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How many veri's is ideal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think).

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Some like loads as it shows you meet, some think it means you're not picky enough. You can't please everyone, so just please yourself

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

800

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People need to take into account the content of veris. People can have hundreds and they all be social. There isn’t an ideal amount. Some people care about veris some don’t. I include veris in my decision on whether to meet someone but a lot don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However many or few as you like. I'm not really meeting so I dont have or want any. I'm not really real though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t care the number as long as they do not contain gross contents and the people leaving them are attractive and not weird

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

This should be a interesting thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People need to take into account the content of veris. People can have hundreds and they all be social. There isn’t an ideal amount. Some people care about veris some don’t. I include veris in my decision on whether to meet someone but a lot don’t. "

And what do you look for?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"800"

Nearly there, 37.23 to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People need to take into account the content of veris. People can have hundreds and they all be social. There isn’t an ideal amount. Some people care about veris some don’t. I include veris in my decision on whether to meet someone but a lot don’t.

And what do you look for? "

Bloody hell it’d take up the whole thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People need to take into account the content of veris. People can have hundreds and they all be social. There isn’t an ideal amount. Some people care about veris some don’t. I include veris in my decision on whether to meet someone but a lot don’t.

And what do you look for?

Bloody hell it’d take up the whole thread! "

F cups innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been verified 45 times and about 40 of those are from socials.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Personally I neither care or read about peoples verifications. Talking to somebody for long enough can tell you if they are real or not and peoples sexual (and social) history are no concern of mine.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't think that there is an ideal amount.

I prefer to see at least one fairly recent one, simply because it shows that they are who they say they are and are likely to turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People need to take into account the content of veris. People can have hundreds and they all be social. There isn’t an ideal amount. Some people care about veris some don’t. I include veris in my decision on whether to meet someone but a lot don’t.

And what do you look for?

Bloody hell it’d take up the whole thread!

F cups innit "

At the moment yeah. Foofs and boobies . I got all the man I need

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

you will never please everybody... and if anyone thinks that veries equals number of sexual partners someone has had then they are very deluded.

I do like to veri hop from time to time though X

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Doesn’t bother me.

I’ve a fair few...... some from hosting some from fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think there is an ideal amount, if anything I'd say the content of them is the most important thing. I don't really place that much onus on them, it tickles me to write them for others and when I receive them but I prefer to form an opinion from talking to a person rather than what a few veris say.

I have a quite high amount but I don't display some of them because - people are weird and they are personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think). "

5. Stop now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think). "

How many do you like to see on other people's profiles?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I don't think there is an ideal amount, if anything I'd say the content of them is the most important thing. I don't really place that much onus on them, it tickles me to write them for others and when I receive them but I prefer to form an opinion from talking to a person rather than what a few veris say.

I have a quite high amount but I don't display some of them because - people are weird and they are personal."

Are you saying some of your veris were from weird people?

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

Verification are like social media currency.

I'm grateful that people I've met have nice things to say about me.

But I'm a grown adult who can meet another grown adult in a public place and make my own mind up about what I think of them

Reading someone else's TripAdvisor or amazon review about the person I might have sex with puts me off personaly. I want my own experince not be a carbon copy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think).

5. Stop now "

Yes, get the thing about making up your own mind.

And # veri's doesn't equal # sexual partners.

I've only been on here a month or so but now I have a few that all give an insight on who I am

(& show I'm unlikely to be an axe-wielding maniac)

... I'm thinking that 5 or so is enough...

(??)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think).

5. Stop now

Yes, get the thing about making up your own mind.

And # veri's doesn't equal # sexual partners.

I've only been on here a month or so but now I have a few that all give an insight on who I am

(& show I'm unlikely to be an axe-wielding maniac)

... I'm thinking that 5 or so is enough...

(??)"

Oh! I’ve got one more then infinity

I better hide!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

42

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn’t bother me.

I’ve a fair few...... some from hosting some from fun."

The devil is in the detail!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

456

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Some like loads as it shows you meet, some think it means you're not picky enough. You can't please everyone, so just please yourself "

Exactly this

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"you will never please everybody... and if anyone thinks that veries equals number of sexual partners someone has had then they are very deluded.

I do like to veri hop from time to time though X

"

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 100 or 1000 those that count, need a new hobby, like collecting the full set, for a fab scarf. I just need a FF verification for completion

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Doesn’t bother me.

I’ve a fair few...... some from hosting some from fun.

The devil is in the detail!"

Doesn’t bother me at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never read a negative veri....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I've never read a negative veri...."

I've always wanted a negative veri for laughs, but nobody's been brave enough to do it yet!

If I had a genuinely negative experience I wouldn't leave one, they wouldn't show it anyway. That's why veris are largely pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never read a negative veri....

I've always wanted a negative veri for laughs, but nobody's been brave enough to do it yet!

If I had a genuinely negative experience I wouldn't leave one, they wouldn't show it anyway. That's why veris are largely pointless. "

Actually, one of the regs in here used to leave me negative one's for a laugh......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some use veris as a journal

A veri for everytime they meet.

At worst; creepy (a la silence of the lambs)

At best; pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a weird question, OP.

Some people have been on fab weeks, months or years.

So amount of veris will vary.

You've got 5 in 8 weeks. What does it say about you? Do you think that's ideal?

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands


"What a weird question, OP.

Some people have been on fab weeks, months or years.

So amount of veris will vary.

You've got 5 in 8 weeks. What does it say about you? Do you think that's ideal? "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

There is no ideal - except to yourself OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you will never please everybody... and if anyone thinks that veries equals number of sexual partners someone has had then they are very deluded.

I do like to veri hop from time to time though X

"

As Cali says.

Plus not all are sexual encounters. Some will be social.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

The number I have plus one, can anyone help? ')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think). "

This isn’t actually true. I have no verifications (because I find the system odd and off putting - I don’t need another human to ‘verify’ that I exist, thank you very much). Yet I’ve met several people on here. And my lack of verifications definitely doesn’t mean people “don’t look at” me - otherwise I don’t think I’d be receiving an average of 50 emails a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think). "

They are meaningless, I met my partner on here and regularly meet others. Veris? No need for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think).

They are meaningless, I met my partner on here and regularly meet others. Veris? No need for them."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a weird question, OP.

Some people have been on fab weeks, months or years.

So amount of veris will vary.

You've got 5 in 8 weeks. What does it say about you? Do you think that's ideal? "

Don't think it's a weird question...just opening up a conversation.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's no ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think). "

No veris puts us off...

Not bothered about how many...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a lot before if you actually read 5hem, you'll find most are social verifications and over the 6 years we've been on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

How many verifications is ideal?

0 = some ppl won't look at you

But too many and it can put ppl off!

I have 5 now (i think). "

I have 139. Would that put you off me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for most guys this is all they ever do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a weird question, OP.

Some people have been on fab weeks, months or years.

So amount of veris will vary.

You've got 5 in 8 weeks. What does it say about you? Do you think that's ideal?

Don't think it's a weird question...just opening up a conversation....."

ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do so many people mention that most of their veris are 'just social'? Are you ashamed of the number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twelvety seven.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Not everyone I met and had fun with, left a verification. So they're not a great judge on how 'loose' or 'chaste' you'd think that person is.

For me they're useful to see how safe and experienced they are with Tgirls, as I'd prefer not to meet some homophobic idiot.

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