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"I think it's quite normal, I'm not sure of the exact physiological reasons behind it but I'm aware that it does happen. Erection and pleasure aren't the same thing, it may simply be because you're in a state of submission? I'm just spit balling there though. I'm really at a loss here but if you watch bi porn or pegging porn, it's quite common there too. " Good point about erections not being the same as pleasure because I sure was in a lot of pleasure. Thing is she looses confidence because she thinks she cant make me cum by being dominant and I only get hard again when I'm being dominant. Should it all be about making me cum though? I feel like I can have a lot of pleasure and enjoy it alot even if I dont cum but she cant get passed that... | |||
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"I think a bit more communication between the two of you is called for. I absolutely understand what you're saying so maybe use the same words with her " I have but she seems really hung up on me loosing my erection, so I want to know is it normal, because if it is maybe she will understand more. Also is there something I can do to change it/ not loose my erection. Appart from viagra... | |||
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"I think a bit more communication between the two of you is called for. I absolutely understand what you're saying so maybe use the same words with her I have but she seems really hung up on me loosing my erection, so I want to know is it normal, because if it is maybe she will understand more. Also is there something I can do to change it/ not loose my erection. Appart from viagra..." what Can't help you there I'm afraid. I just think (and this isn't a criticism of either of you) that if the situation was reversed and it was her who couldn't achieve something during sex people would suggest you work on it together or would accuse you of putting pressure on her. I can see how it's frustrating for you both but though and hope you find a solution. | |||
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"I think it's quite normal, I'm not sure of the exact physiological reasons behind it but I'm aware that it does happen. Erection and pleasure aren't the same thing, it may simply be because you're in a state of submission? I'm just spit balling there though. I'm really at a loss here but if you watch bi porn or pegging porn, it's quite common there too. Good point about erections not being the same as pleasure because I sure was in a lot of pleasure. Thing is she looses confidence because she thinks she cant make me cum by being dominant and I only get hard again when I'm being dominant. Should it all be about making me cum though? I feel like I can have a lot of pleasure and enjoy it alot even if I dont cum but she cant get passed that... I can't remember exactly where I read it, but if you're having your prostate stimulated it can cause you to lose your erection, because you're not directly having your cock stimulated. It's just getting pleasure in a different way! Hope ye figure it out anyway OP " I read that somewhere. Maybe it was on fab | |||
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"I think it's quite normal, I'm not sure of the exact physiological reasons behind it but I'm aware that it does happen. Erection and pleasure aren't the same thing, it may simply be because you're in a state of submission? I'm just spit balling there though. I'm really at a loss here but if you watch bi porn or pegging porn, it's quite common there too. Good point about erections not being the same as pleasure because I sure was in a lot of pleasure. Thing is she looses confidence because she thinks she cant make me cum by being dominant and I only get hard again when I'm being dominant. Should it all be about making me cum though? I feel like I can have a lot of pleasure and enjoy it alot even if I dont cum but she cant get passed that..." I've heard of it before so it's not just you. If you're enjoying it surely that's all that matters. Lots of women don't have orgasms when they meet, they still love all the feelings and enjoy it though. Being able to cum isn't necessarily the whole point of sex. | |||
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"I watch a lot of gay porn and the fella getting shagged more often than not is soft. It usually perks up if he’s on his back and his cock is getting some tlc at the same time, but not always. Just enjoy yourself and let your cock do it’s own thing. " This is what I was going to say. It's seems pretty normal. I know my cock is up and down like a frickin' yo-yo sometimes when I'm having bum fun. It hasn't bothered me or partners as far as I'm aware. | |||
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