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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Come one this thinking it was good

Can someone explain how to go about things as I ain’t having much luck lol and no replies

Unless I’m just an ugly fucker lol

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Come one this thinking it was good

Can someone explain how to go about things as I ain’t having much luck lol and no replies

Unless I’m just an ugly fucker lol "

A metric butt ton of patience

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

hi hun! we struggled when we first joined too but got involved in the chat rooms and also cammed. Getting verified helped us too....good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Market yourself like a mofo.... Branding too....!

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

How do I get verified ??

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By *inn_the_humanMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It can be tough, but it might be worth putting a bit more detail on your profile. Just now it suggests you're looking to find 2 single women to agree to meet for a 3 way.

I genuinely hope you beat the odds and find it, but the chances are slim. Why not put a bit more about yourself and your interests, and give the ladies something that suggests you might have some shared interests.... Beyond another lady

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Mofo ??? What the f.... is that lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Don't take the site or yourself too seriously.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Chat... user chatrooms and forums but don't go in with the "I must score" attitude... be yourself and let people see you for the person you are

Oh ... and avoid self-deprecation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women don't like men wearing headphones during a bath sesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mofo ??? What the f.... is that lol "

Just excessively.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you go to any clubs meet people get verified and just have patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I get verified ?? "

Meet someone or go on cam with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a profile that says something about you and the person you are looking for is always a good start.

Reading profiles and only sending messages to people you think will match what you and they are looking for.

Getting involved in the forums and chat rooms is fun and helps to get to know people.

Also maybe attending a local social, getting to know people and hopefully getting verified.

Good luck.

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Thanks for the advice I’ll try it all

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Having a profile that says something about you and the person you are looking for is always a good start.

Reading profiles and only sending messages to people you think will match what you and they are looking for.

Getting involved in the forums and chat rooms is fun and helps to get to know people.

Also maybe attending a local social, getting to know people and hopefully getting verified.

Good luck.

And have different pictures of socks

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Mofo ??? What the f.... is that lol "

Go to a club

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Different socks ?????????

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Different socks ?????????"

Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Different socks ?????????

Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?

Oops ... yes ... ignore.. ignore..

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

What were your expectations of this site? Were you thinking you'd sign up and get a shag within a matter of days? Also what's your messaging technique? Give me an example of something you have sent, I can give you a females perspective on it

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Come one this thinking it was good

Can someone explain how to go about things as I ain’t having much luck lol and no replies

Unless I’m just an ugly fucker lol "

How do you get to Carnegie hall, practice.

This is like most social media sites it just takes time and a few connection, try clubs, go on cam, post interesting topic in the forum's bring out you personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different socks ?????????"

Haha red monkey is just jealous of my socks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different socks ?????????

Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?

Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different socks ?????????"

Also if you are replying to a specific post use the reply and quote as it makes it easier to know who you are replying to.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"Different socks ?????????

Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?

Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.

The queen of socks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different socks ?????????

Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?

Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.

The queen of socks....

Ohh I like that title.

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

"Different socks ?????????

Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?

Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.

The queen of socks....

Ohh I like that title.

You should be thrown out your own club for talking about sock club

??????

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Different socks ?????????

Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?

Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.

The queen of socks....

Ohh I like that title.

You’re the soxiest person on this thread tonight

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

"What were your expectations of this site? Were you thinking you'd sign up and get a shag within a matter of days? Also what's your messaging technique? Give me an example of something you have sent, I can give you a females perspective on it"

Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol "

Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Different socks ?????????

Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?

Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.

The queen of socks....

Ohh I like that title.

She rocks the socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different socks ?????????

Shhh! What’s the first rule of sock club?

Oh that makes me the leader of sock club.

The queen of socks....

Ohh I like that title.

You should be thrown out your own club for talking about sock club

??????"

Ahh but I make the rules as queen of sock club so there!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here over 2 years now and no one has met me I think I've had 1 maybe 2 people who were serious but it was at a club which I'm not a member of. If you wanna get verified go to a club

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol

Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend "

Ok then give it more time

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

not into rough sex, purely for my safety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any sex since posting this....?

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Come one this thinking it was good

Can someone explain how to go about things as I ain’t having much luck lol and no replies

Unless I’m just an ugly fucker lol "

Take a look at tour profile. Look at it from a woman’s point of view and ask yourself if you’ve put in enough effort into the bio. Then remember that there are 1,000 men for every woman on here. Then ask yourself if you maybe need to make yourself stand out more.

This advice is coming from an ugly fucker who has 2 or 3 meets a week lol

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP.

You've only been on here for 3 weeks! It's not Instashag!

You are up against so many other guys all seeking the same thing.

You have to sell yourself, it's as simple as that to be noticed!

In your profile, people want to know what you can offer in a meet as well as what you'd like!

Get into clubs or socials in your area; get involved in the Forums.

It's all about becoming known, but it can take a lot of time, so Patience & Perseverance are key elements.

It does work! Good luck.

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

"not into rough sex, purely for my safety"

What sex do you like then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't take the site or yourself too seriously.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been on fab for 3 weeks...

Putting more exciting pictures could be a good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol

Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend "

Is the friend who suggested this site, a man or a woman?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

41 year olds I feel shouldn't use the word wanna and you smoke,these may put some females (women) off.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I'd echo what others have said. I'd also say that it takes time to meet people, the average for guys getting a first meet is somewhere around 4/5 months.

It's all a learning curve and not just about your profile.

I kind of think that a person needs to work it out for themselves, if its handed to them or written for them then it's not genuinely 'them'.

I do wish you luck though OP, at least your first thread wasn't a ranty tirade...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come one this thinking it was good

Can someone explain how to go about things as I ain’t having much luck lol and no replies

Unless I’m just an ugly fucker lol

This advice is coming from an ugly fucker who has 2 or 3 meets a week lol"

I was reading your profile in admiration... your my hero

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Don't go thinking the only reason a man lacks success on here is purely down to looks. Much more relevant is how you present yourself on your profile and how you communicate.

You are in a big pool of single men looking for a small number of single women. You should be constantly asking yourself "Am I coming across as somebody a woman might want to meet?" That means socially much more than sexually. If a woman doesn't want to talk with you she sure as hell won't want to shag you.

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol

Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend

Is the friend who suggested this site, a man or a woman?"

Women

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

"You've only been on fab for 3 weeks...

Putting more exciting pictures could be a good start."

Exciting pics in what respect ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this site is not the only site but if used properly this site is by far the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making it sound like the cracking the enigma code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've only been on fab for 3 weeks...

Putting more exciting pictures could be a good start.

Exciting pics in what respect ?"

I'll let you figure that out.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Try socials and clubs OP. Networking is key, as is how you present yourself via chat, in forums and on your profile. Good luck to you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a pm let me know if it’s any good lol

Didn’t have any expectations tbh just thought I would give it a go as it was suggested to me by a friend

Is the friend who suggested this site, a man or a woman?

Women "

Women have a different experience than men on this site.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Three words, OP...

Expectations

Profile

Effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a laugh to see hardcore swingers or homebound forumites advising a bloke who wants a quick shag on how to do it....

Buddy you know yourself and you know what you want, go get it with that winning smile and fuck some fab shit up....!

Nip

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By *uv2penetrate OP Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

"Always a laugh to see hardcore swingers or homebound forumites advising a bloke who wants a quick shag on how to do it....

Buddy you know yourself and you know what you want, go get it with that winning smile and fuck some fab shit up....!

Nip

I’m not just after a quick shag though really wouldn’t say no obviously lol

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