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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Instant turn offs in a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instant turn offs in a message?"
are you over 6'3 i mean cmon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instant turn offs in a message?"

Text talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone uses a pet name

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By *ux19Man
over a year ago

Essex

'How are you today'

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"When someone uses a pet name

How do they know your pet's name?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When someone uses a pet name

Like babe or darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you clean?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone uses a pet name

Like babe or darling "

Yeah...it drives me mad haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cock pic

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

Asking for an opinion on their cock or 'do you want to watch me wank'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

your stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A cock pic "

Or no face pic

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

First message demanding a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

will you wear that suit when we meet......... no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak 'hey u 2' or just poor English/grammar and a one liner that really makes your eyes roll

Lazy!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Deleted without being read

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Poor spelling/grammar, no punctuation, crudeness, pet names, just "Hey", the same copy and paste message that they've sent several times before, rudeness.

*The above list is not exhaustive, but all of the above will guarantee that I won't reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Asking for an opinion on their cock or 'do you want to watch me wank'

Big pet hate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words, letters, punctuation

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Deliberate misspelling: wud luv 2 fuk u.

No. Just no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone uses a pet name

How do they know your pet's name?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Instant turn offs in a message?"

It's a very long long list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also when they send a huge descriptive fantasy that they have. I'm never going to read the whole thing.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Today's one and I quote

Bareback cumdump?

Seriously what on earth!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I really want to pound you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today's one and I quote

Bareback cumdump?

Seriously what on earth!"

So disrespectful

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

One word answers! Don't be lazy and make the effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also when they send a huge descriptive fantasy that they have. I'm never going to read the whole thing.

This is me too. Instantly loose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to (smash or ruin) you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also when they send a huge descriptive fantasy that they have. I'm never going to read the whole thing.

This is me too. Instantly loose interest."
you look loose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably easier to post what doesn’t turn me off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also when they send a huge descriptive fantasy that they have. I'm never going to read the whole thing.

This is me too. Instantly loose interest."

None of us want to read essays haha!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

What are you wearing?

What are you into?

Fancy some fun now?

I'm in your area.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone uses a pet name

Pet name?? I can’t believe that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone uses a pet name

Pet name?? I can’t believe that

Can't believe it?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

What you up to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "can i ask you a question?" messages... Thanks I just wasted time reading that and deleting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone uses a pet name

Pet name?? I can’t believe that

Can't believe it?

I believe that is an Instant turn off...

Can’t believe some idiot can do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message?

Do people actually get messages on here?!?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Can you take all of this...inserts dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone uses a pet name

Pet name?? I can’t believe that

Can't believe it?

I believe that is an Instant turn off...

Can’t believe some idiot can do this "

It truly makes me cringe

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Or the other really fucked up one from men who don't have a clue 'Are you free now?' Yeah I really want to meet a total cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone uses a pet name

Pet name?? I can’t believe that

Can't believe it?

I believe that is an Instant turn off...

Can’t believe some idiot can do this

It truly makes me cringe "

Poor (hot) girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone uses a pet name

Pet name?? I can’t believe that

Can't believe it?

I believe that is an Instant turn off...

Can’t believe some idiot can do this

It truly makes me cringe

Poor (hot) girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have a pic of your cock!

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

How was your day? Are they really interested in my daily work and chores, I doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How was your day? Are they really interested in my daily work and chores, I doubt it"
you a housewife superstar?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Any really graphic description of what they would do to me/us

W u in 2?

W u u2?

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard to create a conversation out of thin air, and with the ability to just delete or ignore it's become even more difficult for men to just a go, and now even more difficult because they have to fight through a slew of negativity and suspicion.

I posted about my experiences in the UK when I let go of my usual ignore/delete and made it my mission to respond to everyone for the duration I was there last, even to the cringey, dumb, ridiculous, boring, borderline psychopath messages and I do have to say that honestly, a reply made all the difference in how I was treated even when it was a no thanks, not interested, thanks but not for me.

I am not suggesting people should reply even to the pet peeve messages - it is your life and your time - but it really was interesting to see how even the creepy weird messages were responded to after my rejection with a gentlemen response just saying thank you for taking the time to respond sorry to bother you.

It does piss me off when people just say hi though. Like come on, you text more when you are telling some stranger what you want on your pizza.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does piss me off when people just say hi though. Like come on, you text more when you are telling some stranger what you want on your pizza.

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thankyou for sharing that observation though because it does disprove the FAQs on this subject

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Personally it’s just a matter of manners speak how you would like to be spoken to...

But it does kinda annoy when you write a polite message and then not even the curtsie to say no/no for me it takes a moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also when they send a huge descriptive fantasy that they have. I'm never going to read the whole thing.

This is me too. Instantly loose interest.you look loose

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I always used to reply politely if it was a no but many took that as a chance to try and engage so now I ignore or delete, sorry if that offends

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Women have the boobs so they make the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does piss me off when people just say hi though. Like come on, you text more when you are telling some stranger what you want on your pizza.

I respond to 99% of my messages and virtually never get rudeness perhaps once or twice a year tops! And yes if I get a reply back it's just a thanks for replying/have a good day one

I think, personally it does make a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instant turn offs in a message?"

Do you like cock?

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

‘Hi sexy, if you were mine I’d never share you.’ Or any message to that effect.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

When they ask questions of me, showing up of course the fact they've not even read my profile.

Or, if they HAVE, they've not read it in full or retained any information within it!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fancy a fuck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The send me a face pic demand even though they have zero pics of any kind on their profile ........... cheeky gits

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The send me a face pic demand even though they have zero pics of any kind on their profile ........... cheeky gits "

I love sending a face pic, has them running for the hills in no time

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Just knowing that they were breathing when they typed the message is annoying me at the moment....

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

When they go Mmmmmmmmm

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Do you like rimming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like rimming

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lol i think thats a bonus getting a message like that lol

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Instant turn offs in a message?"

Launching straight into what they want without the thought occurring to them that it would be nice if they started with a hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The send me a face pic demand even though they have zero pics of any kind on their profile ........... cheeky gits

I love sending a face pic, has them running for the hills in no time

Somehow I doubt that very much you sexy lady . Would love to message you but I’m not allowed for some reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women have the boobs so they make the rules

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Instant turn offs in a message?

Launching straight into what they want without the thought occurring to them that it would be nice if they started with a hello. "

So true.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

[Removed by poster at 30/10/19 14:54:53]

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

"Fancy a fuck.. "

Go on then, as you asked nicely

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Fancy a fuck..

Go on then, as you asked nicely "

What??? No please or thank you. Tut tut

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fancy a fuck..

Go on then, as you asked nicely

What??? No please or thank you. Tut tut "

I know....shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i have your penis answer no

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

"Fancy a fuck..

Go on then, as you asked nicely

What??? No please or thank you. Tut tut

I know....shocking "

You can say thank you afterwards

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Txt spk

Replacing the word "have" with "of"

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Mmmmmmmmm or hehe hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fancy a fuck..

Go on then, as you asked nicely

What??? No please or thank you. Tut tut

I know....shocking

You can say thank you afterwards

Some people don't have manners

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fancy a fuck..

Go on then, as you asked nicely

What??? No please or thank you. Tut tut

I know....shocking

You can say thank you afterwards

Some people don't have manners

I prefer a please first at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'You look like my sister lol'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How's you?".

It makes my red pen twitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics and can I phone you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1)pet names

2) hi

3) how are you

3 most hated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today's one and I quote

Bareback cumdump?

Seriously what on earth!"

And who says chivalry is dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi babe

Hey sugar tits

Fancy a fuck

I’m less than a mile away

I’d love fuck you right now

But my all time favourite....

I’d drag my balls over broken glass to suck a fart from your arse

What girl can resist such charmers eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi babe

Hey sugar tits

Fancy a fuck

I’m less than a mile away

I’d love fuck you right now

But my all time favourite....

I’d drag my balls over broken glass to suck a fart from your arse

What girl can resist such charmers eh lol

Love this list lol

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi babe

Hey sugar tits

Fancy a fuck

I’m less than a mile away

I’d love fuck you right now

But my all time favourite....

I’d drag my balls over broken glass to suck a fart from your arse

What girl can resist such charmers eh lol

Tbf ive tried the respectful approach and had no replies or just deleted... Might give these a bash hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any copy paste message but any message from a guy is a turnoff for me these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even open the message if it came from someone with a cock avatar or a stupid username.

That's an instant put off.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

The start “hey babe”

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""How's you?".

It makes my red pen twitch. "

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