FabSwingers.com forum: One regular or many one offs

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

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What would your preference be? One person you got on really well with that you meet regularly or lots of people that you meet once?

And saying both is not allowed!!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ideally one regular. But get to play with others together x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One definitely. Was never looking for the other option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would your preference be? One person you got on really well with that you meet regularly or lots of people that you meet once?

And saying both is not allowed!!

Certainly the former.

Tho frankly I'd be happy to find one person to meet once lol

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently.

That’s a good option too

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Of the 2 choices?

Regular

Random one offs really don't do it for me

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

One person occasionally for me

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Just the one I'm not greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also need one with stamina

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently.

That’s a good option too"

Thanks, I thought so too.

For me the sex gets better the more comfortable I am with someone and the more I like them. The more relaxed I am the more confident I am in being my sexual self and not worrying about it being

. That's not to say I would always turn down a one off but in all honesty I don't think I've had one for a looooong time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two regulars. I'm done with one offs, unless in a club environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One definitely. Was never looking for the other option. "

^^what she said^^

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Regular for me please

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If we were still looking, then it would be one regular guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a regular one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely one regular if you find the right woman that blows your mind as much as she blows your ****!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet the same circle of people semi regularly, but obviously people on the scene are fairly come and go. Ooer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One off meets were great when I very first joined Fab. Now one regular would be wonderful. Just need to find him

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

One regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular who enjoys playing with others occasionally. Makes life much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One off meets were great when I very first joined Fab. Now one regular would be wonderful. Just need to find him

It takes ages to find one regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently.

That would be the same for me and ideally sometimes together.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

One suits just fine

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be both now there can be only 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At different times different things suited me. After coming out of a difficult relationship one offs suited me because I didn't want to risk any attachment at all. As I recovered I started building more regular fb arrangements comfortably and eventually I met someone who meant more to me and now we are working out how it works best for us as a couple.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Would somewhere in the middle of the 2 be allowed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regulars

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

One regular that came to the club with me and we played with people together or as singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey i just made myself sound like a pub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One regular that came to the club with me and we played with people together or as singles

"
Take your hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely want 1 regular person if I can find him. Not interested in lots of one offs at all

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"Blimey i just made myself sound like a pub!"

Do you call ‘Time, gentleman’ at the end of the evening?

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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I prefer one offs, I don’t like the idea of having someone regular because I usually find you end up in that grey area of ‘should we be dating’

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Just one that's all it takes. I'm a one man woman. What we then do together will be our adventures and journey whatever that may look like with or without others. He needs to be on the same page though as I'm not going to be one of many. I'd just walk away.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"One regular that came to the club with me and we played with people together or as singles

Take your hubby

That's over lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Blimey i just made myself sound like a pub!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I identify as a serial monogamist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one regular buddy for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the beginning I met a few people just once but they all lived in the same city as me. Then I met a guy who was supposed to be just one off because he lived bloody far from me and that's the one I fell for and I don't want anyone else since

It's less risky to meet people just once but it's worked out ok for me when I chose to meet someone regularly too so I quite like both options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One regular! Definitely!

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

One regular preferably

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I identify as a serial monogamist."
tartlett

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

One regular no questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently.

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would your preference be? One person you got on really well with that you meet regularly or lots of people that you meet once?

And saying both is not allowed!!

How about a couple of regulars

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

One regularly....

I get my kicks with him when we visit a club too so it meets both specifics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I identify as a serial monogamist. tartlett

That's still only one at a time...unless she has a hot girlfriend and the desire in which case it's only polite....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One regularly that I get on with well and doesn’t too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A regular, always my top choice

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"One definitely. Was never looking for the other option.

^^what she said^^

What they said!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If I can only choose between those two options I'll take the one offs. I already have a partner for regular.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Would love to have a regular couple again but it takes time, a lot of searching and a bit of luck to find such a couple.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Regular.

I find having to meet new people more of a faff than it’s sometimes worth if i’m honest.

Great sex, often, is my ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One special regular with a couple of friends to have fun with when regular isn’t available, I seem to drift towards guys of a certain age who have young children so not always available weekends...which is when I get to play...a small select circle would be lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer regular - but because I work anywhere in the UK on contracts that last 3-12 months it is hard to maintain a regular relationship beyond the contract length.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could take either to be honest, would be pretty groovy to have a regular though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular.

I find having to meet new people more of a faff than it’s sometimes worth if i’m honest.

Great sex, often, is my ideal. "

Hello pretty lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One....

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

regular = Mf couple

one offs = single ladies

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

One regular to me seems like dating, which is not me.... so a couple of people that I’m close to and we are open as each other, works for me.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Regulars who come to clubs with me for one offs

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
over a year ago

Gravesend

I already have a partner. So would be the one offs I guess

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

N/A

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

"I already have a partner. So would be the one offs I guess "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A regular couple, and regular man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey i just made myself sound like a pub!

Do you call ‘Time, gentleman’ at the end of the evening? "

I'm thinking if fitting my piercing with a bell for last orders x

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"Ideally one regular. But get to play with others together x"

This.... Most definately.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Although I love the excitement of meeting new people I’ve learnt that the more you meet them the better it gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person with multiple personalities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been a one regular kind of girl

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'd prefer to have one regular, with the possibility of meeting others together.

I don't meet that many people but none want to take it further than a one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently.

That’s a good option too

Thanks, I thought so too.

For me the sex gets better the more comfortable I am with someone and the more I like them. The more relaxed I am the more confident I am in being my sexual self and not worrying about it being

. That's not to say I would always turn down a one off but in all honesty I don't think I've had one for a looooong time."

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently.

Same.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"One person with multiple personalities "

May I introduce myselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One person with multiple personalities

May I introduce myselves!"

Well played

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"One person with multiple personalities

May I introduce myselves!

Well played

*bows*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One person with multiple personalities

May I introduce myselves!

Well played

*bows*"

Now you are bent over do you mind sucking my penis ?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Multiple one offs are definitely not for me...but then one regular is not what I am looking for either

Two, or possibly three, regular people to meet that are on my wavelength and open minded enough to explore together would be my ideal

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Multiple one offs are definitely not for me...but then one regular is not what I am looking for either

Two, or possibly three, regular people to meet that are on my wavelength and open minded enough to explore together would be my ideal"

Sounds ideal to me too.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

One offs don't do anything for me, my preference would be 2 or 3 regular lovers who all got on

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"One offs don't do anything for me, my preference would be 2 or 3 regular lovers who all got on

Greedy, I like your style!

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

"Multiple one offs are definitely not for me...but then one regular is not what I am looking for either

Two, or possibly three, regular people to meet that are on my wavelength and open minded enough to explore together would be my ideal"

This please!!

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I'd prefer one regular guy where we are comfortable enough to do everything our heart desires, for him to push me beyond my boundaries to explore further than i could ever imagine. But willing to meet others together for group sex. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally I would have one regular x

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By *guyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

One off’s for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially i wanted one regular, but theyre not always available for whatever reasons... so now i have a few regulars. If one is busy, another might not be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be a regular for me

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By *2and3quartersWoman
over a year ago

Bumbletown

I much prefer regular meets with a select few, the connection is stronger and the sex just gets better!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the one, I don’t need or want more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One offs don't do anything for me, my preference would be 2 or 3 regular lovers who all got on

I'd love to be 1 off your regulars to have some fun with but I'm a just a few years out your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit. "

No harder than finding the one man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want both I'm not sticking to the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.

No harder than finding the one man!"

But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour

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By *ux19Man
over a year ago

Essex

One regular, to explore and push boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.

No harder than finding the one man!

But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour"

Not for me it wasn’t. I’m so fussy though but yeah I see what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.

No harder than finding the one man!

But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour

Not for me it wasn’t. I’m so fussy though but yeah I see what you mean. "

Look at you. You can afford to be dust xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.

No harder than finding the one man!

But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour

Not for me it wasn’t. I’m so fussy though but yeah I see what you mean.

Look at you. You can afford to be dust xxx"

Dust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one WOMAN. But finding the one WOMAN on here is the hard bit.

No harder than finding the one man!

But the ratio for you to find the right man is greatly in your favour

Not for me it wasn’t. I’m so fussy though but yeah I see what you mean.

Look at you. You can afford to be dust xxx

Dust?

Hahaha sorry don't know where the dust came from xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit academic but would prefer a regular play mate, able to learn a lot more about each others desires and gain more trust that way rather than wham-bam one nighters.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

One offs ?

One would be nice

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm a monogamist by nature, but I can force myself to meet two regulars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither. A few regulars I meet semi frequently.

That sounds like a good idea

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