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"Such a beautiful word Decrepitude... Albeit slightly dramatic " Feeling a bit dramatic - nice profile BTW - couldn't message you either - ah the cruel blows of ageing disgracefully. Q | |||
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"Just had a birthday a few days ago. Found a lovely profile, with plenty in common - great I'll just drop a message. Blocked due to age restrictions - FOUR DAYS! #@#!! Not a good Fab day. So just off to shrivel up in my decrepitude. Q" It happens to me too, as a younger person. I visit people’s profiles and find out I don’t meet their requirements. You’re only as old as you feel and I’ve met people older than myself who are much younger at heart. | |||
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"Such a beautiful word Decrepitude... Albeit slightly dramatic Feeling a bit dramatic - nice profile BTW - couldn't message you either - ah the cruel blows of ageing disgracefully. Q" Not you being dramatic... the word is awfully dramatic. Not everyone blocks messages outside their age preference sir. And thanks for the compliment | |||
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"Ah to be young " Haha says you... I would hate being 24 again. | |||
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"Just had a birthday a few days ago. Found a lovely profile, with plenty in common - great I'll just drop a message. Blocked due to age restrictions - FOUR DAYS! #@#!! Not a good Fab day. So just off to shrivel up in my decrepitude. Q" I turned 41 a few weeks ago. Im now officially too old for all the profiles that cut off at 40. Theres a lot of them. | |||
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"Ah to be young Haha says you... I would hate being 24 again. " Good thing it’s impossible then hha | |||
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"I’m slightly confused as their are a lot of women on here that have 40+ listed. Then again if you lot are chasing the youngens then..." At our age we'll chase anything that runs! | |||
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"Yeah it happened to me as well. I'm now old and can't get the interest I used to." If 30 is old, then I'm ancient. | |||
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"Just had a birthday a few days ago. Found a lovely profile, with plenty in common - great I'll just drop a message. Blocked due to age restrictions - FOUR DAYS! #@#!! Change your age. Knock a year off. Who is going to know, or tell the difference Not a good Fab day. So just off to shrivel up in my decrepitude. Q" | |||
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"Just had a birthday a few days ago. Found a lovely profile, with plenty in common - great I'll just drop a message. Blocked due to age restrictions - FOUR DAYS! #@#!! Not a good Fab day. So just off to shrivel up in my decrepitude. Q" Change your DOB OP so your a lot younger. That’s how we stroll in the forums | |||
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"It is strange this age restriction business if you think about it, as it wouldn’t really apply in real life would it? If we all mingled in person at one big party, for example, how many of us would refuse to even engage in a chat with someone before establishing their age?? Can you imagine... “hang on, before you even introduce yourself, how old are you? Yeah sorry I can’t proceed any further...” I’m not criticising those who have restrictions on here because I do too - but I’m beginning to realise how daft it is ... " I agree. It is daft, I’m going to look at mine again. I actively seek out men aged 45-55 | |||
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"It is strange this age restriction business if you think about it, as it wouldn’t really apply in real life would it? If we all mingled in person at one big party, for example, how many of us would refuse to even engage in a chat with someone before establishing their age?? Can you imagine... “hang on, before you even introduce yourself, how old are you? Yeah sorry I can’t proceed any further...” I’m not criticising those who have restrictions on here because I do too - but I’m beginning to realise how daft it is ... " But you (not you you!) wouldn't necessarily want to fuck someone who is of a certain age. It is restrictive but it also helps people filter out and find those who are most likely to tickle their fancy. It does apply in real life, perhaps not in clubs because people seem to be a bit more relaxed about who they meet but it does day to day. People you would enjoy talking to at a party aren't necessarily the ones you'd want to fuck. | |||
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"It is strange this age restriction business if you think about it, as it wouldn’t really apply in real life would it? If we all mingled in person at one big party, for example, how many of us would refuse to even engage in a chat with someone before establishing their age?? Can you imagine... “hang on, before you even introduce yourself, how old are you? Yeah sorry I can’t proceed any further...” I’m not criticising those who have restrictions on here because I do too - but I’m beginning to realise how daft it is ... But you (not you you!) wouldn't necessarily want to fuck someone who is of a certain age. It is restrictive but it also helps people filter out and find those who are most likely to tickle their fancy. It does apply in real life, perhaps not in clubs because people seem to be a bit more relaxed about who they meet but it does day to day. People you would enjoy talking to at a party aren't necessarily the ones you'd want to fuck." I agree you might not want to fuck someone of a certain age but for me personally, the fact I didn’t fancy them and didn’t want to fuck them would be established by interacting with them in the first instance, not by first finding out their age, if that makes sense. Say I got chatting to man and fancied the arse off him, I wouldn’t care if he was 40 or 50 - if I fancied him then all good. But on Fab we do it the opposite way around - screen out by age first. By party I meant a swingers party/ social event - sorry didn’t make that clear. At a social event I’d talk to anyone so long as they were polite! I wouldn’t necessarily fancy and fuck them though. So it was the interaction part I was meaning - by having age restrictions on here we rule out even interacting. But - that might have to do with reducing volume of messages, I get that. It’s a tricky one.... | |||
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" I agree you might not want to fuck someone of a certain age but for me personally, the fact I didn’t fancy them and didn’t want to fuck them would be established by interacting with them in the first instance, not by first finding out their age, if that makes sense. Say I got chatting to man and fancied the arse off him, I wouldn’t care if he was 40 or 50 - if I fancied him then all good. But on Fab we do it the opposite way around - screen out by age first. By party I meant a swingers party/ social event - sorry didn’t make that clear. At a social event I’d talk to anyone so long as they were polite! I wouldn’t necessarily fancy and fuck them though. So it was the interaction part I was meaning - by having age restrictions on here we rule out even interacting. But - that might have to do with reducing volume of messages, I get that. It’s a tricky one.... " Yes, I understand what you're trying to get across. I do agree with you, I deliberately have quite a large age range to try and avoid doing that. I find age isn't a hard restriction for me. I think all filtering is to help make the site easier to navigate - tools people use that suits them best. I think also - some people don't want to interact with people. Well not in a chat way. They want to fuck and fuck they do and quickly with people who meet their needs. | |||
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"It is strange this age restriction business if you think about it, as it wouldn’t really apply in real life would it? If we all mingled in person at one big party, for example, how many of us would refuse to even engage in a chat with someone before establishing their age?? Can you imagine... “hang on, before you even introduce yourself, how old are you? Yeah sorry I can’t proceed any further...” I’m not criticising those who have restrictions on here because I do too - but I’m beginning to realise how daft it is ... " By default i would say they cannot have my penis as first thing id say | |||
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"So bloody frustrating!! I have had a couple of messages from guys who when I've looked at their profile I am way out of their age preference. They tell me it's a guide rather than a preference..... " Well all I can say is, I hope I look like you when I’m 49! | |||
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"It is strange this age restriction business if you think about it, as it wouldn’t really apply in real life would it? If we all mingled in person at one big party, for example, how many of us would refuse to even engage in a chat with someone before establishing their age?? Can you imagine... “hang on, before you even introduce yourself, how old are you? Yeah sorry I can’t proceed any further...” I’m not criticising those who have restrictions on here because I do too - but I’m beginning to realise how daft it is ... By default i would say they cannot have my penis as first thing id say " That’s a good opener | |||
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"It is strange this age restriction business if you think about it, as it wouldn’t really apply in real life would it? If we all mingled in person at one big party, for example, how many of us would refuse to even engage in a chat with someone before establishing their age?? Can you imagine... “hang on, before you even introduce yourself, how old are you? Yeah sorry I can’t proceed any further...” I’m not criticising those who have restrictions on here because I do too - but I’m beginning to realise how daft it is ... By default i would say they cannot have my penis as first thing id say That’s a good opener " some reason they get a wet patch on there pants after not sure if its cos they want what they cant have or pissing themself laughing | |||
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"It is strange this age restriction business if you think about it, as it wouldn’t really apply in real life would it? If we all mingled in person at one big party, for example, how many of us would refuse to even engage in a chat with someone before establishing their age?? Can you imagine... “hang on, before you even introduce yourself, how old are you? Yeah sorry I can’t proceed any further...” I’m not criticising those who have restrictions on here because I do too - but I’m beginning to realise how daft it is ... By default i would say they cannot have my penis as first thing id say That’s a good opener some reason they get a wet patch on there pants after not sure if its cos they want what they cant have or pissing themself laughing " I’d say it’s got to be the first one | |||
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" I agree you might not want to fuck someone of a certain age but for me personally, the fact I didn’t fancy them and didn’t want to fuck them would be established by interacting with them in the first instance, not by first finding out their age, if that makes sense. Say I got chatting to man and fancied the arse off him, I wouldn’t care if he was 40 or 50 - if I fancied him then all good. But on Fab we do it the opposite way around - screen out by age first. By party I meant a swingers party/ social event - sorry didn’t make that clear. At a social event I’d talk to anyone so long as they were polite! I wouldn’t necessarily fancy and fuck them though. So it was the interaction part I was meaning - by having age restrictions on here we rule out even interacting. But - that might have to do with reducing volume of messages, I get that. It’s a tricky one.... Yes, I understand what you're trying to get across. I do agree with you, I deliberately have quite a large age range to try and avoid doing that. I find age isn't a hard restriction for me. I think all filtering is to help make the site easier to navigate - tools people use that suits them best. I think also - some people don't want to interact with people. Well not in a chat way. They want to fuck and fuck they do and quickly with people who meet their needs. " This is true - I forget some people aren’t here to interact socially. I just like to be nice and sociable with people, even on a sex site... it’s my downfall at times!! | |||
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"It is strange this age restriction business if you think about it, as it wouldn’t really apply in real life would it? If we all mingled in person at one big party, for example, how many of us would refuse to even engage in a chat with someone before establishing their age?? Can you imagine... “hang on, before you even introduce yourself, how old are you? Yeah sorry I can’t proceed any further...” I’m not criticising those who have restrictions on here because I do too - but I’m beginning to realise how daft it is ... By default i would say they cannot have my penis as first thing id say That’s a good opener some reason they get a wet patch on there pants after not sure if its cos they want what they cant have or pissing themself laughing I’d say it’s got to be the first one " i know it my fucking minge magnet is far too strong does my nut in | |||
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"So bloody frustrating!! I have had a couple of messages from guys who when I've looked at their profile I am way out of their age preference. They tell me it's a guide rather than a preference..... Well all I can say is, I hope I look like you when I’m 49! " That's just my Fab age! I'm actually 50. Ssshhhh don't tell anyone....... Thank you. Coming from a hottie like yourself I'm flattered | |||
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" I agree you might not want to fuck someone of a certain age but for me personally, the fact I didn’t fancy them and didn’t want to fuck them would be established by interacting with them in the first instance, not by first finding out their age, if that makes sense. Say I got chatting to man and fancied the arse off him, I wouldn’t care if he was 40 or 50 - if I fancied him then all good. But on Fab we do it the opposite way around - screen out by age first. By party I meant a swingers party/ social event - sorry didn’t make that clear. At a social event I’d talk to anyone so long as they were polite! I wouldn’t necessarily fancy and fuck them though. So it was the interaction part I was meaning - by having age restrictions on here we rule out even interacting. But - that might have to do with reducing volume of messages, I get that. It’s a tricky one.... Yes, I understand what you're trying to get across. I do agree with you, I deliberately have quite a large age range to try and avoid doing that. I find age isn't a hard restriction for me. I think all filtering is to help make the site easier to navigate - tools people use that suits them best. I think also - some people don't want to interact with people. Well not in a chat way. They want to fuck and fuck they do and quickly with people who meet their needs. This is true - I forget some people aren’t here to interact socially. I just like to be nice and sociable with people, even on a sex site... it’s my downfall at times!! " Don't ever feel bad about wanting to be friendly! This world needs more friendly people, not less. You do you, and bollocks to anyone who disagrees. | |||
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"Am heading for another birthday fast and will be above even more ages limits, but doesn't both me as life is life and we all have our preferences! " You're a very good example of the flaw in the system. My upper limit is 50 (I think?) as a general cut-off. But I've seen you via a face pic Friday or something, and you are absolutely gorgeous and I most certainly would never filter you out as arbitrarily "too old". | |||
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"Am heading for another birthday fast and will be above even more ages limits, but doesn't both me as life is life and we all have our preferences! You're a very good example of the flaw in the system. My upper limit is 50 (I think?) as a general cut-off. But I've seen you via a face pic Friday or something, and you are absolutely gorgeous and I most certainly would never filter you out as arbitrarily "too old"." Thanks must admit to my age limits being guides mainly, as usually have them turned off so anyone can message | |||
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" I agree you might not want to fuck someone of a certain age but for me personally, the fact I didn’t fancy them and didn’t want to fuck them would be established by interacting with them in the first instance, not by first finding out their age, if that makes sense. Say I got chatting to man and fancied the arse off him, I wouldn’t care if he was 40 or 50 - if I fancied him then all good. But on Fab we do it the opposite way around - screen out by age first. By party I meant a swingers party/ social event - sorry didn’t make that clear. At a social event I’d talk to anyone so long as they were polite! I wouldn’t necessarily fancy and fuck them though. So it was the interaction part I was meaning - by having age restrictions on here we rule out even interacting. But - that might have to do with reducing volume of messages, I get that. It’s a tricky one.... Yes, I understand what you're trying to get across. I do agree with you, I deliberately have quite a large age range to try and avoid doing that. I find age isn't a hard restriction for me. I think all filtering is to help make the site easier to navigate - tools people use that suits them best. I think also - some people don't want to interact with people. Well not in a chat way. They want to fuck and fuck they do and quickly with people who meet their needs. This is true - I forget some people aren’t here to interact socially. I just like to be nice and sociable with people, even on a sex site... it’s my downfall at times!! Don't ever feel bad about wanting to be friendly! This world needs more friendly people, not less. You do you, and bollocks to anyone who disagrees. " . Amen to that | |||
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"So bloody frustrating!! I have had a couple of messages from guys who when I've looked at their profile I am way out of their age preference. They tell me it's a guide rather than a preference..... Well all I can say is, I hope I look like you when I’m 49! That's just my Fab age! I'm actually 50. Ssshhhh don't tell anyone....... Thank you. Coming from a hottie like yourself I'm flattered " Don’t worry I won’t tell anyone!! Regardless you look amazing. And thank you | |||
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"Yeah it happened to me as well. I'm now old and can't get the interest I used to." Did you really say your old? | |||
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