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Kissing... Its OK, when it's done right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here's the thing. I am by nature a soft kisser, gentle teasing with lips, nothing hard and full on with the tongue or anything like that. I still get quite shocked when I kiss someone and I unexpectedly get a huge open mouth enveloping mine, their tongue wrestling with my tongue and going right down my throat. As a man, am I alone in disliking this type of lip exchange?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No. People like different ways of kissing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. People like different ways of kissing."

Absolutely. It goes without saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever had anyone pushing their tongue down my throat but I definitely like a bit of a tongue. I can figure out just from kissing when my OH is in the mood for something as his kisses get deeper with more pressure and more tongue. And that alone can make me horny for him.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

God I remember being kissed like this in my teens. Not pleasant. Kisses involving tongues can be fun if it's a little, teasing amount and there's no need to open your mouth wide.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever had anyone pushing their tongue down my throat but I definitely like a bit of a tongue. I can figure out just from kissing when my OH is in the mood for something as his kisses get deeper with more pressure and more tongue. And that alone can make me horny for him. "

Seriously I'm amazed at the amount of women I've kissed go at me like a rabid Dyson vacuum.

I understand many will love this approach.. But its not for me. Soft and gentle with a bit of tongue tease is my fave.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"God I remember being kissed like this in my teens. Not pleasant. Kisses involving tongues can be fun if it's a little, teasing amount and there's no need to open your mouth wide."

This is exactly how I prefer to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think tongue thrusting from the off would be too much. As the end point of a lot of kissing build up though passionate entwined tongues can be very sexy, but by then other things are going on too and the tongue might not be the only thing sinking deep into me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think tongue thrusting from the off would be too much. As the end point of a lot of kissing build up though passionate entwined tongues can be very sexy, but by then other things are going on too and the tongue might not be the only thing sinking deep into me."

I find tongue thrusting from the off really doesn't do it for me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Versatility is key different kisses for different reasons nit gonna do a full on power snog in THE asda

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Versatility is key different kisses for different reasons nit gonna do a full on power snog in THE asda "

The Asda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Versatility is key different kisses for different reasons nit gonna do a full on power snog in THE asda

The Asda "

Its catchy not as catchy as home and bargain tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a strong passionate kiss, grab my hair ,tongues the lot !

We are all different i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a strong passionate kiss, grab my hair ,tongues the lot !

We are all different i suppose "

Different situations warrant different response/kiss!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wrong kiss can be a total boner killer. Had one who went "mmmmmmm" as they kissed. Boner gone.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Versatility is key different kisses for different reasons nit gonna do a full on power snog in THE asda

The Asda

Its catchy not as catchy as home and bargain tho "

In our defence the company is from here and the first shop used to be called Home & Bargain in Liverpool in the 80s .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a strong passionate kiss, grab my hair ,tongues the lot !

We are all different i suppose "

God yes please, can’t beat a good passionate kiss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Versatility is key different kisses for different reasons nit gonna do a full on power snog in THE asda

The Asda

Its catchy not as catchy as home and bargain tho

In our defence the company is from here and the first shop used to be called Home & Bargain in Liverpool in the 80s ."
i know i got the history lessons to prove it and have brought it with me barm is a sore subject mind you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Versatility is key different kisses for different reasons nit gonna do a full on power snog in THE asda

The Asda

Its catchy not as catchy as home and bargain tho

In our defence the company is from here and the first shop used to be called Home & Bargain in Liverpool in the 80s .i know i got the history lessons to prove it and have brought it with me barm is a sore subject mind you "

. It's just a bread roll to me. Though I will say chip batch if it's from the chippy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss deeply. I love to gently touch and suck my partners tounge. I tend to use my mouth alot, kissing, gently nipping and sucking neck, ears, shoulders and many other areas I'm sure you can imagine. I personally find kissing the most erotic part of sex and enjoy sex much less without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Versatility is key different kisses for different reasons nit gonna do a full on power snog in THE asda

The Asda

Its catchy not as catchy as home and bargain tho

In our defence the company is from here and the first shop used to be called Home & Bargain in Liverpool in the 80s .i know i got the history lessons to prove it and have brought it with me barm is a sore subject mind you

. It's just a bread roll to me. Though I will say chip batch if it's from the chippy!"
thats a new one on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like when a girl kisses my penis with her mouth lips in a library

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love a good sensual kiss xxx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Here's the thing. I am by nature a soft kisser, gentle teasing with lips, nothing hard and full on with the tongue or anything like that. I still get quite shocked when I kiss someone and I unexpectedly get a huge open mouth enveloping mine, their tongue wrestling with my tongue and going right down my throat. As a man, am I alone in disliking this type of lip exchange? "

Kissing is a mutual pleasure, and you'll both know when you're doing it 'right'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Versatility is key different kisses for different reasons nit gonna do a full on power snog in THE asda

The Asda

Its catchy not as catchy as home and bargain tho

In our defence the company is from here and the first shop used to be called Home & Bargain in Liverpool in the 80s .i know i got the history lessons to prove it and have brought it with me barm is a sore subject mind you

. It's just a bread roll to me. Though I will say chip batch if it's from the chippy!thats a new one on me "

I really fancy a chip butty now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing can be way hornier than sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like most types,kissing is a massive turn on bit of lip biting and I’m putty in your hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing can be way hornier than sex...."

Absolutely when it's done right.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Here's the thing. I am by nature a soft kisser, gentle teasing with lips, nothing hard and full on with the tongue or anything like that. I still get quite shocked when I kiss someone and I unexpectedly get a huge open mouth enveloping mine, their tongue wrestling with my tongue and going right down my throat. As a man, am I alone in disliking this type of lip exchange? "

Man or woman, you're not going to be alone because we all like different approaches to kissing. I agree that having a tongue more or less shoved into your mouth straight away (unless, for example, there's been some sort of alternative build up to it, teasing chat or whatever) can be the complete opposite of a turn on and personally it makes me feel quite suffocated and therefore panicky when that's happened to me. I almost always prefer a slow build up to more passionate kisses so I don't feel overwhelmed.

I hate the assumption made by some people that their preferred style of kissing is what I'm going to like as much as they do. It should be about finding out what's equally enjoyable for both of you, responding accordingly to physical, verbal and aural cues rather than automatically slobbering all over you like a proverbial bull in a china shop regardless of how you're reacting to their efforts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. Like someone else said, it depends on the situation. Soft and gentle sometimes, passionate others.

I can only think of a couple of bad kisses I've had.

This one time, (at band camp ) a lady kissed me and it was all slobbery, like a big fish stuck to my mouth. Not sure how else to describe it. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here's the thing. I am by nature a soft kisser, gentle teasing with lips, nothing hard and full on with the tongue or anything like that. I still get quite shocked when I kiss someone and I unexpectedly get a huge open mouth enveloping mine, their tongue wrestling with my tongue and going right down my throat. As a man, am I alone in disliking this type of lip exchange?

Man or woman, you're not going to be alone because we all like different approaches to kissing. I agree that having a tongue more or less shoved into your mouth straight away (unless, for example, there's been some sort of alternative build up to it, teasing chat or whatever) can be the complete opposite of a turn on and personally it makes me feel quite suffocated and therefore panicky when that's happened to me. I almost always prefer a slow build up to more passionate kisses so I don't feel overwhelmed.

I hate the assumption made by some people that their preferred style of kissing is what I'm going to like as much as they do. It should be about finding out what's equally enjoyable for both of you, responding accordingly to physical, verbal and aural cues rather than automatically slobbering all over you like a proverbial bull in a china shop regardless of how you're reacting to their efforts! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like breaks in the kiss. Pulling apart to come in at a different angle. I really don’t like big smushy endless ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's the thing. I am by nature a soft kisser, gentle teasing with lips, nothing hard and full on with the tongue or anything like that. I still get quite shocked when I kiss someone and I unexpectedly get a huge open mouth enveloping mine, their tongue wrestling with my tongue and going right down my throat. As a man, am I alone in disliking this type of lip exchange?

Man or woman, you're not going to be alone because we all like different approaches to kissing. I agree that having a tongue more or less shoved into your mouth straight away (unless, for example, there's been some sort of alternative build up to it, teasing chat or whatever) can be the complete opposite of a turn on and personally it makes me feel quite suffocated and therefore panicky when that's happened to me. I almost always prefer a slow build up to more passionate kisses so I don't feel overwhelmed.

I hate the assumption made by some people that their preferred style of kissing is what I'm going to like as much as they do. It should be about finding out what's equally enjoyable for both of you, responding accordingly to physical, verbal and aural cues rather than automatically slobbering all over you like a proverbial bull in a china shop regardless of how you're reacting to their efforts!

"

This ! If the kiss is crap then nothing happens. There are a lot of crappy kissers...a little finesse goes a long way and a kiss tells you everything you need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and can’t imagine life without it. However, the type really depends on the person involved. Sometimes soft and gentle, sometimes intrusive and dominating- really depends on the dynamics.

I never thought I’d enjoy ‘tonsil tennis’ but I did with one person and am looking forward to the next game with them...

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Kissing can make or break my lady boner for someone, I tend to avoid kissing if I really fancy someone just in case they are bad

I too hate the tongue down the throat thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing can make or break my lady boner for someone, I tend to avoid kissing if I really fancy someone just in case they are bad

I too hate the tongue down the throat thing."

I'm totally with you on that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love kissing. Some people I've preferred to kiss more than others. But I don't like kissing that's boring and samey. I like a variety of techniques that match the moment

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"No. People like different ways of kissing."

This personally i don’t like being washed or my lips bitten. Being kissed well is the best foreplay for me. And i love a lot of kissing if they kiss well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice soft sensual kiss with light flicking of the tongue I believe is the gateway to heaven

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