FabSwingers.com forum: Prude or just plain boring ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One of my ( vanilla) friends woke up during the night and caught her fella knocking one off beside her , she went mad and was disgusted.....

i laughed n said ffs dont be so prude , if it was me and my fella i would of climbed on... she still wouldnt have it, she was not happy lol...

Why are some ppl so prude when it comes to sex and stuff.. ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have been pissed off too...I mean why didnt he wake her and get her to help FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ive a funny story bout that, one of my mates said 'is it rape if?' (great way to start a sentence) lol! If you start shagging your girlfriend while shes asleep? I was amazed that he wasnt sure what was and wasnt rape! 'She woke up though and was delighted!'

'Then no billy, thats not rape you peanut' lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its awesome to wake up and find yr guy ( or any guy for that matter) lol doing sexual things to ya,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok not quite ANY guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its awesome to wake up and find yr guy ( or any guy for that matter) lol doing sexual things to ya,

Mmmmmm I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realy? (Licks lips) im gona have me a yummy breakfast and your gona wake up with a smile on your face!;-) x

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

if she has that attitude to sex

no wonder he has to do it himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Realy? (Licks lips) im gona have me a yummy breakfast and your gona wake up with a smile on your face!;-) x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i actually wouldnt of thought she was prude, they do have quite a good sex life lol, but she thinks him wanking wen it doesnt involve them both is wrong.... and i gotta say she isnt the only woman i have heard say this. i know lots of men and woman who's sex life is plain old boring,

Thank god mine aint

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

"i actually wouldnt of thought she was prude, they do have quite a good sex life lol, but she thinks him wanking wen it doesnt involve them both is wrong.... and i gotta say she isnt the only woman i have heard say this. i know lots of men and woman who's sex life is plain old boring,

Thank god mine aint

there must be some thing hes missing if he feels the need to do it while shes asleep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank god mine aint

there must be some thing hes missing if he feels the need to do it while shes asleep"

i guess he wasnt blessed with a horny bitch like me as his misses lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok not quite ANY guy lol"

oh god. not any guy ffs.

could be old fred up the road with no teef and bo and smelly nether regions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if she has that attitude to sex

no wonder he has to do it himself"

Here!Here!

Doesn't it make you wonder why they take up with these prudes in the first place?

Afterall,we can't imagine she's suddenly turned from a raving nympho into the bundle of fun she is now!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant imagine living with someone who has a different sex drive to myself...

i know we dont all fancy it at the same time and we may feel poorly or stressed or whatever.

But to accept it and carry on regardless must be a nightmare.???

Think sometimes marriage does that, they become complacent or the guy is crap at how he performs...or too scared to say what he really likes ???

She may think she doesnt have to bother now she has her man....or thinks she is too too old to be doing IT now.

There are loads of reasons really.

Thats why i aint married and on here

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

My last LTR ended when he admitted he was seeing another woman, older than me and 'not as demanding' (sexually)!!! Thats what he said! So if I ever, and I say IF I ever get into another relationship he must like sex as much as I do. At 49 I'm more horny now than I have ever been, but my daughter thinks I am too old to be doing IT, lol. Actually she thinks anyone over 30 is too old to be doing it, lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its such hard work being in a relationship with different sex drives!!!!!!!!!

1 felt like a machine! always at it wanting it trying it every second no matter wt i wz doin!!! would of helped if he wz actually finkin ov my needs n not jus his own!!!

the next wz totally opposite! i never got enuff ever! felt like I wz pouncin all the time which made me uncomfortable n bored!!!!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"I would have been pissed off too...I mean why didnt he wake her and get her to help FFS

and you could have phoned a friend!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its awesome to wake up and find yr guy ( or any guy for that matter) lol doing sexual things to ya,

I'd have gently slid it into your posteria my love

but less of the 'any guy for that matter!!!!'

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

"My last LTR ended when he admitted he was seeing another woman, older than me and 'not as demanding' (sexually)!!! Thats what he said! So if I ever, and I say IF I ever get into another relationship he must like sex as much as I do. At 49 I'm more horny now than I have ever been, but my daughter thinks I am too old to be doing IT, lol. Actually she thinks anyone over 30 is too old to be doing it, lol!!!

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wait till she hits 30 lol then you can ask her if she's stopped doing It lol see what she says then lmao, my two kids ( in their mid 20s btw) also think that dads past it lol, but hey ho one can never get enough of a good woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"its awesome to wake up and find yr guy ( or any guy for that matter) lol doing sexual things to ya,

I'd have gently slid it into your posteria my love

but less of the 'any guy for that matter!!!!'

well ya better start waking me up more then aint ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i actually wouldnt of thought she was prude, they do have quite a good sex life lol, but she thinks him wanking wen it doesnt involve them both is wrong.... "

How does she feel about having a fiddle herself when she's all alone and feeling horny?

I bet that's ok, but no, if her man wants to knock one coz he's feeling horny and he knows that she'll simply shrug him off, then that's wrong!

I'd have left her years ago, like after the second date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i actually wouldnt of thought she was prude, they do have quite a good sex life lol, but she thinks him wanking wen it doesnt involve them both is wrong....

How does she feel about having a fiddle herself when she's all alone and feeling horny?

I bet that's ok, but no, if her man wants to knock one coz he's feeling horny and he knows that she'll simply shrug him off, then that's wrong!

I'd have left her years ago, like after the second date.

she's one of them women that says she dont play with herself

Seriously tho, having had pubs for the ;ast 6 years , i used to talk to the customers, especially the guys lol, and it always got onto sex

there are so many ppl out there who do have boring sex lives, it does suprise me why are lot of ppl stay together when u hear just HOW boring their partners are, men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i stayed with my husband far too long he never satisfied me .. but like a good few others whoever i choose as my forever man will have to be on my wavelength ..he might even have to share me !! i love having a horny guy in my bed who wants to play all night ....has to be the right horny guy tho !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i stayed with my husband far too long he never satisfied me .. but like a good few others whoever i choose as my forever man will have to be on my wavelength ..he might even have to share me !! i love having a horny guy in my bed who wants to play all night ....has to be the right horny guy tho !!"

yr on the same wave length as me, i've been married twice and had the "meets" off here , but i've gotta say i've only just met my match. finally found a guy who satisfies me more than anyone ever has. if i was to have sex with someone else now, i know for a fact it wont be no where near as good as wot i have with Richy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often come across Mrs.Classy rubbing one off lol & usually offer to help her out.

However, having been stuck in a near sex-less marriage for 8 years, I have complete sympathy for this guy. Usually the first casualty of a declining relationship is the sex life, followed quickly by the affection & then the communication... which is no fun for either party!

The strange thing was that for a married man, I had no real understanding of how liberating, loving & fun, good sex could truly be.. I guess over the years, I just forgot! As time went on, sex became less & less an attractive proposition- as did my wife.

Things changed when a friend I'd helped to care for succumbed to a brain tumour & I realised that I wanted to live my life differently & find true happiness.

After a couple of near misses I was lucky enough to find the perfect lady for me. We are completely compatible & I never imagined that it was possible to be so happy in a long-term relationship with one lady.

I've never had to ask for love/understanding/support/sympathy or affection- it's usually given before I realise I might need it!

We're getting married in eleven weeks tomorrow.

Mr.Classy xxx

OMG! where did all this come from?

Am I a frustrated writer? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have pondered for ages and I just canna see the issue with it to be honest.

he could have just climbed on and shagged her whilst she slept and thats just wrong... especially, if she on an early shift at work and needs her shuteye...

unless he whacked over her side of the bed.... I know what it's like when yu have biscuit crumbs on one side and no the other..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're getting married in eleven weeks tomorrow.

Mr.Classy xxx

Congrats

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