FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone else...

By *inx80 OP Woman
over a year ago

London

...tend to ignore their mail?

Just being female means I get a LOT of messages and though I'd really like to reply to each one, it's literally impossible.

So a lot go unanswered, even when the sender seems interesting/fun, simply because it's all quite overwhelming.

I've been here for weeks now and have only spoken to a handful of people through messages.

Am I just a bitch?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

As a single man I don’t get that many to ignore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...tend to ignore their mail?

Just being female means I get a LOT of messages and though I'd really like to reply to each one, it's literally impossible.

So a lot go unanswered, even when the sender seems interesting/fun, simply because it's all quite overwhelming.

I've been here for weeks now and have only spoken to a handful of people through messages.

Am I just a bitch?

It's your mail. Up to you what you do with it. Are you thinking of going on a full postal strike soon?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

You're not being a bitch but why not filter up and then work through the mail and go looking for profiles that do interest you? That way it's far less overwhelming and you use the site on your terms.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Some will say so, others not. I take no reply as 'no thank you' even though I am very interesting and a lot fun (obviously) - people will interpret it different ways though, but there are no rules except your rules. Use this site in a way that suits you and gives you what you need from it.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I tend to ignore quite a few too ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No OP you’re not a bitch. I do exactly the same or just bulk delete...

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"...tend to ignore their mail?

Just being female means I get a LOT of messages and though I'd really like to reply to each one, it's literally impossible.

So a lot go unanswered, even when the sender seems interesting/fun, simply because it's all quite overwhelming.

I've been here for weeks now and have only spoken to a handful of people through messages.

Am I just a bitch?

No not really it’s just simply because you are a woman and funny enough I sent you one as well

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. I get stressed out if i have lots of unanswered mail. It’s a hangover from being a Secretary. I got to do my admin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you're not being a bitch, you do you. You don't owe any of those people anything.

I'm sometimes really good at keeping on top of my messages and then there are days where I'll avoid my inbox as I can't be bothered, too many to read and it's hard work sorting through them all.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

As others have said; why not filter up?

If the large body of mail is making it difficult to use the site as you want to, then that's probably for the best. It doesn't make you a bitch, you don't owe anyone a response!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I deliberately ignore bills.

You meant mail on here though I’m thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put more effort into your mail they said

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Reply as you see fit, we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in your inbox is one from me saying how lovely it is to come across someone who bothers to reply to every ail and is definitely not a bitch...

Really, you're not. You've probably missed a few cheques in the post but a lot of offers from Nigerian princes, too. We're all here to enjoy ourselves, even the masochists. It's frustrating when a lot of thought goes into a message but it's up to us to get real not up to you to spending all night sifting through garbage for the one golden nugget.

Not a bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, but only so that I don't look as desperate as I truly am.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wank too much that I spunk powder!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I've had a bit of a clear up of my profile yesterday. I had 900 unread messages over a period of time. I read or looked at most of them with a few replies. Today there was only one person left after there replies.

Just goes to show messages dont really add up to anything most of the time due to people not reading your profile. Well its hidden now so hay ho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowadays yes unless i dont know them and have to say they cant have my penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...tend to ignore their mail?

Just being female means I get a LOT of messages and though I'd really like to reply to each one, it's literally impossible.

So a lot go unanswered, even when the sender seems interesting/fun, simply because it's all quite overwhelming.

I've been here for weeks now and have only spoken to a handful of people through messages.

Am I just a bitch?

I’d say not a bitch. When I search on here the amount of statuses which reference too many messages makes me understand that if I were to send one it’s got a real chance of being bulk deleted with many others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ignore my mail. In fact I pounce on the little yellow box ASAP

However women are getting bombed with messages.. so can't keep up with them all. You are not being a bitch, OP.

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