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What advice would you give to the person Dating your EX?

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By *itty9899 OP   Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat her well she deserves happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That he’s a wonderful man and I’d wish them every happiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with her she turns out to be a swinger

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

She was absolutely lovely and I was too much of an immature prick. Lucky she got snapped up pretty quick and we still remain friends.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Have fun. Wear earplugs to bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have fun. Wear earplugs to bed. "

And this!!!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Run for your life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she thinking what you're thinking.....

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Pahahahhahaah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has awful morning breathe so keep gum, breathe mints handy in the nightstand at all times.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Lock away your jewellery.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

He's just passed away - best thing he did - he was an abusive barsteward, No woman deserved him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block your ears when he speaks. Block your ears when he sleeps. Never let him have chewing gum, especially when in a moving vehicle.

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't give them advice. I would, with alm sincerity wish them well and every happiness together

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Run, very very fast and don't look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a spit roast

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Run, very very fast and don't look back."

Was he in the 'bomb squad'?

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Hope you can earn faster than she spends!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Don't let him drink whiskey. You'll pay for it

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Is she still married to that guy?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

You’re welcome

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Which ex?

If it was the nice ex then I'd say ah go for it and good luck.

If it was the crazy ex I'd say run for the hills!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run and never look back

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Good luck

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I dont have an ex, I married my first proper girlfriend.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Depends which ex.

Ex wife? Throw chocolates at her if she gets angry.

Ex GF No1? Run, seriously-she has a deeply unbalanced need to control and manipulate. Also prone to periods of alcohol reinforced chronic depression.

Ex GF No2? No advice needed, we split due to distance when I moved with work. She is lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always carry a spade you might need it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure he's all yours

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Don’t do it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marry him.

He's a keeper x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’d wish them all the best

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

He is lovely to begin with hopefully he'd say the same, if not leave now before he gaslights you, beats you,has sex without our consent, cheats,belittles you and lies.

Oh my exes new wife knows all this as she was my best friend at the time! Hopefully she's having a better time than I did! Or not as betrayal from a best friend hurts more!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Depends which ex?

One... I'd tell her she was the luckiest women going

The other.. Run, run while you can

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Run, very very fast and don't look back.

Was he in the 'bomb squad'?"

No he's an ass h***

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Get yourself a good solicitor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for your life, he’s a violent cunt.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

She could suck a golf ball through a hosepipe, but she's a special kind of crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as his first wife said to me...”he’s not who you think he is”

Sadly it took me 20 years to realise it was true...

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Enjoy him and look after him.

He's a very special guy but will make you laugh and cry in equal measure.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Look after him, be kind and take it slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Run, very very fast and don't look back."

This

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

1. As long as you always tell him what to do you'll be fine.

2. He's lovely. I think he's grown up now so you'll be fine. But if he gets really close to a married woman be concerned.

3. He's an abusive nasty piece of work. Run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run, he’s a narcissist and bad for your health. Though the girl he’s with now they deserve each other x

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Keep your money in a separate account. When he says he is working late, don't believe him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep your money in a separate account. When he says he is working late, don't believe him. "
lol exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which one? Some great ones some OK ones one oh shit watch yourself one...

Dynamics would be different so I wouldn't say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For god sake don't marry her. Shes like a hurricane when she cums youll definitely know and when she leaves she will leave you with half a house and half a car lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he's her problem now and I'm enjoying the peace

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

He's selfish and lazy at times, but generally a good guy - I wish you both well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck. You’re going to need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a fuckin gold digger that doesn't suck cock, even when youv'e had the brasso on it.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

The last one...if his lips are moving then he’s lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful or you will get badly hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't just DON'T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d tell her, run very far very fast and never look back

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By *upidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Males ex - watch your back at all times, she'll destroy your life if she can't get what she wants.

Females ex - don't go there

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Well as I do not have a ex I'm not sure who or what they will be dating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some dermacol cover up for the bruises.Would be pointless telling them to run because he'll find you,no matter which county you move to

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Run away fast & get off the grid completely, he'll find you otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't lend her any money, and watch your credit cards.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

controlling narcissist

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Believe nothing.

He lies like he breathes.....

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Treat her well she deserves happiness "

This she is my ex for a reason, but I still wish her well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of people on here showing a bad choice in past partners!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By *2coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Shes a slut use her

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Don't give her access to your bank details.....

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Treat him well or you will have me to answer to

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Good luck. You will need it. Sleep with the one eye open and always hide your wallet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

My most recent ex is almost 40 years ago. My advice would be well out of date

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Not a fucking word no one warned me why give him a heads up.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Hide the wine, don't go in the loft and never ever tell her she would be fit if her tits weren't so saggy...

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

If she cheated on me with you, what makes you so sure she won't cheat on you with someone else

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"That he’s a wonderful man and I’d wish them every happiness. "

Dito, but a women

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood


" Not a fucking word no one warned me why give him a heads up. "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Never feed her after midnight and don't get her wet.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

This quote has been on my profile a long time re an ex. And it's proven to be so true!

If another woman takes your man, there's no better revenge than letting her keep him

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"This quote has been on my profile a long time re an ex. And it's proven to be so true!

If another woman takes your man, there's no better revenge than letting her keep him "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask her about her ex. I hear he was amazing!

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Learn self defence and keep your bank accounts separate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't, not our place to give advice to our exes suitor's

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Don't date her until she truly understands herself and knows who she is.

And be warned she can lie as if she truly believes it so always stay grounded, never let her isolate you from freinds, family or general sense of reality. Do not ignore what you gut is telling you. Also I think she genuinely has a personality disorder of some sort.

And if she come to understand her self and fixed her problems (and is not a dick to you) one day, love her, treat her right. Everyone in this life deserves that. Despite what she did to me I don't think she horrible, just lost and messed up girl who need to find herself. I really hope for her a good life.

Oh and no returns accepted I'm afraid.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

He’s a lovely man with a big heart. He deserves to be happy.

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be prepared to spend hours on your own because he be out drinking all day long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's just passed away - best thing he did - he was an abusive barsteward, No woman deserved him

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Snap x my late husband was like that too and I,m glad he's dead x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"That he’s a wonderful man and I’d wish them every happiness. "

This for me too.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Keep your wallet in your trousers. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it looks impressive...don't let that fool you!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

None. He gave me two beautiful children. I know i’m happier without him but they don’t need to know that.

Onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's as slippery as a box of frogs

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Buy Ear Muffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing il let her find out for herself

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