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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

Its a fair assesment

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By *inx80Woman
over a year ago

London


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

Great idea

I'm a clumsy fool and always accidentally delete mail when I use Fab on my phone - some of the abuse I get for this is shocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

Great idea

I'm a clumsy fool and always accidentally delete mail when I use Fab on my phone - some of the abuse I get for this is shocking!"

thanks for replying to me then and not deleting me..lol i feel special now haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

Great idea

I'm a clumsy fool and always accidentally delete mail when I use Fab on my phone - some of the abuse I get for this is shocking!"

Honestly the abuse is terrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

Great idea

I'm a clumsy fool and always accidentally delete mail when I use Fab on my phone - some of the abuse I get for this is shocking!

Honestly the abuse is terrible."

I dont understand the mantality of it, why do people think that they are that entitled?

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By *inx80Woman
over a year ago

London


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

Great idea

I'm a clumsy fool and always accidentally delete mail when I use Fab on my phone - some of the abuse I get for this is shocking!thanks for replying to me then and not deleting me..lol i feel special now haha"

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By *inx80Woman
over a year ago

London


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

Great idea

I'm a clumsy fool and always accidentally delete mail when I use Fab on my phone - some of the abuse I get for this is shocking!

Honestly the abuse is terrible."

It's so easy to give shit out from behind a screen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

If he's like me, he just won't message you again. So he'd remain a total mystery to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

Great idea

I'm a clumsy fool and always accidentally delete mail when I use Fab on my phone - some of the abuse I get for this is shocking!

Honestly the abuse is terrible.

I dont understand the mantality of it, why do people think that they are that entitled?"

God knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

If he's like me, he just won't message you again. So he'd remain a total mystery to you. "

Agreed, I wonder if I should follow up deleted messages but I don't, partly because it would take forever hahahahahahaha....

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By *oyboy5xMan
over a year ago

London

All I do when a message that I sent gets deleted is delete the message from my sent items..

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

I’m a bit like that with confession, the first one is just attention seeking.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I often take that as a sign they’re not interested and would be unlikely to send another one (for quite a while at least).

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Nah, I don't play games like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I do when a message that I sent gets deleted is delete the message from my sent items.."

Some guys do to be fair but some give a lot of abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to reject a menauposal woman, you'll see the true colour of the rainbow.

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By *oyboy5xMan
over a year ago

London


"All I do when a message that I sent gets deleted is delete the message from my sent items..

Some guys do to be fair but some give a lot of abuse."

Can only feel sorry for such ppl..what a sad life they must be having to be abusive over here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try to reject a menauposal woman, you'll see the true colour of the rainbow. "

What about post menopausal women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I do when a message that I sent gets deleted is delete the message from my sent items..

Some guys do to be fair but some give a lot of abuse.

Can only feel sorry for such ppl..what a sad life they must be having to be abusive over here.."

Must be very sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this where I'm going wrong, if I see its been deleted, I dont bother messaging again

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

Anyone abusing someone should be reported and given three strikes and it’s out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try to reject a menauposal woman, you'll see the true colour of the rainbow.

What about post menopausal women "

I never rejected ones ! They are the best lay in town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone abusing someone should be reported and given three strikes and it’s out."

Thats all the bdsm lot banned then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone abusing someone should be reported and given three strikes and it’s out."

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't stop some guys to send the same message again. And attach a cock picture with it to make sure I don't delete it now but arrange a meet with them

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't stop some guys to send the same message again. And attach a cock picture with it to make sure I don't delete it now but arrange a meet with them "

Nobody in their right mind would turn down a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't stop some guys to send the same message again. And attach a cock picture with it to make sure I don't delete it now but arrange a meet with them

Nobody in their right mind would turn down a cock pic "

You never do, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't stop some guys to send the same message again. And attach a cock picture with it to make sure I don't delete it now but arrange a meet with them

Nobody in their right mind would turn down a cock pic

You never do, right? "

Nope, and dont have one on my public profile either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't stop some guys to send the same message again. And attach a cock picture with it to make sure I don't delete it now but arrange a meet with them

Nobody in their right mind would turn down a cock pic

You never do, right?

Nope, and dont have one on my public profile either "

What's wrong with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't stop some guys to send the same message again. And attach a cock picture with it to make sure I don't delete it now but arrange a meet with them

Nobody in their right mind would turn down a cock pic

You never do, right?

Nope, and dont have one on my public profile either "

Feck off ive just re read that, damn i think i need a nana nap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

Thats probably true on many occasions. If I messaged someone and it's deleted I know it's not going to happen so leave them alone. Why waste my time and theres messaging again.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never look to see if they've been deleted or not. They either reply or they dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't stop some guys to send the same message again. And attach a cock picture with it to make sure I don't delete it now but arrange a meet with them

Nobody in their right mind would turn down a cock pic

You never do, right?

Nope, and dont have one on my public profile either

What's wrong with you? "

My Psychiatrists says "a lot"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't stop some guys to send the same message again. And attach a cock picture with it to make sure I don't delete it now but arrange a meet with them

Nobody in their right mind would turn down a cock pic "

That is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

That's quite true but the problem is when the message was from one of the good guys and his colours are ok so your not interested he doesn't message back because he accepts your decision it could be you missing out on someone you would hit if off with and he made the effort to contact you just seem a little silly to delete rather talk as it won't take long for someones true colours to show

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

That's quite true but the problem is when the message was from one of the good guys and his colours are ok so your not interested he doesn't message back because he accepts your decision it could be you missing out on someone you would hit if off with and he made the effort to contact you just seem a little silly to delete rather talk as it won't take long for someones true colours to show "

When you have 20 plus message every 10 minutes it's a bit hard to chat to them all.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

In reality some are quite nasty if you just delete but its well under 5% of them some will ask but most understand you are not interested and not going to waste their time.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

That's quite true but the problem is when the message was from one of the good guys and his colours are ok so your not interested he doesn't message back because he accepts your decision it could be you missing out on someone you would hit if off with and he made the effort to contact you just seem a little silly to delete rather talk as it won't take long for someones true colours to show "

If it was deleted for a reason, then they're not missing out

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Messaging women on fab is so 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "
dont see how that would help other than to annoy him lol ahhhhh it did annoy him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

That's quite true but the problem is when the message was from one of the good guys and his colours are ok so your not interested he doesn't message back because he accepts your decision it could be you missing out on someone you would hit if off with and he made the effort to contact you just seem a little silly to delete rather talk as it won't take long for someones true colours to show

If it was deleted for a reason, then they're not missing out "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of weeks back I got sent a jokey message about a status I put up. I thanked him and said it made me laugh. I didn't respond otherwise and he said I guess there's nothing going on here, that's fine, all the best.

I then got a stream of passive aggressive messages for the rest of the day, eventually he blocked me in a sulk but has proceeeded to unblock and abuse me further every few days. I've been called a vile twat, a waste of space and told I'm ruining the site. Today I've reported him as he told me I'm being abused and laughed at on the forums (I searched for my name, nothing) and put up a status encouraging people to send me unpleasant messages.

That's why we delete without replying. Because if you give even a fraction of an inch... That's what you get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

Sad but true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Couple of weeks back I got sent a jokey message about a status I put up. I thanked him and said it made me laugh. I didn't respond otherwise and he said I guess there's nothing going on here, that's fine, all the best.

I then got a stream of passive aggressive messages for the rest of the day, eventually he blocked me in a sulk but has proceeeded to unblock and abuse me further every few days. I've been called a vile twat, a waste of space and told I'm ruining the site. Today I've reported him as he told me I'm being abused and laughed at on the forums (I searched for my name, nothing) and put up a status encouraging people to send me unpleasant messages.

That's why we delete without replying. Because if you give even a fraction of an inch... That's what you get. "

This is awful.

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Holmfirth


"...

That's why we delete without replying. Because if you give even a fraction of an inch... That's what you get.

This is awful."

Absolutely awful. People are so brave when they have a keyboard to hide behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

That's quite true but the problem is when the message was from one of the good guys and his colours are ok so your not interested he doesn't message back because he accepts your decision it could be you missing out on someone you would hit if off with and he made the effort to contact you just seem a little silly to delete rather talk as it won't take long for someones true colours to show

When you have 20 plus message every 10 minutes it's a bit hard to chat to them all. "

Fair point have you tryed asking for something Pacific in the subject box somewhere near the bottom of your profile at least you don't even need to open any messages without it and you will probably never know whether it's nasty or not and saves reading and having to block, won't work 100% but will save you so much time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

Me I take it as a hint that ya not interested so leave ya to fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

That's quite true but the problem is when the message was from one of the good guys and his colours are ok so your not interested he doesn't message back because he accepts your decision it could be you missing out on someone you would hit if off with and he made the effort to contact you just seem a little silly to delete rather talk as it won't take long for someones true colours to show

If it was deleted for a reason, then they're not missing out "

I was assuming there wasn't a reason in the first instance more a test of true colours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

Me I take it as a hint that ya not interested so leave ya to fab lol"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

That's quite true but the problem is when the message was from one of the good guys and his colours are ok so your not interested he doesn't message back because he accepts your decision it could be you missing out on someone you would hit if off with and he made the effort to contact you just seem a little silly to delete rather talk as it won't take long for someones true colours to show

If it was deleted for a reason, then they're not missing out

I was assuming there wasn't a reason in the first instance more a test of true colours "

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Ahh sure the same can be said for both on here,

Sure there woman actively sending other woman nasty msg,s here for no other reason other than they were popular in a chat room on another site,,

Wanna see how a guy or a girl really is, don't use Fab as a base,

We're all not real on here,

Some waaayyyy more than others ,,

Stay Foxy folks,,

Sorry ment Classy

Stay Classy,,,,

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By *0NyorksMan
over a year ago

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"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

Hahaha.. Love this. I bet a lot is revealed at that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine lol that’s why I only message once

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you "

Them message me and find out.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

That's quite true but the problem is when the message was from one of the good guys and his colours are ok so your not interested he doesn't message back because he accepts your decision it could be you missing out on someone you would hit if off with and he made the effort to contact you just seem a little silly to delete rather talk as it won't take long for someones true colours to show

If it was deleted for a reason, then they're not missing out

I was assuming there wasn't a reason in the first instance more a test of true colours "

Oh, my bad!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Want to see what a guy is really like just delete the first message he sends you

That's quite true but the problem is when the message was from one of the good guys and his colours are ok so your not interested he doesn't message back because he accepts your decision it could be you missing out on someone you would hit if off with and he made the effort to contact you just seem a little silly to delete rather talk as it won't take long for someones true colours to show

If it was deleted for a reason, then they're not missing out

I was assuming there wasn't a reason in the first instance more a test of true colours

Oh, my bad!"

Your a naughty girl

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