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She loved being insulted

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By *ix-foot-two-stu OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

I once had a few encounters with a lady who loved being insulted during sex. Tell me how naughty I am, she’d say. Call me a slut.

I’d never done this and felt a bit silly, not knowing what to say. It felt a bit uncomfortable and I think she would have cum harder if I’d have known how to insult her better.

Any other fellas experienced this?

Any women disappointed because their man didn’t know how to talk dirty enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like to be called a Filthy - Fucking - Whore

With every thrust

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Anyone spoke to me like that they would be kicked out the bed and sent packing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any guy spoke to me like that, I’d de-ball them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I quite like to be called a Filthy - Fucking - Whore

With every thrust "

This is now on my must try list. Thanks Poppins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As per the two posts above, it is a marmite thing, use with caution!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am too respectful to talk like that lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do it if requested, as noted above some like it and some hate it.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Dirty talk is something of a skill, I think. I've met some people who just don't and that's fine, some who are very 'verbose', which was also fun.

Im not sure if your ability to dirty talk would've impacted on her orgasm though, it's about your comfort level too. If you're not comfortable doing something, that's fine.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We do this together and switch doing this. It works between us, we don't do it all the time. When we do I enjoy it, it's all a game and fun.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I actually wish more guys were that 'assertive'

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I’m a huge fan of dirty talk, but not insults. I don’t want to be called names at all. But I do like to hear a man. A man’s voice can be a huge turn on for me. I appreciate noise full stop, if they’re quiet I assume they’re not enjoying it.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Instant hackles raised with that type of talk, seduce me don't f**king insult me.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"I quite like to be called a Filthy - Fucking - Whore

With every thrust "

You are one filthy fuckin whore

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I once had a few encounters with a lady who loved being insulted during sex. Tell me how naughty I am, she’d say. Call me a slut.

I’d never done this and felt a bit silly, not knowing what to say. It felt a bit uncomfortable and I think she would have cum harder if I’d have known how to insult her better.

Any other fellas experienced this?

Any women disappointed because their man didn’t know how to talk dirty enough?"

I love it, think Inbetweeners "i'm gonna fuck your fucking fanny off you twat!"

Ps Had a younger gf many years ago who lovedto call me a dirty old ba..ard

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Not disappointed but during one hot d*unken session with my ex I found it amusing when he said he would sodomise me

I do like being called names when being fucked. Also like being leant on and pushed down into the bed.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

If the lady is susceptible .. I love it .. it’s great fun ...

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Not disappointed but during one hot d*unken session with my ex I found it amusing when he said he would sodomise me

I do like being called names when being fucked. Also like being leant on and pushed down into the bed. "

Sounds like he had a private schoolboy upbringing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like to be called a Filthy - Fucking - Whore

With every thrust

This is now on my must try list. Thanks Poppins. "

That's my good deed of the day

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Anyone spoke to me like that they would be kicked out the bed and sent packing"

Yep me too

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By *ix-foot-two-stu OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Anyone spoke to me like that they would be kicked out the bed and sent packing

Yep me too "

This thread has shown an interesting variety of preferences. While I’m naturally dominant, I’m also respectful and eager to please. So while I felt uncomfortable trying to conjure some appropriate insults while we were in the middle of sex, I wanted desperately to give her what she wanted. But failed miserably. “You... you.... very, very naughty girl!”

It’s about communication, obviously. Find out what each of you like. My girlfriend mentioned that I was fucking her just a tad too hard last week. Fine. Some tweaks needed.

I love grabbing her by the throat during sex. But she doesn’t like it too hard. It’s a matter of finding the right balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its what she wants then absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a lady she really does go into overdrive when she gets called names it took me a while to get used to it but my God does it change her.

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere


"We do this together and switch doing this. It works between us, we don't do it all the time. When we do I enjoy it, it's all a game and fun."

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Hannah likes it occasionally, especially being called a naughty or bad girl. Sometimes I use more derogatory language when we've been talking about some fantasy scenarios but it's not totally natural for me. I definitely wouldn't do it if she didn't say she likes it. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone spoke to me like that they would be kicked out the bed and sent packing

Yep me too "

Me three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one woman who liked breath play and being slapped, never tried name calling though, must find her number again

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My FWB calls me a naughty slut as he fucks me and i love it.

He originates from Essex though and still has the accent so it sounds particularly dirty

I had to ask for him to call me it though. It wasn’t off the cuff.

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm submissive and I love being told I'm a dirty whore/slut/bitch.

The key is consent. Ask first

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I enjoy being degraded physically and verbally so yes I like it when people speak to me like that during sex!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't like it from someone I didn't know but hearing it from someone I do can push me over the edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like to be called a Filthy - Fucking - Whore

With every thrust "

But that means at least 3 thrusts...be reasonable

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By *orthern PowerhouseMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Some do like it some don't there is nothing wrong with it if everyone is happy with it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I wouldn't like it from someone I didn't know but hearing it from someone I do can push me over the edge "

This

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I use to see a girl who after cuming from me giving her oral, would grab my hair and pull it whilst calling me a “fucking dirty bastard” lol. Loved it, although it made me laugh.

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