FabSwingers.com forum: The one that got away...

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that many of us have experienced this in life; someone where everything seemed right but somehow things just didn't work out. Tinged with 'what ifs' their memory still pops up from time to time...

In reference to fab though, has anyone experienced this? You chat, connect, but somehow things just don't seem to work out. Situations change and you miss your opportunity...

Share your stories folks, without naming names (unless you really want to!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's meant to be, will be regardless.

There's little sense in dwelling about what if.

If you have a chance, take it. If it doesn't work out, move on.

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

LOL there has been a few, also a few job's, cars and holidays that got away...

Look forward not back as your not going that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me a couple of times.

One turned out to be a lucky escape.

Sometimes things just arent meant to be and that's fine.

Lots of happy memories after the initial disappointment is over.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I was chatting to someone, having a laugh and getting on well. I had spoken to him at a couple of group socials too. We were discussing meeting up at some point but then he left.

I learnt some stuff after he left that made me pleased I hadn’t taken it further though. I don’t think it would have worked out very well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I haven't experienced it. I think it things "don't quite work out" one person in the partnership (however brief or transient) didn't really want it to.

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By *azielMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Yeah... And I still pine for her... Not so much on fab. Hope the feeling goes away or I can fix it one day... Its shit but gotta carry on.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes, once from another site and once from here. I don't think the one from here was ever going to pluck up the courage to meet but man, I really wanted to!

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Linda the hairdresser circa 1990 xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, once from another site and once from here. I don't think the one from here was ever going to pluck up the courage to meet but man, I really wanted to!"

Awww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one guy from here we’ve arranged to meet a few times but things have got in the way and we are in and out of contact every few months, don’t know if it’ll ever happen... probably not I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was supposed to meet Rubideux but the selfish bitch went and got herself a happy relationship instead

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Never deal in “what ifs” only in “what happened”

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

He didn't get away, I let him go

Sometimes walking away is the hardest thing, but the right thing

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I think that many of us have experienced this in life; someone where everything seemed right but somehow things just didn't work out. Tinged with 'what ifs' their memory still pops up from time to time...

In reference to fab though, has anyone experienced this? You chat, connect, but somehow things just don't seem to work out. Situations change and you miss your opportunity...

Share your stories folks, without naming names (unless you really want to!). "

How about you OP??

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No.. people have come and gone at the right time and no regrets..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here only in my teenage years and at Uni.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course it's happened to me. On here.

No excuses just regrets that I didn't meet them.

Life eh! x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Two on here that were heading towards meets after lots of chatting but didn't happen.

One we still wonder about the other not so much.

Ke Sera Sera as Debbie Reynolds says.

S&H

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I have a person like that in my life, been like that for over 20 yrs but if you put us in the same room the chemistry is as wild as ever. Unfortunately our personalities just don't match for anything long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a person like that in my life, been like that for over 20 yrs but if you put us in the same room the chemistry is as wild as ever. Unfortunately our personalities just don't match for anything long term. "

Awe that's seems such a shame. I had something similar though not lasted that long. I find it's best to just be myself and not think about what if's, but the sexual chemistry is just sooo good, but that's all it would be. We know that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me... Timing was 100% wrong... It was explosive, exhilerating and horny... But definitely bad for me at the time.

Who knows what the future holds..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep but it’s serendipity

I’m in the right place, at the right time and everything happens at exactly the right moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but we were both only 9 years old so it was probably a bit soon...

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In reference to fab though, has anyone experienced this? You chat, connect, but somehow things just don't seem to work out. Situations change and you miss your opportunity...

Share your stories folks, without naming names (unless you really want to!).

How about you OP??

Yes, there have been a couple that 'got away' and I didn't meet, mainly because of them leaving or coupling.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

A couple of guys off here that I class as "the ones that got away".

After chatting for a very long time even meeting he stayed off fab for months as he had family issues but he's back on now, tried to reconnect with him but he's not interested, I guess I read more into it that him. Shame as I thought we got on great had some amazing chats, we would chat for hours and hours about everything and nothing. I kinda miss those chats with him.

Second one cancelled on me twice with "family issues", you don't get a third chance. another shame as he is definitely my type and into everything I am...

Not had any in my non fab life as I don't tend to get let down as much as I do on here

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

One in real life, very much so.

On here, no

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There have been a couple of people that I've had good connections with and haven't quite got to meeting, or met once and then life got in the way - I tend not to view them as "ones that got away" more "ones that weren't meant to be" though

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"There have been a couple of people that I've had good connections with and haven't quite got to meeting, or met once and then life got in the way - I tend not to view them as "ones that got away" more "ones that weren't meant to be" though "

Yes but that doesn't make for such a snappy thread title!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He didn't get away, I let him go

Sometimes walking away is the hardest thing, but the right thing "

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By *lue_dogMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

One wonderful person. I often think about her. I should probably move on...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yeeeeeeah. Nuff said.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"He didn't get away, I let him go

Sometimes walking away is the hardest thing, but the right thing "

These are wise words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oo-chie wally wally, oo-chie bang bang

oo-chie wally wally

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