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Are there more bi women than bi men?

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By *aysol OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?"

The later. I think it's an even distribution, just like most spectrums within humanity.

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?

The later. I think it's an even distribution, just like most spectrums within humanity."

How can we find out, maybe most men and women are bi, the brave ones are the open ones

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I think men are less inclined to admit it...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Of course there's more! That's why "Fabgirls" is so popular.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Most definitely, more ladies say and admit they are bi than men will ever do.

I don't think its admitting being bi as I don't think there is anything to admit to if you see what I mean.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?

The later. I think it's an even distribution, just like most spectrums within humanity.

How can we find out, maybe most men and women are bi, the brave ones are the open ones "

I'm not sure if you can find out. It's just one of those things.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?"

The latter by far. So many people have misconceptions around bi men. Even the other week me and few friends played never have I ever at a bar with some women we got chatting too and obviously after some questions on what weve done it became clear that I was bi and they was all shocked. 'You dont seem like the type' was ones response, after some questioning as to what they assumed bi men are, it seems that most will think bi men to be the more effeminate type and/or camp.

People still dont understand that sexual orientation has absolutely nothing to do with personality

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?"

I think you’ll find the honest answer is women don’t have a hang up about being bi!!

There are loads of fab straight men on here who aren’t straight, they pretend to be straight that’s all...

That’s going to stir up a few comments...

But it’s very true, the amount of so called straight guys who want to meet tvs is amazing

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By *aysol OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?

I think you’ll find the honest answer is women don’t have a hang up about being bi!!

There are loads of fab straight men on here who aren’t straight, they pretend to be straight that’s all...

That’s going to stir up a few comments...

But it’s very true, the amount of so called straight guys who want to meet tvs is amazing"

And I'm bi but have no interest in TVs or TS...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women lie and tell their husbands they are bi because he likes to watch them lick a pussy.

The men lie and don't tell their wives they like to suck cock and lick ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?

I think you’ll find the honest answer is women don’t have a hang up about being bi!!

There are loads of fab straight men on here who aren’t straight, they pretend to be straight that’s all...

That’s going to stir up a few comments...

But it’s very true, the amount of so called straight guys who want to meet tvs is amazing

And I'm bi but have no interest in TVs or TS..."

Only straight men like tv's. Don't worry, you're still bi.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think its probably pretty even,but bi women are encouraged and sought after and bi men not so much judging by all the posts about it.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course there's more! That's why "Fabgirls" is so popular. "

Wish there was a fab girls

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Of course there's more! That's why "Fabgirls" is so popular.

Wish there was a fab girls "

Strange there isn't if there's soo many...

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Of course there's more! That's why "Fabgirls" is so popular.

Wish there was a fab girls

Strange there isn't if there's soo many..."

Could you imagine the number of fake profiles on there? and you thought regular Fab was bad

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

On here , quite a few of the 'bi' women are 'bi' for the purposes of their partner. That's the reason why a single bi woman is 'unicorn' like in rarity.

It's similar to the lipstick lesbians in porn. They are a male ideal and exist for males only. Having sex with a woman doesn't make a woman a lesbian or bi - by choice.

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By *aysol OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Of course there's more! That's why "Fabgirls" is so popular.

Wish there was a fab girls

Strange there isn't if there's soo many...

Could you imagine the number of fake profiles on there? and you thought regular Fab was bad "

Theres your reason it doesnt exist!

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By *aysol OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"On here , quite a few of the 'bi' women are 'bi' for the purposes of their partner. That's the reason why a single bi woman is 'unicorn' like in rarity.

It's similar to the lipstick lesbians in porn. They are a male ideal and exist for males only. Having sex with a woman doesn't make a woman a lesbian or bi - by choice. "

So if a man has sex with another man just to turn on their female partner, does that mean they are not really bi also? Just curious as some women are turned on by watching men fuck, although it seems to be rarer than the other way around.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

Virtuosa


"The women lie and tell their husbands they are bi because he likes to watch them lick a pussy.

The men lie and don't tell their wives they like to suck cock and lick ass.

"

This

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

I find it’s just best to be honest and agree with a lot of the comments above. I feel sorry for those on here that are less than honest (as they are wasting everyones time including their own) and also

it only ends up ruining things for those that are totally honest and genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think male homosexuality and bisexuality are much more widespread than we think, but a load still in closet, just my impressions and experiences last 23 years. I actually feel there are probably more bi men than women for some reason but just not as open

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By *akboyMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Definitely more bi/curious men but we're just not as open lol. I wouldn't let anybody know publicly but on here i'd rather be open as im after both. A lot hide it even on here

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

Virtuosa


"Definitely more bi/curious men but we're just not as open lol. I wouldn't let anybody know publicly but on here i'd rather be open as im after both. A lot hide it even on here"

Is it because you think your male friends would treat you differently if they knew you were bi?

Genuine question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely more bi/curious men but we're just not as open lol. I wouldn't let anybody know publicly but on here i'd rather be open as im after both. A lot hide it even on here"

Don’t think that’s just a male thing. I’m bi but nobody in my real life knows that. If I wanted to I’d tell them, I’m not ashamed of it I just choose not to discuss it and any part of my sex life with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?"

Honest I'd guess there are more actually BI men than BI women. Just an observation across the scene. Lots of guys want women to be bi to fulfill a fantasy.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

More that are honest about it I would say

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By *akboyMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Definitely more bi/curious men but we're just not as open lol. I wouldn't let anybody know publicly but on here i'd rather be open as im after both. A lot hide it even on here

Is it because you think your male friends would treat you differently if they knew you were bi?

Genuine question "

Yeah some probably might/there's definitely a stigma lol but i've never seen it as something to reveal cos for me, it's just exploring with hook ups, nothing serious so keeping it quiet is easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?

I think you’ll find the honest answer is women don’t have a hang up about being bi!!

There are loads of fab straight men on here who aren’t straight, they pretend to be straight that’s all...

That’s going to stir up a few comments...

But it’s very true, the amount of so called straight guys who want to meet tvs is amazing"

So is the amount of TV/TS profiles wanting to meet straight men, but not bi ones.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I know more openly bi women than openly bi men. I don't see that it's much of a stigma as it was but I guess that coming out can be more difficult if a man feels it lessens his masculinity. It doesn't. It takes a lot of balls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy. Appears that the lads dont want to wear their sexuality on their sleeve and that is fine. Still believe the ladies outweigh the lads marginally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is too short to live a lie, you can guarantee they will regret it as old men on their death bed. Being open these days is much easier and takes a massive pressure off your shoulders

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By *aysol OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Life is too short to live a lie, you can guarantee they will regret it as old men on their death bed. Being open these days is much easier and takes a massive pressure off your shoulders "

I agree but I'm also curious that you seem very openly bisexual yet list yourself as bi-curious. What's the distinction for you?

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By *aysol OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"I know more openly bi women than openly bi men. I don't see that it's much of a stigma as it was but I guess that coming out can be more difficult if a man feels it lessens his masculinity. It doesn't. It takes a lot of balls! "

I definately feel most of the stigma is the feeling that it lessens your masculinity. As someone who doesnt come accross as very masculine to begin with I concern myself with this... But another part of me is like fuck it, who cares, it's 2019 ffs. Yet I still have this internal battle with myself. I guess school bullying still haunts me to some degree...

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By *aysol OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Or does it only seem like that because it is more socially acceptable to be a bi woman than a bi man?

I think you’ll find the honest answer is women don’t have a hang up about being bi!!

There are loads of fab straight men on here who aren’t straight, they pretend to be straight that’s all...

That’s going to stir up a few comments...

But it’s very true, the amount of so called straight guys who want to meet tvs is amazing

So is the amount of TV/TS profiles wanting to meet straight men, but not bi ones. "

I feel like that comes from the fantasy they have of being a woman. If they can convince a straight man that they are a woman then they really live that fantasy more than if the man is bi or gay as the bi or gay guy may be attrated to their masculinity... That's my guess anyway

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

In an age where sexuality shouldn't matter or be judged. It seems in a place of freedom of sexuality and liberalism it's more judgemental ?

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