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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hubby would like me to be owned by a master. I’m not completely sure what that means. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you ask him what he means by it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don't do it.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Hubby would like me to be owned by a master. I’m not completely sure what that means. X"

That’s cool but isn’t it about what you both want ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m not sure what it entails, just not to do something because of lack of information is not me lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have and he’s said to find out a tell him what I think it is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not sure what it entails, just not to do something because of lack of information is not me lol x"

It's a form of dom/sub dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it is, and I would never do anything I don’t want to, but we are all in here to broaden our horizons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and he’s said to find out a tell him what I think it is x"

If you use the Reply + quote button we know who you're replyig to.

Do you have a dom/ sub type relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And would I be completely controlled by a master?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and he’s said to find out a tell him what I think it is x

If you use the Reply + quote button we know who you're replyig to.

Do you have a dom/ sub type relationship? "

Lol, I have never posted on here before. Sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So ur husband doesnt want to be your master

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and he’s said to find out a tell him what I think it is x

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Do you have a dom/ sub type relationship?

Lol, I have never posted on here before. Sorry x"

I am very submissive and like to be controlled x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have and he’s said to find out a tell him what I think it is x

If you use the Reply + quote button we know who you're replyig to.

Do you have a dom/ sub type relationship?

Lol, I have never posted on here before. Sorry x"

Yes I realised that, just trying to help. I didn't mean to sound rude, sorry. X

Welcome to the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So ur husband doesnt want to be your master "

No he doesn’t x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and he’s said to find out a tell him what I think it is x

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Do you have a dom/ sub type relationship?

Lol, I have never posted on here before. Sorry x

I didn’t think for 1 sec you were being rude, just helpful x

Yes I realised that, just trying to help. I didn't mean to sound rude, sorry. X

Welcome to the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And would I be completely controlled by a master? "

The boundaries would be drawn between you and the master.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ur husband doesnt want to be your master

No he doesn’t x"

Does your husband want to be in a cockhold relationship

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"And would I be completely controlled by a master? "

I think that would depend on what type of relationship you agree with the "master". I'm not sure it's the kind of thing where you can just search for a master on fab and find one, I would imagine it's a relationship that develops over time and involves a lot of trust between the two people involved. But I'm no expert.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have and he’s said to find out a tell him what I think it is x

If you use the Reply + quote button we know who you're replyig to.

Do you have a dom/ sub type relationship?

Lol, I have never posted on here before. Sorry x

Where would I find a master?

I didn’t think for 1 sec you were being rude, just helpful x

Yes I realised that, just trying to help. I didn't mean to sound rude, sorry. X

Welcome to the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So ur husband doesnt want to be your master

No he doesn’t x

Does your husband want to be in a cockhold relationship"

He dominant but also likes to see me controlled by other men x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And would I be completely controlled by a master?

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And would I be completely controlled by a master?

The boundaries would be drawn between you and the master."

Would I always have to do as I’m told? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ur husband doesnt want to be your master

No he doesn’t x

Does your husband want to be in a cockhold relationship

He dominant but also likes to see me controlled by other men x"

So he’s sort of like a stag then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And would I be completely controlled by a master?

The boundaries would be drawn between you and the master.

Would I always have to do as I’m told? X"

At the times and situations you've agreed to with the master - yes. You'd have to draw clear lines when it would be applicable and not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So ur husband doesnt want to be your master

No he doesn’t x

Does your husband want to be in a cockhold relationship

He dominant but also likes to see me controlled by other men x

I suppose he is lol x

So he’s sort of like a stag then "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And would I be completely controlled by a master?

The boundaries would be drawn between you and the master.

Would I always have to do as I’m told? X

At the times and situations you've agreed to with the master - yes. You'd have to draw clear lines when it would be applicable and not."

I’m getting to like the sound of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a cuck and bull story to me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like a cuck and bull story to me.."

And why’s that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And would I be completely controlled by a master? "

A Master of what though? You can't be a Master unless you have mastered something, a skill, for instance (flogging, electro play, etc). I would advise thinking very carefully about what you want and who you choose to be your Master.

Miss C

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like a cuck and bull story to me.."

And why’s that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And would I be completely controlled by a master?

The boundaries would be drawn between you and the master.

Would I always have to do as I’m told? X

At the times and situations you've agreed to with the master - yes. You'd have to draw clear lines when it would be applicable and not.

I’m getting to like the sound of this

There are some good articles online regarding this. Always with doing some research to get a better idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And would I be completely controlled by a master?

The boundaries would be drawn between you and the master.

Would I always have to do as I’m told? X

At the times and situations you've agreed to with the master - yes. You'd have to draw clear lines when it would be applicable and not.

I’m getting to like the sound of this

There are some good articles online regarding this. Always with doing some research to get a better idea."

*worth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And would I be completely controlled by a master?

The boundaries would be drawn between you and the master.

Would I always have to do as I’m told? X

At the times and situations you've agreed to with the master - yes. You'd have to draw clear lines when it would be applicable and not.

Thank you. I think it’s something that interests me but I would have to be sure first x

I’m getting to like the sound of this

There are some good articles online regarding this. Always with doing some research to get a better idea."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have a think about what you are comfortable with and establish boundaries.

Decide if this is more of a play dynamic or if you are planning it to take on a lifestyle change or be exclusive to one master/Dom

Decide if certain criteria are important you’ve capped your age range at 40 will you want a younger Dom or was that more for your cougar play dynamic?

You might want to look at bdsm themed nights at clubs get into the scene there and speak to people see what goes on and it might help you find your place

I think you have a lot of things to consider

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By *ete le MeatMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire/ Notts

Where do I apply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like a cuck and bull story to me..

And why’s that?"

I think you’ll find that’s an attempt at a play on words a cuck and a bull are a type of dynamic

Google it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From someone who has played within this aspect, like an early poster said if you don't know don't do it, its obviously not something you're up to speed with so to do it on somebody else's request would be stupid.

From experience the people who are owned are owned because they have craved that well before it was suggested and well before there was the option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like a cuck and bull story to me..

And why’s that?"

think it was supposed to be a witty reposte.... but if hubby wants just for you to be dominated or used by men, then that is definately NOT the "master" route. We'd repeat the same as others here have already posted on this thread, ie read through the various articles on FAB to get more balanced understanding and do some research across t'net, then best for both of you to discuss and decide what you both want to get from it - good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You should have a think about what you are comfortable with and establish boundaries.

Decide if this is more of a play dynamic or if you are planning it to take on a lifestyle change or be exclusive to one master/Dom

Decide if certain criteria are important you’ve capped your age range at 40 will you want a younger Dom or was that more for your cougar play dynamic?

You might want to look at bdsm themed nights at clubs get into the scene there and speak to people see what goes on and it might help you find your place

I think you have a lot of things to consider

Thanks, it all sounds quite exciting. You are right, my age preference is set at 40 and I would want a master to be within that age bracket x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like a cuck and bull story to me..

And why’s that?

So sorry

I miss read it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think that it's a bonus to hear that your husband wants you to be owned and have a master x but you must look into this and see if you are comfortable with it. There's an awful lot of things to having a master. There's loads of things that it contains. You should try clubs and meet other subs and learn all about it x if you are comfortable and it makes yous happy why not x but take it from me there's a whole new world out there when you are being owned. Definitely look seriously into it x whatever you decide best of luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have a think about what you are comfortable with and establish boundaries.

Decide if this is more of a play dynamic or if you are planning it to take on a lifestyle change or be exclusive to one master/Dom

Decide if certain criteria are important you’ve capped your age range at 40 will you want a younger Dom or was that more for your cougar play dynamic?

You might want to look at bdsm themed nights at clubs get into the scene there and speak to people see what goes on and it might help you find your place

I think you have a lot of things to consider

Thanks, it all sounds quite exciting. You are right, my age preference is set at 40 and I would want a master to be within that age bracket x

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just wanted to tell you that I think that your videos and your pics are brilliant too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I personally think that it's a bonus to hear that your husband wants you to be owned and have a master x but you must look into this and see if you are comfortable with it. There's an awful lot of things to having a master. There's loads of things that it contains. You should try clubs and meet other subs and learn all about it x if you are comfortable and it makes yous happy why not x but take it from me there's a whole new world out there when you are being owned. Definitely look seriously into it x whatever you decide best of luck x"

Thank you Jack x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you Jack x "
no problem

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

"And would I be completely controlled by a master?

The boundaries would be drawn between you and the master."

Very true xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been owned and collared by my dom for almost seven years. We'd known each other two and a half years and he'd been spanking me for six months when he offered me the collar. To us it's a really deep, special commitment and I've never met anyone else I'd have considered it with. But that's just us and it can mean whatever you want it to mean. People like to talk about the true or the right way to do things but it's just bollocks. What you choose and decide is the right thing. I hope you enjoy it

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

"I've been owned and collared by my dom for almost seven years. We'd known each other two and a half years and he'd been spanking me for six months when he offered me the collar. To us it's a really deep, special commitment and I've never met anyone else I'd have considered it with. But that's just us and it can mean whatever you want it to mean. People like to talk about the true or the right way to do things but it's just bollocks. What you choose and decide is the right thing. I hope you enjoy it

Sounds amazing, very jealous xx

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