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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And it means you have a message, don't you feel fantastic?

Although mines usually one to say the site supporter pass is running out.

How does it make you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a message? Doesn’t make me feel anything

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Well for me it just usually says sorry you are not for me but carry on having fun on here. Marvellous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say it makes me feel anything! I've just had to hide my profile while I sort through hundreds of messages aren't us women the lucky ones

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think how did they get through the lockdown barriers

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If it's from someone I like I do feel a bit yay! If it's one off the back of a thread where I posted something (like squirting) and it's a promise to make me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok ladies, no need to show off pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a few unread. I think they’ll probably just stay unread largely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either:

Old friend = happy/what do you want?

New friend = happy/grateful

Forum twat = sad/cba

Man telling me he's going to suck me so good without asking if I'm even interested = flattered but I'm good thanks.....

Woman saying shes going to suck me so good without asking if I'm interested = I don't know that feeling yet!

Admin = dread!

Woman showing me what they're doing with BOB = new until recently but delighted....

I'm usually pleased to get any message tbf, whether it's from a woman, a dude or whoever, its good to talk to new ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely get many since we blocked single men haha. If we do it's mostly single men with a couples profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!! "

That is not fun!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!! "

Omg! I'm glad I'm not younger and in this age group, that is overwhelming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

That is not fun!!! "

Avoidance ... it’s a great strategy when you feel overwhelmed! haha.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

That is not fun!!!

Avoidance ... it’s a great strategy when you feel overwhelmed! haha. "

I hide my profile for a bit when I got too many, just to stop any more new ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get a buzz when I see it’s a message from someone I know either as a friend or potential lover.

Desensitised to the new ones, especially those from men who make the decision to have a dick pic or cum pic as their profile picture. I know we wouldn’t get on so instant delete...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always optimism that it's from someone I lust after....

Often dashed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!! "

I have zero.....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

I have zero..... "

Have you not? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

Omg! I'm glad I'm not younger and in this age group, that is overwhelming! "

Shouldn’t have left it for months, it’s my own fault really! The reason it’s got so out of control is, I actually used to feel bad for just deleting a message without acknowledging the sender in some way... and like many I don’t have the time to acknowledge all senders. So I just left them, thinking “it’s nicer for someone to see it unread than see it deleted”. And now - I’ve created a monster!!!

Lesson from this for me is - be less “nice” and forget the usual rules of social etiquette- they don’t need to apply to Fab mail... just delete!!

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By *ux19Man
over a year ago

Essex


"There's always optimism that it's from someone I lust after....

Often dashed. "

I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

I have zero..... "

Do you want me to send you one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

I have zero.....

Have you not? Lol"

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By *ust_4_Life!Man
over a year ago

Northside

It really surprises me that Fab have not built a better filter system for messages.

I personally think it would benefit men, women and couples on here if you could categorise and filter your inbox by

- sex

- location of sender

- length of time an unopened email is in your inbox

- have favourites for people you like and want to interact with instead of losing them in your inbox

There should also be a rating system where senders get rated on emails they send and therefore the quality of emails will improve from men. This could also then be used as a filter where you can say you only want to receive mails from others users with minimum 3 out of 5 stars for example.

It would cut out so much bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

I have zero.....

Do you want me to send you one? "

Silly question

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really surprises me that Fab have not built a better filter system for messages.

I personally think it would benefit men, women and couples on here if you could categorise and filter your inbox by

- sex

- location of sender

- length of time an unopened email is in your inbox

- have favourites for people you like and want to interact with instead of losing them in your inbox

There should also be a rating system where senders get rated on emails they send and therefore the quality of emails will improve from men. This could also then be used as a filter where you can say you only want to receive mails from others users with minimum 3 out of 5 stars for example.

It would cut out so much bullshit.

"

This is a good idea

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

I have zero.....

Have you not? Lol

"

Attention seeker you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

I have zero.....

Have you not? Lol

Attention seeker you "

I need some today tbh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at the moment with 1173 unread. It makes me slightly overwhelmed at the task of reading / deleting and I now realise that burying my head and not dealing with my Fab admin is not cool!!

I have zero.....

Have you not? Lol

Attention seeker you

I need some today tbh.... "

Sending hugs... and I have messaged you

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage


"And it means you have a message, don't you feel fantastic?

Although mines usually one to say the site supporter pass is running out.

How does it make you feel?"

1) A guy messaging along the lines of “Where are you, I’ll suck you off?” .... Delete..

2) A woman or couple messaging along the lines of “More pics?” .... Delete.. with 1 in 3 of them is prob a guy.... So yeah, that’s how I feel

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Yep always makes me jump a little when I see I have a message used to be just admin to say my site pass is running out, but theses days I do get others.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and trying to get back

I think feck me not another one that needs specsavers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think feck me not another one that needs specsavers "

You're pretty.....!

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and trying to get back


"I think feck me not another one that needs specsavers

You're pretty.....!"

See there's another one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think feck me not another one that needs specsavers "

Haha

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