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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have to do one of these as im sure singles and couples have come across one in the scene......stalkers/followers/wierdos, what ever u wanna call them!!!!!

The one i have has started back up again, and have now been awake since 3am because of him!!! a day will come when i can name and shame!!

Serious post i know, but feeling pretty fooked at the mo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh and just a little insight to what hes doing....

Seems to be finding it rather amusing by posting a couple of my pics on another site, with my full name and my home town (********** swinging slut!) and my mobile number. And having guys ringing me about a sex party!

This isnt the first time, and theres a lot more has happened.

He thinks he clever but not that clever, and what goes around comes back around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He thinks he clever but not that clever, and what goes around comes back around.

"

We had a right dodgy stalker... and its funny what you said there.. what goes round comes around.. He was a pain in the backside.. thought himself someone special (part of a couple on this site) Been going on for 3 years nearly now but after his last stunt of posting Mrs notts pictures and desperately trying to get her to meet him behind his wifes and my back the tables turned big time.. All this after he was asked not to contact us any more as we knew he had another agenda lol...

Its sad... but likely to happen when you think about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a serious problem with a stalker for over a year & the police have only just managed to track down the culprit through his mobile phone.

All the information gathered by the stalker was through the web, including addresses, work, contacts & home & mobile telephone numbers.

Although they have a name & have spoken to the man, there is little they can do unless we can prove he is guilty of his misdeeds.

Fortunately, for now, his activities have curtailed & hopefully have ceased but after such a long period of time, we are still vigilant.

Save everything relating to the stalker, especially text messages & pass them over to the police. They take awhile to get moving but these sad people need stopping in their tracks ASAP.

Sorry to be so serious folks but stalkers aren't well balanced people & need help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah i am going to the police about it now.

I have had enough of it, and really quite scared what he is capable of, all because i dumped him!

What do people gain from doing such things?

Does anyone know that they can track by IP address?

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Oh and just a little insight to what hes doing....

Seems to be finding it rather amusing by posting a couple of my pics on another site, with my full name and my home town (********** swinging slut!) and my mobile number. And having guys ringing me about a sex party!

This isnt the first time, and theres a lot more has happened.

He thinks he clever but not that clever, and what goes around comes back around.

"

if you know who it is this is actually illegal ...there is specific acts to stop it now ...i know someone on here who had someone arrested after a similar situation harrassment ..talk to your local community cop

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

ps ...if you have the persons details you can serve an injunction but it costs £67-00...focuses the mind and makes most back off

MR X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And theres another thing his details i dont know if they where true now......but he on here and slowly but surely with more concrete evidence i will have him by the balls!!

Long, winded and painful! I tell ya, lol.

And i do hope he reading this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And theres another thing his details i dont know if they where true now......but he on here and slowly but surely with more concrete evidence i will have him by the balls!!

Long, winded and painful! I tell ya, lol.

And i do hope he reading this. "

Well if he is reading this hopefully he will know his card is marked and days are numbered. He is obviously mentally unstable and obsessive!!

I feel for you hun and you must be going through hell, but know you have friends here and anything we can do to help just ask xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And theres another thing his details i dont know if they where true now......but he on here and slowly but surely with more concrete evidence i will have him by the balls!!

Long, winded and painful! I tell ya, lol.

And i do hope he reading this.

Well if he is reading this hopefully he will know his card is marked and days are numbered. He is obviously mentally unstable and obsessive!!

I feel for you hun and you must be going through hell, but know you have friends here and anything we can do to help just ask xxxxx"

awwwwwwww thanks chick, thats much appreciated xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also another thing thats really pissed me off.....is i felt like i had to tell this other couple who met him regular didnt tell them till i found it was him and they dont belive me!! wtf is that all about.

All i can say to that is 'told ya so' but thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

You're doing the right thing in going to the police,as for the other couple well....you did what you thought was right but only worry about yourself right now

Stalkers can be very manipulative,its the nature of their game,and to the other couple he may seem like the perfect gent...at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we also feel like warning couples about this Nutter/couple but you end up looking like a nutter yourself in a way... or worse jealous even eh.

We have warned a few we have met/or chatted to.. and will probably carry on doing so as they really are not what this is all about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All ISP's are required by law to keep records of IP addresses, which accounts used them and at what time. I do not know if this includes where they went online.

If you know which ISP he uses you could contact them for assistance. They may suspend his account if you have records of when he stalked you online that tallies with their records of when he used his account.

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

shortly after joining this site over a yr ago i managed somehow to obtain a stalker if thats the right word, no matter how manytimes i told him to piss off he would still send countless amounts of mail to me...i tried being nice and saying he wasnt what i was looking for as he was a 18yr old bi guy who lived 300 miles from us, i then told him no thanks, that didnt work either so then fuck off and that didnt work..i could have blocked him but for some reason i think its rude to block even though its the quickest route out, i mailed admin and let them see all the mail and bang they deleted him and its been gr8 since, apart from the abusive mail i recieve from people we dont want to meet but im getting used to that now and if they wanna have a go at me why not at least while they are having a go at me theyb are leaving others alone.. xxxx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"All ISP's are required by law to keep records of IP addresses, which accounts used them and at what time. I do not know if this includes where they went online.

If you know which ISP he uses you could contact them for assistance. They may suspend his account if you have records of when he stalked you online that tallies with their records of when he used his account."

problem is you can get programmes what spin your numbers every few minutes and get behind a proxy server making it virtually impossible to track ...unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All ISP's are required by law to keep records of IP addresses, which accounts used them and at what time. I do not know if this includes where they went online.

If you know which ISP he uses you could contact them for assistance. They may suspend his account if you have records of when he stalked you online that tallies with their records of when he used his account.

problem is you can get programmes what spin your numbers every few minutes and get behind a proxy server making it virtually impossible to track ...unfortunately "

Yes, you can, but if this particular stalker isn't that pc savvy then the guide I suggested above is one form of defence. Personally, I de-ball the twat with a pair of blunt secateurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All ISP's are required by law to keep records of IP addresses, which accounts used them and at what time. I do not know if this includes where they went online.

If you know which ISP he uses you could contact them for assistance. They may suspend his account if you have records of when he stalked you online that tallies with their records of when he used his account.

problem is you can get programmes what spin your numbers every few minutes and get behind a proxy server making it virtually impossible to track ...unfortunately "

You don't even need a number spinner or a proxy server... Just a router and change the settings.. 2 mins less and a new I.P.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could do with a stalker..... anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i could do with a stalker..... anyone?"

Oi... Me first, cheeky mare ya..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i could do with a stalker..... anyone?

Oi... Me first, cheeky mare ya..

"

*sends application form*

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By *oxxeyMan
over a year ago

hough green

ok i,ll stalk you then give some details and when to start

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had a guy about 5 years ago open a yahoo account with topless pictures of me and my mobile number saying i was free for sex anytime. I just ignored it.

I have had two stalkers in real life, once when i was 17 and again when i was about 22 and it wasnt funny.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

hey why dont we arrange a meet and have the pussy posse waiting for him ..

bwaaaaahahahahaha oooh i could imagine all those sharp grabbing nails and that female angst and pmt going to town on a male victim .....not a pretty sight .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just given me an idea for a reply in the 'Whats kinky' Thread though lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we dont understand is this: swinging is a free choice lifestyle, and everybody is free to say no and has the right for that decision to be accepted. Unfortunately, some people are immature and take things to personally. They dont seem to accept that others might not find them attractive. Our advice is to block and delete anybody who is abusive, pushy, touchy or overly personal. The genuine people are never a problem. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man i had no idea how many strange and obsessive people there were, i personally have never had a stalker i don't think, but then being a male thats hardily surprising, the best of luck to you in sorting this guy out as its people like him who really do spoil the fun for the rest of us xx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Man i had no idea how many strange and obsessive people there were, i personally have never had a stalker i don't think, but then being a male thats hardily surprising, the best of luck to you in sorting this guy out as its people like him who really do spoil the fun for the rest of us xx"

never happened to me but i know a few guys had fem stalkers and it aint fun ....keep an eye on those rabbits .....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give up."

LOL who was that? something we said?

Ooooh and PD anyone tries to boil my rabbit and they die!!....costs me a fortune in batteries but I luv it hehehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I give up.

LOL who was that? something we said?

Ooooh and PD anyone tries to boil my rabbit and they die!!....costs me a fortune in batteries but I luv it hehehehehe"

People disappear very quickly on here!

Be careful,I think theres some sort of black hole that they getted sucked into LOL

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By *jandmcCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

To the original poster..

Isnt this kind of behaviour a criminal offence? Perhaps a call to the boys in blue might do the trick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give up.

LOL who was that? something we said?

Ooooh and PD anyone tries to boil my rabbit and they die!!....costs me a fortune in batteries but I luv it hehehehehe

People disappear very quickly on here!

Be careful,I think theres some sort of black hole that they getted sucked into LOL"

Fussierpussy quickly crosses her legs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this may sound weird, but I would feel special if i had a stalker. I would even leave them cookies and milk on the door step.

Anyone want to stalk me message me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I know this may sound weird, but I would feel special if i had a stalker. I would even leave them cookies and milk on the door step.

Anyone want to stalk me message me "

You really don't want a stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get one ever morning

it stops me rolling out a bed through the night

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