FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get chatting to the last person you met?

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

Did you message them? Did you see them on the forums? Did you search for them? Did you see a local update? Notice them on hot pics?

What’s your story?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They messaged us.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Messaged us after a status we put up

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last person I met I married !

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Send a pic to the person above.

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I spoke to them on the forum's or comments on their status or mention a club meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been that lucky yet

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

He sent me a message. He was funny so we had coffee

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

At a social

J x

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

From my local updates

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Forum banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She winked me!! Yes, winked!!

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

We got speaking at a house party and one thing lead to another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a thread I did back in June

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"She winked me!! Yes, winked!!

*Faint*

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"From a thread I did back in June "

I should do one then

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"She winked me!! Yes, winked!!

Never underestimate a good wink, my fab best friend came from a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a thread I did back in June

I should do one then

You should! You’ve never done a thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His forum posts amused me,so I messaged him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He messaged me.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

It was a FFM in a club the male I have known for almost 2 yrs and the fem was someone he knew ....

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"From a thread I did back in June

I should do one then

You should! You’ve never done a thread!"

STOP SHOUTING I'M SORRY OK

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd ignored his message a couple of years ago (not that I remember but still). Saw some fora posts and I can't remember who messaged first. It might have been me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though a post on the forums and now we have been together 10 months.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I 'feel good friday' thread.

We became friends and met for lunch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She winked at me 3 weeks ago and loving every day since then.i don't understand what's going on to be honest as I'm fugly but she's gorgeous and 17 years my junior!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Though a post on the forums and now we have been together 10 months.

You have a boyfriend?

You've kept that quiet.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

They messaged me and we went for a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a private party last year and they’re now two of our closest friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They messages us

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

She winked at me. Obviously a wink can be good, although I expect there’s a gender imbalance in there effectiveness.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I sent a message, her first reply was “No thanks” fast forward 3 weeks it’s 11.30 am in my hotel room and I’m spunking all over her face.

I can charm the birds out of the trees me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently he had seen me quite some time ago but I was never looking for meets so he kept me in his hot list and as soon as I was he messaged me. Think he regrets it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He fabbed my photos, I said thank you (his age blocked him from messaging me first).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet was today. We had a social.

We already knew each other away from fab. I put up a face pic, he recognised me and messaged me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw their post in a forum and contacted them.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I liked a comment he made on the forums and messaged him... shocking I know!!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

We messaged here, he’s another ‘almost neighbour’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do believe I saw him in the 'men online now' part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through a forum game. We then figured out we shared an interest in an author/ps4 game and so the fab friendship began.

Sin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Though a post on the forums and now we have been together 10 months.

You have a boyfriend?

You've kept that quiet.

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met them at my first party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He messaged us x

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

From a thread she did back in june

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He messaged me something bland, but I liked his t-shirt. Soooo glad I replied

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

They messaged me. A few weeks before we actually managed to meet.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"He messaged me something bland, but I liked his t-shirt. Soooo glad I replied

So I need to start a thread and buy a cool t-shirt. This thread is proving most helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I messaged her something hilarious, obviously

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It was at my social on Saturday

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Joshing about in a forum post.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

I found her on the local list, messages flowed for a week or so and then we had a spontaneous meet at about 1am on a Saturday morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumped into them at the tail end of a night in Quest.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

To give blokes on here some hope, she messaged me.

And I am darn glad that she did

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

She asked for me to be included on the guest list of a special party that was being organised for her.

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

He messaged us and he had banter

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By *rebs001Man
over a year ago

Widnes

saw profile, and in return liked one of my pics......and from there chatted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He messaged me something bland, but I liked his t-shirt. Soooo glad I replied

So I need to start a thread and buy a cool t-shirt. This thread is proving most helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Randomly stood next to this couple at the bar at Libs, and started chatting while we waited to be served.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

From my dating thread!

Yes it works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met anyone!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

After a bit of flirting on here, we took it to pm

That's how most of my meets have come about really as I no longer send preemptive messages

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"From my dating thread!

Yes it works! "

*shameless plug*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charm.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By asking them to polish my shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She messaged me after reading something I posted on the forum. That’s the way the last few women I have met came about.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

All of the people I've met have in one way or another resulted from messages off the back of forum threads

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Ummm met in a club a while back and played a couple of years ago and we played again recently

Clearly I wasn’t that bad to go back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started laughing about with them on the forums... messaged, made them laugh some more... met them and we still talk today (still making them laugh too)

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

My last proper Fab meet were regulars having met in a club a few times beforehand.

Last social meet we chatted here then moved to Whatsapp and had the best night out in Manchester.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

He messaged me after I put up new photo, have met many times since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He messaged me and got me intrigued, it was to be just a social at 11am. We now meet regularly

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon

Well only meet with a few people off fab, most dates I go on are from other apps.

Don’t know why but fab has never really lead to meets for me, not many catch my eye here and the ones that do never seem to reply haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you message them? Did you see them on the forums? Did you search for them? Did you see a local update? Notice them on hot pics?

What’s your story? "

They messaged me here and we got chatting which led to us meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently.. I winked at someone who was within 20 miles of me, she winked back..

So I messaged, without sending a cock pic (or any other photo) and got an interesting message back.

A few messages later and we decided to meet at some point. We did, found out she was a 'Filthy lurker'!

Who knew more about me than I'd suspected, once I realised.. I was like "Shiiiiiyyyttt" How much does she know?

We started fucking not long after..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

He messaged me from an i fancy you thread. Hit it of straight away. Hes an amazing human being. Saw him for a while then he went and got himself loved up. Hes now happy as larry with her in the real world. He truelly deserves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny exchange on a forum thread. I messaged and found we have similar levels of crazy..

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

The last/current person I met/am meeting messaged a couple of months ago! Essentially he responded to an ‘advert’ I put up for a fab relationship. It was a great message so we chatted - on her first then whatsapp and over the phone. He seemed really nice so we met at our local Starbucks (he lives close by) and got on really well! We’re still seeing each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to forget him. Thanks for reminding me, OP

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

Sleaford

She was my neighbour and found me on who's near. Had a great time.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"I've tried to forget him. Thanks for reminding me, OP

Soz! You’ve got to kiss a few frogs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've tried to forget him. Thanks for reminding me, OP

Soz! You’ve got to kiss a few frogs! "

This frog tried to kiss me in the park but I didn't let him.. that's as far as my fab meet went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent her a message. She answered, simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He messaged me last year, we chatted. We met.

He left the site, then re appeared again, he messaged me. We chatted we met up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They messaged me after we both posted on a forum thread about a particular fetish

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

It was a couple, they winked and messaged and it progressed from there

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

In a chatroom somewhere else, his humour shone through, we got chatting and we just clicked, then I invited myself for a coffee at his and the rest as they say is history

Thinking about it most of the people I have met I initiated the chat from complimenting their pics or something they had said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve sent her a polite message and didn’t really expect an answer, end up that we spoke for few months building up some connections and we finally met multiple times and enjoyed them a lot

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Mutual winks and we got chatting!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Someone came up at my who looked at me and their status update made me chuckle

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

He was on my hotlist for a while, I messaged him one day and we got chatting, hit it off straight away. We texted each other utter filth for about 6 months before meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He messaged me, and I fancied him instantly. We met the next day.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I think they sent me a wink so I messaged them back

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"The last/current person I met/am meeting messaged a couple of months ago! Essentially he responded to an ‘advert’ I put up for a fab relationship. It was a great message so we chatted - on her first then whatsapp and over the phone. He seemed really nice so we met at our local Starbucks (he lives close by) and got on really well! We’re still seeing each other!

Correction. We WERE still seeing each other!

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I met them at a social and we got talking like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got talking after he sent me a wonderful message with pics attached and I responded. We chatted on here for ages, then moved to kik. He's in the army so meets with him can be spontaneous and a bit tricky to arrange but he's so worth my time. He likes to experiment and doesn't rush me, isn't pushy and is just the nicest, most genuine person I could ever wish to meet.

I'm seeing him next week and can't wait. He's the only guy in a long time I've felt comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She appeared on a “who’s nearby search”. I was awake at an odd time, and thought it strange why someone else was also up a such an ungodly hour. So I asked.... it has gone very well ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums. Think it was one of those send a pic to the profile above type games.

He recognised my name, this was on my single profile, from a ps4 game we both played, got chatting and despite the age difference seemed to have a lot to chat about.

Had a very fun meet, if a bit different, and have kept in touch since.

Sin.

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Met him outside of Fab nearly ten years ago

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I got winked. An action that usually translates to 'How about coffee?'

Y'know. Because of the twitching.

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By *ete le MeatMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire/ Notts

A couple messaged me making a nice comment about the size of my tackle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He messaged me complaining he couldn’t Fab my pics

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I met lots of lovely people at the weekend, all forum folk

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It was from one of the dating/I fancy you /FPF threads - I can't remember which one, it was a while ago

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Did you message them? Did you see them on the forums? Did you search for them? Did you see a local update? Notice them on hot pics?

What’s your story? "

He pursued me patiently for months bless him, took me for a lovely dinner, then I took him on to see a band, but alas, he was not for me.

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