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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it someone off fab?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I wouldn’t, because money doesn’t generally make a good thing to base a friendship on.

You don’t really need those things I guess?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I personally wouldn't you don't them,you don't know how it will end up. They may come knocking at your door asking for it back it some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don’t take it, if he wants to help you let him take you out shopping and buy bits at a time, plus also you’ll get to know him which makes it more comfortable to pay him back

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Neither a borrower nor a lender be

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I personally wouldn't you don't them,you don't know how it will end up. They may come knocking at your door asking for it back it some way."

*know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No don’t take it, if he wants to help you let him take you out shopping and buy bits at a time, plus also you’ll get to know him which makes it more comfortable to pay him back"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "
my father said to me if you lend money never expect to get it back so as long as the guy knows theirs a chance he wont then surely you have nothing to lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t accept any money unless I was absolutely desperate. And only then, from family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£200 to buy all that ,i want to know where you shop.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

It is a kind offer but personally I wouldn't borrow the money from a complete stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Doesn’t sound right to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither a borrower nor a lender be "

Absolutely right

I’d happily accept meals and drinks from someone if we were out socially - but never ever cash, especially from someone I had never met.

When I meet a man who likes to give gifts of something (perfume, flowers, lingerie etc) I accept them on subsequent meets, but not on a first meet. I would never accept cash

I think I’d be asking myself why someone I had never met would offer me cash. Maybe it’s an attempt to get your bank details? There’s many dishonest scammers on here

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "

Why not save your own money then you can buy your own things.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If he is off here I would care what he said you know somewhere there are going to be strings to it.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "

I wouldn't take any money if I can help it. It's your decision of course but you even posing the dilemma here suggests it may not sit well with you. I would politely decline in this situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.

And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.

And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer. "

Ok

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If he is off here I would care what he said you know somewhere there are going to be strings to it.

"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.

And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer.

Ok"

This

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.

And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer.

Ok

This "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.

And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer.

Ok

This

Thanks "

That

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.

And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer.

Ok

This

Thanks

That "

Apple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.

And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer. "
i heard this of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.

And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer. i heard this of you "

They haven't lied to you

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By *irk Diggler 02Man
over a year ago

Swindon


"No don’t take it, if he wants to help you let him take you out shopping and buy bits at a time, plus also you’ll get to know him which makes it more comfortable to pay him back"

This

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"No don’t take it, if he wants to help you let him take you out shopping and buy bits at a time, plus also you’ll get to know him which makes it more comfortable to pay him back

This "

Ok

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No, don't accept it. I don't think it's a no strings 'loan'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am too proud to accept the money of anybody if I haven't done se work for them.

And by work I don't mean giving them orgasms, as I am actually a quick selfish cummer. i heard this of you

They haven't lied to you "
i know

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

If you need to borrow to buy such items you need to seriously question your financial priorities...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"If you need to borrow to buy such items you need to seriously question your financial priorities..."

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "

Save up for what you want and buy things bit by bit.

It's not like it's something where you'll lose it of you don't.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Postcode lottery instead maybe OP? As well as the chance to win some cash, you'll also have a friendly chap - dressed in red - come and serenade you at your front door...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).

Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Personally I wouldn’t take it, wouldn’t sit right with me.

I struggle when out with someone not doing equal rounds / split of costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make an amazon wish list and put it on your profile/s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I wouldn’t take it, wouldn’t sit right with me.

I struggle when out with someone not doing equal rounds / split of costs"
its ok i can handle it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).

Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth..... "

You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Personally I wouldn’t take it, wouldn’t sit right with me.

I struggle when out with someone not doing equal rounds / split of costs

Its ok i can handle it "

I’m sure you can... it was meant (must remember my punctuation) as I need to pay my way, equally, when out with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hell is one of them, N don't they get to see where the gift is being sent xx hotwife g xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).

Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....

You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy."

That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).

Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....

You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.

That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty "

Rimming for holidays and gifts?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).

Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....

You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.

That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty

Rimming for holidays and gifts?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).

Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....

You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.

That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty

Rimming for holidays and gifts?"

Ooops...

In* not rim! (new phone I swear.... )

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Personally I wouldn’t take it, wouldn’t sit right with me.

I struggle when out with someone not doing equal rounds / split of costs"

yes..for me too

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).

Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....

You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.

That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty

Rimming for holidays and gifts?

Ooops...

In* not rim! (new phone I swear.... )"

Don't believe you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't take it, especially from a stranger!! . I was brought up to live by if you can't afford it with your own money then you don't have it. If they're is something you want you save up to buy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).

Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....

You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.

That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty

Rimming for holidays and gifts?

Ooops...

In* not rim! (new phone I swear.... )

Don't believe you "

Tbf, I don't know what my friends get up to in private, they could well be rimming their way around the real world in secret for all I know....

(It's really ironic that when I went to type rimming on this damn phone it autocorrected it to winning....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful OP

Nothing is free x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Every situation is unique .

I have lent a fab friend money once before and everything went ok , but obviously it's down to your gut instinct

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "
well what you going to do you have had all these opinions so have you decided?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm with everyone else on here OP in that I'd be suspicious of his motives for the offer especially given you've never met and therefore probably don't know each other that well.

Any meet I have here, costs are split equally which leaves no room for obligation or expectation to be set.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

It`s not a good idea to put yourself in debt to someone you don`t know.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "

Well if you can't afford things its better to save up than borrow.

If you can't save then its unlikely you can repay a loan.

All loans come with strings no matter what.

Is it really a loan? Does the lender think it is or is it more payment for pleasure in their mind?

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"I wouldn't even talk to anyone who offered me money or to a person who would consider taking money from me.... Money has nothing to do with friendship or relationships, definitely not in the early stages.... I'd question how money or loans has even entered the conversation, it sounds a bit wrong..... either he's expecting to gain favour or you're giving off the wrong impression OP. There are definitely women here who would offer unofficial services for such loans, I've come across them myself on my fab adventure (discovered not ejaculated...).

Save up, buy your own knickers from somewhere less expensive and improve your self worth.....

You say women yeah bet some guys would love a sugar mummy.

That is most probably true, but I have no real personal experience of it on here. I do know a friend of a friend rim the real world who has all his holidays and presents paid for by his rich executive older girlfriend, that's pretty

Rimming for holidays and gifts?

Ooops...

In* not rim! (new phone I swear.... )

Don't believe you

Tbf, I don't know what my friends get up to in private, they could well be rimming their way around the real world in secret for all I know....

(It's really ironic that when I went to type rimming on this damn phone it autocorrected it to winning....)"

'Win When You're Rimming' - wasn't that a Robbie Williams record?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I think you already know the answer to your question x

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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

A few guys have offered me ‘holidays’ on here, they’re abroad and they pay for me to fly out and meet them.

Don’t know about you guys but that goes against all my natural survival instincts haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he specify that’s what the money was for? Ask yourself would the very nice guy lend you money to pay your gas bill or buy food?

Personally I’d run a mile. But I see why women would take advantage of men who are that dumb to offer money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So a very nice guy has offered to lend me £200 so I can buy new clothes heels makeup undies etc we have chatted for a while and he made the offer we haven’t met yet but he said it’s his money and wants to help me I’ve told him I will think about it and if I take the money I will pay him back it’s only a loan my question to you is it it wrong to take it or just accept the offer?? "

Surely saving a bit you'd soon have that money?

Best of luck, whatever you decide x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid I'm with almost everyone else here op. Kindness and generosity are wonderful things with people you know, love and trust but money from a stranger rarely comes without an expectation of something. Don't put yourself in debt to someone you don't know. Money has a terrible habit of causing more problems than it solves. I wish you well in whatever you decide.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I was brought up to save for things and if you cant save for things you go without. Are you seriously considering getting into debt for something as frivilous as a pair of knickers

Cant afford it then go without

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