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What if he's better than hubby?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for couples just occured to me. If you're playing with a guy and she enjoys him more than she ever did the hubby, how do you both feel about that? Is it a turnon? Or is it hard to deal with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had it happen. No one will be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always will be

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No partner worth their salt would compare and tell .......

There's more to a partner than their sex score.

Jesus....... like everyone believes they are married to the best person at sex.....

We can't all be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never had it happen. No one will be better. "

I suspect most ladies in a loving relationship will feel that way. It's great you're both so happy and secure. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met lots of guys, some crap, most good, but none as good as hubby, i don't think any guy could be better than him.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

None better, but all different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None better, but all different "

So it's more like eating a variety of delicious meals for you.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"None better, but all different

So it's more like eating a variety of delicious meals for you. "

In a way I guess, and as well know, nothing beats a homecooked meal

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No partner worth their salt would compare and tell .......

There's more to a partner than their sex score.

Jesus....... like everyone believes they are married to the best person at sex.....

We can't all be."

True that. I can only be married to one man at a time, sorry everyone

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"None better, but all different

So it's more like eating a variety of delicious meals for you.

In a way I guess, and as well know, nothing beats a homecooked meal "

Of course home cooked is the best, but it's nice to go to a restaurant every now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have to marry them get a house have kids car spend the rest of my life with them because they would be that good at sex LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Would have to marry them get a house have kids car spend the rest of my life with them because they would be that good at sex LOL "

Look no further! I'm right here! lol

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

From my experience.

They usually dump me and run off with the better fella

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"None better, but all different

So it's more like eating a variety of delicious meals for you.

In a way I guess, and as well know, nothing beats a homecooked meal

Of course home cooked is the best, but it's nice to go to a restaurant every now and again. "

And even a greasy kebab appears delicious after several pints

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None better, but all different

So it's more like eating a variety of delicious meals for you.

In a way I guess, and as well know, nothing beats a homecooked meal

Of course home cooked is the best, but it's nice to go to a restaurant every now and again.

And even a greasy kebab appears delicious after several pints "

You must be a menace to the men of fab after a night out.

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"A question for couples just occured to me. If you're playing with a guy and she enjoys him more than she ever did the hubby, how do you both feel about that? Is it a turnon? Or is it hard to deal with?"

There’s a wonderful line from one of the holy books which answers your question perfectly.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Two are better than one - for if they fail, one will lift up the other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A question for couples just occured to me. If you're playing with a guy and she enjoys him more than she ever did the hubby, how do you both feel about that? Is it a turnon? Or is it hard to deal with?

There’s a wonderful line from one of the holy books which answers your question perfectly.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Two are better than one - for if they fail, one will lift up the other

"

I bet that book doesn't get quoted much here lol.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

All my ladies leave their husbands cause I’m a lover man.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No partner worth their salt would compare and tell .......

There's more to a partner than their sex score.

Jesus....... like everyone believes they are married to the best person at sex.....

We can't all be."

Absolutely this!

I tend not to find there has ever been any stand out "better" in terms of skill. The sex is just different with different people. The sex I have enjoyed the most has always been more about the person being open to feedback, passionate and willing to experiment. The bad sex has usually just been due to the person not being concerned or considerate of my pleasure and not listening to my feedback. If Someone's husband was like that then that is up to them to sort out as a couple and not really related to anyone else she had sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A musician that truly knows his instrument will play the sweets tune.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for couples just occured to me. If you're playing with a guy and she enjoys him more than she ever did the hubby, how do you both feel about that? Is it a turnon? Or is it hard to deal with?

There’s a wonderful line from one of the holy books which answers your question perfectly.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Two are better than one - for if they fail, one will lift up the other

I bet that book doesn't get quoted much here lol."

awful lot of omg comments though..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"A question for couples just occured to me. If you're playing with a guy and she enjoys him more than she ever did the hubby, how do you both feel about that? Is it a turnon? Or is it hard to deal with?"

Id hope they're always better, after all, you don't test drive a worse car. And i find that quite a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A question for couples just occured to me. If you're playing with a guy and she enjoys him more than she ever did the hubby, how do you both feel about that? Is it a turnon? Or is it hard to deal with?

There’s a wonderful line from one of the holy books which answers your question perfectly.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Two are better than one - for if they fail, one will lift up the other

I bet that book doesn't get quoted much here lol.

awful lot of omg comments though.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that ever happens it means something's going wrong. We have had some very good meets but none of them will ever have the intimacy and passion that we have, plus we know all the little triggers that sends eachother wild

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"A question for couples just occured to me. If you're playing with a guy and she enjoys him more than she ever did the hubby, how do you both feel about that? Is it a turnon? Or is it hard to deal with?

There’s a wonderful line from one of the holy books which answers your question perfectly.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Two are better than one - for if they fail, one will lift up the other

I bet that book doesn't get quoted much here lol."

I’m here to help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If that ever happens it means something's going wrong. We have had some very good meets but none of them will ever have the intimacy and passion that we have, plus we know all the little triggers that sends eachother wild "

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Massive turn on

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

There is a huge difference between making love to my husband and sex with a swinging buddy. Sex is just sex. Sometimes it is amazing but nothing feels like making love to my husband. Two totally different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with a meet is very different to making love with my partner. He just knows the right buttons to push x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No partner worth their salt would compare and tell .......

There's more to a partner than their sex score.

Jesus....... like everyone believes they are married to the best person at sex.....

We can't all be."

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Good sex ,will never compare to a partner that knows you inside and out and most of all loves you ,as my husband of 24 years does ,as he always says no matter what happens in the meet he is proud that i always go home with him ////

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sex is about more than the mechanics, so it's not the issue you could have considered it to be. Imagine the first AI robot that could deliver the mechanics 'right', could it render men obsolete?

I like variety and the romantic love with my main partner wins. Everyone offers something different and we all can learn, adapt and improve

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Doesnt matter how good someone else is at sex theres only one man i want to be with

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