FabSwingers.com forum: Squirting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all.

So squirting is something that had always intrested me. Never been with a lady who can but always been intreaged by it.

So what I'm wondering is how many ladies can squirt? Was it something that you learned to do? Or something you could always do.

I hear you can teach yourself or others to squirt but hear conflicted reports on that.

Just want a discussion on the topic really. Find it intresting

If you can. Do you enjoy squirting? Or actively try to avoid it due to clean up and sometimes for some people a shyness to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t do it. Don’t want to do it. I avoid men who are determined to make me squirt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can’t do it. Don’t want to do it. I avoid men who are determined to make me squirt. "

Intresting.

I guess from the other perspective men can be way to obsessed over it aswell.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Some guy made my girlfriend squirt for the first time at the weekend. That didnt exactly help my state of mind as you might imagine

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Can’t do it. Don’t want to do it. I avoid men who are determined to make me squirt. "

Yup. Mining my cervix for gold just hurts.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Never have, never been bothered that I can't.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Would have to agree with you Leviso, when guys are determined to 'make' you squirt, it's not about giving you pleasure, but about accomplishing the task in hand, sorry for the pun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is literally just pee isn't it? Have read up a lot about it, and even looked at some research papers, and it's pee...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t do it. Don’t want to do it. I avoid men who are determined to make me squirt. "
snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been with a few couples that never could and made them both squirt with my fingers.. they were both super shocked by it and their partners lived it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt crave for it to happen. Just happened one time, with someone who didnt treat me like winnie the pooh digging out leftovers of honey at the bottom of the pot.. and now it does occasionally. I like it, but it's not a goal or a necessity.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Can’t do it, ended up feeling entirely inadequate that I couldn’t when I first joined Fab on my old profile as it seemed that it was right up in the top three requirements for men as it was discussed so often. Googled techniques to achieve it, still can’t. I no longer feel inadequate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a pound, for every time i've said "I don't squirt' I could pay to install a Kew garden, ornate style fountain. Instead I'm just grateful, that I don't have to lay down a damp proof membrane, before I fire off like the aforementioned fountain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t do it, ended up feeling entirely inadequate that I couldn’t when I first joined Fab on my old profile as it seemed that it was right up in the top three requirements for men as it was discussed so often. Googled techniques to achieve it, still can’t. I no longer feel inadequate. "

And you shouldn't! X

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By *ittlesub4uWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"It is literally just pee isn't it? Have read up a lot about it, and even looked at some research papers, and it's pee..."

It’s not urine, it has a small amount mixed in but that’s it. A lot of what you see on porn is urine which backs up this bogus argument but female ejaculation is separate from piss play.

It is always clear rather than yellow like urine, it smells and tastes different and it is still recommended to wee afterwards as with any sexual activity.

Please stop saying it’s wee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yup. Have sex the way you want to, not to fulfil hype arising because it looks dramatic in porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is literally just pee isn't it? Have read up a lot about it, and even looked at some research papers, and it's pee..."

Think you’ve been reading the wrong books lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just go sit back in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been fortunate enough to spend time with a couple of ladies who squirted and for them it was an important part of what we did together, I loved it too (apart from the laundry after the first time). There are some women for whom squirting is painful or unpleasant. I have been with some wimen who wanted to squirt but it didn't happen. My conclusion is some can, some can't, some want to and some don't. It's an individual thing and like most things during sex I take my lead from my partner and her wants and needs.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Have only met one man who made me squirt/gush everytime we met, he knew what he was doing but not a priority for me

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think it’s a pretty individual thing to be honest. Some women can / do and some women can’t / won’t.

Mrs does, but I (like everyone else in this thread has suggested) got to a point where I was borderline obsessed with trying to make it happen. I remember realising at one point that I had become more focused on trying to make her dribble than trying to make her scream in pleasure - was an eye opener.

After that, I stopped giving a shit and just concentrated on hitting her sweet spot - as luck would have it, when I focused on making sure she was having a good time - we found out she could squirt and we’ve been able to get her going ever since...when were in the mood to change the bed sheets.

My personal advice is spend more time finding out how to make the women you’re with squeal with ecstasy and less time worrying about whether or not they left a wet patch on the bed.

After all, if you do it right, wet patch or not, they’ll be back for more! (Which is maybe why Mrs has stuck around for so long!?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it so intresting peoples views on the same topic.

How something can have some men infatuated with it and others dont care.

And how some woman search for it and others avoid.

And how it can happen at times with no indication. Or at others to frequently with signs.

I find the human body and mind so fascinating and unique to each person in situations and discussions like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can do it randomly. Surprised a regular guy with it last week.

I've had one guy make it happen repeatedly because that was his goal.

Generally it's not something I think about/mention/seek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is literally just pee isn't it? Have read up a lot about it, and even looked at some research papers, and it's pee...

It’s not urine, it has a small amount mixed in but that’s it. A lot of what you see on porn is urine which backs up this bogus argument but female ejaculation is separate from piss play.

It is always clear rather than yellow like urine, it smells and tastes different and it is still recommended to wee afterwards as with any sexual activity.

Please stop saying it’s wee

It’s diluted urine. Watery piss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am not saying this is something I am after by this post by the way haha.

I just enjoy the conversation.

If I met a lady at any time it wouldn't be a goal. Probably wouldn't bring it up unless it happened or they did.

Go with the flow and learn eachothers signs I say

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

I find some men seem more obsessed trying to get you to squirt than actually enjoying it. I don’t squirt and I’m fine with that, however we have experienced some men who just aggressively finger fuck me until I’m sore boasting they can make me squirt. We have now gone as far as to put it on our profile that we are not looking for it and have no interest in trying.

-mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its something that every guy would love to get a girl to do at some stage in their life. Happened me with a girl i took home from the pub one night. She didnt warn me. I had mixed feelings after it. Felt happy that i knew she was enjoying it but after the 2nd time the bed was soaked and was a pain in the ass having to change sheets while d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t do it. Don’t want to do it. I avoid men who are determined to make me squirt. "

Definitely this x

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Never knew i could do it till i bought a rather large dildo. And it just gushed out no man has evef made me do... Till my first ever swinging session with a very well endowed man. I gushed for Britain. S loved that he did that to me

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

To me it appears like a controversial subject on this forum.

I can see the issues where men want/expect women to and that they don't/can't. And I think it's wrong to push women to feel they are inadequate if they don't.

Then I see comments, it's only piss and insinuations it's dirty.

Think everyone should just relax about the whole thing. If it happens to you that's fine, if it doesn't it doesn't. As long as you're enjoying yourself who the heck cares

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"Some guy made my girlfriend squirt for the first time at the weekend. That didnt exactly help my state of mind as you might imagine

Sorry about that

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I enjoy it when it happens but no one should ever expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me it appears like a controversial subject on this forum.

I can see the issues where men want/expect women to and that they don't/can't. And I think it's wrong to push women to feel they are inadequate if they don't.

Then I see comments, it's only piss and insinuations it's dirty.

Think everyone should just relax about the whole thing. If it happens to you that's fine, if it doesn't it doesn't. As long as you're enjoying yourself who the heck cares "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"To me it appears like a controversial subject on this forum.

I can see the issues where men want/expect women to and that they don't/can't. And I think it's wrong to push women to feel they are inadequate if they don't.

Then I see comments, it's only piss and insinuations it's dirty.

Think everyone should just relax about the whole thing. If it happens to you that's fine, if it doesn't it doesn't. As long as you're enjoying yourself who the heck cares "

100% agree

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"To me it appears like a controversial subject on this forum.

I can see the issues where men want/expect women to and that they don't/can't. And I think it's wrong to push women to feel they are inadequate if they don't.

Then I see comments, it's only piss and insinuations it's dirty.

Think everyone should just relax about the whole thing. If it happens to you that's fine, if it doesn't it doesn't. As long as you're enjoying yourself who the heck cares "

I agree with this completely.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I've had guys who start to try to make me squirt/gush, without asking me. I take exception, partly on the issue of consent, the other because I don't want wet bedding.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Only real women squirt !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"Only real women squirt !"

Real woman don’t squirt as well. Either is fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only real women squirt !"

Quick. You have two min to delete this still...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only real women squirt from the mouth !"

Fify dude

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By *ittlesub4uWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"To me it appears like a controversial subject on this forum.

I can see the issues where men want/expect women to and that they don't/can't. And I think it's wrong to push women to feel they are inadequate if they don't.

Then I see comments, it's only piss and insinuations it's dirty.

Think everyone should just relax about the whole thing. If it happens to you that's fine, if it doesn't it doesn't. As long as you're enjoying yourself who the heck cares "

Yes!!

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I can but it takes a lot for me to do so. Sometimes it'll happen sometimes it won't!

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Only real women squirt !

Quick. You have two min to delete this still...

It was a parody on the, only real men play rugby thread

Apologies ladies

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Some women can't squirt and don't want to..

Some flood a bed ...

We should not squirt shame...

Imo

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

"I can do it randomly. Surprised a regular guy with it last week.

I've had one guy make it happen repeatedly because that was his goal.

Generally it's not something I think about/mention/seek. "

I must admit, I adore it so you’re definitely my type, but, that said, some women don’t/can’t and it is what it is, this is why I try and find out as much as possible with do’s/don’ts and likes/dislikes beforehand!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Neither of us have ever seen the appeal of it. It's very messy. What's the big deal.

We would actually turn down squirters. We had an opportunity to meet a beautiful lady who we both liked but in the end said no because she is a squirter. That's nothing against her or any women who squirt. She was lovely in every way. It's just something that is not for us.

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