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"When someone says hello dear. Comes across as condescending to me. " Honey, Hun, babe, darling... | |||
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"being called sir at the Chinese take away. Hippies shouting "Oi Geezer"" Haha i have similar feelings about Ma'am;-) | |||
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"It varies so much dependant on who is saying to me. I'm fine with and hate all the ones mentioned so far from different people!" Same! I dont hate any particular name/phrase. It all comes down to who is saying it and in what situation and context it is said in. In a none sexual way when I'm told to do something I'll quite often jokingly say "yes ma'am" Also have to take in to account regional cultures. Being a scouser "mate" is thrown around a lot, I refuse to accept "lad" in it's place though... | |||
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"When someone says hello dear. Comes across as condescending to me. " Alright sugertits | |||
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"It varies so much dependant on who is saying to me. I'm fine with and hate all the ones mentioned so far from different people! Same! I dont hate any particular name/phrase. It all comes down to who is saying it and in what situation and context it is said in. In a none sexual way when I'm told to do something I'll quite often jokingly say "yes ma'am" Also have to take in to account regional cultures. Being a scouser "mate" is thrown around a lot, I refuse to accept "lad" in it's place though... " Cringing at the spelling and missing words in my comment But yeah, completely agree. Think I'd like ma'am though ! | |||
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"Pal. I don't know why, but I hate being called pal!" I've got a mate who calls everyone Pal, funny thing is that his surname is Cook, so everybody calls him Cocker | |||
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"I think "me duck" is quite funny though, that's said a bit further down the country from me. " Ey up me duck is common place in Derby | |||
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"Cute, cutie anything along those lines. Basically how you describe a puppy or some one you don’t really fancy " Totally this.. pisses me off to the point that the convo is over.... | |||
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"When someone says hello dear. Comes across as condescending to me. Honey, Hun, babe, darling..." absolutely agree here! | |||
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"Pal. I don't know why, but I hate being called pal!" Yep same, just no | |||
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"None really bother me but Then I’ve answered to “Hey cuntybaws” before " | |||
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"Cute, cutie anything along those lines. Basically how you describe a puppy or some one you don’t really fancy Totally this.. pisses me off to the point that the convo is over.... " I have half finished conversations in my inbox for this very reason | |||
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"kaz or kazza i point blank ignore anyone calling me these. My name is karen" You wouldn't even accept Karazza? | |||
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"Twat, bastard, cunt ect ect " Don't act like one then! | |||
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"Love I can't abide it " Don't move to Sheffield. | |||
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"A good looking girl in the supermarket keeps calling me sweetheart and it’s kinda turning me on (probably because she’s hot) but trying to listen to see if she’s calling anybody else that. I haven’t heard her yet. Gonna be right disappointed if I do. Lol " Don't let one of those supermarket temptresses turn your head, it'll end in tears. I got all infatuated with one 2 years ago. Made a right idiot of myself. But FFS she was (is) the most beautiful thing I'd ever seen. | |||
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"A good looking girl in the supermarket keeps calling me sweetheart and it’s kinda turning me on (probably because she’s hot) but trying to listen to see if she’s calling anybody else that. I haven’t heard her yet. Gonna be right disappointed if I do. Lol Don't let one of those supermarket temptresses turn your head, it'll end in tears. I got all infatuated with one 2 years ago. Made a right idiot of myself. But FFS she was (is) the most beautiful thing I'd ever seen." Apologies - wandering somewhat from the theme of the thread. | |||
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"Twat, bastard, cunt ect ect " Cunt is ok as long as they are mates, or the Mrs, she calls me it the most S | |||
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"It always puzzles me slightly when some people insist on repeatedly referring to me by name, even when you're the only two people in the room. " Oh I’ve had that. I realised it was because the guy was lying through his teeth. To the OP ‘Fat slag’. I’m not generally keen on that one. | |||
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"When someone says hello dear. Comes across as condescending to me. " Oi twat! Really gets under my skin. | |||
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"I love all the regional phrases, like duck, hen, pet, so in normal life conversation, they make me smile. Fab is a different thing, I hate being called babe, hun, luv. The worse offender is bbe. Makes my blood boil. " What’s bbe stand for?! | |||
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"It always puzzles me slightly when some people insist on repeatedly referring to me by name, even when you're the only two people in the room. Oh I’ve had that. I realised it was because the guy was lying through his teeth. To the OP ‘Fat slag’. I’m not generally keen on that one." | |||
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"I hate being called mate by the opposite sex. Or bae. That word is lazy by one letter and make people sound like a place to walk the dog." Makes* | |||
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"I love all the regional phrases, like duck, hen, pet, so in normal life conversation, they make me smile. Fab is a different thing, I hate being called babe, hun, luv. The worse offender is bbe. Makes my blood boil. What’s bbe stand for?! " I think they mean babe, but you know how text speak goes. Hi bbe wuu2? Faf or wot? | |||
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"I love all the regional phrases, like duck, hen, pet, so in normal life conversation, they make me smile. Fab is a different thing, I hate being called babe, hun, luv. The worse offender is bbe. Makes my blood boil. What’s bbe stand for?! I think they mean babe, but you know how text speak goes. Hi bbe wuu2? Faf or wot? " Oh Christ... that hurts my head | |||
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"I love all the regional phrases, like duck, hen, pet, so in normal life conversation, they make me smile. Fab is a different thing, I hate being called babe, hun, luv. The worse offender is bbe. Makes my blood boil. What’s bbe stand for?! I think they mean babe, but you know how text speak goes. Hi bbe wuu2? Faf or wot? " I'm too old to deal with that kind of talk seriously | |||
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"I love all the regional phrases, like duck, hen, pet, so in normal life conversation, they make me smile. Fab is a different thing, I hate being called babe, hun, luv. The worse offender is bbe. Makes my blood boil. What’s bbe stand for?! I think they mean babe, but you know how text speak goes. Hi bbe wuu2? Faf or wot? Oh Christ... that hurts my head " Mine too. Almost exploded just trying to think of that and put it in to text speak. | |||
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"Love I can't abide it Don't move to Sheffield." Noted | |||
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"Love I can't abide it Don't move to Sheffield. Noted " Move to Newcastle instead, pet | |||
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"Twat, bastard, cunt ect ect Don't act like one then! " This may be very controversial but I find it annoying that body parts are used this way. Who doesn’t love a cunt or a pussy? And this is not a feminist view as I feel the same way about other very tired stereotypes... | |||
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"Love I can't abide it Don't move to Sheffield. Noted Move to Newcastle instead, pet " Can I come? | |||
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"Love I can't abide it Don't move to Sheffield. Noted Move to Newcastle instead, pet " Eye pet | |||
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"When someone says hello dear. Comes across as condescending to me. " and me i prefer to be called by my name..... tarquin | |||
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"Love I can't abide it Don't move to Sheffield. Noted Move to Newcastle instead, pet Can I come? " Yes of course | |||
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"Love I can't abide it Don't move to Sheffield. Noted Move to Newcastle instead, pet Can I come? " Cheeky | |||
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"I also hate being called dear " Quite right too my darling | |||
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"Twat, bastard, cunt ect ect Don't act like one then! This may be very controversial but I find it annoying that body parts are used this way. Who doesn’t love a cunt or a pussy? And this is not a feminist view as I feel the same way about other very tired stereotypes... " Its a fair point. I partially agree, however I feel too much power is given to individual words, instead of the context they are used in. Lots of words have multiple uses, just because of associations, why can't these? Fuck is the perfect example, it can be used and applied to every single situation and mean multiple things. With that said! I know it's not easy to just shake off the power a word has gained over the years. The comedian, George carlin has a great bit on the use of words and their context. | |||
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"I hate being called mate by the opposite sex. Or bae. That word is lazy by one letter and make people sound like a place to walk the dog." Bae = before all else I asked my teenagers a while ago because it really winds me up | |||
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"I hate being called mate by the opposite sex. Or bae. That word is lazy by one letter and make people sound like a place to walk the dog. Bae = before all else I asked my teenagers a while ago because it really winds me up " Is that what it means?! That is so gae! | |||
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"I hate being called mate by the opposite sex. Or bae. That word is lazy by one letter and make people sound like a place to walk the dog. Bae = before all else I asked my teenagers a while ago because it really winds me up " Also means poop in Danish if I remember correctly. | |||
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"Twat, bastard, cunt ect ect Don't act like one then! This may be very controversial but I find it annoying that body parts are used this way. Who doesn’t love a cunt or a pussy? And this is not a feminist view as I feel the same way about other very tired stereotypes... Its a fair point. I partially agree, however I feel too much power is given to individual words, instead of the context they are used in. Lots of words have multiple uses, just because of associations, why can't these? Fuck is the perfect example, it can be used and applied to every single situation and mean multiple things. With that said! I know it's not easy to just shake off the power a word has gained over the years. The comedian, George carlin has a great bit on the use of words and their context. " True and point taken. This is probably not the right place to continue the discussion but Fuck is gender neutral.... | |||
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"I hate being called mate by the opposite sex. Or bae. That word is lazy by one letter and make people sound like a place to walk the dog. Bae = before all else I asked my teenagers a while ago because it really winds me up Is that what it means?! That is so gae!" | |||
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"I hate being called mate by the opposite sex. Or bae. That word is lazy by one letter and make people sound like a place to walk the dog. Bae = before all else I asked my teenagers a while ago because it really winds me up Also means poop in Danish if I remember correctly. " I hope you do remember correctly... runs off to google translate | |||
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"I love all the regional phrases, like duck, hen, pet, so in normal life conversation, they make me smile. Fab is a different thing, I hate being called babe, hun, luv. The worse offender is bbe. Makes my blood boil. " I forgot about hen, my Mum was from Glasgow and used to use hen | |||
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"Pal, Buddy.. or anything equally matey-like by anyone who doesn't know me, or isn't from North America. "I'm not your Buddy, Pal". I don't mind 'Mate' As it seems pretty bog standard greeting man-to-man across the UK. Whereas the others seem a bit.. odd. " "Pal" Is almost fighting language in the Army | |||
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"Will the Defendant Please Stand.. I'm so sick of hearing that" | |||
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"Your all so left wing it's unreal Is this a swinging site or a Karl Marx worship site " How?! | |||
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"Girl Bro Mate In that order " I guess girlbromate is the worst way ever to address you then? | |||
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"Your all so left wing it's unreal Is this a swinging site or a Karl Marx worship site " Eh? | |||
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