FabSwingers.com forum: Cliques

By *hechap OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

So how many different wee cliques and groups are there on fab?

Just wondering what the requirements are for membership and is it hard to join up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I am in a clique of one. Me x

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"So how many different wee cliques and groups are there on fab?

Just wondering what the requirements are for membership and is it hard to join up?"

There prob just the one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i have friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres the popular and unpopular

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Who knows? Who cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who knows? Who cares? "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I didn't realise they was any.

If there is I wasn't invited.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't think there are cliques there are people who know each other through just chatting on forums or the chat rooms and from meets. Just because they chat on here and have the craic does not mean it's a clique.

Just join in with chats etc and people will chat back I find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite hard to join, rule is we have one clique each and only 1 member allowed. So OP, will you let you join yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliques are a natural part of life,everywhere you go in any social occasion or group of people they exist naturally. It's just as simple as a group of people who know each other!

They only people who think about or even notice them are the people who feel excluded from them.

Just remember a lot of people actually need them whereas a few actually prefer not being in them at all.

Yes is the formums there are cliques, it's natural, but instead of seeing them as that just that, see them as people who have known each other for a while, quite often talk/meet away from the forum ... it's not negative unless you choose it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how many different wee cliques and groups are there on fab?

Just wondering what the requirements are for membership and is it hard to join up?"
theirs a few but you won't get in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are cliques but they’re welcome to them , being ignored in the forum only to see exact same comment that is replied to by the clique lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same in chatrooms or with parties ... only negative if you look at it that way as opposed to it's just a group of people who already know each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same in chatrooms or with parties ... only negative if you look at it that way as opposed to it's just a group of people who already know each other! "
yes in other words a clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same in chatrooms or with parties ... only negative if you look at it that way as opposed to it's just a group of people who already know each other! "

Hence they’re welcome to them ,chat is a lot easier to interject yourself into the conversation the forums not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same in chatrooms or with parties ... only negative if you look at it that way as opposed to it's just a group of people who already know each other! yes in other words a clique

Of course but for some unknown reason people feel the proper word them is negative!! Whereas a clique actually isn't negative in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think there are cliques there are people who know each other through just chatting on forums or the chat rooms and from meets. Just because they chat on here and have the craic does not mean it's a clique.

Just join in with chats etc and people will chat back I find. "

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I wouldn't want to join any clique that would have me as a member!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same in chatrooms or with parties ... only negative if you look at it that way as opposed to it's just a group of people who already know each other! yes in other words a clique

Of course but for some unknown reason people feel the proper word them is negative!! Whereas a clique actually isn't negative in the slightest "
it can be depends what end of it you are lol

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"Cliques are a natural part of life,everywhere you go in any social occasion or group of people they exist naturally. It's just as simple as a group of people who know each other!

They only people who think about or even notice them are the people who feel excluded from them.

Just remember a lot of people actually need them whereas a few actually prefer not being in them at all.

I find strange that adults can't work it out themselves

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I think there are cliques on fab in the rooms. No different go any real life group really. Some people prefer to be inside the tent pissing out than outside the tent pissing in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the rebels. We're cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same in chatrooms or with parties ... only negative if you look at it that way as opposed to it's just a group of people who already know each other! yes in other words a clique

Of course but for some unknown reason people feel the proper word them is negative!! Whereas a clique actually isn't negative in the slightest it can be depends what end of it you are lol

Well as I said earlier ^^^ a clique is only percieved negatively by those that feel excluded, an actual clique isn't negative in anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to be fur , it’s only a clique if you want to join it lol

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

The genuine friendships on here are lovely. I like watching people have a crack with each other and the way we interact with people we know may be different. But those circles grow as more people join in and go to social events.

What’s not so nice are the influencers behind the posts that don’t say things publicly, but warn others off individuals in private. That’s not ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same in chatrooms or with parties ... only negative if you look at it that way as opposed to it's just a group of people who already know each other! yes in other words a clique

Of course but for some unknown reason people feel the proper word them is negative!! Whereas a clique actually isn't negative in the slightest it can be depends what end of it you are lol

Well as I said earlier ^^^ a clique is only percieved negatively by those that feel excluded, an actual clique isn't negative in anyway "
once again depends how the group operates and interacts with each other and how the effects of that are acted out on others, some cliques not necessarily on this site react in a very negative manner

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"There are cliques but they’re welcome to them , being ignored in the forum only to see exact same comment that is replied to by the clique lol"

That happens to me but I don’t see it as the clique. I just see it normally as men who want to have sex with someone else on the thread

I’m sure they think if they communicate with you it will mean you think they will want to shag them. For the record... it doesn’t and I don’t

I don’t really see cliques though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The genuine friendships on here are lovely. I like watching people have a crack with each other and the way we interact with people we know may be different. But those circles grow as more people join in and go to social events.

What’s not so nice are the influencers behind the posts that don’t say things publicly, but warn others off individuals in private. That’s not ok. "
yes the behind the scenes i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same in chatrooms or with parties ... only negative if you look at it that way as opposed to it's just a group of people who already know each other! yes in other words a clique

Of course but for some unknown reason people feel the proper word them is negative!! Whereas a clique actually isn't negative in the slightest it can be depends what end of it you are lol

Well as I said earlier ^^^ a clique is only percieved negatively by those that feel excluded, an actual clique isn't negative in anyway once again depends how the group operates and interacts with each other and how the effects of that are acted out on others, some cliques not necessarily on this site react in a very negative manner

But what you are describing isn't the clique that's human interaction and happens in any group of people and is a different discussion this one was about cliques on fab

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

There are cliques there always have been on here but there are on most forums. I do smile when people mention it on a forum as you can see it makes some uncomfortable when mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same in chatrooms or with parties ... only negative if you look at it that way as opposed to it's just a group of people who already know each other! yes in other words a clique

Of course but for some unknown reason people feel the proper word them is negative!! Whereas a clique actually isn't negative in the slightest it can be depends what end of it you are lol

But what you are describing isn't the clique that's human interaction and happens in any group of people and is a different discussion this one was about cliques on fab "
so is my observation and it applies as much to here as anywhere i just know of another site where it was much worse

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

What’s not so nice are the influencers behind the posts that don’t say things publicly, but warn others off individuals in private. That’s not ok. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are cliques there always have been on here but there are on most forums. I do smile when people mention it on a forum as you can see it makes some uncomfortable when mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are cliques there always have been on here but there are on most forums. I do smile when people mention it on a forum as you can see it makes some uncomfortable when mentioned.

It makes me laugh when people in obvious cliques deny there being any most profusely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are cliques but they’re welcome to them , being ignored in the forum only to see exact same comment that is replied to by the clique lol

That happens to me but I don’t see it as the clique. I just see it normally as men who want to have sex with someone else on the thread

I’m sure they think if they communicate with you it will mean you think they will want to shag them. For the record... it doesn’t and I don’t

I don’t really see cliques though. "

But you do see it time and time again with the same people . Could be they’re more vocal on the forums and now just feel comfortable replying between; themselves given the choice . A clique to the exclusion of others lol

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow

There are loads of cliques on Fab and in clubs but those in them get offended if you dare to suggest they cliquey.

The Scotland forum is very cliquey and woe betide you if you suggest cjs is less than excellent(its shite in my opinion)

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By *hechap OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"There are cliques there always have been on here but there are on most forums. I do smile when people mention it on a forum as you can see it makes some uncomfortable when mentioned.

Its just an observation. I couldnt care less. I think i might be getting too long in the tooth to be taking stuff on here personally.

Although thinking about it i might just start my own clique but none of you lot are invited.

Anyway if you are in a clique can you join another clique?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"There are loads of cliques on Fab and in clubs but those in them get offended if you dare to suggest they cliquey.

The Scotland forum is very cliquey and woe betide you if you suggest cjs is less than excellent(its shite in my opinion)

I don't know about cliquey, but I don't really use the Scottish forum because it's primarily CJs chat, which I have no interest in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are cliques there always have been on here but there are on most forums. I do smile when people mention it on a forum as you can see it makes some uncomfortable when mentioned.

It makes me laugh when people in obvious cliques deny there being any most profusely "
this

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think that there are lots of friendship groups on the forum; requirements for entry vary from just being a nice person to shared interests and humour. People naturally gravitate towards communicating with those that are like them.

As far as the unpleasant side goes? Yes, people can be more welcoming and inclusive. It's something I'm aware of and I try and interact with different folk in a similar way to varying levels of success. Being ignored happens to us all though. The gossip side of things *can* be unpleasant and disappointing but focusing on you and being the best you can be means that'll you make friends and enjoy your time on here.

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By *hechap OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"There are loads of cliques on Fab and in clubs but those in them get offended if you dare to suggest they cliquey.

The Scotland forum is very cliquey and woe betide you if you suggest cjs is less than excellent(its shite in my opinion)

I don't know about cliquey, but I don't really use the Scottish forum because it's primarily CJs chat, which I have no interest in. "

Whats a cj

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

You can’t win on this thread. If you deny there’s a clique you’re in it. If you say they’re just friends you’re in it, if you’re overlooked it’s the clique doing it. People are stating that people are uncomfortable so must be in the clique. How on earth that be so?

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Precisely 10. I counted them to make sure I was accurate.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"You can’t win on this thread. If you deny there’s a clique you’re in it. If you say they’re just friends you’re in it, if you’re overlooked it’s the clique doing it. People are stating that people are uncomfortable so must be in the clique. How on earth that be so?

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Ahh but they are not a clique they are a group of in line friends that talk about people behind their backs, alienate and target people they dislike and have lovin's on introverted threads excluding others.

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Precisely 10. I counted them to make sure I was accurate.

But you didn’t count the cliquiest of cliques. They’re the elite you know

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"There are loads of cliques on Fab and in clubs but those in them get offended if you dare to suggest they cliquey.

The Scotland forum is very cliquey and woe betide you if you suggest cjs is less than excellent(its shite in my opinion)

I don't know about cliquey, but I don't really use the Scottish forum because it's primarily CJs chat, which I have no interest in.

Whats a cj"

Scottish club

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

I agree Babs.. surely it’s only a negative if others are excluded deliberately from joining in.. that’s not the case with the majority of people on here. It’s a circle of friends that gets bigger each day!

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By *hechap OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"There are loads of cliques on Fab and in clubs but those in them get offended if you dare to suggest they cliquey.

The Scotland forum is very cliquey and woe betide you if you suggest cjs is less than excellent(its shite in my opinion)

I don't know about cliquey, but I don't really use the Scottish forum because it's primarily CJs chat, which I have no interest in.

Whats a cj

Scottish club"

So what does cj stand for?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

What’s not so nice are the influencers behind the posts that don’t say things publicly, but warn others off individuals in private. That’s not ok. "

This.

A clique is a group of people that ostensibly exclude others to their own advantage. To this point, there are groups like that but not nearly as prevalent as many would believe.

Just as with any walk of life, there are people who are warm and welcoming, there are lots of them around on the forums.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"There are loads of cliques on Fab and in clubs but those in them get offended if you dare to suggest they cliquey.

The Scotland forum is very cliquey and woe betide you if you suggest cjs is less than excellent(its shite in my opinion)

I don't know about cliquey, but I don't really use the Scottish forum because it's primarily CJs chat, which I have no interest in.

Whats a cj

Scottish club

So what does cj stand for?"

No idea, I don't go there.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

And how does anyone know that is what is happening behind people’s backs? Don’t all friends talk? What is so with with befriending people on here? I do think that people get targeted at times and it’s very wrong. Still not a clique though. A love in on threads? They all want the popular kids - still not a clique though.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion. "

You are entitled to think that if you like people like to fool themselves when the reality makes them feel uncomfortable as you obviously do. If you didn't feel uncomfortable you would just have ignored.

As for how people know well don't be so naive some take delight in telling people who they hater and word gets out.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think it's natural to reply to your friend's comments. I think some people forget that people on here often know each other in real life. I have a friend of over three years on here who occassionally uses the forums and we usually interact with each other when she does yet she doesn't know most other people I speak to on here. Other people have very long and close online friendships. It doesn't mean they don't interact with new people though. I'm constantly having new, interesting exchanges with new people.

I recently saw a comment on one of the "name who" game threads that you have to be in "The clique" to get named. I was named by a couple. I found that a little amusing as I still mostly feel like an outsider. I also find the idea of their being a singular clique funny as I know at least for myself that I don't know the majority of my friend's other forum friends. I'm also friends with people who don't like each other and I'm pretty sure friend's of some of my friends on here do not like me. As is the way of life. Unless that just means I'm not in " The Clique" tm

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

On the subject of being or feeling ignored though; everyone feels overlooked at times to the detriment of others. It's the nature of forums and interaction.

If I post 20 or 30 comments in a day, only a couple of those might be commented on and many get overlooked for others that say much the same.

There really isn't a nefarious reason behind it. I realise that most comments get read and just because it's not replied to, it doesn't mean it wasn't valid. Just keep posting and being you, the more you're recognised the more people 'get' you and are more likely to react. That's not cliquey, that's just human interaction.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion. "

I think it can appear cliquey, when you get threads that seem to attract the White Knights & Lampost Pissers with their faux outrage , and / or need to rescue the damsel in distrress, in the vain hope they might get some sort of 'reward'

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

As for how people know well don't be so naive some take delight in telling people who they hater and word gets out."

You have misread me. I am not the slightest bit uncomfortable so please don’t suggest I am.

I simply disagree with your view point only I’m not making it personal to you in doing so.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

As for how people know well don't be so naive some take delight in telling people who they hater and word gets out."

There will always be nasty people amongst any group. Just don’t give them the time of day.

I’ve loads of friends on here and we don’t waste our time talking about fab. Maybe you need to look at who you interact with...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"There are loads of cliques on Fab and in clubs but those in them get offended if you dare to suggest they cliquey.

The Scotland forum is very cliquey and woe betide you if you suggest cjs is less than excellent(its shite in my opinion)

I don't know about cliquey, but I don't really use the Scottish forum because it's primarily CJs chat, which I have no interest in.

Whats a cj"

Its like a blowjob but with your cunt.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

As for how people know well don't be so naive some take delight in telling people who they hater and word gets out.

You have misread me. I am not the slightest bit uncomfortable so please don’t suggest I am.

I simply disagree with your view point only I’m not making it personal to you in doing so. "

No I haven't misread you at all if you are in denial that's your issue. If the whole thing didn't make you feel uncomfortable you would have ignored the thread and comments. Deny all you like teats the truth though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres the popular and unpopular"
I'm certainly in the very unpopular group

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Why are people so bothered who is commenting or talking to.

Just be yourself, comment where you wish, not necessarily looking for a response but because you have an opinion, use fab how you want to use it

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

As for how people know well don't be so naive some take delight in telling people who they hater and word gets out.

You have misread me. I am not the slightest bit uncomfortable so please don’t suggest I am.

I simply disagree with your view point only I’m not making it personal to you in doing so.

The thread is here for comment. Are you saying that only those that agree can comment? Surely that makes you all a clique?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"...and I'm pretty sure friend's of some of my friends on here do not like me. As is the way of life. Unless that just means I'm not in " The Clique" tm

I get that impression also, I'm not in The Clique™ yaaay.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

And you think us poor, small brained, delicate women are totally oblivious and fall for it hook line and sinker?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m sique of the clique.

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over a year ago

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"...and I'm pretty sure friend's of some of my friends on here do not like me. As is the way of life. Unless that just means I'm not in " The Clique" tm

I get that impression also, I'm not in The Clique™ yaaay.

Showing off with your proper trademarking and shit!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I’m sique of the clique.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Cliques are a natural part of life,everywhere you go in any social occasion or group of people they exist naturally. It's just as simple as a group of people who know each other!

They only people who think about or even notice them are the people who feel excluded from them.

Just remember a lot of people actually need them whereas a few actually prefer not being in them at all.

I agree with everything you said with the exception of them actually being cliques. A clique intentionally excludes people as a group. That is the sole difference between a clique and just a tight knit group of friends who are familiar and comfortable with each other.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

And you think us poor, small brained, delicate women are totally oblivious and fall for it hook line and sinker?"

Oh most certainly

Where did I mention or infer any of that, the comment, if anything, was about the small-brained men that think such behaviour will work!

Forgive me, while I just finish my piss on this lampost and unite my white charger; ride of into sunset (damseless)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fucking the clique and ppl outside the clique.

I bareback anuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in The Clique™. What are you gonna do about it?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I agree with everything you said with the exception of them actually being cliques. A clique intentionally excludes people as a group. That is the sole difference between a clique and just a tight knit group of friends who are familiar and comfortable with each other. "

I see it as friends answering one another. Everyone at some point gets overlooked/ignored, especially if it's a fast moving thread x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sique of the clique.

You are the clique

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I’m sique of the clique.

You are the clique "

True story.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It could be cliquey but I really dont care enough to let it bother me.. I talk to anyone I enjoy talking with. End of

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

There's an undeniable element of exclusivity in the forums. If you join in certain types of thread you will eventually become included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's an undeniable element of exclusivity in the forums. If you join in certain types of thread you will eventually become included. "

Fuck and kiss

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

And you think us poor, small brained, delicate women are totally oblivious and fall for it hook line and sinker?

Oh most certainly

Where did I mention or infer any of that, the comment, if anything, was about the small-brained men that think such behaviour will work!

Forgive me, while I just finish my piss on this lampost and unite my white charger; ride of into sunset (damseless) "

If women are smart enough to see through it themselves then why is it even worth being concerned over?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"There's an undeniable element of exclusivity in the forums. If you join in certain types of thread you will eventually become included.

Fuck and kiss "

Those and others.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"There's an undeniable element of exclusivity in the forums. If you join in certain types of thread you will eventually become included.

Fuck and kiss "

Sit in his face

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"There's an undeniable element of exclusivity in the forums. If you join in certain types of thread you will eventually become included.

Fuck and kiss "

Oh god no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a stuff about a clique but I did notice that it does take a while for people to talk to you when you first enter the Forums. There is definitely a Wolf Pack... is that the same as a Clique?

I'm a loner anyway so just go about my own business and try to have fun. I've never felt the need to be a sheep. If you like me and want to chat, great, if you don't, no sweat.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

And you think us poor, small brained, delicate women are totally oblivious and fall for it hook line and sinker?

Oh most certainly

Where did I mention or infer any of that, the comment, if anything, was about the small-brained men that think such behaviour will work!

Forgive me, while I just finish my piss on this lampost and unite my white charger; ride of into sunset (damseless)

If women are smart enough to see through it themselves then why is it even worth being concerned over?"

. This is my DGAF about it either way, face

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I see it as friends answering one another. Everyone at some point gets overlooked/ignored, especially if it's a fast moving thread x"

I said exactly the same thing ^^

It proves exactly what I was saying that it was overlooked!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I see it as friends answering one another. Everyone at some point gets overlooked/ignored, especially if it's a fast moving thread x

I said exactly the same thing ^^

It proves exactly what I was saying that it was overlooked!

Not intentionally x

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By *hechap OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

So are most of the replies from clique members or non clique members?

I would love to join a clique and then start my own clique inside it but keep my clique secret from the other clique.

It would be like a firm inside another firm only better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't know where I stand but if I am in, I'd like to be out as I don't want to be part of something that do BB sex on Sunday.

If I am out, I'll stay out cause I don't like ppl who don't live their lives but love giving life lessons.

Btw don't eat an apple at 3am dude

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Good lord just get on with your own thing. It really isn’t difficult to make friends around the forum unless you’re a complete bellwhacker. Generally bellwhackers don’t fair well but that’s bugger all to do with their being a ‘clique’. I joined Fab nearly 3 years ago, didn’t know anyone, no pics on my profile and hardly had anything on it. I found the forum and just kept posting where I wanted to. Yes there were friendships but that’s normal when ppl use the forum frequently, maybe meet or go to socials. There were the trolls but again no different than in the real world. I was told I’d never get a meet or be accepted without pics. It was utter rubbish, I just got on and did my own thing. I’m not around so frequently these days and the forumites come and go but as I did before I just post. The vast majority of folk are lovely just ignore the bellwhackers

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

And you think us poor, small brained, delicate women are totally oblivious and fall for it hook line and sinker?

Oh most certainly

Where did I mention or infer any of that, the comment, if anything, was about the small-brained men that think such behaviour will work!

Forgive me, while I just finish my piss on this lampost and unite my white charger; ride of into sunset (damseless)

If women are smart enough to see through it themselves then why is it even worth being concerned over?

. This is my DGAF about it either way, face "

You brought it up *scratches head*

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Good lord just get on with your own thing. It really isn’t difficult to make friends around the forum unless you’re a complete bellwhacker. Generally bellwhackers don’t fair well but that’s bugger all to do with their being a ‘clique’. I joined Fab nearly 3 years ago, didn’t know anyone, no pics on my profile and hardly had anything on it. I found the forum and just kept posting where I wanted to. Yes there were friendships but that’s normal when ppl use the forum frequently, maybe meet or go to socials. There were the trolls but again no different than in the real world. I was told I’d never get a meet or be accepted without pics. It was utter rubbish, I just got on and did my own thing. I’m not around so frequently these days and the forumites come and go but as I did before I just post. The vast majority of folk are lovely just ignore the bellwhackers

What about bellend whackers? Asking for a friend

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By *hechap OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Is a bellwhacker someone who whacks bells?

Sort of like someone who toots their horn all the time.

Peep peep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how many different wee cliques and groups are there on fab?

Just wondering what the requirements are for membership and is it hard to join up?"

There are some in the chat rooms some on the forums and some just in general on here its a British thing to do form a clique and then exclude others from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been here three years and people have come and gone. If the clique was here then and is still here now how can that be? A lot of overthinking going on

Oh and while we are denying reality Corbin isn't anti-Semitic too.

The term is used like a weapon of negativity that’s why people rebel against it.

It’s all nonsense that gets dredged up from time to time in my opinion.

As for how people know well don't be so naive some take delight in telling people who they hater and word gets out.

You have misread me. I am not the slightest bit uncomfortable so please don’t suggest I am.

I simply disagree with your view point only I’m not making it personal to you in doing so.

You seem annoyed and uncomfortable. You must be in the clique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how many different wee cliques and groups are there on fab?

Just wondering what the requirements are for membership and is it hard to join up?"

Provided I don't say something stupid (and being on the spectrum that does happen) I find that most of the regulars in here are pretty welcoming. Thete are in jokes I don't get and plain ornery jokes I don't get, too, but that's because people get to know each other. I don't find it cliquey. Is that a word?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"So how many different wee cliques and groups are there on fab?

Just wondering what the requirements are for membership and is it hard to join up?

I don't get the jokes either but that's more because I have an IQ of 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually don't know where I stand but if I am in, I'd like to be out as I don't want to be part of something that do BB sex on Sunday.

If I am out, I'll stay out cause I don't like ppl who don't live their lives but love giving life lessons.

Btw don't eat an apple at 3am dude "
oh youre definitely in

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Don't forget the troop of monkeys

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Don't forget the troop of monkeys

The monkey clique. That's definitely a thing.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Don't forget the troop of monkeys

You can't bloody forget 'em, they are everywhere and spreading.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Don't forget the troop of monkeys

The monkey clique. That's definitely a thing."

Ssshhh ... don't tell anyone

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

On cliques there's the Fabswingers People's Front, the People's Front of Fabswingers and those splitters, the Fabswingers Popular People's Front.

Usually based around a central insecure, attention needy, self interest controllers/influencers. Propped up by fooled adorators, lackeys & stooges who's minds are not totally their own.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"On cliques there's the Fabswingers People's Front, the People's Front of Fabswingers and those splitters, the Fabswingers Popular People's Front.

Usually based around a central insecure, attention needy, self interest controllers/influencers. Propped up by fooled adorators, lackeys & stooges who's minds are not totally their own.

Don't forget the monkey requirement of a prehensile tail

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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a bellwhacker is a campanologist are we insulting bell ringers for a reason?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Don't forget the troop of monkeys

You can't bloody forget 'em, they are everywhere and spreading. "

Are they breeding with each other?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Don't forget the troop of monkeys

You can't bloody forget 'em, they are everywhere and spreading.

Are they breeding with each other?"

It's a vicious rumour perpetuated by the non monkeys

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On cliques there's the Fabswingers People's Front, the People's Front of Fabswingers and those splitters, the Fabswingers Popular People's Front.

Usually based around a central insecure, attention needy, self interest controllers/influencers. Propped up by fooled adorators, lackeys & stooges who's minds are not totally their own.

Can I be a Lackey? Rhymes with my name see. Please and thank you.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Don't forget the troop of monkeys

You can't bloody forget 'em, they are everywhere and spreading.

Are they breeding with each other?

It's a vicious rumour perpetuated by the non monkeys

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes there are cliques, actually easiest way of spotting is they back each other’s points up no matter how ridiculous they are, only to go against what they said on another thread.

Another way is start a thread e.g. Biggest boobs thread/nicest ass thread etc.. just so they can nominate each other and even some to self nominate themselves.. bit cringey but fun.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yes there are cliques, actually easiest way of spotting is they back each other’s points up no matter how ridiculous they are, only to go against what they said on another thread.

Another way is start a thread e.g. Biggest boobs thread/nicest ass thread etc.. just so they can nominate each other and even some to self nominate themselves.. bit cringey but fun. "

Absolutely right! Back you 1000% oh best arse of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes there are cliques, actually easiest way of spotting is they back each other’s points up no matter how ridiculous they are, only to go against what they said on another thread.

Another way is start a thread e.g. Biggest boobs thread/nicest ass thread etc.. just so they can nominate each other and even some to self nominate themselves.. bit cringey but fun. "

Ooooooooooooooooooo cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes there are cliques, actually easiest way of spotting is they back each other’s points up no matter how ridiculous they are, only to go against what they said on another thread.

Another way is start a thread e.g. Biggest boobs thread/nicest ass thread etc.. just so they can nominate each other and even some to self nominate themselves.. bit cringey but fun.

Absolutely right! Back you 1000% oh best arse of fab."
you'd certainly win a few bests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve posted occasionally in the forum since I started popping in over the last month. I haven’t done it a lot but I don’t offended if a post is ignored! It’s clear there are tight night groups of friends and people who know each other well but unless anyone is clearly horrible to others (and I haven’t seen that at all) I think those friendships are a nice thing when they’ve grown organically over time. Why would anyone criticise the development of friendship?

I figure the way I want to work it is to drop in, say something if I want and if anybody wants to chat back great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are cliques on the forums but I am indifferent to them and certainly will not be kissing anyone’s backside to keep people happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are cliques on the forums but I am indifferent to them and certainly will not be kissing anyone’s backside to keep people happy

Not ever a sly bit of rimming?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"There are cliques on the forums but I am indifferent to them and certainly will not be kissing anyone’s backside to keep people happy

Monkey shows his shiny red bottom...

Pucker up

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I’ve posted occasionally in the forum since I started popping in over the last month. I haven’t done it a lot but I don’t offended if a post is ignored! It’s clear there are tight night groups of friends and people who know each other well but unless anyone is clearly horrible to others (and I haven’t seen that at all) I think those friendships are a nice thing when they’ve grown organically over time. Why would anyone criticise the development of friendship?

I figure the way I want to work it is to drop in, say something if I want and if anybody wants to chat back great. "

Best way to be! We were all new once.. I’m sure people forget that sometimes. I’ve made great friends through chatting and socialising. That’s definitely not a negative thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the Mongolian Peoples Front.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I always see a few in the club environment. Me and my partner hang out with anyone so a first all these cliques seemed at little old and we were a little critical. But as we've spent more time in the club scene it makes a lot more sense. Because it's hard to find people you really pay well with. So when you make good friends with mutual attraction and play really well together, this is golden. And of course the more you invest in playing together and getting more experienced with each other, the more valuable that becomes. So I understand now why so see tight cliques of groups of freinds in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are cliques on the forums but I am indifferent to them and certainly will not be kissing anyone’s backside to keep people happy

Monkey shows his shiny red bottom...

Pucker up

My imagination is running wild as to why it is so red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely a clique. Or at least newbies tend to be put down on more than people who have been here a whole

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I'm in the Mongolian Peoples Front."

Splitter!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are cliques on the forums but I am indifferent to them and certainly will not be kissing anyone’s backside to keep people happy

Not ever a sly bit of rimming? "

Maybe a finger or five if that counts

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"There are cliques on the forums but I am indifferent to them and certainly will not be kissing anyone’s backside to keep people happy

Monkey shows his shiny red bottom...

Pucker up

My imagination is running wild as to why it is so red

I blame Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are cliques on the forums but I am indifferent to them and certainly will not be kissing anyone’s backside to keep people happy

Monkey shows his shiny red bottom...

Pucker up

My imagination is running wild as to why it is so red

I blame Red

I know what the colour red is code for

* cough*

Fisting

* cough *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in the Mongolian Peoples Front.

Splitter!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I figure the way I want to work it is to drop in, say something if I want and if anybody wants to chat back great.

Best way to be! We were all new once.. I’m sure people forget that sometimes. I’ve made great friends through chatting and socialising. That’s definitely not a negative thing x"

Thanks. I think it seems a nice thing actually

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Like often in real like the cliques are full of men who are in the females friend zone but will do anything for a shag and females who like their male lieutenants ...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Like often in real like the cliques are full of men who are in the females friend zone but will do anything for a shag and females who like their male lieutenants ..."

I'm recruiting to my fan club if you want in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like often in real like the cliques are full of men who are in the females friend zone but will do anything for a shag and females who like their male lieutenants ...

I'm recruiting to my fan club if you want in?"

I never knew! Count me in!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Like often in real like the cliques are full of men who are in the females friend zone but will do anything for a shag and females who like their male lieutenants ...

I'm recruiting to my fan club if you want in?

I never knew! Count me in!"

Your membership card will be in the post. Thank you for pledging your allegiance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my sub personalities are a clique so the rest of you can all do one

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Just join in with chats etc and people will chat back I find. "

This ^ couldn’t have put it better myself

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Yes there are cliques, actually easiest way of spotting is they back each other’s points up no matter how ridiculous they are, only to go against what they said on another thread.

Another way is start a thread e.g. Biggest boobs thread/nicest ass thread etc.. just so they can nominate each other and even some to self nominate themselves.. bit cringey but fun. "

I don’t see you in the forum threads very often, if at all so how you can be the judge and jury I’ll never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s not so nice are the influencers behind the posts that don’t say things publicly, but warn others off individuals in private. That’s not ok. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like often in real like the cliques are full of men who are in the females friend zone but will do anything for a shag and females who like their male lieutenants ...

I'm recruiting to my fan club if you want in?

I never knew! Count me in!

Your membership card will be in the post. Thank you for pledging your allegiance."

Can I join?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself OP and you'll probably soon find you'll start your own clique. Plenty of ppl watch the forums rather than actively commenting or participating in cliques and conforming to the requirements of the public social groups. You'll most likely find you develop fan mail from some of the lurkers just by being unique

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"0"

Well actually I happen to be in one. Current membership in the clique I'm in is 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well actually I happen to be in one. Current membership in the clique I'm in is 1."

If you say it's a clique then its not, it's like when ppl say they're cool or crazy.....

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I haven't read the thread but I'd say be yourself. You can't please all the people all the time.

In time you will be known for who you are and organically get responses from people who get you.

There are those who have posted for a while so it's natural for them to get responses from those that have got a feel for them.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Go on, name them, you know you want to

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Go on, name them, you know you want to

Nope, I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

The only clique I am in is the BWC clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

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By *inn_the_humanMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm absolutely in the clique.

They just don't know it yet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, can't believe it! I once got blocked for merely suggestion the C!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

If you don't know them then you shouldn't know them. It's not for someone to tell you because then they'd be CREATING a clique. I think you misunderstand the term my friend. Mostly I find it's the ppl who dont like change or challenge and herd together for comfort....

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

Leave them too it. Those that chelp about cliques on fab are usually pissed off because they’re on the periphery and feel excluded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, can't believe it! I once got blocked for merely suggestion the C!

Blocked now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

Leave them too it. Those that chelp about cliques on fab are usually pissed off because they’re on the periphery and feel excluded. "

See above for my thoughts my lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

I understand the term but I’m wondering which group of people you feel excludes others deliberately for their own advantage. I think it’s unfair to bandy round the term accusing people of being in it without supplying any evidence or directing your accusations towards them. It strikes me as rather cowardly behaviour. I might be wrong but it is how I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, can't believe it! I once got blocked for merely suggestion the C!

Doc, that has a certain ironic humour to it but the challenge is there, back up your accusations with evidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh what have missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

Kind of wrong to pit individuals against said clique too, and that behaviour would only serve the said clique, js. Maybe just quit hounding the individuals and let ppl have an opinion pal, even if you think its tin foil hat time, you seem really offend by some innocent and well thought out comments, its what the forum is for, anybody's words count

Bumhole is my word for today...

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Does it really matter, we all use this site as we wish imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

Bumhole is my word for today...

I am not offended at all I’m simply suggesting people back up their accusations. I have my view, you have yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

If you opened your eyes you would see it on many threads but then you don't want to see it which is rather cowardly in itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it really matter, we all use this site as we wish imo"

I'm with you on that

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Oh what have missed

Some people think there's a clique, some people don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

Bumhole is my word for today...

I am not offended at all I’m simply suggesting people back up their accusations. I have my view, you have yours."

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think a few people say things to wind others up intentionally, it's best to avoid those at all costs.

Just saying.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

If you opened your eyes you would see it on many threads but then you don't want to see it which is rather cowardly in itself. "

Thank you I’ll reflect on my cowardice and work on opening my eyes.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I think a few people say things to wind others up intentionally, it's best to avoid those at all costs.

Just saying.

Jo.Xx "

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Oh what have missed

Some of the ones in the clique started to realise that they are in the clique..

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I think a few people say things to wind others up intentionally, it's best to avoid those at all costs.

Just saying.

Jo.Xx "

People purposely wind others up - surely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

If you opened your eyes you would see it on many threads but then you don't want to see it which is rather cowardly in itself.

Thank you I’ll reflect on my cowardice and work on opening my eyes. "

You won't you are far more intent in fawning to people in the slim hope of sexual favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

If you opened your eyes you would see it on many threads but then you don't want to see it which is rather cowardly in itself.

Thank you I’ll reflect on my cowardice and work on opening my eyes.

You won't you are far more intent in fawning to people in the slim hope of sexual favours.

Am I? Thank you for letting me know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

If you opened your eyes you would see it on many threads but then you don't want to see it which is rather cowardly in itself.

Thank you I’ll reflect on my cowardice and work on opening my eyes.

You won't you are far more intent in fawning to people in the slim hope of sexual favours.

Am I? Thank you for letting me know."

Try reading this is one of the milder ones the mods remove most of the really nasty threads.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/942674

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s funny that most the ones that deny there been any are the ones that’s in it..

Tru dat, I don't think they know about it, it just is.....

Come on then Nippy name them or are you joining Dirkydirky in the ‘piss on the group’ clique?

If you opened your eyes you would see it on many threads but then you don't want to see it which is rather cowardly in itself.

Thank you I’ll reflect on my cowardice and work on opening my eyes.

You won't you are far more intent in fawning to people in the slim hope of sexual favours.

Clique innit

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In the three years I have been using the site there have always been accusations and counter claims of there being cliques - and in all that time I have yet to see evidence of one, or feel that I am part of one - people come and go, people get to know one another and yes people sometimes feel excluded (often wrongly mistaking being overlooked for being deliberately excluded).

Taking the dictionary definition "A small close-knit group of people who do not readily allow others to join them." I don't think that applies - how can it on an open forum where people can post what the heck they like? And often do just to stir things up, or act in a self-righteous supercillious way - just because someone doesn't get responded to isn't evidence of a clique - it happens all the time to all members, because a thread is fast moving, because nothing more needs to be said in response to their post, because their point has already been made, or is made later in the thread more eloquently - none of those instances mean there's a clique.

Yes, some people may get ignored because they generally behave like arses, or have acted poorly in the past, again doesn't mean there is a clique just means they are an arse.

As has been said several times throughout this thread - there ARE groups of people who have got to know one another over time and therefore bounce off one another well and generally get along but that in itself doesn't mean there's a clique either.

This isn't the first thread about cliques and it won't be the last either, but the sooner people realised that there aren't any the better in my opinion.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Like often in real like the cliques are full of men who are in the females friend zone but will do anything for a shag and females who like their male lieutenants ...

I'm recruiting to my fan club if you want in?

I never knew! Count me in!

Your membership card will be in the post. Thank you for pledging your allegiance.

Can I join?

Of course! I need as many fans as possible. You need to at least pretend to be as desperate to shag me as the guys though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will of course always get those who are uncomfortable at the suggestion there are cliques but those who use the forums see it on a regular basis. They will try their best to shout they don't exist but people will always deny the truth as it makes them feel uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call it what you want clique or not I see it more as a collection of bullies who pick on new posters at times or younger posters when they perceive them to be vulnerable and less likely to bite back. They take delight in putting down these new or less confident posters down and belittling them for what reason I haven't a clue but its rather pathetic for those watching on to see.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"You will of course always get those who are uncomfortable at the suggestion there are cliques but those who use the forums see it on a regular basis. They will try their best to shout they don't exist but people will always deny the truth as it makes them feel uncomfortable."

Not in the slightest bit uncomfortable at the suggestion just as I am not uncomfortable in my belief that there are none - you are of course entitled to your opinion, but I personally am of the opinion that it is flawed.

Yes people get jumped on, often rightly, sometimes wrongly, and yes sometimes it is down to poor behaviour both on the part of the person being jumped on, and those doing the jumping, but when it's the latter it still doesn't signify a clique though - in fact given the very definition of a clique which suggests someone being excluded, by responding to someone (even in a bad way) it's quite the opposite of exclusion.

As I said above the "clique" argument has raged since I joined the site and will continue to do so - with denials and accusations flying in all directions, it'll never be proven either way so becomes a moot point really.

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