FabSwingers.com forum: A shout out to those of you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having a tough time.

It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.

Remember:

You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.

You're loved by more people than you realise.

People look up to you.

You made it this far right? You can make it further.

Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.

It's another opportunity to learn and grow.

Much love.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuzz

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over a year ago

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How lovely

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over a year ago

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

What a Wonderful post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People need a reminder sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i fancied a late night cake last night but missed the local tesco expess by a min or two and they shut = no cake so down last night never slept a wink ill make sure on the way home ill buy double amounts of cake not going thru that again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so needed to read this today! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a tough time.

It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.

Remember:

You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.

You're loved by more people than you realise.

People look up to you.

You made it this far right? You can make it further.

Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.

It's another opportunity to learn and grow.

Much love.

Exellently put, ive been through the worst thing a parent can go through and it didnt permanantly break me, damaged me for life but not broken me, currently go through something far less thats come close to finishing me off, yet this simple selfless post has just helped me put things into perspective a little, for that i thank you from the bottom of my soul. Now im off to a dark room so sob uncontrolably.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

Great work OP.... Loving the love

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Thanks P.... needed

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Does this post also come with free hugs?

Its amazing what a hug can do for somebody. No words needed just a hug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A lovely post indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does this post also come with free hugs?

Its amazing what a hug can do for somebody. No words needed just a hug. "

Absolutely.

I'm the hug monster. You can feel the care and love that come through mine. B gives a good un too.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Awww ya big old softy

Needs to be more of you around my friend and more threads like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a tough time.

It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.

Remember:

You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.

You're loved by more people than you realise.

People look up to you.

You made it this far right? You can make it further.

Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.

It's another opportunity to learn and grow.

Much love.

I dont know which one or both of you that just sent me that pm but thank you so much, you are good people, the world needs more of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you. I needed to read this at the moment.

Luvs ya PP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Awww ya big old softy

Needs to be more of you around my friend and more threads like this

Big softy yes, but I'll still dropkick a mofo for being a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww ya big old softy

Needs to be more of you around my friend and more threads like this

Big softy yes, but I'll still dropkick a mofo for being a cunt

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww ya big old softy

Needs to be more of you around my friend and more threads like this

Big softy yes, but I'll still dropkick a mofo for being a cunt

And this is exactly why I like you so much

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My TeenyTiny PeachyPrincess

You have been the glue that has held me together on more than one occasion

Right now, everything feels final, I know it's not, but I'm questioning the point of life, how I'm going to carry on.

I needed your dainty size 3s to give me a good butt kick x

Thank you, for being you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My TeenyTiny PeachyPrincess

You have been the glue that has held me together on more than one occasion

Right now, everything feels final, I know it's not, but I'm questioning the point of life, how I'm going to carry on.

I needed your dainty size 3s to give me a good butt kick x

Thank you, for being you

Stay strong and remember tomorrows a new day, you never know whats round the corner.

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over a year ago

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My TeenyTiny PeachyPrincess

You have been the glue that has held me together on more than one occasion

Right now, everything feels final, I know it's not, but I'm questioning the point of life, how I'm going to carry on.

I needed your dainty size 3s to give me a good butt kick x

Thank you, for being you

I don't need thanks ya daft twat

Yes, parts are final, but not all. You're questioning because you're trying to make sense of something. We all do that. We all need to make sense of things, especially when there's seemingly no logic behind it. It's perfectly normal and natural.

I'll tell ya how you're gonna carry on.

Through teary eyes to begin with, but with sheer grit and determination because lady, you're a fucker for making the rest of us look like we're only putting in a half arsed effort.

We all crack, we all crumble a little (sometimes a lot) but you know as well as I do you have the glue inside you to fix the cracks, the glue just needs warming up is all.

Now bend over, I've just put my winklepickers on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah nice post. Been through some shit times here. Won’t bother long through it all but it was pretty shit. The only thing that kept me motivated was my girls. Other wise I would definitely been a goner now.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Lovely post to read and caring people like you OP make Fab err fab xxx

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind readers you two are.. lovely post and always good be be reminded you’re not the only one going through shit.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"My TeenyTiny PeachyPrincess

You have been the glue that has held me together on more than one occasion

Right now, everything feels final, I know it's not, but I'm questioning the point of life, how I'm going to carry on.

I needed your dainty size 3s to give me a good butt kick x

Thank you, for being you

I don't need thanks ya daft twat

I'll tell ya how you're gonna carry on.

Through teary eyes to begin with, but with sheer grit and determination because lady, you're a fucker for making the rest of us look like we're only putting in a half arsed effort.

We all crack, we all crumble a little (sometimes a lot) but you know as well as I do you have the glue inside you to fix the cracks, the glue just needs warming up is all.

Now bend over, I've just put my winklepickers on.

I fucking love you xxx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes a reminder that you're not alone and you have people that will be there for you is all that's needed to put the beginnings of a smile on your face. Thanks for being you OP and doing this lovely thread x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you op.

I’ve been through more shit most people can barely even think of but I’m still here surviving.

I love what you wrote and really needed to hear it

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most timely thread ever. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you op.

I’ve been through more shit most people can barely even think of but I’m still here surviving.

I love what you wrote and really needed to hear it "

We are all here for you

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Mrs TMN x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Thanks, I really need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

That's beautiful P, wonderful words and very very true

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Perfect timing as ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah nice post. Been through some shit times here. Won’t bother long through it all but it was pretty shit. The only thing that kept me motivated was my girls. Other wise I would definitely been a goner now.

I bet they appreciate you very much. X

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Thank you, and back at ya x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Thanks Op, it's actually nice to read something positive, funnily enough the words do have meaning for me currently.

Generally find certain song lyrics help me get through some bad times recently as well

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

"Having a tough time.

It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.

Remember:

You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.

You're loved by more people than you realise.

People look up to you.

You made it this far right? You can make it further.

Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.

It's another opportunity to learn and grow.

Much love.

love a post like this

much love back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks Op, it's actually nice to read something positive, funnily enough the words do have meaning for me currently.

Generally find certain song lyrics help me get through some bad times recently as well

I wouldnt be here if it wasnt for music, music is my therapy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you pp, just what I needed today. I’m sat here crying but know that tomorrow is a new day and I’ll survive that as well.,

It’s hard holding everyone else together when you’re falling apart yourself. But I’m a stubborn old woman and I won’t let it beat me x

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

"Thank you pp, just what I needed today. I’m sat here crying but know that tomorrow is a new day and I’ll survive that as well.,

It’s hard holding everyone else together when you’re falling apart yourself. But I’m a stubborn old woman and I won’t let it beat me x "

self love is the only way to go x put yourself back together slowly piece by piece xxx thankfully we have the choice whether to restart the machine every day and write a new script xxx

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Having a tough time.

It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.

Remember:

You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.

You're loved by more people than you realise.

People look up to you.

You made it this far right? You can make it further.

Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.

It's another opportunity to learn and grow.

Much love.

Needed that. Ta. X

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Exactly what I needed to read today x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Thanks P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this post also come with free hugs?

Its amazing what a hug can do for somebody. No words needed just a hug. "

Yes please, I need a cuddle

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Does this post also come with free hugs?

Its amazing what a hug can do for somebody. No words needed just a hug.

Yes please, I need a cuddle

Why didn't you say so! Come here you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this post also come with free hugs?

Its amazing what a hug can do for somebody. No words needed just a hug.

Yes please, I need a cuddle

Why didn't you say so! Come here you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just what I needed to read ahead of the day as I've been low all week

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Today is a new day. It may be tougher than yesterday, it may be a little less blue than yesterday.

I'm setting you a challenge.

If you had a friend coming to visit who wasn't feeling down, or maybe just wasn't looking after themselves as best as they could you'd look after them wouldn't you in your own way. Maybe you'd sort them something to eat that showed them you care? Something with nutrients and a touch of the feel good factor.

Guess what? You're not just a friend to others, you're also your own friend. Make that food for YOU. Show yourself you are worthy of some care.... because you are.

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over a year ago

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Cheered me up this P thankyou , now if I can stop feeling washed out I'd be even better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cheered me up this P thankyou , now if I can stop feeling washed out I'd be even better

Take up the challenge I just set and see if it helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a tough time.

It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.

Remember:

You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.

You're loved by more people than you realise.

People look up to you.

You made it this far right? You can make it further.

Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.

It's another opportunity to learn and grow.

Much love.

Sooooo bootiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Today is a new day. It may be tougher than yesterday, it may be a little less blue than yesterday.

I'm setting you a challenge.

Guess what? You're not just a friend to others, you're also your own friend. Make that food for YOU. Show yourself you are worthy of some care.... because you are.

So very true...happy with who you are...happy to pamper oneself as well as others is a happy soul..it's a soul at peace or at least that moment in time ..it may see you thru to an end it may see you thru for but a few moments..the fact is your heart bore a smile..the greatest of all medicines

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Today is a new day. It may be tougher than yesterday, it may be a little less blue than yesterday.

I'm setting you a challenge.

Guess what? You're not just a friend to others, you're also your own friend. Make that food for YOU. Show yourself you are worthy of some care.... because you are.

I'm trying xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm not going through a tough time myself , but always here if someone wants to talk. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I needed this today. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a tough time.

It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.

Remember:

You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.

You're loved by more people than you realise.

People look up to you.

You made it this far right? You can make it further.

Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.

It's another opportunity to learn and grow.

Much love.

What a lovely post,and very poignant to me personally, so thankyou.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you op x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

P has been through some dark times in her own life, so as well as being a comfort knows exactly where a lot of those needing comfort are coming from?

She's been bloody great to me, and I like to think I can brighten her own moods sometimes (usually by surprises which I tend to be decent at!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hum yeah, great post OP. That's just what's needed. Trying to keep my chin up

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