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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the nicest thing you have done for someone without having to be asked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't mug an old lady once.

Real heroes dont wear capes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offered my girl a chip yesterday in the park cafe.....

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

I tried to share a bag of chips with a homeless guy.

But he told me to eff off and get my own.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I paid a young couples parking charge for them recently - the machine wouldn't take their card, their baby was crying, and it was raining, so I just leant over and tapped my card on the reader to pay. It was a few quid, but seeing the relief on their faces was priceless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I paid a young couples parking charge for them recently - the machine wouldn't take their card, their baby was crying, and it was raining, so I just leant over and tapped my card on the reader to pay. It was a few quid, but seeing the relief on their faces was priceless. "

I did that in tescos. An elderly lady had realised she’d forgotten her purse and was crying. So I just tapped my card on the machine for her. Her face made it so worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent an explicit video when I knew he was working

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What's the nicest thing you've done op?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Bought flight tickets to South Africa so a friend and her husband could see his mum before she passed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bought flight tickets to South Africa so a friend and her husband could see his mum before she passed "

Wow

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Bought flight tickets to South Africa so a friend and her husband could see his mum before she passed "

Spurs

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

took in a homeless pair for the weekend, did their washing, fed them

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

A girl I know who was a parent where I worked felt like she was failing as a mum after having a hard start to the day with her sons. I made her a little card telling her how brilliant she was and just because that day was hard didn't mean every day had to be like that.

Gave her a face mask, hot chocolate and a magazine and told her to make sure she took time for herself that night

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Bought flight tickets to South Africa so a friend and her husband could see his mum before she passed

Wow "

I’ve always said money is immaterial. As long as I have enough to keep the roof over our heads and feed my lad, wherever I can help I will, rather than see people is distress

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I paid a young couples parking charge for them recently - the machine wouldn't take their card, their baby was crying, and it was raining, so I just leant over and tapped my card on the reader to pay. It was a few quid, but seeing the relief on their faces was priceless.

I did that in tescos. An elderly lady had realised she’d forgotten her purse and was crying. So I just tapped my card on the machine for her. Her face made it so worth it "

Awww, bless you.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I always give to the homeless

I give to charity

Also help friends if they need me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sent an explicit video when I knew he was working "

What a very lucky guy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the nicest thing you've done op? "

I often go in to shops and buy food and hot coffee for the homeless around my area.

I always try and treat people the best I can anyway, I always picture my beloved mum or dad as the person I’m looking after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looked after my friends baby whilst she was in hospital for almost 3 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humanise them. In other words, I look at people as if they're my loved ones... because they're somebody's loved ones. It changes my entire attitude, making me feel quite loving towards total strangers. It's a good way to reduce anger and hostility towards people in all types of situations, especially on the road.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I just try to be kind. Sometimes I succeed, sometimes I fail. I'm human, the first person I need to be kind to is myself.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Wow some nice people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humanise them. In other words, I look at people as if they're my loved ones... because they're somebody's loved ones. It changes my entire attitude, making me feel quite loving towards total strangers. It's a good way to reduce anger and hostility towards people in all types of situations, especially on the road. "

That's really nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done lots of things big and small ...most recently gave a big issue seller some money for a hot coffee etc as it was baltic

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

I don't think about it really, I just try to be the best version of me I can be. So I can't really remember anything specific!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be what I do for two little people in Cairo.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

An ex copper I used to work with, bought a coffee for at least one homeless person every time we went for a Costa. He knew a few of them and their back stories of why they ended up on the street. As an ex squaddie it certainly upset me that a lot had served in the forces including one who told me he was in the same Regiment as me.

So I try to show that same empathy as my mate, I'm not as consistent as he is, but I will put in the effort, especially if he or she is ex services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few months back I was food shopping and my old neighbor was at the till in a fuss she'd fetched wrong card and couldn't remember the pin so just lent over and payed she was so embarrassed got kids screaming her fellow Pop up payed me back and give me some cans we both had a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In childhood me and my dad will catch pigeon and remove stuck hairs from feet, few were in verge of losing whole feet or toes, when I see in such conditions I feel sad, it's man made problem and want to start again.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm a long term volunteer with vulnerable adults.

Several years ago I helped mentor a friend with study skills and turned him around from almost dropping out of university to getting a first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading some of these properly makes me teary.

Kindness and empathy costs nothing, neither does time. I always try to be kind. Always help when I can

I was parking the car in Morrisons and noticed the lady parked next to me crying, I hate seeing people cry, it emotionally hurts me to see it.

I gently asked if she wanted company and was there anything I could do! It was like a floodgate, she had been to a counselling session and was adhusting her thoughts.

I just sat and listened to her talk about her history, ended up sat for an hour, but she needed that, it was like her emotions were her physical thoughts manifesting. I hugged her, she told me she hadn't eaten so I insisted she come with me and let me buy her food, so we sat in the cafe. I left her smiling, end game acheived.

Drove past a young lady standing next to her car which had hazard lights on.

I pulled over and asked if she was ok, she said her car had run out of petrol and she couldn't get hold of anyone to help. She had her baby in the car

I lived a few minutes away, and knew I had a jerry can so went and sorted her petrol out.

Bought a guys lunch once as he realised he had forgotten his wallet at checkout, contactless is just so easy to use nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave Abby a pair of my stockings as one of hers laddered as we were leaving the house to go to a club

On a more serious note, some heartwarming stories on here.

V x

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