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Do men like sexually aggressive women?

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By *itty9899 OP   Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deoends on their height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deoends on their height"

And what height is best?

Asking for a friend

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It depends if they can beat me in an arm wrestle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive."

So just a tiny bit aggressive then?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

They get my thumbs up seal of approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a kick in the bollocks count as sexually aggressive?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Does a kick in the bollocks count as sexually aggressive?"

Man up! That’s basically flirting

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I would say no they don't tbh

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive."
mmm slightly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like anyone aggressive, unless it's in self defence.

I like women who are forward and know what they want.

Not sure I want kidney punches whilst she bends me over the sofa though

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"I don't like anyone aggressive, unless it's in self defence.

I like women who are forward and know what they want.

Not sure I want kidney punches whilst she bends me over the sofa though "
yes not that aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like anyone aggressive, unless it's in self defence.

I like women who are forward and know what they want.

Not sure I want kidney punches whilst she bends me over the sofa though yes not that aggressive "

Are you being defensive if its self defence and not aggressive

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Deoends on their height"

Don’t write off the little ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like anyone aggressive, unless it's in self defence.

I like women who are forward and know what they want.

Not sure I want kidney punches whilst she bends me over the sofa though yes not that aggressive

Are you being defensive if its self defence and not aggressive "

A pre-emptive strike can be dealt in self defence. I'd say that's pretty aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive."

Depends how you define sexually aggressive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive.

Depends how you define sexually aggressive? "

Grab your balls and twist them until you promise them at least 2 and a half orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive.

Depends how you define sexually aggressive?

Grab your balls and twist them until you promise them at least 2 and a half orgasms."

Under the pinky swear.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I prefer the term, assertive.

Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression

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By *itty9899 OP   Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I prefer the term, assertive.

Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression "

So no chance of this little piggy went to market then.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I prefer the term, assertive.

Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression "

I literally came here to say sexually assertive over sexually aggressive.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"I prefer the term, assertive.

Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression

I literally came here to say sexually assertive over sexually aggressive."

Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..

Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.

It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread..

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I prefer the term, assertive.

Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression

I literally came here to say sexually assertive over sexually aggressive.

Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..

Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.

It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread.."

I'd get animalistic for some cheesy garlic bread.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"I prefer the term, assertive.

Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression

I literally came here to say sexually assertive over sexually aggressive.

Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..

Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.

It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread..

I'd get animalistic for some cheesy garlic bread."

I'll fight you if it's over the folded garlic bread from my local take away.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I prefer the term, assertive.

Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression

I literally came here to say sexually assertive over sexually aggressive.

Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..

Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.

It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread..

I'd get animalistic for some cheesy garlic bread.

I'll fight you if it's over the folded garlic bread from my local take away. "

... you may have to PM me about this takeaway

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Aggressive no...assertive is another thing entirely though

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Yes so long as they aren't too bitey.

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By *inchpandaMan
over a year ago

Atherstone

For me it's really dependent on the situation, usually I'm more assertive but if it's long term a bit of playing around doesn't go amiss and keeps things alive and interesting

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I've found that quite a few men don't like sexually confident and assertive women - i've been told on numerous occasions that i'm too forward

It's fun when I find a man that does like it and responds to it though, things can get very animalistic

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I've found that quite a few men don't like sexually confident and assertive women - i've been told on numerous occasions that i'm too forward

It's fun when I find a man that does like it and responds to it though, things can get very animalistic "

Filters at work right there

I guess some guys just feel threatened by it somehow - for me equality where control flows back and forth or even assertion on the part of the lady can lead to great times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im all for a bit of sexuall aggression but they has to be boundarys and as long as she can take some back in return

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I've found that quite a few men don't like sexually confident and assertive women - i've been told on numerous occasions that i'm too forward

It's fun when I find a man that does like it and responds to it though, things can get very animalistic

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Do some blokes possibly think it threatens their masculinity?

Probably the same ones that won't do their fair share of the housework either.

Personally, someone coming up to me in a pub, and telling me they are taking me back to theirs so they can fuck me. Then making me clean the bathroom is perfect!

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By *r-mrs inkedCouple
over a year ago

rugby

Difference between assertive n aggressive...assertive is demanding the clock but aggressive is ripping cock off lol

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By *rungeguyMan
over a year ago

leeds

I’d like a bash with one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deoends on their height"
6'3 omg Towering inferno

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive."

Overly aggressive people bore me make or female but have to admit I have a particular dislike to overly aggressive,loud, rude women who seem to think that it's perfectly fine to talk to everyone like a piece of shit and say whatever they want regardless of the consequences.

Not for me thanks.

Much prefer polite people with manners and restraint.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I going to guess based on the many complaints on here from men that they have to do all the chasing, send all the messages, make the first move etc, that lots of men would love there to be lots more sexually aggressive women out there.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Lurv them. The dirtier the better and If they bring cling film or bubble wrap I’m all theirs

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

How can someone be too sexually aggressive?

Personally I like people who know what they want and I don't get intimidated by people who are sexual or liberated enough to ask or state what they want.

Much as I hate to play the gender card, I've never seen this topic raised about men, but then they're 'expected' to be the aggressors in sex.

I think I'd much rather be with someone who is forward, than someone expecting me to make all the advances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can someone be too sexually aggressive?

Personally I like people who know what they want and I don't get intimidated by people who are sexual or liberated enough to ask or state what they want.

Much as I hate to play the gender card, I've never seen this topic raised about men, but then they're 'expected' to be the aggressors in sex.

I think I'd much rather be with someone who is forward, than someone expecting me to make all the advances. "

I agree.

Watch it though the people who like to rumble about toxic masculinity and the metoo movement will be here any second. I got your back though, the people who bitch about this also complain about chivalry being dead.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Some men do.

Some men don’t.

I’m not sexually aggressive unless i’ve not had sex for a while and there’s a man with a hard on in the vicinity. Otherwise i’m just assertive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive.

Depends how you define sexually aggressive?

Grab your balls and twist them until you promise them at least 2 and a half orgasms.

Under the pinky swear."

In that case ... I’m more assertive than aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aggressiveness is an overdone strength in my eyes. I do however like sexually assertive women. I like women who are confident asking for what they want and need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think telling someone I haven't met yet that I'm going to come and suck him off on my lunch break today is sexually aggressive?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Does a kick in the bollocks count as sexually aggressive?"

it does where I'm from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best sex ever had with a fwb was after a very physical match of strength shall we say! Hahahahahahahaha play fight or what!

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London


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Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..

Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.

It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread.."

Did someone say they had cheesy garlic bread?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I like women who are sexually confident - a woman who knows what she wants and will go out and get it, one who feels no shame about enjoying sex, one who doesn't put up with sub-standard sex.

That doesn't have to be aggressive.

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By *aysolCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

I would love to be totally dominated by a woman. Aggressive is the wrong word but yeah I definately want to experience being sub to a confident dominant woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think telling someone I haven't met yet that I'm going to come and suck him off on my lunch break today is sexually aggressive?

"

Errr no! Just wondering why that never happens for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best sex ever had with a fwb was after a very physical match of strength shall we say! Hahahahahahahaha play fight or what! "

I'm rather fond of sexual wrestling too

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I like women who are sexually confident - a woman who knows what she wants and will go out and get it, one who feels no shame about enjoying sex, one who doesn't put up with sub-standard sex.

That doesn't have to be aggressive. "

Love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think telling someone I haven't met yet that I'm going to come and suck him off on my lunch break today is sexually aggressive?

Errr no! Just wondering why that never happens for me "

You never know - never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best sex ever had with a fwb was after a very physical match of strength shall we say! Hahahahahahahaha play fight or what!

I'm rather fond of sexual wrestling too "

Well it started off as that ... then went into full on naked strength wrestling followed by instantaneously awesome fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men like women with holes in them usually.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best sex ever had with a fwb was after a very physical match of strength shall we say! Hahahahahahahaha play fight or what!

I'm rather fond of sexual wrestling too

Well it started off as that ... then went into full on naked strength wrestling followed by instantaneously awesome fucking "

Errr! Yep that's what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think telling someone I haven't met yet that I'm going to come and suck him off on my lunch break today is sexually aggressive?

Errr no! Just wondering why that never happens for me

You never know - never say never

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I live in hope then

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I like women who are sexually confident - a woman who knows what she wants and will go out and get it, one who feels no shame about enjoying sex, one who doesn't put up with sub-standard sex.

That doesn't have to be aggressive. "

This, all day long! It's me

Mrs TMN x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some boys will, some boys won't, some boys need a lot of lovin'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual assertiveness is confidence in ones self, which is the cornerstone to any great sexual relationship. Many people out there don’t know what they want and are too afraid to be themselves because they don’t “fit the fold”, which is sexual debilitating. I love confident, assertive women who go out there and get what they want. Literally can’t believe men don’t like that - how could you not?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i like sexual confidence not aggression

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

Only if I can run faster than them and get away

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Like women who know what they want sexually, and are not shy about doing it or asking for it. A pleasant discovery during our first fuck was when G found that R was like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what i like and what i want...not always confident enough to make the first approach to someone though..

However once in the zone i can be assertive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sexually forward aggressive women

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

A little bit of aggression sexually can turn things up a level

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm not, they make me uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to a degree I like the power struggle haha …but aggression up to a point

I don’t want them to pull out a flick knife , arms splaying and start shouting “cam on then ya cunt…cam on then!!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you mean by sexual aggression. As it's a bit vague, assertive or we talking non consent levels of aggression? Haha

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive."

I think assertive might fit better here

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yes to a degree I like the power struggle haha …but aggression up to a point

I don’t want them to pull out a flick knife , arms splaying and start shouting “cam on then ya cunt…cam on then!!”"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when they know what they want

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I like when a woman just says what she wants or just makes a move to get it. Almost exclusively, the best sex I’ve had has been with partner who were like that.

I’m not averse to a bit of chasing initially, but endless games are off-putting. I also over-analyse and second-guess too much, so having that circumvented by someone is a big plus.

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Absolutely, 100%. For me, that’s a highly erotic trait in any partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it when they know what they want"
and then do as there told

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I like it when they know what they wantand then do as there told "

. This is why we’ve only ever been besties hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it when they know what they wantand then do as there told

. This is why we’ve only ever been besties hahaha"
you like the rest would have folded like a pack of cards Your body would crumble as your mind collapsed into madness

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Confident yes, aggressive no unless it's...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Confident yes, aggressive no unless it's... Nora "

Aww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confident yes, aggressive no unless it's... Nora

Aww "

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Confident yes, aggressive no unless it's... Nora

Aww "

How did you guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sexual aggression in

a confident woman. The type of woman that lesser men get intimidated by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please get in touch ladies if you are sexually aggressive I've got a surprise

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Please get in touch ladies if you are sexually aggressive I've got a surprise "

Ooh ooh, is it your penis?

Mrs TMN x

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Honestly? Not me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

passionate and erotic “yes”, aggressive “no”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Would love one. Never come across any yet. Form a line please...

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