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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve got inspiration for this from another thread to ask about accommodating!

I’m not seeking advice as I don’t and won’t accommodate but wondered those Fabbers who do, for what reason? Are the guests known to you? Do you have a fb/friend there? Or do you allow a stranger into your home.

I’m intrigued.

Also please be nice and respect all opinions on the thread.

Bhubaysi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got inspiration for this from another thread to ask about accommodating!

I’m not seeking advice as I don’t and won’t accommodate but wondered those Fabbers who do, for what reason? Are the guests known to you? Do you have a fb/friend there? Or do you allow a stranger into your home.

I’m intrigued.

Also please be nice and respect all opinions on the thread.

Bhubaysi xx "

Maybe those who accommodate are .....

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

I meet them publicly for a social and a friend always knows where I am and who with. If I like them and my gut says yes then I invite them to my place on a second meet.

Sometimes I won't accommodate because I don't want them knowing who I work for and my uniform gives it away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet for a social, if I feel comfortable, I accommodate on the next meet usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet them publicly for a social and a friend always knows where I am and who with. If I like them and my gut says yes then I invite them to my place on a second meet.

Sometimes I won't accommodate because I don't want them knowing who I work for and my uniform gives it away "

I love lollipop ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet for a social, if I feel comfortable, I accommodate on the next meet usually. "

Very sensible x

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I accommodate but like to have met a few times first and if we get on then happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've allowed 2 men from Fab into my home.

They have to earn the trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I accommodate but like to have met a few times first and if we get on then happy days"

Blast from the past but great show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying you accommodate is open to interpretation. Since I’m not a complete idiot (though that’s open for debate) I understand that to meet someone who accommodates doesn’t instantly mean I’m going round their house for a bit of the in and out (Clockwork Orange reference there lol) on the first meet. It’s just letting someone know that you’re in a position to invite them over when you feel it’s right for you.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have only accommodated, usually for 2 nights, but the last lady stopped for 4 nights, it seemed like I couldn't get rid of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i do accomodate its in my van, down a dark alley but i do have puppies, so bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i do accomodate its in my van, down a dark alley but i do have puppies, so bonus."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i do accomodate its in my van, down a dark alley but i do have puppies, so bonus."

Can I just have the puppies?

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire


"I meet them publicly for a social and a friend always knows where I am and who with. If I like them and my gut says yes then I invite them to my place on a second meet.

Sometimes I won't accommodate because I don't want them knowing who I work for and my uniform gives it away

I love lollipop ladies "

It's the coat isn't it, I've got your weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have a guest room here for our visitors. It's the only way to do it living where we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't get how women can accept the risk of allowing a random dude into the home. I'm bad enough when the gas man comes to service the boiler because I think he's going to rob all my junk....

Relationships or ppl you've seen more than a handful of times I guess is ok, but randoms seems wrong to me. I know ppl here who will meet with their kids at home or while their husband is out they'll fuck in their bed without him knowing. Just inviting trouble doing that.....

If I was going to do a random meet I'd rather be at a hotel, then it's less personal too, nobody wants to see your family photos or laundry drying, do they...?

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington


"Yes we have a guest room here for our visitors. It's the only way to do it living where we do."
In Stornoway! I'd have thought you'd need a private jet, not a guest room

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’m not overly keen on half my friends in my house lol

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have accommodated a couple of times and never had a problem. I am comfortable in my own surroundings. I've since changed how I feel and would now rather meet at a hotel because it's since become apparent that people can get too needy so I don't want them

dropping by my home. Although I do meet at theirs after a social and getting a feel for them.

Each meet is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only let one fab person into my house but we had met several times at various places and he became more of a friend anyway. It's up to the individual what they do in their home surely but I imagine it's more if a big deal for women to allow men in due to safety etc

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I have accommodated only a handful of times and it’s only people I have met before and trust (in some sense). I wouldn’t have any random stranger in my home.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"when i do accomodate its in my van, down a dark alley but i do have puppies, so bonus."

I never got my puppy

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes I have and will continue to.. it’s where I’m most comfortable. The guys I meet are few and far between and people I’ve known for a while. I’ve never had an issue or felt uncomfortable. I see them as friends first.

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