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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers "

No worries.

We'll celebrate with a drink sometime

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's a dearth of really enjoyable soft drinks isn't there. We'll done for not caving and to your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That friend isn’t a friend with a comment like that, totally insensitive.

Fair play to you though, OP. You’re doing brilliantly, day by day.

Here’s to another 28

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done. Keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good going being alcohol free in this society is not an easy thing to do but the benefits out way the pressure society puts on people to drink.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one

and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers "

Was it a kopperburg summer fruits non alcoholic? I had a couple the other day they're gorgeous.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Keep going OP. we believe in you. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it going OP, you are doing really well. Why not stretch this till Xmas, celebrate on Xmas day with a single drink and then carry on. Bet you feel so much better for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent well done!

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By *ason.Man
over a year ago

west yorkshire

Well done hope you are proud of yourself

Get ready for the killer hangover the first time you do have a drink after taking a break from

Alcohol.

X

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one

and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers

Was it a kopperburg summer fruits non alcoholic? I had a couple the other day they're gorgeous. "

One of my favourite non alcoholic drinks

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers

No worries.

We'll celebrate with a drink sometime "

Can't wait. Need a good catch up

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"There's a dearth of really enjoyable soft drinks isn't there. We'll done for not caving and to your friend"

Took a lot but the drink I found tasted like cider. Very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers "
some just need a drinking partner bet you feel the best you have for a long time

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Well done you for holding out!

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

Well done! Those are the times when you can fall!

I don't think much of your friend though. You need support, not temptation..

Good on you!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers "

Kudos lady! It is tough but you’re doing well

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"That friend isn’t a friend with a comment like that, totally insensitive.

Fair play to you though, OP. You’re doing brilliantly, day by day.

Here’s to another 28"

Thank you for you support. Means alot

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Well done. Keep going "

Thanks Doc. I aim to finish. I like sober me

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

But you carried on and ignored that person anyway Scarlet, so well done to you. You’re doing really well

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Well done for keeping going x

One of my colleagues doesn't drink... A barmaid who doesn't drink, weird lol!

She bought a bottle of Nonsecco to work last night, it was actually really nice.

I wouldn't have known it was alcohol free from the taste

But WTF, Is it twice the price of the real stuff?

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"There's a dearth of really enjoyable soft drinks isn't there. We'll done for not caving and to your friend

Took a lot but the drink I found tasted like cider. Very nice "

The alcohol free ciders are fantastic.. Makes you feel as though your having a drink. Its what i drank when i did sober october last year.

That one single vodka i had at 12.01 on the 1st November was the best drink ever though

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Good going being alcohol free in this society is not an easy thing to do but the benefits out way the pressure society puts on people to drink.

"

Thank you I was feeling the pressure last night. I'm stubborn so will always do the opposite

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one

and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers

Was it a kopperburg summer fruits non alcoholic? I had a couple the other day they're gorgeous. "

No ryckrodil if that's how it's spelt

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Keep going OP. we believe in you. Xxx"

Lovely thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You're doing brilliantly OP and I have every faith you will continue to do so, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well don’t you!!

I never drink so you can come out with me lol....

However my addiction is buying shoes and clothes...

Who can help me with this please?? Lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As a teenager, I used to drink too much. I stopped drinking completely for 8 years, until I decided I was more sensible. Now I drink only drink in moderation,and only when I'm out.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Friends' love to sabotage. Diets, drinking.

Congrats OP, you haven't failed. You found a new drink.

(This sounds sarcy, sorry. I actually do mean congrats. X)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers "

You f*cking fabulous woman, I'm so proud of you.

How do you feel health wise?

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well don’t you!!

I never drink so you can come out with me lol....

However my addiction is buying shoes and clothes...

Who can help me with this please?? Lol "

I'll help! I'm incredibly annoying when shopping. You will go home empty handed and never wanting to shop again.

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Keep it going OP, you are doing really well. Why not stretch this till Xmas, celebrate on Xmas day with a single drink and then carry on. Bet you feel so much better for it x"

I honestly feel brilliant and will never drink the way I did. I may carry it on but not tell those around me. They think I'm boring now

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Excellent well done!"

Thank you

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Well done hope you are proud of yourself

Get ready for the killer hangover the first time you do have a drink after taking a break from

Alcohol.

X"

I'm so proud. There won't be a hangover . I know my limits now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive well done beautiful xx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Your doing marvellously Scarlett, keep it going xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it going OP, you are doing really well. Why not stretch this till Xmas, celebrate on Xmas day with a single drink and then carry on. Bet you feel so much better for it x

I honestly feel brilliant and will never drink the way I did. I may carry it on but not tell those around me. They think I'm boring now "
why are you boring because you don't drink my personality is the same either way but i choose not to drink to excess for my health in the same way as you would wear a condom to look after your body and mind

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers some just need a drinking partner bet you feel the best you have for a long time "

I do. Happier than I've been in a long time. Got my zing back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers some just need a drinking partner bet you feel the best you have for a long time

I do. Happier than I've been in a long time. Got my zing back "
see go you

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Well done you for holding out! "

In stubborn

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Keep at it, you can do it. Lots of positivity sent your way from me. Mwaaah x

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By *inn_the_humanMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Well done you. I think it's a British thing that "I'm not drinking" is seen as a a challenge rather than a statement

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers

Kudos lady! It is tough but you’re doing well "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it going OP, you are doing really well. Why not stretch this till Xmas, celebrate on Xmas day with a single drink and then carry on. Bet you feel so much better for it x

I honestly feel brilliant and will never drink the way I did. I may carry it on but not tell those around me. They think I'm boring now "

Far from it, at least now you can remember and enjoy evenings, and even more so, the next day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done to you my lovely

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

Thank you everyone. Feeling the love and support xx

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"27 days sober. Was a hard one last night. Went out for a drink with best friend. Sick of soft drinks so friend said you've nearly finished the month what do you have to prove have a drink. I found a non alcoholic drink it was a cider one and tasted lush. This is my new drink now. I think some people don't like you to succeed. I've had more encouragement on here than real life. Thank you fellow fabbers

You f*cking fabulous woman, I'm so proud of you.

How do you feel health wise?

Jo.Xx "

I'm feeling brilliant to be honest. Happier more alive. Feel in control too

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Well done for not caving in. May I ask.....have you given up as a challenge for a month or did you use to drink heavily?

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Well done for not caving in. May I ask.....have you given up as a challenge for a month or did you use to drink heavily? "

I'm challenging myself. I moved into a pub 2 months ago and found myself drinking most nights

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Well done for not caving in. May I ask.....have you given up as a challenge for a month or did you use to drink heavily?

I'm challenging myself. I moved into a pub 2 months ago and found myself drinking most nights "

Must be even harder in that case! I don't drink that often so when I do I usually feel awful for at least 2 days. I've been known to have coffee on a night out

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By *carlet_woman_xx OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Well done for not caving in. May I ask.....have you given up as a challenge for a month or did you use to drink heavily?

I'm challenging myself. I moved into a pub 2 months ago and found myself drinking most nights

Must be even harder in that case! I don't drink that often so when I do I usually feel awful for at least 2 days. I've been known to have coffee on a night out "

I'm drinking tea in the pub now

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