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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 31/10/19 19:23:59]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need a bit more info than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass the popcorn...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that"

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed"

Drive away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. I’ve met 2 police officers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

Drive away "

100%

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Could be nothing. Could be bad news. If in doubt, safety first.

Who said it was the police?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

Drive away

100%"

That still doesn’t answer my question! What are people saying??

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Are you thinking that they are the police or that you want to ring the police?

Nobody has committed a crime so the police won't be interested.

If you feel threatened I'd suggest just going home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not illegal at all, but sounds dodgy.....

Is the person/s your meeting well verified? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed"

Trap...run for life, be safe than sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be nothing. Could be bad news. If in doubt, safety first.

Who said it was the police? "

I was just presuming. One guy walked passed the other was at the bottom of the street

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

Drive away

100%

That still doesn’t answer my question! What are people saying??"

Your post is very confusing. How are the police involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

Drive away

100%

That still doesn’t answer my question! What are people saying??"

Well then I don’t get it.

You think they’re the police?

Or you want to contact the police because two men walked past you?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

Drive away

100%

That still doesn’t answer my question! What are people saying??

Well then I don’t get it.

You think they’re the police?

Or you want to contact the police because two men walked past you?"

Glad it's not just me who's confused.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

Drive away

100%

That still doesn’t answer my question! What are people saying??

Your post is very confusing. How are the police involved?"

i was just presuming but it was dodgy so I was asking could it be the police??

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

Drive away

100%

That still doesn’t answer my question! What are people saying??

Your post is very confusing. How are the police involved?i was just presuming but it was dodgy so I was asking could it be the police??"

Have you done something illegal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

Drive away

100%

That still doesn’t answer my question! What are people saying??

Your post is very confusing. How are the police involved?

i was just presuming but it was dodgy so I was asking could it be the police??"

Why would you presume that? I don’t understand why you’d think that. Surely the police have better things to be doing than catfishing you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was meaning could it be the police or just dodgy?? Sorry I am just driving and using voicemail tx service on mobile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was meaning could it be the police or just dodgy?? Sorry I am just driving and using voicemail tx service on mobile."

Why would it be the police?!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No, it's not illegal meet people. If it feels dodgy thpugh it probably is. You should of arranged to meet them in a mutual place like the pub.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"I was meaning could it be the police or just dodgy?? Sorry I am just driving and using voicemail tx service on mobile."

I really doubt it was the police, get some rest, you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you ring the bell, OP? Or went back to the car and you're just driving around?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh let us know how it goes

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I was meaning could it be the police or just dodgy?? Sorry I am just driving and using voicemail tx service on mobile."

Just dodgy - there have been reports of people using fabs for scams, so always exit stage left at the slightest sign of anything not quite right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed"

Its legal to meet but if you feel there's something dodgy in anyway just leave safty first, unless you 100% trust the person you're meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So did you ring the bell, OP? Or went back to the car and you're just driving around?

"

I couldn’t see door numbers and there was a lady in her garden so I asked her what the house number was n she said the number so I said oh right. Got back in my car. Msg the person and said where ru... I got a reply n this man was walking passed when I got the reply she said I am the one brushing the garden. Well I knew that was a lie coz that’s the woman I spoke to and she confirmed the house.

Then sat still in my car all the lights were off and two men pacing up n down the houses.

I waited for him to walk passed n then I drove away very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So did you ring the bell, OP? Or went back to the car and you're just driving around?

I couldn’t see door numbers and there was a lady in her garden so I asked her what the house number was n she said the number so I said oh right. Got back in my car. Msg the person and said where ru... I got a reply n this man was walking passed when I got the reply she said I am the one brushing the garden. Well I knew that was a lie coz that’s the woman I spoke to and she confirmed the house.

Then sat still in my car all the lights were off and two men pacing up n down the houses.

I waited for him to walk passed n then I drove away very quickly "

Glad you're OK you made the right decision to question it

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Sounds dodgy, could be luring you there for a reason. Lucky escape I think, glad you're safe. Always meet in a public place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a lucky escape. Sorry you had this experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it’s pitch black and Gota be one of the scariest times going.

It was weird when the guy walked passed I saw the message page on fab as he was right next to my car window.

Crazy thing I was outside the correct house.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Well it’s pitch black and Gota be one of the scariest times going.

It was weird when the guy walked passed I saw the message page on fab as he was right next to my car window.

Crazy thing I was outside the correct house. "

Weird...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would report the profile

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I would report the profile "

good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d put that down to bad experience, block the person & look for someone else . Meet in a bar or cafe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would show the conversation but you can’t add pictures to the forum.

I am at safety now like.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I would show the conversation but you can’t add pictures to the forum.

I am at safety now like. "

You are not allowed to put any details of conversations on here, glad you are safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it a female only you were meeting? What if she organised a secret 3some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or moresome ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or moresome .."

I highly doubt that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you missed the roofie raw ass lottery prize op.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

What is the original post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or moresome ..

I highly doubt that. "

Fake profile in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or moresome ..

I highly doubt that.

Fake profile in my opinion. "

Yep me too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve literally gone and hidden all my pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve literally gone and hidden all my pics."

No ya haven’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed"

no its not illegal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You still have a meet posted on your profile.. I thought this experience scared you, OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

right op you've done nothing wrong or illegal. It sounds to me like you were either sent on a wild goose chase or you were being set up.

In future don't go anywhere without an entire address and always, "always" meet socially in a public place first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You still have a meet posted on your profile.. I thought this experience scared you, OP "

I’ve not changed anything on my profile just yet I’ve just literally walked through the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds like it was the police, they’ve got your number plates now bro, you’re screwed. I’ll pray for you, although I doubt it’ll do much good. They’ll have a full scale ambush by the time that you get home.

In all seriousness, it was either a homosexual leading you on; or it was the husband coming out to get you (cuckold?) or someone attempting to rob you. There are lots of people who just enjoy wasting people’s time on here, could also be that. They get a little rush when they see the individual all excited, only to be let down that it was a sham.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still have a meet posted on your profile.. I thought this experience scared you, OP

I’ve not changed anything on my profile just yet I’ve just literally walked through the door "

Ok

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Why does it seem men don't do their due diligence? Why on earth would you think it was the police?

I would have presumed I would more likely be set up to be mugged

I will never understand how some men think! Especially with the prospect of getting their dick wet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it seem men don't do their due diligence? Why on earth would you think it was the police?

I would have presumed I would more likely be set up to be mugged

I will never understand how some men think! Especially with the prospect of getting their dick wet "

Excuse me wtf.... nothing at all about getting my dick wet.

What I said was could it be the police and could they. Don’t need ur attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it seem men don't do their due diligence? Why on earth would you think it was the police?

I would have presumed I would more likely be set up to be mugged

I will never understand how some men think! Especially with the prospect of getting their dick wet

Excuse me wtf.... nothing at all about getting my dick wet.

What I said was could it be the police and could they. Don’t need ur attitude"

But why would you think it would be the police?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice

needed"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it seem men don't do their due diligence? Why on earth would you think it was the police?

I would have presumed I would more likely be set up to be mugged

I will never understand how some men think! Especially with the prospect of getting their dick wet

Excuse me wtf.... nothing at all about getting my dick wet.

What I said was could it be the police and could they. Don’t need ur attitude

But why would you think it would be the police?"

Because you meeting up for see. Maybe I am just being Naive however I didn’t say it was the police.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Why does it seem men don't do their due diligence? Why on earth would you think it was the police?

I would have presumed I would more likely be set up to be mugged

I will never understand how some men think! Especially with the prospect of getting their dick wet

Excuse me wtf.... nothing at all about getting my dick wet.

What I said was could it be the police and could they. Don’t need ur attitude

But why would you think it would be the police?"

Exactly! That would be the furthest thing from my mind, unless I had a warrant out for my arrest lol

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

At least you’re home safe and sound now OP.

Hope your next Fab adventure is less stressful. But please, always be careful. If something feels off, just walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if something is too good to be true follow it up because it may be so so good that its true

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"Need a bit more info than that

If you turn up for a meeting is it illegal for meeting someone?

Just that I went to meet somebody confirm the address went to the address and two suspicious males were walking up and down that street there phone lit up when they walked past and I could notice it was a fab background advice needed

Drive away

100%

That still doesn’t answer my question! What are people saying??

Your post is very confusing. How are the police involved?i was just presuming but it was dodgy so I was asking could it be the police??"

It isn't illegal to meet someone from the site, I doubt if it would have been the police

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all like I said I got out of there but I was very wary tbh.

Loads of thoughts running through my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all like I said I got out of there but I was very wary tbh.

Loads of thoughts running through my head."

and dont i know what thats like

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