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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm feeling a little down in the dumps. Holiday blues and due to issues in personal life.

So what things do you do to cheer up?

I'm a shopping addict so I'm trying to not shop as I keep spending too much.

I'm playing Disney soundtracks but it's not having its usual effect today. Not sure anything will work till I resolve the personal issues but any suggestions welcome and listening to other people's self help mechanisms is always worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wine and YouTube - hours will pass and you will be having a lounge disco before you know it

Hugs to you I hope you feel better soon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wine and YouTube - hours will pass and you will be having a lounge disco before you know it

Hugs to you I hope you feel better soon x"

I think I've already over indulged on the wine too much on holiday

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm a talker so if things are crap I've a few very good friends and a partner who I know will let me spaff my heart out until my head is a bit clearer. Sometimes I go down the whole cathartic route, there are certain books, films and music that I know if I listen to them I'll cry but I'll feel better for getting it out my system. A brisk walk listening to my favourite emo songs also works a treat.

I avoid alcohol as a cure - the next day I end up with bloody hangxiety and everything seems far more insurmountable.

I hope that whatever happens you get out of it soon, if you want to talk about generic crap I'm here, x

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I find getting back to my usual busy routine and feeling I've achieved something often works.

Hope you pick up again soon... nothing worse than holiday blues.

Feel free to PM if you want a rant or have a sounding board xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for the silver lining and try to concentrate on that. There's always light at the end of the tunnel. And then i remember, as long as me and loved ones are healthy, have a roof over our head and food in the cupboard, then all is good with the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walking with the dog in the countryside helps me but thats with anxiety not holiday blues hope youre feeling happier soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and remember the 5x5 rule. If it won't matter in 5 years, don't spend more than 5 minutes worrying about it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I’m sitting here watching Christmas movies! Making me smile x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I seek out my close friends and have a good long hug and a cuddle, that always helps

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Staying at home will just remind you of it. Go experience something different/interesting outside the four walls.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Take care of yourself, pampering stuff (at home facial - I mean the spa kind - make-up, nails, hot bath, etc). Meditation. Reading or throwing yourself into entertainment where you have to engage. Doing something meaningful for others. Exercise. Achieving something. Talking to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some inspirational or weepy movies. A good cry is cathartic. Hope you feel better soon x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Have a hot bubble bath and read a good book,

Listen to some old tunes ,

Go for a mooch in charity shops for some bargains.

A baileys hot choc is a nice little indulgence in this weather too

Hope its lifts soon

Miss x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Hope you’re able to find a solution Belle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unhide your profile please as I was percing on your pics on a regular basis but I can't get my dose anymore !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks. I find, putting my favourite music on and walking for a while, always helps. Get some endorphins going. Sorry to hear you are down in the dumps. Just remember, you are not alone. Hope things Brighten up for you soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a long walk does it for me

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I like spending time with friends especially ones with benefits!

Or getting outside in the fresh air.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm kinda stuck for all the things I usually do so I'm currently attempting to use the forums as a distraction.

I'm not sure it's working.

Rubi x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting reading everyone's self help exercises. I am putting them into practice.

And f&b nope you will have to perve by memory for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully feels better soon but a lot easier said than done, I’ve been feeling good recently but last few days been feeling down and always tired and uninterested in life, hopefully things swing about in a few days. I try be more positive when I feel crap, happy face, up straight posture and speak in happy tone haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to bottle it all up inside but have learnt talking about things is much better. I now drive my friends mad- Fab ones included- until they tell me to shut up and get on with things

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I used to bottle it all up inside but have learnt talking about things is much better. I now drive my friends mad- Fab ones included- until they tell me to shut up and get on with things "

You can always talk to me, I wouldnt tell you to shut up

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Fresh air and exercise are the only things that have ever been proven to work. What do you fancy doing?

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Old Laurel & Hardy films and Tom & Jerry cartoons with a mug of hot builders tea and chocolate hob nobs. Sorted........ for a while anyway.

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