FabSwingers.com forum: is it me

By *shore OP Man
over a year ago

cork

On here sometimes someone describes their other half as slut...bitch etc.....it realy winds me up, am i the only one that this pisses off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it myself but if they, as a couple, are happy then it's their business not mine.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

No it doesn't piss me off..not my business and they are not referring to me

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I do not like it , but then some people don't like men prancing about in dresses. Each to their own !!!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On here sometimes someone describes their other half as slut...bitch etc.....it realy winds me up, am i the only one that this pisses off.."

Context. It is all about the context. Words are nothing more than the context that they are used it.

There are lots of people that enjoy being called those things, they embrace it.

If both parties agree and enjoy being called it, what's the issue?

If the person who is being called those things dislikes it, then it's a whole other ball game and I agree with you.

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By *shore OP Man
over a year ago

cork

I see what yee are saying ...i should just leave things flow

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm sure it's consensual OP, much like the single women who have slut as part of their username.

It matters little to me though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some people try to reclaim these damaging words, take back the power of insult. It's not for me but it doesn't bother me.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Mine enjoys me calling her my slut and I enjoy doing it, I don't know why anyone would be bothered about it. I don't tend to do it on here tbf.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I just call myself a slut

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I just call myself a slut

I think I need an upgrade, I'm just a tart

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"On here sometimes someone describes their other half as slut...bitch etc.....it realy winds me up, am i the only one that this pisses off.."

What happens between two consenting adults is there business.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

For me slut..dirty slut can work but never slag..don't like that word.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

If Dick described me ad any of those I'd punch him.

Not terms a would like to be referred too.

However other like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if the person they are calling it is happy or not with it. However if you are not sure they are it can appear a little disrespectful to an outsider.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"For me slut..dirty slut can work but never slag..don't like that word. "

I'm exactly the same. I'm not even entirely sure why.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I don't like it myself but if they, as a couple, are happy then it's their business not mine."

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm C's sub and he calls me a slut as my pet name. And I like it. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a thing.

Some people like it. Not for me and I wouldn’t want to see/hear it either. If you see it on a profile just move on. Haven’t seen it other than on profiles or threads. I scroll past threads I don’t like or know nothing about.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"For me slut..dirty slut can work but never slag..don't like that word.

I'm exactly the same. I'm not even entirely sure why."

for me i think it's the negative connotations from boys using it to girls at school

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Personally I have no issue with it and don't find it demeaning. I have had people ask me why I have it in my name, my answer is 'the definition of slut = a woman who has many casual sexual partners, yep that is me and I embrace it'

But I fully accept it is not for everyone

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"On here sometimes someone describes their other half as slut...bitch etc.....it realy winds me up, am i the only one that this pisses off.."

It doesn't wind me up but I don't like it.

Language forms beliefs.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

"On here sometimes someone describes their other half as slut...bitch etc.....it realy winds me up, am i the only one that this pisses off.."

Did you never think to yourself that she might be a right slut or a bitch??

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"On here sometimes someone describes their other half as slut...bitch etc.....it realy winds me up, am i the only one that this pisses off..

Did you never think to yourself that she might be a right slut or a bitch??"

What's a slut ? Come to that , What's a bitch ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't piss me off, but it's not something I would do with a partner. I think a lot of these terms have become gender neutral anyway. I have certainly referred to men as tarts, and you hear bitch used all the time towards men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t piss me off, it could be their ‘kink’

But it totally isn’t for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here sometimes someone describes their other half as slut...bitch etc.....it realy winds me up, am i the only one that this pisses off..

Did you never think to yourself that she might be a right slut or a bitch??

What's a slut ? Come to that , What's a bitch ?

Any woman who tells a man she won't fuck him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here sometimes someone describes their other half as slut...bitch etc.....it realy winds me up, am i the only one that this pisses off..

Did you never think to yourself that she might be a right slut or a bitch??

What's a slut ? Come to that , What's a bitch ?

Any woman who tells a man she won't fuck him."

That’s a bit harsh not all men are twats like that!!

Back to the OP I can’t say i noticed anything like that but as a lot of people have already said it wouldn’t bother me especially as the other half would be wearing their balls for earrings if their partner had a problem with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here sometimes someone describes their other half as slut...bitch etc.....it realy winds me up, am i the only one that this pisses off..

Did you never think to yourself that she might be a right slut or a bitch??

What's a slut ? Come to that , What's a bitch ?

Any woman who tells a man she won't fuck him.

That’s a bit harsh not all men are twats like that!!

LJ"

Did I say all men?

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

My username is Fuckslut. In play mode I love my parter calling my a slut, or dirty little slut, in front of others during play.

If he called it me in a supermarket he'd get a punch in the nose. Well no, as I'm his Sub, so would never do such a thing. Plus him being 6'2 I'd never reach!

But all in context. Just go with the flow

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

If it works for them then I’m sure that’s ok. Personally I wouldn’t want to be referred to in that way. Good job we’re all different

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