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What is a ‘ruined orgasm’?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As asked above what is a ruined orgasm and what purpose do they serve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man, it's when you've just gone over the edge and you begin to ejaculate, but you stop stimulating your penis as you cum. This results a less satisfying orgasm (if any) and a soft cock, but you still feel aroused and even a little frustrated.

It can happen by accident but I think it's most commonly used as part of D/s play.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Its when a woman (or man if you are that way inclined) is wanking the man until he is about to cum and then stops and dosent allow him to cum.

No point in me playing this game as it takes me too long to cum anyway....

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

When your leg is upright in the air and you are just about to cum the waves are starting to flow and cramp attacks your calf muscle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when a guy gets to cum. Sort of. But the instigator stops as the guy's about to cum. And he ends up cumming in a lesser way. So he gets some satisfaction. But also frustration. He doesn't get a full, proper orgasm. It tends to be done by teasing, evil ladies in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its when a woman (or man if you are that way inclined) is wanking the man until he is about to cum and then stops and dosent allow him to cum.

No point in me playing this game as it takes me too long to cum anyway...."

Isn't that edging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its when a woman (or man if you are that way inclined) is wanking the man until he is about to cum and then stops and dosent allow him to cum.

No point in me playing this game as it takes me too long to cum anyway....

Isn't that edging?"

Edging is when you stop before you're about to cum. Ruining is when you stop as you're cumming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its when a woman (or man if you are that way inclined) is wanking the man until he is about to cum and then stops and dosent allow him to cum.

No point in me playing this game as it takes me too long to cum anyway....

Isn't that edging?"

Yes it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its when a woman (or man if you are that way inclined) is wanking the man until he is about to cum and then stops and dosent allow him to cum.

No point in me playing this game as it takes me too long to cum anyway....

Isn't that edging?

Edging is when you stop before you're about to cum. Ruining is when you stop as you're cumming."

Pretty good summation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a sensual sadist ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a sensual sadist ? F&B"

Thank you Sophee

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"What is a sensual sadist ? F&B

Thank you Sophee"

Its OK x

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton


"As asked above what is a ruined orgasm and what purpose do they serve? "

It's when you remember you left the oven on just as you are coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When your leg is upright in the air and you are just about to cum the waves are starting to flow and cramp attacks your calf muscle "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a sensual sadist ? F&B

Thank you Sophee"

I didn't put the F&B in my post

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

For me it's the epitemy of a ruined orgasm is when edging goes wrong. I enjoy a bit of edging but I hate when someone trys to bring me to the edge of cumming but actually just tips it over the edge accidentally and then stops. Simply they have gone too far by the tiniest margin. Putting me in a state of orgasm limbo. I don't quite cum or have an orgasm but my body goes into post orgasm mode. It's very frustrating when someone does that and not something I consider a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its when a woman (or man if you are that way inclined) is wanking the man until he is about to cum and then stops and dosent allow him to cum.

No point in me playing this game as it takes me too long to cum anyway....

Isn't that edging?

Edging is when you stop before you're about to cum. Ruining is when you stop as you're cumming."

I love edging. Getting him ready to cum then jumping off

Only allowing him to cum once I’ve came a few times. I like a 3/1 ratio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, this morning. Just at that point of no return, and my mind decided to skip to random.

So disappointing

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Love ruining him... The look of satisfaction as he thinks he's about to go... To just stop and the look of utter disbelief as his cum just dribbles out with no real effort

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

It's when your on the edge and then the nextdoor neighbours bang on the wall or door and ruin it! well that's my experience anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when I am flicking through porn and searching for a good scene to cum over... Then all of a sudden i cant help it and cum on the wrong scene or whilst my phone loses signal.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It's when a guy gets to cum. Sort of. But the instigator stops as the guy's about to cum. And he ends up cumming in a lesser way. So he gets some satisfaction. But also frustration. He doesn't get a full, proper orgasm. It tends to be done by teasing, evil ladies in my experience. "

Yup this, also there are several ways to ruin an orgasm

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Its when a woman (or man if you are that way inclined) is wanking the man until he is about to cum and then stops and dosent allow him to cum.

No point in me playing this game as it takes me too long to cum anyway....

Isn't that edging?

Edging is when you stop before you're about to cum. Ruining is when you stop as you're cumming."

Ruining can also be keeping a sounding rod in, using anal stimulation whilst subject is wearing a chastity device, using a safe ligature to prevent escape of semen, forcing the subject to eat his ejaculate, fine control edging so he has several climaxes that you stop by pinching (at the base of the penis) after the orgasm has almost started allowing a tiny amount of cum out each time til you subject is drained but unsatisfied which is closely related to milking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well written x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its when a woman (or man if you are that way inclined) is wanking the man until he is about to cum and then stops and dosent allow him to cum.

No point in me playing this game as it takes me too long to cum anyway....

Isn't that edging?

Edging is when you stop before you're about to cum. Ruining is when you stop as you're cumming."

So yes it is edging as she said.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

When he bangs fuck out of you as you tip over the edge and it kills it! Just because he can but them he cums after you missed the mark

Or

When he doesn’t know if you’ve cum or not!!! FFS!!

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"When he bangs fuck out of you as you tip over the edge and it kills it! Just because he can but them he cums after you missed the mark

Or

When he doesn’t know if you’ve cum or not!!! FFS!! "

o thought we were going to keep that between us!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"When he bangs fuck out of you as you tip over the edge and it kills it! Just because he can but them he cums after you missed the mark

Or

When he doesn’t know if you’ve cum or not!!! FFS!!

o thought we were going to keep that between us! "

One would hope you sir, would not indulge in the first and would be acutely aware of the second...

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"When he bangs fuck out of you as you tip over the edge and it kills it! Just because he can but them he cums after you missed the mark

Or

When he doesn’t know if you’ve cum or not!!! FFS!!

o thought we were going to keep that between us!

One would hope you sir, would not indulge in the first and would be acutely aware of the second... "

I was having a bad day, the dog ate my homework and the bus was late!

P.S. I do like when you call me “sir”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's when a Woman cuts a guys dick off just as he cums

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"When he bangs fuck out of you as you tip over the edge and it kills it! Just because he can but them he cums after you missed the mark

Or

When he doesn’t know if you’ve cum or not!!! FFS!!

o thought we were going to keep that between us!

One would hope you sir, would not indulge in the first and would be acutely aware of the second...

I was having a bad day, the dog ate my homework and the bus was late!

P.S. I do like when you call me “sir” "

You said those wouldn’t happen again! .... sir!

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"When he bangs fuck out of you as you tip over the edge and it kills it! Just because he can but them he cums after you missed the mark

Or

When he doesn’t know if you’ve cum or not!!! FFS!!

o thought we were going to keep that between us!

One would hope you sir, would not indulge in the first and would be acutely aware of the second...

I was having a bad day, the dog ate my homework and the bus was late!

P.S. I do like when you call me “sir”

You said those wouldn’t happen again! .... sir! "

Positively tumescent now!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"When he bangs fuck out of you as you tip over the edge and it kills it! Just because he can but them he cums after you missed the mark

Or

When he doesn’t know if you’ve cum or not!!! FFS!!

o thought we were going to keep that between us!

One would hope you sir, would not indulge in the first and would be acutely aware of the second...

I was having a bad day, the dog ate my homework and the bus was late!

P.S. I do like when you call me “sir”

You said those wouldn’t happen again! .... sir!

Positively tumescent now!"

Oh a fabulous word

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