FabSwingers.com forum: bi-ladies

By *r and mrs sanddancer OP Couple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

I have noticed that the number of couples where the lady is bi and they are really only interested in playing with the other lady has increased dramatically.

One even suggested that the men could go to the pub for a drink while they played

I'm sorry but that is not swinging to us,

What are your thoughts on this ?

Would you be happy to play this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think swinging is whatever the couple wants it to be really. Everyone has their own agenda and that's why you only really meet up with people that fit into your way of thinking

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes we would be happy to play this way, infact we have in the past. But it was something we had all agreed on beforehand.

I have also met and played with ladies on my own. (no partners present at all)

But then we are open to playing most ways (full swap, soft swap, girl/girl only, groups)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant see anything wrong with guys buggering off for a while and letting the ladies play alone, not all women want to be performing seals and some perfer time alone just for them with another woman

If its not for you fair enough but its still swinging just because its not how you'd do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have noticed that the number of couples where the lady is bi and they are really only interested in playing with the other lady has increased dramatically.

One even suggested that the men could go to the pub for a drink while they played

I'm sorry but that is not swinging to us,

What are your thoughts on this ?

Would you be happy to play this way "

That's a little dramatic isn't it? Someone isn't interested in playing with you so you call it not swinging! I thought the would that is more appropriate is choice.

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By *r and mrs sanddancer OP Couple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx"

not making a fuss just curious that's all as we do seem to get mainly that sort of messages from `supposed` couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx

not making a fuss just curious that's all as we do seem to get mainly that sort of messages from `supposed` couples "

eh why are they "supposed" couples?? just because they choose to play separately from time to time. it doesn't make them any less of a couple x

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

just because you're a couple doesn't always mean you want the same thing at the same time...

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

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"Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx

not making a fuss just curious that's all as we do seem to get mainly that sort of messages from `supposed` couples "

Your profile is virtually all demands and don't do this sont do that and you finish of "Sorry but that is our preference" Rgather ironic don't you think

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I'm married.....but I ain't joined at the hip to my other half......

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I like the doing as much as I enjoy the being entertained, so it's no biggie for me to 'sit one out', pick the clothes up off the floor and stick the kettle on... lol

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By *r and mrs sanddancer OP Couple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"I have noticed that the number of couples where the lady is bi and they are really only interested in playing with the other lady has increased dramatically.

One even suggested that the men could go to the pub for a drink while they played

I'm sorry but that is not swinging to us,

What are your thoughts on this ?

Would you be happy to play this way

That's a little dramatic isn't it? Someone isn't interested in playing with you so you call it not swinging! I thought the would that is more appropriate is choice."

yes it is but our profile states quite clearly we play as a couple

but these fems seem to have ditched their partners as far as swinging goes and expect me to do the same.

It is when they first message us for a meet then when all arrangements are made they drop in that bomb shell

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Why make a fuss about it if it isn't your thing, find other people who meet your requirements, i am sure there are some out there. Negativity is a turn off. Julie xx

not making a fuss just curious that's all as we do seem to get mainly that sort of messages from `supposed` couples

eh why are they "supposed" couples?? just because they choose to play separately from time to time. it doesn't make them any less of a couple x"

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