very very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I get blocked frequently. Hardly surprising really I’m just surprised more don’t take my advice on my profile. I have quite a few forum users who block me too, some I have spoken to, some I haven’t..

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Half of fab is on my block list - my tolerance levels are quite low and.... sometimes profile pics are bloody disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. It does make me scratch my head a little when you realise. I guess my shit sense of humour rubs some people up the wrong way

Agreed. Better to concentrate on those who do want to know me!"

Most definitely x

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I block if you have a dick pic or no pic at all as your profile ...

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Funny enough yes or maybe it’s because I am a man on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I usually get a message from a stranger saying something like OI YOU FUCKING SLAG and then when I go to look at their profile I'm blocked. "

Freelance Stella drinker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block if you have a dick pic or no pic at all as your profile ...

You must be down to about 3 potential profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I usually get a message from a stranger saying something like OI YOU FUCKING SLAG and then when I go to look at their profile I'm blocked.

So, you're suggesting I should change my approach....?

I think it would help if you did!!

In all seriousness though I'm just thankful I don't know these men in real life. Some people are very very strange.

So, you're saying I'm strange too....?

...not crying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

I also block people I’ve never spoken to before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes by forum users and lurkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - don’t really mind

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"We often block supposed single guys where there profile says that they are married looking for extra fun.

In our book, that’s not swinging, just cheating.

Instablock!

Oh my word

It’s these guys who are most likely the reason (well partly to blame) for why single guys get a bad rap on here.

Just our thoughts.

We have met some great single guys and gals off here but if we knew they were lying about there status then it’s a no thank you and yes.....blocked.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Yes I told a very sexy mature lady I'd been masturbating whilst I was checking out her very sexy pics which made me cum and she blocked me but thank god she changed her profile so I see her pics again

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

I block people for lots of different reasons, too local, don’t like their attitude on the forum, safe sex not being ticked, I don’t message them to tell them though, how odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I told a very sexy mature lady I'd been masturbating whilst I was checking out her very sexy pics which made me cum and she blocked me but thank god she changed her profile so I see her pics again"

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"My guess is they saw you looking at profile checked you out and thought fuck that but not in that sense . And blocked without chance to message. What I found strange was I sent a lass a really I thought well worded message to try catch her eye. Really thought into it so to try get noticed a little more than a quick glance. For her to reply sorry don’t do copy and paste happy fabbing. Then blocked. Some lucky people must get all the luck and odd jobs to think like that . I get the ladies will get loads of messages and after time it seems all single guys are chancers and copy paste to the masses. Not me all mine sincerely for who I message. Everyone is different approach I actually mostly anyway read all the profiles before I do . Give or take a few lol "
I,ve noticed over time on here what can look a perfectly geninue profile of someone you see on here can actually be a fake or a scammer in the background both happen on here because I,ve experienced it before Infact I,ve even seen their profile disappear at the same time I,ve been communicateing with them just because something looks good on here don,t just let that take you In, admin try their best but these people or some of them are good at keeping below the radar..

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

I block anyone I think is a cunt on the forums.

attention seekers, those who beg for likes on photos,stuck up bitches, whiners,anyone who reads my message then deletes without replying, the list of reasons is endless, but quite simply I hate everyone

My block list is pretty extensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this has happened several times. I had one woman who blocked me because I could not meet her when she wanted me too,what a child. I also block woman on here mainly time wasters and fakes,as I have discovered there are too many of these on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

If someone looks at my profile and not to my standard.... I will block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block anyone I think is a cunt on the forums.

My block list is pretty extensive "

And yet your name is Sunshine!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that I know of but I do it all the time for all sorts of reasons. "

Same here.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We have even blocked some on our friends list.

Overstepping the mark will do that.

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

"I block anyone I think is a cunt on the forums.

My block list is pretty extensive

And yet your name is Sunshine!!

its purely ironic,

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We’ve been blocked by a couple that stood us up! We’ve been blocked by someone because we didn’t reply to their message within an hour and we’ve been blocked by several forumites for reasons unbeknown to us. We just move along, not worth pondering peoples reasons.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

God knows, but it wouldnt surprise me if I had.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

All the time

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