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"Ok. I need to google deepstick position lol" yes me too lol | |||
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"Favourite position has to be deepstick, love it nice and deep " Deepstick is best for me too | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex." I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes " I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on " Thinking logically it's probably obvious but lots of people are insecure about their sexual performance and insecurity is rarely logical. As a side note I don't always see lack of erection as lack of arousal either. Sometimes the body just doesn't play ball with what's going on in the mind, same as with the orgasm thing. | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on Thinking logically it's probably obvious but lots of people are insecure about their sexual performance and insecurity is rarely logical. As a side note I don't always see lack of erection as lack of arousal either. Sometimes the body just doesn't play ball with what's going on in the mind, same as with the orgasm thing." Yeah, good point. I've had an erection disappear once mid sex, it just went, like a balloon going down. I was mortified Never happened before or since. As you said, communication is the key, I should be more reassuring about it and the fact it's not them. | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on Thinking logically it's probably obvious but lots of people are insecure about their sexual performance and insecurity is rarely logical. As a side note I don't always see lack of erection as lack of arousal either. Sometimes the body just doesn't play ball with what's going on in the mind, same as with the orgasm thing. Yeah, good point. I've had an erection disappear once mid sex, it just went, like a balloon going down. I was mortified Never happened before or since. As you said, communication is the key, I should be more reassuring about it and the fact it's not them." You shouldn't be mortified. People put far too much pressure on themselves when it comes to sex as it is. Hence why your ladies are possibly blaming themselves for you finding it hard to cum. Communication really helps | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on Thinking logically it's probably obvious but lots of people are insecure about their sexual performance and insecurity is rarely logical. As a side note I don't always see lack of erection as lack of arousal either. Sometimes the body just doesn't play ball with what's going on in the mind, same as with the orgasm thing." Had happened to me a couple of times, while in the moment I was there and enjoying it, my mindset of life was just in a bad place. I'm not ashamed. It's shitty it happened but that's life. Shit happened, I know why, I don't dwell on it. | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on Thinking logically it's probably obvious but lots of people are insecure about their sexual performance and insecurity is rarely logical. As a side note I don't always see lack of erection as lack of arousal either. Sometimes the body just doesn't play ball with what's going on in the mind, same as with the orgasm thing. Had happened to me a couple of times, while in the moment I was there and enjoying it, my mindset of life was just in a bad place. I'm not ashamed. It's shitty it happened but that's life. Shit happened, I know why, I don't dwell on it. " The brain is the most powerful sexual organ and if you're in a bad place it can have a knock on effect. You seem to have dealt with it in a good way though. | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on Thinking logically it's probably obvious but lots of people are insecure about their sexual performance and insecurity is rarely logical. As a side note I don't always see lack of erection as lack of arousal either. Sometimes the body just doesn't play ball with what's going on in the mind, same as with the orgasm thing. Had happened to me a couple of times, while in the moment I was there and enjoying it, my mindset of life was just in a bad place. I'm not ashamed. It's shitty it happened but that's life. Shit happened, I know why, I don't dwell on it. The brain is the most powerful sexual organ and if you're in a bad place it can have a knock on effect. You seem to have dealt with it in a good way though." Indeed it is. Its a huge confidence knock at the time, for both involved. Thanks, for a time it made things worse but I knew I couldn't let it take over. | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on Thinking logically it's probably obvious but lots of people are insecure about their sexual performance and insecurity is rarely logical. As a side note I don't always see lack of erection as lack of arousal either. Sometimes the body just doesn't play ball with what's going on in the mind, same as with the orgasm thing. Yeah, good point. I've had an erection disappear once mid sex, it just went, like a balloon going down. I was mortified Never happened before or since. As you said, communication is the key, I should be more reassuring about it and the fact it's not them. You shouldn't be mortified. People put far too much pressure on themselves when it comes to sex as it is. Hence why your ladies are possibly blaming themselves for you finding it hard to cum. Communication really helps " The mortified feeling only lasted a minute or two. She was very understanding so all was good. I'm always wary as I've had a bad experience where a lady mocked me to my face about the size of my chopper and loss of erection. | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on Thinking logically it's probably obvious but lots of people are insecure about their sexual performance and insecurity is rarely logical. As a side note I don't always see lack of erection as lack of arousal either. Sometimes the body just doesn't play ball with what's going on in the mind, same as with the orgasm thing. Had happened to me a couple of times, while in the moment I was there and enjoying it, my mindset of life was just in a bad place. I'm not ashamed. It's shitty it happened but that's life. Shit happened, I know why, I don't dwell on it. The brain is the most powerful sexual organ and if you're in a bad place it can have a knock on effect. You seem to have dealt with it in a good way though. Indeed it is. Its a huge confidence knock at the time, for both involved. Thanks, for a time it made things worse but I knew I couldn't let it take over. " Absolutely not, you are far more than that. | |||
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"I very rarely cum from penetrative sex due to medication Most of the time it doesn't bother me but sometimes I've picked up on the woman thinking why won't he cum, is there something wrong with me. Still get a huge amount if enjoyment from it though. Missionary for closeness, eye contact and kissing. Cowgirl to let her take control. Doggy for a bit of primal hard sex. I've experienced this in the past but I was having an orgasm at all from anything. I think the best thing to do is be totally upfront about it beforehand and if you get a sense they are blaming themselves in any way, just talk about it. There are more indications of how much they're enjoying themselves than just ejaculation. The biggest indication of arousal for me with men has always been the fire in their eyes I am upfront now with new partners. I always thinks it's pretty obvious it's not them though. I've just spent several hours with you naked and had a permanent erection the whole time safe to say you turn me on Thinking logically it's probably obvious but lots of people are insecure about their sexual performance and insecurity is rarely logical. As a side note I don't always see lack of erection as lack of arousal either. Sometimes the body just doesn't play ball with what's going on in the mind, same as with the orgasm thing. Yeah, good point. I've had an erection disappear once mid sex, it just went, like a balloon going down. I was mortified Never happened before or since. As you said, communication is the key, I should be more reassuring about it and the fact it's not them. You shouldn't be mortified. People put far too much pressure on themselves when it comes to sex as it is. Hence why your ladies are possibly blaming themselves for you finding it hard to cum. Communication really helps The mortified feeling only lasted a minute or two. She was very understanding so all was good. I'm always wary as I've had a bad experience where a lady mocked me to my face about the size of my chopper and loss of erection. " That's good to hear. Sounds like a great lady. The other on the other hand, that is shocking behaviour and people like that don't deserve to have you getting your kit off for them in the first place. | |||
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"Cowgirl or spooning fucks my favourite...." Duly noted lol x | |||
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"Ok. I need to google deepstick position lol" Me too. Innocent me | |||
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