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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !

Anyone had the opposite ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. More than once. Things pop up. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’ve had to rearrange x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lots of times.

Iv had to postpone meeting in the past, sometimes things happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. More than once. Things pop up. X"
exactly this and ive had to cancel due to kids etc

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Well so far had 4 cancelled and rearranged all 4 but I will always chat 2-3 times or more on the phone before meeting up with someone so there is a connection and respect both ways.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Yes had to postpone, that’s just life....the rearranged meet was great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !

Anyone had the opposite ? "

I think it depends on how the cancellation is handled. I have asked to rearrange and explained my reasons why and the guy has got very funny about it so Iv then decided not to rearrange, Iv also had guys ask me to rearrange and it's never been an issue.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes we have had to cancel a meet before and also had a meet rearrange. Real life does happen.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if sick

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've personally never had a rearranged meet if they've cancelled the first meet though people I've met more than once that have had to cancel before due to unforeseen circumstances have pretty much always promptly rearranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. More than once. Things pop up. Xexactly this and ive had to cancel due to kids etc"

I’ve had to cancel due to illness and kids too. Life happens

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I think anyone that’s been on here a while will have experienced a cancellation. As others have said, life happens! Mostly I’ve managed to rearrange. A couple of times the other person left the site!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course I appreciate and I’m always sympathetic to life outside fab but my experience is 100 % of cancelations never rearrange!

Just my experience but good to know there is more positive outcomes out there

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By * little bit naughtyCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

I’ve had a meet cancel, the rearranged the time. Was nervous at first- I thought I might be strung along, but it worked out well.

Others though - cancelled then disappeared from Fab. Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes recently I chatted with a lady who asked if I would meet her the next day.

I had nothing on the next day, so I said sure why not. After arriving at her town I text her and she made up all kinds of excuses not to me.

“And she was like which one are you now?“ lol

I havent heard from her since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

98% of the meets I've arranged have been cancelled on me and the other person never talked to me after that again. Maybe I'm just the unluckiest person here but it seems very unfair

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've had to cancel or had meets cancelled, pretty much always rearranged though. As others have said; life happens. If I've decided against actually meeting them full stop, I've always said in plenty of time. I think it's a question of respect.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Yes recently I chatted with a lady who asked if I would meet her the next day.

I had nothing on the next day, so I said sure why not. After arriving at her town I text her and she made up all kinds of excuses not to me.

“And she was like which one are you now?“ lol

I havent heard from her since. "

That's remarkably brutal!

If anything it sounds like you had a lucky escape.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Funnily enough we had a cancellation last night with a "let's keep in touch" so this thread has given us hope that it might happen.

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By *aerphilly85Man
over a year ago

caerphilly

I've had 2 this week cancel on me ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"98% of the meets I've arranged have been cancelled on me and the other person never talked to me after that again. Maybe I'm just the unluckiest person here but it seems very unfair"

My experience too !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had to cancel or had meets cancelled, pretty much always rearranged though. As others have said; life happens. If I've decided against actually meeting them full stop, I've always said in plenty of time. I think it's a question of respect.

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I agree totally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had 2 this week cancel on me ??"

Same 2 this week .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes recently I chatted with a lady who asked if I would meet her the next day.

I had nothing on the next day, so I said sure why not. After arriving at her town I text her and she made up all kinds of excuses not to me.

“And she was like which one are you now?“ lol

I havent heard from her since.

That's remarkably brutal!

If anything it sounds like you had a lucky escape. "

Hmm maybe

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

One of us had an accident with magic powder (a blob found its way to a place it wasn't supposed to be and burned before it could be removed) and as such was no longer in the mood for sex, so we had to cancel, made up for it the following week though...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've had 'pencilled in' meets re-arranged, but not those that never turned up for the first meet.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !

Anyone had the opposite ? "

Least they cancelled op, I've read other threads that the op has been ghosted.

In answer to your question, Yep and I 've also had to cancel and we've rearranged.

If its happening a lot, the common denominator is you. my suggestion put more checks and balances in your process.

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks


"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !

Anyone had the opposite ?

Least they cancelled op, I've read other threads that the op has been ghosted.

In answer to your question, Yep and I 've also had to cancel and we've rearranged.

If its happening a lot, the common denominator is you. my suggestion put more checks and balances in your process. "

Common "denominator" ???

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

London/Suffolk

I got stood down by a couple after a social meet who got back in touch very apologetic and asked if I'd give them a second chance.

We became good friends - in the fab sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope never had this 100% so far touch wood and whistle

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I've not yet had a cancelled meet. I have cancelled once and I've yet to rearrange it but I'm hoping too soon.

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

I have cancelled before due to family issues cropping up, stuff happens and I guess some folk see it as a palm off, but I have also been blocked an hour before a social, that was a bit upsetting initially as I would have preferred a message to say I have changed my mind etc...but not everyone is that straight up

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I've had to cancel or had meets cancelled, pretty much always rearranged though. As others have said; life happens. If I've decided against actually meeting them full stop, I've always said in plenty of time. I think it's a question of respect.

I agree totally "

I agree with this OP and teamonkey. Things happen, but show respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve cancelled one once and rearranged, life tends to get in the way I think most people understand.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Do you end up getting cross with them opp. I think we all have had to cancell or had cancelled meets. Things crop up. Mine always rearange and so do i.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !

Anyone had the opposite ?

Least they cancelled op, I've read other threads that the op has been ghosted.

In answer to your question, Yep and I 've also had to cancel and we've rearranged.

If its happening a lot, the common denominator is you. my suggestion put more checks and balances in your process.

Common "denominator" ???"

The 'common denominator'

the op describes in thisa scenario is himself. Hes the common part in the process.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've cancelled if life/work/kids get in the way. Will always rearrange though if they still want to meet. I've had guys cancel on me too. Sometimes with a reason, sometimes without x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yay 1st time a cancellation has rearranged

Finally faith restored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cancelled one...he didn't bother to text that he is running late!texted only after he was supposed to arrive.

Disrespectful... block and move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think generally if a guy has to cancel he'll rearange if a lady cancels if a sorry got a better offer. That's my observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever had a cancellation rearrange ? Of all the cancelled meets I’ve never had them arrange a future date, Funny that !

Anyone had the opposite ? "

Same here, we reckon they get greater pleasure from knowing they're messing you about than they ever could sexually from a meet.

In short, fantasists.

Just gone through similar with someone on here, wanted to meet, asked to meet, twice, never responded after that.

Ah well, upward and onwards.

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