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By *pitfiremk10 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm curious because there seemed to be many fake profiles recently which got me wondering why. I thought admin monitored new joiners but many seem to escape the net. Out of interest I've been watching the new joiners and some seem so plausible then disappear from site. So I don't get what they get from that. Opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does fake profiles have to do with standards?

Iv always found when Iv reported a fake profile it's removed fairly quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm brilliantly fake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are standards?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People join and realise its not for them.

When you say fake profile what do you mean?

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By *pitfiremk10 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"There are standards? "

Well some complain of no shows. Isn't that a standard where people work to arrange then be torpedoed?

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Im fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People join and realise its not for them.

When you say fake profile what do you mean? "

There was a load yesterday that where obviously fake. But they have disappeared now. I thought that was what the OP was talking about but it seems not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"People join and realise its not for them.

When you say fake profile what do you mean?

There was a load yesterday that where obviously fake. But they have disappeared now. I thought that was what the OP was talking about but it seems not. "

If they've disappeared it would seem that admin are on the case

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Even fake profiles have standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are standards? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure how you're monitoring this OP. But do you really have nothing better to do??

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By *pitfiremk10 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"People join and realise its not for them.

When you say fake profile what do you mean? "

Eg: I noticed in my observations that the same profiles kept appearing and disappearing. Maybe I'm missing something here and just wondering what others thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People join and realise its not for them.

When you say fake profile what do you mean?

There was a load yesterday that where obviously fake. But they have disappeared now. I thought that was what the OP was talking about but it seems not.

If they've disappeared it would seem that admin are on the case "

Definitely.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sounds a bit creepy to me, and what happened when I first joined, men hang around the 'new women' and pounce, hoping they will be the first to gain their attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a few false starts, couldn't post to forum etc, so deleted and started again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's best just to try to stay positive and focus on oneself rather than worry about all the others. Have fun and let the non-fakes find you rather than being a fab detective..... just mho....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds a bit creepy to me, and what happened when I first joined, men hang around the 'new women' and pounce, hoping they will be the first to gain their attention "

I suspect that's a large part of why the profiles that the OP describes as plausible disappear so quick

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My standards certainly havent slipped, in fact I think I've become even more selective x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My standards certainly havent slipped, in fact I think I've become even more selective x"

Stay fussy!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"My standards certainly havent slipped, in fact I think I've become even more selective x

Stay fussy!"

I intend too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My standards certainly havent slipped, in fact I think I've become even more selective x

Stay fussy!

I intend too "

lmao x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"People join and realise its not for them.

When you say fake profile what do you mean?

Eg: I noticed in my observations that the same profiles kept appearing and disappearing. Maybe I'm missing something here and just wondering what others thought."

Some people do join, leave and rejoin for various reasons. Other profiles might seem the same because if you don't put any text I think it auto generates a generic text.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"My standards certainly havent slipped, in fact I think I've become even more selective x

Stay fussy!

I intend too

lmao x"

What's tickled you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 30/10/19 21:29:33]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My standards certainly havent slipped, in fact I think I've become even more selective x"

Same here and they never will x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"My standards certainly havent slipped, in fact I think I've become even more selective x

Same here and they never will x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess those "fakes" are horny when they join, then they are not horny so they leave. And so on.

I've met a guy a few years ago who kept on deleting his profile after a few days as he was getting frustrated a lot. Then he came back, stayed for a bit then left again. He wasn't fake as we met twice before I noticed his weird behaviour and I had to block him at the end as he started to be annoying.

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By *pitfiremk10 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Oh well seems anything anyone contributes Is open to attack. Especially to relative new members like myself. My last attempt at trying to integrate, maybe I really will cut humans out and concentrate on my cattery. Yes that's the answer animals are much better than humans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My standards certainly havent slipped, in fact I think I've become even more selective x

Stay fussy!

I intend too

lmao x

What's tickled you? "

Nothing tickled me yet

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If you say they seem plausible then what do you expect admin to do about it? If they've disappeared either they've left the site or admin have removed them and therefore are monitoring things.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London


"

Eg: I noticed in my observations that the same profiles kept appearing and disappearing. Maybe I'm missing something here and just wondering what others thought."

Perhaps people are hiding their profiles? Possibly to escape the constant attentions of people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake how?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well seems anything anyone contributes Is open to attack. Especially to relative new members like myself. My last attempt at trying to integrate, maybe I really will cut humans out and concentrate on my cattery. Yes that's the answer animals are much better than humans. "

Nobody has attacked you, they have just offered their opinions and experiences of the site. They hapoen to differ from your thoughts. If you can't deal with differences of opinions, the forums may not be for you.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"There are standards? "

Who knew right

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By *pitfiremk10 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Oh well seems anything anyone contributes Is open to attack. Especially to relative new members like myself. My last attempt at trying to integrate, maybe I really will cut humans out and concentrate on my cattery. Yes that's the answer animals are much better than humans.

Nobody has attacked you, they have just offered their opinions and experiences of the site. They hapoen to differ from your thoughts. If you can't deal with differences of opinions, the forums may not be for you."
yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's up OP? Come here and have a cwtch... ((((((((())))))))

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"What's up OP? Come here and have a cwtch... ((((((((()))))))) "

Yes, give him a cuddle. And welcome to the forum OP.

Opinions will always differ. That's what keeps the forum interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a browse through your previous posts on other threads. You seem to have fitted in well with all your posts I have seen. Keep posting, tomorrow will be better. Chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My standards certainly havent slipped, in fact I think I've become even more selective x

Same here and they never will x

"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well seems anything anyone contributes Is open to attack. Especially to relative new members like myself. My last attempt at trying to integrate, maybe I really will cut humans out and concentrate on my cattery. Yes that's the answer animals are much better than humans. "

You have not been attacked. People have disagreed with you in a perfectly respectful way.

New or not people can disagree with you.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"I think it's best just to try to stay positive and focus on oneself rather than worry about all the others. Have fun and let the non-fakes find you rather than being a fab detective..... just mho.... "

Exactly OP.

Concentrate on things that are within your control.

I don't look at new profiles. I even block messages from newbies and unverified profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's best just to try to stay positive and focus on oneself rather than worry about all the others. Have fun and let the non-fakes find you rather than being a fab detective..... just mho....

Exactly OP.

Concentrate on things that are within your control.

I don't look at new profiles. I even block messages from newbies and unverified profiles. "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but knickers are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no there has still been no woman desperate enough to go with me on here

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Second post about fakes in a day. Many people lie, some are stupid and a site with tens of thousands of people online a day will have a broad range of people here.

I don't notice a reduction in standards and only interact with those I like.

Is it tougher for men here? Probably. With an increased number of men who have experience here, over many, many years, plus a constant increase of new men, must mean that the standards needed to do well have to increase. Sometimes it is hard to guess this, as many rarely change their approach.

Overall, most people will be within the average rang. Average can be perfect for you

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Are these new fake profiles you are on about highly unattractive mingers then? Is this about the standard of new fakes dropping?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

O.P. If you've got time to see who is new and then monitor their behaviour and decide who is fake and who isn't then you haven't got time for sex meets.

RE direct your focus.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I probably wouldnt have any luck even with a fake profile

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

You can use filters to block new profiles or profiles without pics, don’t worry yourself over the “fakes”, people cone and go that’s the way of the Fab

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By *pitfiremk10 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Are these new fake profiles you are on about highly unattractive mingers then? Is this about the standard of new fakes dropping? "

I always felt that swinging was for the more discerning, not the do you want to fuck now brigade!

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By *okemanGoMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

Out of interest how do you spot a fake profile? I've never given it much thought, if I contact someone then they block me or disappear I just put it down to either rudeness or not being compatible and move on.

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm not sure how you're monitoring this OP. But do you really have nothing better to do??"

This is what we were talki g about on yesterdays thread - someone makes a point or raises a question about something hes interested in and someone just shoots him down by asking a facetious question like this.

Have YOU really nothing better to do? Ask yourself that before you post crap.like this

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"I'm curious because there seemed to be many fake profiles recently which got me wondering why. I thought admin monitored new joiners but many seem to escape the net. Out of interest I've been watching the new joiners and some seem so plausible then disappear from site. So I don't get what they get from that. Opinions?"

Only the folk who create the profile then delete could answer your question with certainty, only time I think about 'genuine' fakes they have used pictures from the net.

Blank profiles pictures and text I avoid how would you know if you're looking for the same.

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"I'm curious because there seemed to be many fake profiles recently which got me wondering why. I thought admin monitored new joiners but many seem to escape the net. Out of interest I've been watching the new joiners and some seem so plausible then disappear from site. So I don't get what they get from that. Opinions?"

Yes, it's like Viz... Used to be a lot better. Same with cars, television, holidays abroad, wagonwheels, KitKat's, education standards, hospitals.. The lot.. Everything used to be better... Or so they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standards shot right up the day I joined!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Are these new fake profiles you are on about highly unattractive mingers then? Is this about the standard of new fakes dropping?

I always felt that swinging was for the more discerning, not the do you want to fuck now brigade!"

Bit of both, I would think

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By *okemanGoMan
over a year ago

Willenhall


"Yes, it's like Viz... Used to be a lot better. Same with cars, television, holidays abroad, wagonwheels, KitKat's, education standards, hospitals.. The lot.. Everything used to be better... Or so they say "

and Curly Wurlys...

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"Yes, it's like Viz... Used to be a lot better. Same with cars, television, holidays abroad, wagonwheels, KitKat's, education standards, hospitals.. The lot.. Everything used to be better... Or so they say

and Curly Wurlys..."

Don't get me started on curly wurlys... They used to be at least six foot long and 3 foot wide. I remember in 1976 my dad nailing wheels to one and our entire family of 12 all going to Cornwall on one for the week, with space to store for a pack of party 6. Now.. Well you couldn't balance a worm on one...

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