FabSwingers.com forum: Videos and Barebacking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A major observation on couples posting videos. In particular MMF videos the amount of videos with “none partners” barebacking is crazy. Anyone else make the same observation?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Surely it's their business and their choice?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Surely it's their business and their choice?"

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

"Surely it's their business and their choice?"

100%

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"Surely it's their business and their choice?"
bang on

if its not your thing then don't watch it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah those terrible people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?"
yes 100% agreed. But when within their profile text they state “ no glove no love” etc etc is it not hypothetical?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Surely it's their business and their choice? yes 100% agreed. But when within their profile text they state “ no glove no love” etc etc is it not hypothetical? "

No, nor is it hypocritical. Still their choice and their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice? yes 100% agreed. But when within their profile text they state “ no glove no love” etc etc is it not hypothetical?

No, nor is it hypocritical. Still their choice and their business."

it was clearly more typocritical

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice? yes 100% agreed. But when within their profile text they state “ no glove no love” etc etc is it not hypothetical?

No, nor is it hypocritical. Still their choice and their business."
of course it’s their business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know for sure that the other person is a complete stranger and the couple concerned don’t have any history at all with them or a means of satisfying themselves that it’s safe? You know what they say about assumptions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope they are on prep to at least reduce HIV risk

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Looks better innit

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I can't believe people still get bent out of shape about this.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Oh hang on it's just virtue signaling again isn't? Ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope they are on prep to at least reduce HIV risk"

So glad to see this mentioned.

It needs to be more widely used and understood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you know for sure that the other person is a complete stranger and the couple concerned don’t have any history at all with them or a means of satisfying themselves that it’s safe? You know what they say about assumptions!"

Pics and vids should be clearly labelled so it says which one is the husband's cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they all got tested...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Pics and vids should be clearly labelled so it says which one is the husband's cock."

Or the wife’s vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics and vids should be clearly labelled so it says which one is the husband's cock.

Or the wife’s vagina

That too.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"A major observation on couples posting videos. In particular MMF videos the amount of videos with “none partners” barebacking is crazy. Anyone else make the same observation? "

While it's not for me, it's not my place to tell other people how to conduct their sex lives

What I will do, is add a private note, use it as a filter as why I won't meet certain people

So I'm more than happy they're posting those videos

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I think swinger's in general are a lot more sensible and educated than civilians who go on mate's holidays to shagaluf or local nightclubs or pubs and shag total strangers.

People having affairs and shag in lunchtime, one night stands, people who meet off tinder.

At least for the most part we can go through a certain amount of vetting before rather than a d*unken shag after a night out.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

D*unken

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"D*unken"

Oh wow didn't realize we couldn't say d*unken without it being censored.

Yet I can say

Cunt, fuck ,slag ,jizz, wank stain.

But not d*unken ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A major observation on couples posting videos. In particular MMF videos the amount of videos with “none partners” barebacking is crazy. Anyone else make the same observation?

While it's not for me, it's not my place to tell other people how to conduct their sex lives

What I will do, is add a private note, use it as a filter as why I won't meet certain people

So I'm more than happy they're posting those videos "

Exactly what she said ^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Folks I’m not unhappy they are posting the videos. I am not silly and realise it’s their choice. I just think it’s unsafe. And yes I’m sure for a number of reasons it’s not there hubby for a number of reasons

1) skin colour

2) running commentary “ oh my dirty wife loves strangers cock” etc etc

3) there are multiple men.

I am not having a go at these ppl! I’m

Merely making an observation and I’m shocked

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By *slite1Man
over a year ago

ludgershall

"Folks I’m not unhappy they are posting the videos. I am not silly and realise it’s their choice. I just think it’s unsafe. And yes I’m sure for a number of reasons it’s not there hubby for a number of reasons

1) skin colour

2) running commentary “ oh my dirty wife loves strangers cock” etc etc

3) there are multiple men.

I am not having a go at these ppl! I’m

Merely making an observation and I’m shocked "

But not once in your profile do you mention safe sex

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t watch the videos and I don’t have bb sex - not even with a special friend! but if I did watch I would just make a note to avoid at all costs.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"Oh hang on it's just virtue signaling again isn't? Ffs.

What do you mean in this context by ‘virtue signalling’? It feels that you are name calling when people have a view you don’t agree with.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"Surely it's their business and their choice?"

Well said, why do so many have to get on their high horse and judge others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?

Well said, why do so many have to get on their high horse and judge others x"

I was raised if nothing nice to say then don’t say it at all, but fuck sometimes it’s difficult here haha

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I have not seen the videos to which you refer OP but amazed you can get all that detail to make your judgement with videos of 20 seconds maximum length .

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By *ilkey69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

They may be very good close trusted friends

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Russian roulette looks better in video

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?

Well said, why do so many have to get on their high horse and judge others x"

I’m not judging. I’m making a decision that concerns only me. What others do is their concern

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"They may be very good close trusted friends "

This is a concept that always baffles me. How trusted and how close? How many other close friends are they doing it with? And how many in turn are they doing it with?

I don’t mind what they do but I wouldn’t want to be part of it and I think people that do that are potentially putting others at risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?"

This

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

What I DO find mildly amusing about all this (though I confess to not really watching people’s videos) is that a lot on fab seem to discount those who go to swingers clubs as being especially promiscuous or unsafe - and yet I’ve never seen anyone play bareback in a swingers club (to my knowledge) unless it’s with an established partner!

Whilst I accept that it is absolutely ‘their’ business - if I’m ever approached to have sex with them it becomes ‘my’ business - and I’m out!

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Surely it's their business and their choice?

This"

When the name of the game is NSA and multiple partners, doesn't the sexual health practices of one have a potential impact on everyone else. Or is that just the price of admission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I DO find mildly amusing about all this (though I confess to not really watching people’s videos) is that a lot on fab seem to discount those who go to swingers clubs as being especially promiscuous or unsafe - and yet I’ve never seen anyone play bareback in a swingers club (to my knowledge) unless it’s with an established partner!

Whilst I accept that it is absolutely ‘their’ business - if I’m ever approached to have sex with them it becomes ‘my’ business - and I’m out! "

Exactly, nobody is forcing anyone to fuck them because they post a video or picture..... ....ppl can make their own minds up and choose, but it would be a wonderful fab world if we didn't need to write posts about that process or assume things publicly....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Whilst I accept that it is absolutely ‘their’ business - if I’m ever approached to have sex with them it becomes ‘my’ business - and I’m out!

That’s what a forum is though. You discuss things, often with opposing views

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whilst I accept that it is absolutely ‘their’ business - if I’m ever approached to have sex with them it becomes ‘my’ business - and I’m out!

That’s what a forum is though. You discuss things, often with opposing views

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exactly and thank

You! I appreciate everyone’s views I truly do. But the only point I’m

Making is that I see so many couples whom are playing bareback in videos but state in their profile “ safe sex only’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I accept that it is absolutely ‘their’ business - if I’m ever approached to have sex with them it becomes ‘my’ business - and I’m out!

That’s what a forum is though. You discuss things, often with opposing views

exactly and thank

You! I appreciate everyone’s views I truly do. But the only point I’m

Making is that I see so many couples whom are playing bareback in videos but state in their profile “ safe sex only’ "

Fab should probably fine them and have a points system, like with driving.....

Worse shit happens on here than crimes of contradiction....

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Whilst I accept that it is absolutely ‘their’ business - if I’m ever approached to have sex with them it becomes ‘my’ business - and I’m out!

That’s what a forum is though. You discuss things, often with opposing views

exactly and thank

You! I appreciate everyone’s views I truly do. But the only point I’m

Making is that I see so many couples whom are playing bareback in videos but state in their profile “ safe sex only’

Fab should probably fine them and have a points system, like with driving.....

Worse shit happens on here than crimes of contradiction...."

Yeah but I see the op’s point!

Most of my favourite clubs promote safe sex very actively by providing free condoms & lube in the playrooms and other public spaces. The concept of ‘safe sex’ is so ingrained that non relationship bb or multiple bb is frowned upon and virtually non existent!

That concept seems to fly out of the window on the site itself - where I’ve seen bareback DP pictures reach the top of hot photos on many occasions!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Involving other people, there's generally just safer sex. You won't likely have been tested for everything, so us older people will generally be higher risk than the younger, on average.

Should Fab interests be changed to safeR sex, as its more accurate?

Bareback is every adults choice. Don't view videos if you can't cope with seeing it.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Careful now, you're the bad person for taking your health serious, dont enforce good practice on other people, its not cool.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Bareback is a totally free choice to whoever is involved in that situation. While on a swingers site 'some' might not want to see it, that doesn't mean the peole involved don't practice safe sex at all. Where we watch porn it's very rare you see them with protection on and that's no off putting for most. I know the porn industry is highly regulated with regular tests but how do you know others don't get checked on a regular basis. All in all some like it some don't, totally free choice to the peole involved and if you don't like it then don't watch it

Mrs x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Involving other people, there's generally just safer sex. You won't likely have been tested for everything, so us older people will generally be higher risk than the younger, on average.

Should Fab interests be changed to safeR sex, as its more accurate?

Bareback is every adults choice. Don't view videos if you can't cope with seeing it.

But it’s not necessarily your choice to have sex with someone who enjoys bareback with others if they don’t tell you. You have to know about it to make an informed decision. If a video is a snapshot to that then so be it, if you assumption of the content of the video is incorrect then so be it. Rather that than meet people who enjoy bareback sex in my opinion.

It’s not really much to do with the video, because I don’t watch them. It is about putting someone at risk for your own gratification. That’s not right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I accept that it is absolutely ‘their’ business - if I’m ever approached to have sex with them it becomes ‘my’ business - and I’m out!

That’s what a forum is though. You discuss things, often with opposing views

exactly and thank

You! I appreciate everyone’s views I truly do. But the only point I’m

Making is that I see so many couples whom are playing bareback in videos but state in their profile “ safe sex only’ "

Are you shocked because you thought people would be truthful?

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"Bareback is a totally free choice to whoever is involved in that situation. While on a swingers site 'some' might not want to see it, that doesn't mean the peole involved don't practice safe sex at all. Where we watch porn it's very rare you see them with protection on and that's no off putting for most. I know the porn industry is highly regulated with regular tests but how do you know others don't get checked on a regular basis. All in all some like it some don't, totally free choice to the peole involved and if you don't like it then don't watch it

Mrs x"
Oh and a hell of a lot of people don't practise safe sex with oral bearing in mind just about every STI you can get from penetrative sex can also be passed on orally

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Mrs x Oh and a hell of a lot of people don't practise safe sex with oral bearing in mind just about every STI you can get from penetrative sex can also be passed on orally

But that’s exactly why you would want to know if people that could want to meet are having bareback sex. It’s about informed choice, not judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs x Oh and a hell of a lot of people don't practise safe sex with oral bearing in mind just about every STI you can get from penetrative sex can also be passed on orally

But that’s exactly why you would want to know if people that could want to meet are having bareback sex. It’s about informed choice, not judgement. "

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Mrs x Oh and a hell of a lot of people don't practise safe sex with oral bearing in mind just about every STI you can get from penetrative sex can also be passed on orally

But that’s exactly why you would want to know if people that could want to meet are having bareback sex. It’s about informed choice, not judgement. "
you are 100% right and we would make it known and would want to know if anyone involved with us was having unprotected sex. The point that OP is making is simply that there are loads of videos with going people bareback that he thinks is "crazy" (maybe judging when not knowing what there situation actually is)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A major observation on couples posting videos. In particular MMF videos the amount of videos with “none partners” barebacking is crazy. Anyone else make the same observation?

While it's not for me, it's not my place to tell other people how to conduct their sex lives

What I will do, is add a private note, use it as a filter as why I won't meet certain people

So I'm more than happy they're posting those videos "

I’m loving the videos for ‘sorting’

Videos/photos of barebacking is their choice; your choice what you do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the std brigade is out lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A major observation on couples posting videos. In particular MMF videos the amount of videos with “none partners” barebacking is crazy. Anyone else make the same observation? "
as long as ive been coming on internet domains such as this it has been a feature, this also applies to pics and why have you not noticed before now

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

We have a bareback video on our profile... It is myself and my husband. How is that wrong.

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I see the std brigade is out lol."

What does that mean Shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bareback pics and vids. Great filters.

Not couples btw I don’t meet couples so don’t look at those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like the videos at all. I don’t find them as appealing as photos; they are a turn off. I’m clearly my hotlist out based on them as well as BB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t like the videos at all. I don’t find them as appealing as photos; they are a turn off. I’m clearly my hotlist out based on them as well as BB

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i agree 20 seconds of anything is underdone lets face it

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Have you lot got lost on the way to a women's institute forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the std brigade is out lol.

What does that mean Shag? "
It means that those people who dont like it generally think std when barebacking is mentioned.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

How can you get a MMF 20 second action vid? That’s some changeover!

For me it’s about informed choice. I would rather have someone be honest so i could make my own mind up about things, rather than be deceived. I think that’s fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have most definitely made the observation of bareback sex from the new video function. But, over the years on here, I have also noticed many pictures of bareback sex. It's always gone on. Whether or not the people doing this have proof that they are regularly tested is not my concern. And, I don’t think anyone would dispute that having sex without a condom feels pretty good. If they want to do that, that's their business, they know the risks. I too make notes of what I see with certain people on here and use it as a filter. And I love my body enough to take the best care I can to protect myself from meeting anybody I've seen being reckless and by practising safe sex. Yes, some people are being very reckless but there is nothing we can do about it, it's their life and their risk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I totally off the mark or is Bareback sex acceptable? Sweet lord the amount of stick I’m taking for it being “ their choice” of course it’s their choice. In ANY circumstances I see unprotected sex as wrong unless it’s an exclusive relationship. The risk of STIs are to much. My health is my wealth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like those videos and pics from the couples

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I see the std brigade is out lol.

What does that mean Shag? It means that those people who dont like it generally think std when barebacking is mentioned."

Quite right too. I wouldn’t knowingly meet anyone that has bareback sex. I think it’s completely reasonable to consider health consequences of actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A major observation on couples posting videos. In particular MMF videos the amount of videos with “none partners” barebacking is crazy. Anyone else make the same observation? "

So, their choice, but great block list fodder. Saves a lot of trouble.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Have you lot got lost on the way to a women's institute forum?

Bit rude.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Am I totally off the mark or is Bareback sex acceptable? Sweet lord the amount of stick I’m taking for it being “ their choice” of course it’s their choice. In ANY circumstances I see unprotected sex as wrong unless it’s an exclusive relationship. The risk of STIs are to much. My health is my wealth "

Of course it's acceptable! And expected! And if you don't want to do it, wear a condom! It's not rocket science!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a bareback video on our profile... It is myself and my husband. How is that wrong. "

Nothing wrong, just don't question how others may respond to it. Simple.

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By *heNerdyCyclistMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

"D*unken

Oh wow didn't realize we couldn't say d*unken without it being censored.

Yet I can say

Cunt, fuck ,slag ,jizz, wank stain.

But not d*unken ?"

That rule will never not make me LULZ

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always said vids were dumb

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Ignorance is bliss it would seem.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Ignorance is bliss it would seem. "

Or bliss is ignorance either or!

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By *heNerdyCyclistMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

I think we should let people post and enjoy what they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a bareback video on our profile... It is myself and my husband. How is that wrong. "

And great videos they, and love a boob drop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's acceptable. Why wouldn't it be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ignorance is bliss it would seem. "

The only people who bareback are the ones who show it on their pics. Everyone else wears condoms.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"Involving other people, there's generally just safer sex. You won't likely have been tested for everything, so us older people will generally be higher risk than the younger, on average.

Should Fab interests be changed to safeR sex, as its more accurate?

Bareback is every adults choice. Don't view videos if you can't cope with seeing it.

Although the term’safeR sex’ is more accurate, I fear that if we adopted the term many would think (correctly) it isn’t 100% guaranteed safe, but then jump to the conclusion that safeR sex is a waste of time so dispense with it completely.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"I see the std brigade is out lol."

Both those who are wanting to avoid them and those who are happy to take the risk.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Ignorance is bliss it would seem.

The only people who bareback are the ones who show it on their pics. Everyone else wears condoms.

I ment I'm not able to watch them. But i take your point.

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington

"We have a bareback video on our profile... It is myself and my husband. How is that wrong. "

It isn't wrong - more, more, more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the std brigade is out lol.

What does that mean Shag? It means that those people who dont like it generally think std when barebacking is mentioned."

Nah I don’t judge I just block. Not for me

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over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?"

this

people need to worry about themselves not what others do

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over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?

this

people need to worry about themselves not what others do"

Quite agree. I only worry about myself

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over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?"
i hear your not allowed your own business here

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?

this

people need to worry about themselves not what others do"

Unless what others do directly affects you. I am going to pay close attention to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice? yes 100% agreed. But when within their profile text they state “ no glove no love” etc etc is it not hypothetical? "

I'd say the majority of couples don't use condoms for oral during meets, we don't but we always use condoms if anyone else fucks my wife. I as the husband have sex with my wife bareback the same as most couples on here.

So taking into the account the above if the husband is doing the fucking and the single male is getting sucked off then during that act / video clip there wouldn't be any condoms.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?

this

people need to worry about themselves not what others do

Unless what others do directly affects you. I am going to pay close attention to that. "

of course if someone your meeting is doing something that you think will affect you then thats down to you to sort as your looking after yourself fully agree there ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) skin colour

2) running commentary “ oh my dirty wife loves strangers cock” etc etc

3) there are multiple men.

I am not having a go at these ppl! I’m

Merely making an observation and I’m shocked "

"I have not seen the videos to which you refer OP but amazed you can get all that detail to make your judgement with videos of 20 seconds maximum length . "

Exactly I've seen a good few of these 20 second max clips showing MMF and I haven't found 1 yet where it is beyond any doubt it's a non partner/bf/husband having the unprotected vaginal sex.

Also you said skin color wtf? How would that indicate it's not their husband/partner??

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) skin colour

2) running commentary “ oh my dirty wife loves strangers cock” etc etc

3) there are multiple men.

I am not having a go at these ppl! I’m

Merely making an observation and I’m shocked

I have not seen the videos to which you refer OP but amazed you can get all that detail to make your judgement with videos of 20 seconds maximum length .

Exactly I've seen a good few of these 20 second max clips showing MMF and I haven't found 1 yet where it is beyond any doubt it's a non partner/bf/husband having the unprotected vaginal sex.

Also you said skin color wtf? How would that indicate it's not their husband/partner??

KJ x

If she has one black cock, one white cock, one red cock and one brown cock in her in different pics, which one is her husband?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

In a relationship with a partner hell yes, outside of that I choose not to. What others choose to do I don't really care as if I end up fucking them I'll be rubbered up anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get it porns already free all over the net

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

1) skin colour

2) running commentary “ oh my dirty wife loves strangers cock” etc etc

3) there are multiple men.

I am not having a go at these ppl! I’m

Merely making an observation and I’m shocked

I have not seen the videos to which you refer OP but amazed you can get all that detail to make your judgement with videos of 20 seconds maximum length .

Exactly I've seen a good few of these 20 second max clips showing MMF and I haven't found 1 yet where it is beyond any doubt it's a non partner/bf/husband having the unprotected vaginal sex.

Also you said skin color wtf? How would that indicate it's not their husband/partner??

KJ x

If she has one black cock, one white cock, one red cock and one brown cock in her in different pics, which one is her husband?

The guy holding the camera most likely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1) skin colour

2) running commentary “ oh my dirty wife loves strangers cock” etc etc

3) there are multiple men.

I am not having a go at these ppl! I’m

Merely making an observation and I’m shocked

I have not seen the videos to which you refer OP but amazed you can get all that detail to make your judgement with videos of 20 seconds maximum length .

Exactly I've seen a good few of these 20 second max clips showing MMF and I haven't found 1 yet where it is beyond any doubt it's a non partner/bf/husband having the unprotected vaginal sex.

Also you said skin color wtf? How would that indicate it's not their husband/partner??

KJ x

If she has one black cock, one white cock, one red cock and one brown cock in her in different pics, which one is her husband?

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exactly lpl

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP. "

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) skin colour

2) running commentary “ oh my dirty wife loves strangers cock” etc etc

3) there are multiple men.

I am not having a go at these ppl! I’m

Merely making an observation and I’m shocked

I have not seen the videos to which you refer OP but amazed you can get all that detail to make your judgement with videos of 20 seconds maximum length .

Exactly I've seen a good few of these 20 second max clips showing MMF and I haven't found 1 yet where it is beyond any doubt it's a non partner/bf/husband having the unprotected vaginal sex.

Also you said skin color wtf? How would that indicate it's not their husband/partner??

KJ x

If she has one black cock, one white cock, one red cock and one brown cock in her in different pics, which one is her husband?

The guy holding the camera most likely"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?

this

people need to worry about themselves not what others do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it's their business and their choice?

this

people need to worry about themselves not what others do

Quite agree. I only worry about myself "

I concern myself with both. I'll filter out those whom I see do which greatly reduces the risk to myself. This doesn't avoid those I don't see, but it does reduce it and so reduces my risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them. "

So you saying if she's riddled it's safe for you if you wear a condom with her?

That's your choice I guess.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It must be acceptable to those people who do it. For us no, we wouldn't have dreamt of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

So you saying if she's riddled it's safe for you if you wear a condom with her?

That's your choice I guess."

How can you tell if someone is riddled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them. "

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

You won't make friends by preaching at people. You don't know who they're bare backing with, it might be some one they trust. Might be regular, might be a stranger they met at the pub. But but they're not forcing anyone to bare back with them, so my advice keep your nose out of other people's business. Worry about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not daft enough to stick my winky in a vagina I don't trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really funny how many saying it's their business have posted on threads that has been about a single woman or man bear backing and said its not right. Why are couples that do this any different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's really funny how many saying it's their business have posted on threads that has been about a single woman or man bear backing and said its not right. Why are couples that do this any different! "

Or when the OP is a woman!

Lots of hypocrisy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I don't care if I make friends or not. I rather talk reality and if people don't like the truth then tough.. I don't sugar coat things. Its obvious that some don't know who they're having unprotected sex with. I can't mention names here, but I could name a few.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or when the OP is a woman!

Lots of hypocrisy on here. "
On forum posts you will see guys piggy back onto agreeing with females if the disagree with the OP. Sad really. Unprotected sex is dangerous end off! I stand by that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or when the OP is a woman!

Lots of hypocrisy on here. On forum posts you will see guys piggy back onto agreeing with females if the disagree with the OP. Sad really. Unprotected sex is dangerous end off! I stand by that "

Dangerous is a bit strong. Do you think condoms stop people from getting STI's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or when the OP is a woman!

Lots of hypocrisy on here. On forum posts you will see guys piggy back onto agreeing with females if the disagree with the OP. Sad really. Unprotected sex is dangerous end off! I stand by that

Dangerous is a bit strong. Do you think condoms stop people from getting STI's?"

Nothing is totally fool proof but it's definitely safer than using nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not. "
This quite possibly is the worst response I’ve ever heard on a forum. Please don’t take any offence but dear lord you’re talking absolute none sense. Fucking around and swinging are by definition the same thing. A sexual act will take place. So to state swinging is safe and fucking around is not is simply crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not. This quite possibly is the worst response I’ve ever heard on a forum. Please don’t take any offence but dear lord you’re talking absolute none sense. Fucking around and swinging are by definition the same thing. A sexual act will take place. So to state swinging is safe and fucking around is not is simply crazy "

Mavis has a point to be fair. It's about a lot of people's perspective of swinging. You see comments like "it's not swinging if you are not a couple"

She wasn't saying it was fact rather than that's the attitude of some.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sooo.. bareback gangbang everyone?

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By *aptive_audienceMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Is nobody forcing you to watch it then? lol

Totally agree xx

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am going to be devils advocate here - I know single lady’s who are part of a couple they have single profiles on here so the photos they have are them and husbands bb photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Mavis has a point to be fair. It's about a lot of people's perspective of swinging. You see comments like "it's not swinging if you are not a couple"

She wasn't saying it was fact rather than that's the attitude of some. "
point taken

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not. "

Why do you come to that conclusion? How many couples do you know who have said this? Why do you sneer at swinging and couples a lot?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

But it does affect others. I could meet someone now that says they only have bb with their regular trusted friend. Why should I trust someone else with my health? On here of all places. They bb with friends, with couples they’ve known for years, only with their regular etc. Doesn’t make a hot of difference. You could be putting someone else at risk to satisfy your own needs. It’s not right at all. And whilst they can’t force me to have bb sex with them, they can lie about their sexual behaviour which is ultimately putting a person at risk. I’m just saying be honest about that, give people the option. Then those that do it are fine and the others can crack on in their own way.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

And I have lost track of the number of people that say they only do it with their regular or their special friend. You won’t be doing it with me is my answer to that.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"And I have lost track of the number of people that say they only do it with their regular or their special friend. You won’t be doing it with me is my answer to that. "

They could be "regular" with a few people, no one would know that for sure.

If I was on as a single woman I would be assuming everyone has bareback with someone so I wouldn't be

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"A major observation on couples posting videos. In particular MMF videos the amount of videos with “none partners” barebacking is crazy. Anyone else make the same observation? "

Its not really surprising though is it. People claim to get tested regularly and always use protection and well lets say people are just dishonest on here.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"And I have lost track of the number of people that say they only do it with their regular or their special friend. You won’t be doing it with me is my answer to that.

They could be "regular" with a few people, no one would know that for sure.

If I was on as a single woman I would be assuming everyone has bareback with someone so I wouldn't be

And that’s probably the best way of looking at it really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Mavis has a point to be fair. It's about a lot of people's perspective of swinging. You see comments like "it's not swinging if you are not a couple"

She wasn't saying it was fact rather than that's the attitude of some. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not.

Why do you come to that conclusion? How many couples do you know who have said this? Why do you sneer at swinging and couples a lot?"

You misunderstand me. I know and appreciate exactly what swinging is.

I know a lot of couples that openly think this way.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not.

Why do you come to that conclusion? How many couples do you know who have said this? Why do you sneer at swinging and couples a lot?

You misunderstand me. I know and appreciate exactly what swinging is.

I know a lot of couples that openly think this way. "

Then your posts are coming across a totally different way than you think they are

So how many couples exactly do you know who think they are safer having sex than single people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not.

Why do you come to that conclusion? How many couples do you know who have said this? Why do you sneer at swinging and couples a lot?

You misunderstand me. I know and appreciate exactly what swinging is.

I know a lot of couples that openly think this way.

Then your posts are coming across a totally different way than you think they are

So how many couples exactly do you know who think they are safer having sex than single people?"

Lots. Too many to count.

Couples meeting couples who think they are 'safe'. It doesn't occur to them that other people fuck other people and those fuck other people.

Many seem to think it's only bi men or women in vans or tipsy teenagers in Magaluf who catch things.

They don't get tested because their bits haven't turned green.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

In which case you maybe should have put " some " couples rather than "couples"

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

You should assume everyone you meet has an sti and treat them accordingly. If you don't then I'm afraid that's on you. This isn't a site full of virgins. People here fuck. And they do it as much as circumstances allow.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly "

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly "

I also read that mankind is responsible for climate change on the internet, should i disregard that as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly

I also read that mankind is responsible for climate change on the internet, should i disregard that as well?

Depends, did the guy who write that owns a Turkish barbershop ?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly

I also read that mankind is responsible for climate change on the internet, should i disregard that as well?

Depends, did the guy who write that owns a Turkish barbershop ? "

It was only a quote from the police so probably bollocks.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/08/12/traditional-turkish-barber-shops-using-slave-labour-warns-police/amp/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly

I also read that mankind is responsible for climate change on the internet, should i disregard that as well?

Depends, did the guy who write that owns a Turkish barbershop ?

It was only a quote from the police so probably bollocks.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/08/12/traditional-turkish-barber-shops-using-slave-labour-warns-police/amp/"

Reported by the telegraph who is owned by an Irish barbershop owner

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly

I also read that mankind is responsible for climate change on the internet, should i disregard that as well?

Depends, did the guy who write that owns a Turkish barbershop ?

It was only a quote from the police so probably bollocks.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/08/12/traditional-turkish-barber-shops-using-slave-labour-warns-police/amp/

Reported by the telegraph who is owned by an Irish barbershop owner "

I guess it's all rubbish. People aren't being exploited, there's no such thing as modern slavery, and poor souls don't turn up in containers. A new dawn has arrived..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly

I also read that mankind is responsible for climate change on the internet, should i disregard that as well?

Depends, did the guy who write that owns a Turkish barbershop ?

It was only a quote from the police so probably bollocks.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/08/12/traditional-turkish-barber-shops-using-slave-labour-warns-police/amp/

Reported by the telegraph who is owned by an Irish barbershop owner

I guess it's all rubbish. People aren't being exploited, there's no such thing as modern slavery, and poor souls don't turn up in containers. A new dawn has arrived.."

Oh haven't said that those things do not exist...but the way you seem to reporte only crimes committed by immigrants take off all credibility of being objective Clem.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly

I also read that mankind is responsible for climate change on the internet, should i disregard that as well?

Depends, did the guy who write that owns a Turkish barbershop ?

It was only a quote from the police so probably bollocks.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/08/12/traditional-turkish-barber-shops-using-slave-labour-warns-police/amp/

Reported by the telegraph who is owned by an Irish barbershop owner

I guess it's all rubbish. People aren't being exploited, there's no such thing as modern slavery, and poor souls don't turn up in containers. A new dawn has arrived..

Oh haven't said that those things do not exist...but the way you seem to reporte only crimes committed by immigrants take off all credibility of being objective Clem. "

Oh. *shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

You are talking to the man who believed that every Turkish barbershops are money laundering shop because he read it on the internet.

So talk to him accordingly

I also read that mankind is responsible for climate change on the internet, should i disregard that as well?

Depends, did the guy who write that owns a Turkish barbershop ?

It was only a quote from the police so probably bollocks.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/08/12/traditional-turkish-barber-shops-using-slave-labour-warns-police/amp/

Reported by the telegraph who is owned by an Irish barbershop owner

I guess it's all rubbish. People aren't being exploited, there's no such thing as modern slavery, and poor souls don't turn up in containers. A new dawn has arrived..

Oh haven't said that those things do not exist...but the way you seem to reporte only crimes committed by immigrants take off all credibility of being objective Clem.

Oh. *shrugs*"

Clem's claim

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

Love it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) skin colour

2) running commentary “ oh my dirty wife loves strangers cock” etc etc

3) there are multiple men.

I am not having a go at these ppl! I’m

Merely making an observation and I’m shocked "

Unless you're shagging them, it's not unsafe for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Involving other people, there's generally just safer sex. You won't likely have been tested for everything, so us older people will generally be higher risk than the younger, on average.

Should Fab interests be changed to safeR sex, as its more accurate?

Bareback is every adults choice. Don't view videos if you can't cope with seeing it.

It’s not really much to do with the video, because I don’t watch them. It is about putting someone at risk for your own gratification. That’s not right. "
but surely the whole point of “safe sex” is to protect yourself if you feel that’s how sex should be. As long as you take the precautions yourself then what does it matter what the other person does or has done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not.

Why do you come to that conclusion? How many couples do you know who have said this? Why do you sneer at swinging and couples a lot?"

I've read this thinking a lot on forums and I'm sure you have too. There is this attitude amongst many couples as if they're safer and better because they 'swing'.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Involving other people, there's generally just safer sex. You won't likely have been tested for everything, so us older people will generally be higher risk than the younger, on average.

Should Fab interests be changed to safeR sex, as its more accurate?

Bareback is every adults choice. Don't view videos if you can't cope with seeing it.

It’s not really much to do with the video, because I don’t watch them. It is about putting someone at risk for your own gratification. That’s not right. but surely the whole point of “safe sex” is to protect yourself if you feel that’s how sex should be. As long as you take the precautions yourself then what does it matter what the other person does or has done?"

It doesn't matter to some extent if you are not going to meet them or anyone they have met and people they have met too. however you see what people catch from unprotected sex tends to get passed round by further unprotected sex.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not.

Why do you come to that conclusion? How many couples do you know who have said this? Why do you sneer at swinging and couples a lot?

I've read this thinking a lot on forums and I'm sure you have too. There is this attitude amongst many couples as if they're safer and better because they 'swing'."

Less likely to hook up with a random when pissed up in a bar maybe?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not.

Why do you come to that conclusion? How many couples do you know who have said this? Why do you sneer at swinging and couples a lot?

I've read this thinking a lot on forums and I'm sure you have too. There is this attitude amongst many couples as if they're safer and better because they 'swing'.

Less likely to hook up with a random when pissed up in a bar maybe? "

Or on a tinder or pof etc "date".

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?"

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

Yes I was happier when I thought that people cared about others sexual health. I have a gay friend who is HIV because of an encounter that his ex partner forgot to mention. It happens, it could happen to anyone. I thought on a Swinging site that more people would want that - more so than out in day to day life. Sexual health is discussed a lot.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation. "

Im shocked at your naivety, especially considering your poor friend with hiv. Always assume everyone bare backs, protect yourself, and you won't go far wrong. There is no such thing as "safe sex".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation. "

Couldn't agree more. The attitude that you only need to worry about yourself is a very selfish one and not one I'd have associated with swinging. Then again most here aren't swingers and are only out for their own gratification.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation.

Im shocked at your naivety, especially considering your poor friend with hiv. Always assume everyone bare backs, protect yourself, and you won't go far wrong. There is no such thing as "safe sex". "

It’s not the first time I’ve been called naive on here Clem and I’ll take that. I probably am naive to a lot of things.

I do protect myself. I’m fully aware that’s there’s no such thing as safe sex but that’s still different to putting others at risk for your own selfish gain in my opinion.

Anyway, interesting discussion. A real eye opener for naive me.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation.

So what are you going to do about it? It's easy to say it's selfish, so what is your plan of action to make these reckless bastards rubber up?!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

"Surely it's their business and their choice?"

Absolutely, it's their business and theirs alone - and not that of some virtue-signalling observer!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Surely it's their business and their choice?

Absolutely, it's their business and theirs alone - and not that of some virtue-signalling observer! "

Nearly missed this! I was busy, just going through all the pictures and videos on fab, looking out for bare backing images, then sending them scolding messages telling them how they're basically killing me to death because they're not using a condom...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not.

Why do you come to that conclusion? How many couples do you know who have said this? Why do you sneer at swinging and couples a lot?

I've read this thinking a lot on forums and I'm sure you have too. There is this attitude amongst many couples as if they're safer and better because they 'swing'.

Less likely to hook up with a random when pissed up in a bar maybe?

Or on a tinder or pof etc "date". "

Are randoms or people on dating sites more likely to have an STI than a Swinging couple?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Couples think other couples are 'safe'.

Singles fuck around. Couples Swing. Swinging is safe, fucking around is not.

Why do you come to that conclusion? How many couples do you know who have said this? Why do you sneer at swinging and couples a lot?

I've read this thinking a lot on forums and I'm sure you have too. There is this attitude amongst many couples as if they're safer and better because they 'swing'.

Less likely to hook up with a random when pissed up in a bar maybe?

Or on a tinder or pof etc "date".

Are randoms or people on dating sites more likely to have an STI than a Swinging couple?"

Much less likely to go to the sexual health clinic regularly i would have thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A major observation on couples posting videos. In particular MMF videos the amount of videos with “none partners” barebacking is crazy. Anyone else make the same observation? "

How do you know its not their partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s upto them but it will put some people off if it’s not their thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation.

So what are you going to do about it? It's easy to say it's selfish, so what is your plan of action to make these reckless bastards rubber up?!"

It's not about getting others to change as you know well yourself it's not what they want to do, but rather it's just good to know who to block along with those they meet.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation.

So what are you going to do about it? It's easy to say it's selfish, so what is your plan of action to make these reckless bastards rubber up?!

It's not about getting others to change as you know well yourself it's not what they want to do, but rather it's just good to know who to block along with those they meet."

Sounds selfish to me...

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I have met couples from here who said they wanted safe sex then guess what... The old latex allergy gag, and one f trying to pull off the condom mid fuck.

At least be honest. If someone has bareback on their profile at least I can avoid them and the videos helps me avoid them too. If they banned the use of the word bareback on here then it would drive them underground. The first rule of bareback club..

Never mention bareback club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation.

So what are you going to do about it? It's easy to say it's selfish, so what is your plan of action to make these reckless bastards rubber up?!

It's not about getting others to change as you know well yourself it's not what they want to do, but rather it's just good to know who to block along with those they meet.

Sounds selfish to me..."

I don't follow how it's selfish?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"A major observation on couples posting videos. In particular MMF videos the amount of videos with “none partners” barebacking is crazy. Anyone else make the same observation?

How do you know its not their partner? "

Because MMF involves two men and one lady. If it's a couple , that does not include 3 people as a rule

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

I think OP where you went wrong was to openly share your opinion. Fabswingers are judgemental AF. Its understandable, we are talking about sex, so people are selective. But openly sharing your opinions on what others do is a little non U. Its tricky, for sure.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation.

So what are you going to do about it? It's easy to say it's selfish, so what is your plan of action to make these reckless bastards rubber up?!

It's not about getting others to change as you know well yourself it's not what they want to do, but rather it's just good to know who to block along with those they meet.

Sounds selfish to me...

I don't follow how it's selfish?"

By blocking them and those they meet, sounds like you're only worried about yourself.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

By blocking them and those they meet, sounds like you're only worried about yourself. "

What is wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of pictures of people having unprotected sex is worrying.

Whenever someone writes a forum about it, everyone seems to have a go at the OP.

It's only a worry if i also plan on having unprotected sex with them.

Don't anyone else have concerns for other people these days

I think that sums it up nicely. People will bb without a care for anyone else’s health. I’m sure you’re right Clem

So what do you think the answer is Babs? Were you happy before video living in a world where everyone uses condoms?

I don’t watch the videos Clem because it’s not a feature I need. A bb photo would probably have the same effect on me most likely.

I think I’m just mostly surprised and shocked actually by the attitude of some people. It’s not ok to put others at risk. It can’t be. We’re talking about personal gratification here.

I’m not judging here, if folk want to do it then that’s their choice but if I’m meeting them then I would like to know to be given the choice of exposing myself to that situation.

So what are you going to do about it? It's easy to say it's selfish, so what is your plan of action to make these reckless bastards rubber up?!

It's not about getting others to change as you know well yourself it's not what they want to do, but rather it's just good to know who to block along with those they meet.

Sounds selfish to me...

I don't follow how it's selfish?

By blocking them and those they meet, sounds like you're only worried about yourself. "

How is that? Why should I worry about those who bareback? It's their life? Blocking them is only an extension of fab rules as no interest, not compatable so move on.

As usual it seems you're just looking to argue and if someone disagrees you seem to pout.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

" By blocking them and those they meet, sounds like you're only worried about yourself. "

What is wrong with that? "

That was my exact point throughout the thread!!

In short, people do bareback sex. Who fucking knew?!

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