FabSwingers.com forum: Question for singles

By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

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By *rebs001Man
over a year ago

Widnes

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

never say never

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

hopefully love again, but i think/hope it'll be with a fellow swinger

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't know. Not bothered at the moment.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

Love is not the Question

I'd say it's easier to love than to trust someone,

Now could I see myself fully trusting someone again,

Doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's meant to be for me.

Life is a stage and we are all playing our part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hopefully would love to meet a fabster for ltr.

I deserve better than last experience for sure.

Not all blokes are gits"

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

Any chance of a heads up on this

National Geographic would pay me a bundle for those pics, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes you think twice about Acutally wanting love as the break up the 1st time puts doubts about going through this again if it ever did. That's my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had answered this 11 months ago, I would have said and meant it! That I'm very happy being single thank you very much and no intentions whatsoever to be in any kind of relationship.

But them an amazing man walked into my life and made me feel so loved a special.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

If it happens it happens, and when it does it's usually completely unexpected!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

Absolutely it possible to find love

once again,sometimes you got to love yourself even if no one else will.

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I dont think i will ever love again. My guard is up and my heart is hard now. Friends think i need councelling but i am happy by myself and do not trust anyone enough to spoil that.

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

"I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

Any chance of a heads up on this

National Geographic would pay me a bundle for those pics, lol

Just make sure I look good... As good as a half eaten corpse can look...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

I ponder this most days! I’ve been single for best part of 6 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

This, but I'll have two dogs to keep me company.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I definitely will love again

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think I could...

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

I ponder this most days! I’ve been single for best part of 6 years now

Is that through choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely will love again

I hope I will ! I’m definitely ready to and I’m open for it, however I don’t suffer fools or make myself second best.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Nobody has scarred me, some ladies have taken the piss and robbed me of a "few" quid though. I think I'm more street wise now as the only thing that they can steal is my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

_ello, they call me, the squirrel :P

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Don't want to stop being in love my ex, so hoping to find a couple of guys who I almost love, but more importantly they will be my best friends.

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

This, but I'll have two dogs to keep me company."

Why can i love 100 dogs but not one man?. Maybe because they are loyal and show me affection lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to love again

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

"What is love, baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more"

Haddaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

I ponder this most days! I’ve been single for best part of 6 years now

Is that through choice?"

When I sit and look back I’ll answer yes! As I’ve had opportunity but I won’t Just settle, I don’t NEED anyone as such. I just don’t meet anyone I connect on same level with enough to invest in my life. Harder as you grow older , but I’m not willing to just settle for the sake of it. I have my moments when I think “ oh fook it your too fussy etc “.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I definitely will love again

I hope I will ! I’m definitely ready to and I’m open for it, however I don’t suffer fools or make myself second best. "

And you shouldn't

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have never been scarred by previous relationships.

I'm not saying they were all good all the time, in fact they had their drama but I am just fine about them. I am on good terms with those that have really mattered to me in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is beautiful and precious and it puts the world in perspective, dont ever give up on it.....

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I feel sorry for anyone that ever likes me enough to spend more than a few hours with me

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

I cant see it happening anytime soon. Although none of us know what the future holds.

There is no doubt about it past hurts do leave a nasty old scar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't want to stop being in love my ex, so hoping to find a couple of guys who I almost love, but more importantly they will be my best friends. "

I'd put myself out there.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Definitely.. a few wrongens aren’t going to dictate my future

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

Emotions aren’t a choice, what we do with them are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

I ponder this most days! I’ve been single for best part of 6 years now

Is that through choice?

Plus having 2 young children back then I put their needs before mine.

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

On a serious note, I'm not in the market for a relationship, I'm not actively seeking one. However, if somewhere down the line something was to develop I wouldn't run away screaming

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

Emotions aren’t a choice, what we do with them are. "

This!

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

Any chance of a heads up on this

National Geographic would pay me a bundle for those pics, lol

Just make sure I look good... As good as a half eaten corpse can look...

Lol your in good hands,I do this all the time all be it Deer not sure Deer would eat you, but I'll see you right don't worry

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

Lucky wildlife

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By * Star FilthMan
over a year ago

staplehurst

Yeah you love again, it just takes a little piece of you away each time it goes wrong

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I very much doubt I will.

A piece of you disappears every time which doesn’t get repaired, there is only so much you can do that until there’s nothing left

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah course, i love 5 minutes at a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

Emotions aren’t a choice, what we do with them are. "

Technically, yes. In reality that would take a fuck load of self control and coldness.....

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"On a serious note, I'm not in the market for a relationship, I'm not actively seeking one. However, if somewhere down the line something was to develop I wouldn't run away screaming "

I should hope not, that might be what's leads to dying alone and being eaten by wildlife,

Stay calm gives me a chance to get on the plane with my camera and gear, lol

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By * Star FilthMan
over a year ago

staplehurst

"I very much doubt I will.

A piece of you disappears every time which doesn’t get repaired, there is only so much you can do that until there’s nothing left "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be truly loved by a man, as its something I've not experienced since I was a teenager. I've had relationships but not once since have I ever genuinely felt like he loved me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

I love very easily, I'm bursting with it, so yes. finding someone worth loving is the hard bit....

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I haven't been scarred by any previous relationships, but I just don't want to be in another one at this point in my life.

I'll never say never, but at the moment it would take someone very special to stop me enjoying the single life

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

"On a serious note, I'm not in the market for a relationship, I'm not actively seeking one. However, if somewhere down the line something was to develop I wouldn't run away screaming

I should hope not, that might be what's leads to dying alone and being eaten by wildlife,

Stay calm gives me a chance to get on the plane with my camera and gear, lol"

It will be my luck that my partner does before me, so dying alone with wildlife is still possible. Ready your camera my dear

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"On a serious note, I'm not in the market for a relationship, I'm not actively seeking one. However, if somewhere down the line something was to develop I wouldn't run away screaming

I should hope not, that might be what's leads to dying alone and being eaten by wildlife,

Stay calm gives me a chance to get on the plane with my camera and gear, lol

It will be my luck that my partner does before me, so dying alone with wildlife is still possible. Ready your camera my dear

Tell u what I'll send you a wildlife motion camera, just in case, Boris mess,s up more and I can't get in lol I'll get there later and edit,

Keeping my promise

Fair deal ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

No I don’t think I will. Had my heart ripped out, so now just have fun on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

I don't think that I'll ever allow myself to love again. I can have passion, though love - too terrifying. I always fall for the wrong people

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I very much doubt I will.

A piece of you disappears every time which doesn’t get repaired, there is only so much you can do that until there’s nothing left "

Exactly. I have very little emotions these days. Pain makes you numb inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

No I don’t think I will. Had my heart ripped out, so now just have fun on here"

That’s sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

Damn, I’d love to be the wildlife that gets to eat you xx

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By * Star FilthMan
over a year ago

staplehurst

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

I love very easily, I'm bursting with it, so yes. finding someone worth loving is the hard bit....

Likewise

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

I have had everything I wanted, it was all taken away. I didn’t think I was capable of loving again yet I’ve been proved wrong.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m hopeful. Always hopeful.

But realistically my life is not straightforward due to family commitments and i can’t see a fella willing to take it all on at this age, which saddens me a bit so i don’t dwell on it.

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

The amount of men that would like to munch on my dead corpse is slightly disturbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m hopeful. Always hopeful.

But realistically my life is not straightforward due to family commitments and i can’t see a fella willing to take it all on at this age, which saddens me a bit so i don’t dwell on it.

Same

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"If I had answered this 11 months ago, I would have said and meant it! That I'm very happy being single thank you very much and no intentions whatsoever to be in any kind of relationship.

But them an amazing man walked into my life and made me feel so loved a special.

Aww that's really great x

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Think of it as nitches on one heart not on a bed post. (hang in there I will explain). You share emotional cognitive connections linked to ones memories, nostalgia one could say, it is the positive memories we hold and if we are a Sound reflective mood maybe the negative ones to with positive light. Yes they hurt at it drives us, it defines or behaviour and who we are.

Or maybe ruminating on nostalgic times part because I am a man apparently it takes bloody longer to get over it and I should take a psychology course.

Maybe Although you don't love them romantically there are times ones find yourself longing to past.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I’m hopeful. Always hopeful.

But realistically my life is not straightforward due to family commitments and i can’t see a fella willing to take it all on at this age, which saddens me a bit so i don’t dwell on it.

Same "

Never give up hope though. Good things you never expect happen all the time.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"The amount of men that would like to munch on my dead corpse is slightly disturbing

Was just thinking that

As opposed to pic,ing it as it happens, not sure which is worse

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

No scarring here, I just haven't yet met the right fit thus far.

Maybe it will happen or maybe it won't but I shan't be shooing away a potential partner because of previous experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very much doubt I will.

A piece of you disappears every time which doesn’t get repaired, there is only so much you can do that until there’s nothing left

Exactly. I have very little emotions these days. Pain makes you numb inside."

Scars are irreversible.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I very much doubt I will.

A piece of you disappears every time which doesn’t get repaired, there is only so much you can do that until there’s nothing left

Exactly. I have very little emotions these days. Pain makes you numb inside."

It does make you numb I agree.

However, you can learn to shut that away so you can enjoy moments of happiness, joy and even passion at times

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I hope so. But right now, at this moment, no.

I'm a little turned off by the L word because it's thrown around so easily. Do people honestly mean it when they say it?

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Love someone, hmm I don't know. But I won't live with anyone again.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Open minded, I haven't been scarred by any previous relationships and it would be nice to meet someone special but I find that sometimes I'm too independent to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tomorrow is always another day....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I will die alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True Love.

If it happens with the wrong person it can damage you forever!

Should come with a warning like the ciggy packets.

Then that don't stop smokers from smoking.

Keep trying I guess ...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

I love very easily, I'm bursting with it, so yes. finding someone worth loving is the hard bit....

Likewise

Hey you, it's about time we revisited our conversation and met...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, its possible. It's one of the reasons I'm on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubtful for me don't ever want that feeling (broken heart) in my belly again horrible.... But you never know in this crazy life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope so. But right now, at this moment, no.

I'm a little turned off by the L word because it's thrown around so easily. Do people honestly mean it when they say it?

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agreed way too easily banded about

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By *9mat71Man
over a year ago

tewkesbury

Haha...I got more chance of winning the lottery than finding love. And I don't do the lottery....

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

I've discovered over the years, that there is more to life than being someone's sweetie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"
i will love again for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love someone, hmm I don't know. But I won't live with anyone again."

Same for me.

I doubt I will live with anyone again - but if love happens then I wont fight it.

I've been single for so long now that I doubt it will happen - I'm OK with being alone.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Scarred, but hopefully will only be a stretch mark at some point!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

An ex single here.

I had no plans for a relationship, I didn't want one. My ex wife saw to that the way she hurt me and tore my world apart. I was completely broken, unsure of myself and my sense of reality. Didn't know if I'd trust again. My heart was full of darkness and cynicism when it come to relationships.

But then I started a fresh, to find my self again. Darkness and cynicism is not me. I started on here. As the cookie crumbled I met someone. I thought she was hot and I loved our conversation. So we met both with the intention of a bit of NSA fun. But by the end of that day with her I knew then something bigger was at play here. I started feeling things I'd not felt for some time. I spent a good period trying to repress those feelings and stay with the program, but it was no use (turns out she was trying to do the same). Now I couldn't imagine life without her. We have something together better than I could have ever of imagined. We are now engaged and we are unstoppable, I had no doubt of that.

But I'm not bitter about the past. If it wasn't for the past I wouldn't have what I have now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As things stand I've no interest in a relationship at all and could quite happily stay single. I think the trust element is the hardest part to surmount

Never say never of course but at the moment I dont see what I'd gain that I actually want above what I have now. I feel a bit sad saying that but that is the reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with loving people for the moment you are in and the time you are in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind falling in love again. But it's been way too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

Well I just started a relationship and could not be happier. I did wonder if I could fall in love again and I have!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

I'm to set in my ways and I can't deal with the drama anymore.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’m as optimistic as ever despite being active on the dating scene for over three years.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Nothing wrong with loving people for the moment you are in and the time you are in it.

That’s a great way to look at it.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I look forward to that first meet, the way I stare into his eyes and drown, Is it love or lust? who knows what I am feeling but the journey is what makes it worth it, people come and people go they all add to my life and I have fond memories and life experiences to draw on and the knowledge that one day I will take a hand in mine and never want to let go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not really had a bad relationship to be honest, I'm single (26 years) more because I'm wired that way rather than I don't love, can't love or am not loved ... just rather unable to make emotional attachments.

If I actually met a chap that became more than a proper FWB then I'd happily have a relationship, it would be a miracle/adventure that everyone around me (& me) would love.

But I'm very happy and contented to carry on single forever! Last child just about to fly the nest and wonderful adventures on the horizon ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not really had a bad relationship to be honest, I'm single (26 years) more because I'm wired that way rather than I don't love, can't love or am not loved ... just rather unable to make emotional attachments.

If I actually met a chap that became more than a proper FWB then I'd happily have a relationship, it would be a miracle/adventure that everyone around me (& me) would love.

But I'm very happy and contented to carry on single forever! Last child just about to fly the nest and wonderful adventures on the horizon ..."
yes I'm a little like this, enjoying what comes my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been single for nearly 10 years after a really bad ending to a 20 year marriage. I’m not looking for love but I’d like to think it’s possible and could be in my future. I’m happy being single but it feels a bit sad if I think I may never love again or be loved. It would take a very special connection and person though for me to give my heart away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i dont want to fall in love i only end up regretting it as they dont feel the same

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

My scars run very deep, but yes I could love again.

I have people in my life who are very precious to me, people I care about and love dearly.

But falling in love with someone, that's totally different, and not something I'm sure I could allow to happen again.

That kind of love hurts, it nearly destroyed me once, It took me a long time to rebuild my life, I'm not prepared to go through that again.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had been asked that question a few month's ago I would have said no,but now I'm ready to move on and hopefully find love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not, simply because I find it impossible to trust and you can't have love without trust for me.

Happy as I am for now - have sex that I enjoy with people I trust.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"The amount of men that would like to munch on my dead corpse is slightly disturbing

I must be weird, then, as I'd far rather munch on your live body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last rel really has messed me up... one day maybe but certainly no time soon...

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've thought this quite a lot recently.

Yes, I've been hurt and it's been a tough couple of years but I'd hate to let past experiences and other people's actions stop me from being truly happy with someone else in the future.

Perhaps I'm just stubborn and refuse to give in to the shite!

As for the question of will it? I don't know, I'm open to it happening, or rather, I will be if it happens.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I hope I will,scary thought though.

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

It's because of a previous very happy relationship that unfortunately had a sad end I want to find love again!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Wouldn't consider myself scarred by love in any way; nothing but fondness for my exes and I hope they are doing great...

But at the same time: nearly 10 years single, wonderful people in my life and a constant motivation to grow and learn. Love in a traditional sense is no real priority, really.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I have been deeply scarred by past relationships. That's the main reason I started on fab was to have fun, without the relationship . I didn't see me ever getting close to another man, never being able to trust again. However earlier this year a special fella that I met on here changed my attitude.

Taking things slowly and no plans to live together or long term commitment, but i am letting down the barriers and happy. I wasn't looking for love or relationships, but sometimes gay dad dancing wins your heart

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

As I once heard in a film " love is comfort food for the weak and uneducated" lol I've been single for 10 years, as was said somewhere above I don't and won't settle for anyone. I've got fancy and adore them, feel like I wanna compliment them by the way I look into there eyes with the first thought I could lay there all day with them and feel at home even in silence and they have to be able to have a laugh

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

Love, yes

Be with in a full time, committed, relationship? No. Too damaged. But also I like my space.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

"Probably not, simply because I find it impossible to trust and you can't have love without trust for me.

Happy as I am for now - have sex that I enjoy with people I trust. "

You can have love without trust you just can't have a relationship without trust. You can't have trust without trust either

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

It's subjective, of course. What works for one might not for another.

People fix themselves after all kinds of incredible trauma, though. Maybe after, they are changed... maybe not. It's important to know yourself after possible changes before entering into concepts of truth and love.

Love yo'self first, basically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’ve got a lot of love to give. My problem is that I don’t go looking for it, I’m just waiting for it to turn up in my life and hit me like a ton of bricks when I least expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not scared but then not looking for an emotional crutch I am happy as I am. If i come across someone who tweeks long term interest then fine but im not looknig for it.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I will certainly love again .I'm not so sure I will ever be loved

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I will certainly love again .I'm not so sure I will ever be loved"

That's the saddest thing isn't it.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

For me there is a distinction between loving and being in love. I have a depth of feeling for several people (on here) that can be described as a kind of love. It's not platonic, and it goes well beyond fondness. These people are dear to me. I dont like the term FWB, but they are friends, and there is intimacy. Some are closer than others, they are friends, lovers and confidantes all rolled into one package.

Head over heels crazy in love? Not sure I ever had that. I was married young, and basically went along with things.. got talked into getting engaged, we fell pregnant got married so we could live together...

I always live in hope that some day I will be knocked sideways. She will have to be one hell of a woman though (to put up with me every day)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

Absolutely will love and trust someone again. When the time is right

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"
I could love but id never have a relationship as in the normal sense. I have actually walked away in the past if i knew I had feelings

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"For me there is a distinction between loving and being in love. I have a depth of feeling for several people (on here) that can be described as a kind of love. It's not platonic, and it goes well beyond fondness. These people are dear to me. I dont like the term FWB, but they are friends, and there is intimacy. Some are closer than others, they are friends, lovers and confidantes all rolled into one package.

I always live in hope that some day I will be knocked sideways. She will have to be one hell of a woman though (to put up with me every day) "

Yup, even at my age I still live in hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having that amount of trust for someone would be difficult, and since I only love other trans people who can take jokes without being offended, I doubt it.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I remain an open book, just with new chapters to write. So anything is possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure I’ll love again.

I’m happy, positive, I have a pretty good easy life, and I’d love to find love.... probably with a swinger, or at least a man who’s highly sexed and adventurous.

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Im open to it.. If it happens it happens

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Single forever I think. Too selfish for a relationship in every department apart from the bedroom. Very much a giver in that sense. Regular fwb I'd hope for someday however sleeping with complete strangers is still my ultimate turn on.

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By *iniMinx81Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

The "L" word is overrated & thrown around too easily these days.. so no, I avoid it! I'm happy being unloveable! Hahah!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I always live in hope that some day I will be knocked sideways. She will have to be one hell of a woman though (to put up with me every day)

Yup, even at my age I still live in hope.

I know...

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Like some of the ladies said above, I could love again but sharing a home will take awhile as I'm difficult to live with or at least that's what my ex girlfriend (thankfully we're still friends so I can say this) has said lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I always live in hope that some day I will be knocked sideways. She will have to be one hell of a woman though (to put up with me every day)

Yup, even at my age I still live in hope.

I know...

Haha, you know what I mean....

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I always live in hope that some day I will be knocked sideways. She will have to be one hell of a woman though (to put up with me every day)

Yup, even at my age I still live in hope.

I know...

Haha, you know what I mean....

I do.. I remember chatting with you about it in a pub once

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I always live in hope that some day I will be knocked sideways. She will have to be one hell of a woman though (to put up with me every day)

Yup, even at my age I still live in hope.

I know...

Haha, you know what I mean....

I do.. I remember chatting with you about it in a pub once

I remember the gossip...

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Like some of the ladies said above, I could love again but sharing a home will take awhile as I'm difficult to live with or at least that's what my ex girlfriend (thankfully we're still friends so I can say this) has said lol"

Sharing a home would prove to be the hardest part. I enjoy my own space now and very set in my routine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

Love is not the Question

I'd say it's easier to love than to trust someone,

Now could I see myself fully trusting someone again,

Doubt it"

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I always live in hope that some day I will be knocked sideways. She will have to be one hell of a woman though (to put up with me every day)

Yup, even at my age I still live in hope.

I know...

Haha, you know what I mean....

I do.. I remember chatting with you about it in a pub once

I remember the gossip...

There will always be gossip. Especially after a Chesney Hawkes related veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"

Don't know. She proper fucked me over.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I hope so!!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

We live in hope.

Oh no that's hull. Damn.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"We live in hope.

Oh no that's hull. Damn. "

I’ve been to Hull n back a few times

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"We live in hope.

Oh no that's hull. Damn.

I’ve been to Hull n back a few times

well. next time look me up for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not against love, but I'm not particularly looking for it. I think my heart is a little stone walled of its own will at the moment.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not looking for it. If it happens it happens but I think I'm too guarded for it to happen x

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I struggle trusting people anyway, at the moment I’m happily single. I’m certainly not looking for a relationship, it’s easier to fuck and go, no emotions involved.

I did fall in love (or lust? Who knows) a couple of years ago, he told me at the time he wasn’t looking for a relationship, so I’m happy counting him as one of my best friends now instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?"
I'm married (again) but it took me 8 years to get over the trauma of the previous relationship and fully trust and commit to my present husband. I thought I'll never let anyone get close to me or get married again. Time and his patience changed that.

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By *luebell888 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life? I'm married (again) but it took me 8 years to get over the trauma of the previous relationship and fully trust and commit to my present husband. I thought I'll never let anyone get close to me or get married again. Time and his patience changed that."

Lovely to hear. I am very happy for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in love again already.......... caught a glimpse of myself int mirror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you bloody well was with your weird & wonderful ways!

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By *ardyBumMan
over a year ago

Leeds

There will be someone somewhere, so it will be love again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think you will love again or has a past relationship scarred you for life?

Love is not the Question

I'd say it's easier to love than to trust someone,

Now could I see myself fully trusting someone again,

Doubt it"

I agree 100%

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I don't think I will love again, after 4 years single and question every thing a man will do it is unhealthy. I've left site's like this to give 100% only to find because you settle into a relationship, however they were friends of friends etc. It becomes a point were you rather they was friends.

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By *onesie43Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-tent

"I will die alone and get eaten by wildlife

Good way to go, but I'm sooo optimistic, but if I'm going to find someone think they might have to be on here!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I like to think I will meet somebody, I'm not scarred by past relationships at all, my last relationship ended when I was 31 and we were friends for years afterwards (still are if we bump into each other)

I am aware the older you get it is harder to meet people, I have put myself on dating sites, but I have been disappointed in the lack of social skills from men my age, they just don't have a clue and I just don't understand why!

I suppose it doesn't help that I was not brought up here, so my thinking is not the same as theirs, but it can't just be purely that, can it? I mean I've been here for nearly 30 years for gods sake I just don't understand it.

I know I am a strong independent woman but surely that can't put every man off, can it?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"We live in hope.

Oh no that's hull. Damn.

I’ve been to Hull n back a few times

well. next time look me up for a drink.

...that was so smooth even I wanna buy you a drink, lad

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't think my past relationships has scarred me for life. Yes they have taught me lessons and I have learned to be stronger and not allow some of the behaviours I allowed to happen in past relationships but I think that is true for most people. I'm happy being single now and I'm not actively looking for a relationship. Maybe at some stage I will find someone who I will want a realionship with who knows what the future holds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve actively avoided getting into a loving relationship for years now but at 46 I think I’m ready to be in that type of relationship again and if I’m honest over the last couple of years I’ve missed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I have scars? Yes?

Do I hope I love again? Yes, I’d be disappointed if I don’t.

Scars make us interesting, exciting, insightful and better people to be around.

There’s nothing exciting or interesting about a carbon copy of perfection, is there?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"We live in hope.

Oh no that's hull. Damn.

I’ve been to Hull n back a few times

well. next time look me up for a drink.

...that was so smooth even I wanna buy you a drink, lad

I try.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"That I'm very happy being single thank you very much and no intentions whatsoever to be in any kind of relationship.

But them an amazing man walked into my life and made me feel so loved a special.

That’s beautiful to feel special..so happy for you both

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By *appyhumper123Man
over a year ago

hull

Nope the boat sailed on that one im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving someone else isn't the problem, lowering the armour to let them in? That's the problem!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Never say never

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I hope I love again, but don’t necessarily think that is going to be restricted to one person at a time. That was my previous mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always optimistic (and, thankfully, patient).

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"I know I will die alone.

Geordie, as long as you aren’t lonely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is actually a really really sad thread ... I do truly hope that people find that certain something that is seemingly being missed out upon by most, nearly all here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is actually a really really sad thread ... I do truly hope that people find that certain something that is seemingly being missed out upon by most, nearly all here x "
Would love to love again with the right person this time, never give up on love..

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

The love of my life passed away 3yrs ago don’t think I will ever find anyone to fall in love again with ..... he was just as perfect as you could be

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

I have an enormous amount of love to give and want so much to be loved and cared about but its rarely reciprocated in the disposable dating world we have now and it truly sucks.

Im the only one of 7 siblings and of a large friendship group who is single and have never been married and now im pushing 50 ive pretty much given up now so its cats all the way for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really know, I’m pretty scarred from my ex husband.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"The love of my life passed away 3yrs ago don’t think I will ever find anyone to fall in love again with ..... he was just as perfect as you could be

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"This is actually a really really sad thread ... "

I agree with you.

I don't think about love at all anymore but I do wish to have a companion during my traveling period. Being a CD makes it almost impossible of course...despair? maybe.

But chin up, the most important person to love us is ourselves. Don't ever forget that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, im going to become a grumpy old hermit

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

am now 47 and happy not being in a relationship at the mo.who knows whats round the corner though would have tp be soneone pretty special though.so used to doing what i want when i want. not sure i want to give that up. selfish yep probably but at least im honest about it

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