FabSwingers.com forum: Posting A Meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My Fab fellow lovelies what are your responses of posting meets?

I've posted numerous social meets and have had literally no responses!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

In the 13 years ive been here ive posted 4 meet todays and all 4 where a success

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"My Fab fellow lovelies what are your responses of posting meets?

I've posted numerous social meets and have had literally no responses!

You have the disadvantage of being male. If women do it, it generally gets a lot of interest

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the 13 years ive been here ive posted 4 meet todays and all 4 where a success"

Fantastic, pleased for you.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

I replied to one once.. it was smashing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the 13 years ive been here ive posted 4 meet todays and all 4 where a success"

her is the differance between men and women on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later."

That's interesting because I always put a social meet with no pressure, just see if we get on, is that where I've gone wrong do you think?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I also used to do coffee meets to give newbies a verification. Id put it as my status and got taken up on it every time

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I replied to one once.. it was smashing

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

Posting a meet is very successful but time consuming, we try to reply to all but would be great if there were filters on the meeting today rather than just a blanket.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"My Fab fellow lovelies what are your responses of posting meets?

I've posted numerous social meets and have had literally no responses!

Doesn't mean no one seen it, besides if every lady/couple goes round like meets and pic they would double the number of messages they have to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later."

Be thankful I don't live local

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

In my naïve days, I posted for a few social meets, not one was answered without a question about a guarantee of sex! And no way am I ever giving that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later."

Maybe I've been too reticent on my meet posts, be more forward and say sex is the ultimate goal??

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I quite often go for friendship only cuppa meets from here, some have suprised and the chemistry is there, but mostly it's just nice to spend an hour having a pleasant conversation with no expectations or pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never posted one

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I've never placed one but I imagine that as a female my response would be greatly increased.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We posted one but noticed that people wanted us to play by their rules I.e. Meet elsewhere than where we were based or wouldn't send face pics even though they responded to our meet.

We also posted another regarding a club meet but when we arrived we literally couldn't recognise anyone as it was so dimly lit and we couldn't have phones so couldn't say where we were haha. Nevermind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never posted one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overwhelmed, so deleted it!

Actually got better responses from posting a meet up in my status update..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.

That's interesting because I always put a social meet with no pressure, just see if we get on, is that where I've gone wrong do you think?"

I honestly don't know. I find it quite confusing because the number of people who say that the social aspect of swinging is as important as anything else doesn't reflect our experience except in one or two cases.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.

Be thankful I don't live local

, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get very lucky mostly the people I arrange with don't turn up that includes verified people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Fab fellow lovelies what are your responses of posting meets?

I've posted numerous social meets and have had literally no responses!

You, me and many others I suspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a meet. I had 9 planned to attend. 3 cancelled, and 1 turned up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.

Be thankful I don't live local

, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person"

Absolutely

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.

Be thankful I don't live local

, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person

Absolutely

you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts

. What fun we'd have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.

Be thankful I don't live local

, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person

Absolutely

you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts

. What fun we'd have "

Bare Minerals make up. You resisted a free sample

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.

Be thankful I don't live local

, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person

Absolutely

you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts

. What fun we'd have

Bare Minerals make up. You resisted a free sample

I did but I bought some anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.

Be thankful I don't live local

, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person

Absolutely

you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts

. What fun we'd have

Bare Minerals make up. You resisted a free sample

I did but I bought some anyway "

Only blusher though ?

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow

I have two social meets arranged this week. One of the guys has already suggested "going back to your place" while the other said he quite happy to meet for a social. Guess which one has the better chance of getting lucky.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"the last line of our profile says we're happy to meet local people for a purely social meet in a relaxed atmosphere. Not one person has taken us up on the offer.

I think very few people want to socialise unless there is the possibility at least, of more later.

Be thankful I don't live local

, you'd convince me to buy gadgets and I wouldn't be able to resist in person

Absolutely

you'd probably drag me off to a shop and I'd come out with all sorts

. What fun we'd have

Bare Minerals make up. You resisted a free sample

I did but I bought some anyway

Only blusher though ?"

isn't that enough!?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Only tonight someone has offered to meet me for a social and im not even meeting new people

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I tend to find that when I post a meet request, no-one else is looking, but when THEY ARE, I'm not available!

However, my career, which I enjoy, gets in the way of Meets. I work a fixed roster of Nights, so in many respects, I'm awake at the opposite end of the clock-face to everyone else!

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I have posted a few meets and yes they were all 100%.

Thats 100% unsuccessful.

I didnt even get tyre kickers or time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waste of time in our opinion never had anything come of our posts apart from people who have not read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Fab fellow lovelies what are your responses of posting meets?

I've posted numerous social meets and have had literally no responses!

Get yourself some tits.....

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes get replyes but most are to far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rate of success is directly linked to your sex. I often have a few hours free during the day and post looking for a social on my status. Never had anyone not turn up...

Sorry single gentlemen that life is so hard for you on Fab. However, when you do strike lucky, then I believe, you really are lucky so don't give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't post meat, if people want a steak they can damn well come and pick it up themselves.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't post meat, if people want a steak they can damn well come and pick it up themselves. "

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