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Charging 'expences'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it acceptable to be charged 'expenses' for petrol and overnight accommodation when they travel to a meet you ?

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon


"Is it acceptable to be charged 'expenses' for petrol and overnight accommodation when they travel to a meet you ? "

We've answered you in the original post you made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Am happy to split the cost of a meal or an hotel but not for petrol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this a second meet or still the first one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would sometimes offer, but I wouldn't be impressed if someone asked.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

when I was a single guy

I had a lady message me who wanted me to pay the £40 for her baby sitter

as they said in TNW I politely declined her offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no..asking for petrol money is taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A 'couple' sent us a wink .. The profile left us 'gobsmacked' to sat the least .. dont know whether to report it or not ..

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon


"A 'couple' sent us a wink .. The profile left us 'gobsmacked' to sat the least .. dont know whether to report it or not ..

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We've seen a few in our time. One even stated the type of hotel - a 5 star one with a spa!

They were reported and we haven't seen them since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 'couple' sent us a wink .. The profile left us 'gobsmacked' to sat the least .. dont know whether to report it or not ..

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do share with us who they are, i need a good smack in the gob lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it acceptable to be charged 'expenses' for petrol and overnight accommodation when they travel to a meet you ? "

no

if your sharing a hotel room for play you should both pay but if the hotels only being used by oen person to sleep in after play then they shpuld pay for their own room

I dont drive so all my meets are via trains, taxis etc so i cant get costly but i wouldnt dream of asking who im meeting to cover my travel costs, if i couldnt afford it i wouldnt go, even if they offered to pay id say no and arrange another time i could afford it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do .. Lady of the night spring to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Don't name them on this forum its not allowed

If you think the profile is a bit suspect then report it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it acceptable to be charged 'expenses' for petrol and overnight accommodation when they travel to a meet you ? "

when you say travel to meet you do you mean your inviting them round to your home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't afford to travel then you accommodate in my book. If some sort asked me to pay for petrol i would decline. Much rather travel and pay for a hotel room as handing over cash is something else to me and not swinging.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Is it acceptable to be charged 'expenses' for petrol and overnight accommodation when they travel to a meet you ?

no

if your sharing a hotel room for play you should both pay but if the hotels only being used by oen person to sleep in after play then they shpuld pay for their own room

I dont drive so all my meets are via trains, taxis etc so i cant get costly but i wouldnt dream of asking who im meeting to cover my travel costs, if i couldnt afford it i wouldnt go, even if they offered to pay id say no and arrange another time i could afford it"

i often put on my profile asking if anyone fancies giving me a lift to a club...petrol money is always offered

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Looking at the replies from the OP I would say that it is not actually a meet but what someone has written on their profile...

All they have done is send you a wink...am I right?

If you don't agree with what they have asked in their profile...simply move on...

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"A 'couple' sent us a wink .. The profile left us 'gobsmacked' to sat the least .. dont know whether to report it or not ..

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Report what??

They haven't asked you for anything and although we here may not agree with it, they may be others that will happily pay cost of petrol/accommodation...

More fool the ones that do, but that is their choice...

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