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"I’m a direct, heart on sleeve kind of person. Once I know I want to meet someone I’m pretty straightforward about that, but a couple of men I’m talking to have said they like to be intrigued. This is quite stressful. I’m not a mind game player. I haven’t a scooby how to ‘intrigue’ someone. What do I do?" If it’s not your kind of game , don’t play | |||
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"I'm apparently intriguing but I don't know why ![]() Same Haha. It drives me mad not knowing why. | |||
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"I’m a direct, heart on sleeve kind of person. Once I know I want to meet someone I’m pretty straightforward about that, but a couple of men I’m talking to have said they like to be intrigued. This is quite stressful. I’m not a mind game player. I haven’t a scooby how to ‘intrigue’ someone. What do I do?" less is more, dont show all dont say all and wear a mask ![]() | |||
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"I'm apparently intriguing but I don't know why ![]() You play your cards close to your chest and don’t give much away | |||
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"Tell them to fuck off ....." That's rude. 'Please fuck off, thank you' | |||
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"Don't reveal too much too quickly. Go slow. Stimulate the mind." Flutters eyelashes Subtlety though ![]() | |||
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"Start a sentance but dont fini....." I like this ![]() | |||
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"Don't reveal too much too quickly. Go slow. Stimulate the mind." That’s essentially how I see it too. | |||
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"I'm apparently intriguing but I don't know why ![]() I hear the same but I don’t know why. I am a heart on my sleeve person but I know I’m contradictory. I am a tease as well but also a bit shy. Just be you, them being intrigued is down to just wanting to know more about you, if they aren’t intrigued they likely aren’t for you. - Mrs | |||
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"Don't reveal too much too quickly. Go slow. Stimulate the mind." Yep, see that’s where I go wrong. By the time the meet comes round they know everything, are bored and cancel. | |||
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"I’m often told I’m intriguing- like a lot of other women on here ![]() That's all you can do be yourself ![]() | |||
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"Don't reveal too much too quickly. Go slow. Stimulate the mind. Flutters eyelashes Subtlety though ![]() I’m rubbish st subtlety too.. ![]() | |||
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"I'm apparently intriguing but I don't know why ![]() It is simply wanting to know more about the other person. There’s a sense of depth that hasn’t been revealed. Most people I’d like to get to know are intriguing in one way or another. | |||
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"I’m a direct, heart on sleeve kind of person. Once I know I want to meet someone I’m pretty straightforward about that, but a couple of men I’m talking to have said they like to be intrigued. This is quite stressful. I’m not a mind game player. I haven’t a scooby how to ‘intrigue’ someone. What do I do?less is more, dont show all dont say all and wear a mask ![]() Still strikes me as silly game playing if I’m honest. | |||
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"I think its a basic chat line they use on here. All the messages you get saying they find your profile intriguing" You don’t reveal much either DS. You’re profile is hidden ![]() | |||
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"I think its a basic chat line they use on here. All the messages you get saying they find your profile intriguing" Come on! I’m not that naive. We’re a way past the introductory chats. The issue is keeping interest alive until I finally get some free time to meet. | |||
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"If they want to be intrigued, tell them to read crime fiction. You are a person. Not a cliche. " I like this! | |||
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"Don't reveal too much too quickly. Go slow. Stimulate the mind. Yep, see that’s where I go wrong. By the time the meet comes round they know everything, are bored and cancel." If you're giving them wank chat they don't need to meet. If they say you've revealed everything 'in general', be glad you're not meeting them. You're a real person and not just some words in a few messages. If they're bored you're not compatible. Again, be glad you're not meeting them. | |||
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"I’m a direct, heart on sleeve kind of person. Once I know I want to meet someone I’m pretty straightforward about that, but a couple of men I’m talking to have said they like to be intrigued. This is quite stressful. I’m not a mind game player. I haven’t a scooby how to ‘intrigue’ someone. What do I do?less is more, dont show all dont say all and wear a mask ![]() Be who you are. I much prefer authenticity. It’s not necessarily a game at all, it only becomes a game if it’s a deliberate attempt to hook people into something without their awareness in order to manipulate them. Some people are more reserved than others. That might be seen as intriguing. In other cases it’s just a sense of depth yet to be revealed. In other cases it’s the hint of a characteristic that you can only find out by getting to know that person better. | |||
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"Some people find us intriguing for god knows what reason, others don't. Don't give it much thought and just be yourself. Don't change to fit someone's fantasy. If they like you they'll find you naturally intriguing. Now go out and have sexy fun wuth the ones who do ![]() ![]() Oh well, as you insist.. ![]() | |||
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"Some people find us intriguing for god knows what reason, others don't. Don't give it much thought and just be yourself. Don't change to fit someone's fantasy. If they like you they'll find you naturally intriguing. Now go out and have sexy fun wuth the ones who do ![]() ![]() ![]() That's the spirit ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’m a direct, heart on sleeve kind of person. Once I know I want to meet someone I’m pretty straightforward about that, but a couple of men I’m talking to have said they like to be intrigued. This is quite stressful. I’m not a mind game player. I haven’t a scooby how to ‘intrigue’ someone. What do I do? If it’s not your kind of game , don’t play " My thinking too, tbh. They’ll either get me or not. | |||
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"Tell them to fuck off ..... ![]() But but but...sex... | |||
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"Tell them to fuck off ..... ![]() There's plenty to be had with the right people ![]() | |||
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"Tell them to fuck off ..... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hmmmmmmm......thank you.. | |||
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"Honestly just be yourself. I've had men before tell me they enjoy the thrill of the chase and women playing hard to get. I can't be bothered about that. I'm a pretty frank person and I appreciate the same in return. As with anything this makes me incompatible with some but there are plenty it I am compatible with who prefer this way too." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Honestly just be yourself. I've had men before tell me they enjoy the thrill of the chase and women playing hard to get. I can't be bothered about that. I'm a pretty frank person and I appreciate the same in return. As with anything this makes me incompatible with some but there are plenty it I am compatible with who prefer this way too." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Honestly just be yourself. I've had men before tell me they enjoy the thrill of the chase and women playing hard to get. I can't be bothered about that. I'm a pretty frank person and I appreciate the same in return. As with anything this makes me incompatible with some but there are plenty it I am compatible with who prefer this way too." I certainly don’t enjoy it the other way round. I hate feeling like I’m chasing people. If I start to feel that then I lose interest. Life is too short and opportunities to meet too scarce to be putting hours into chasing people for sex, plus self-respect. | |||
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"Honestly just be yourself. I've had men before tell me they enjoy the thrill of the chase and women playing hard to get. I can't be bothered about that. I'm a pretty frank person and I appreciate the same in return. As with anything this makes me incompatible with some but there are plenty it I am compatible with who prefer this way too. ![]() ![]() You'll never win crufts with that attitude. | |||
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"Honestly just be yourself. I've had men before tell me they enjoy the thrill of the chase and women playing hard to get. I can't be bothered about that. I'm a pretty frank person and I appreciate the same in return. As with anything this makes me incompatible with some but there are plenty it I am compatible with who prefer this way too. ![]() ![]() Oh I don't know, you haven't seen my freestyle work, and my tail is gorgeous if I do say so myself ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hint at things.. but never say it outright leave some things unsaid. Avoid talking about what you really, really want to discuss.. till it's forefront on both of your minds. I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. " You are most definitely intriguing and I wanted to find out more ![]() | |||
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"I’m a direct, heart on sleeve kind of person. Once I know I want to meet someone I’m pretty straightforward about that, but a couple of men I’m talking to have said they like to be intrigued. This is quite stressful. I’m not a mind game player. I haven’t a scooby how to ‘intrigue’ someone. What do I do?less is more, dont show all dont say all and wear a mask ![]() not at all less is always more here, i mean most women dont really want to see a guys erect cock thrust in their view everytime and the same applies to a woman some of the sexiest pics are dressed either in lingerie or a dress, a mask as in a dress mask offers a little mystery protects your identity too if thats an issue ![]() | |||
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"Hint at things.. but never say it outright leave some things unsaid. Avoid talking about what you really, really want to discuss.. till it's forefront on both of your minds. I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You are most definitely intriguing and I wanted to find out more ![]() As are you and I don't know enough about you yet, so you still intrigue me Annabelle ![]() ![]() | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. " You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() Come over and check out my Picassos he, he. | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() Maybe you intrigue without realising you do? | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() Have they been well hung? | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() Picassos? How very intriguing! ![]() ![]() | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() They’re nicely framed.. | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() ![]() ![]() Too restrained for me. I like my topless Picasso women romping in my bedroom. ![]() | |||
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"Hint at things.. but never say it outright leave some things unsaid. Avoid talking about what you really, really want to discuss.. till it's forefront on both of your minds. I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You are most definitely intriguing and I wanted to find out more ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes, we must...anticipation, intrigue, I like how that feels ![]() | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Vettriano is for the lounge, working your way up the stairs you find Birgitte Evelyn, then once your upstairs... well i'll leave you to ponder and be intrigued! | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() No.. but they can't say the info isn't on Fab and that the community isn't helpful and caring if we give out that information when asked. | |||
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" Be who you are. I much prefer authenticity. It’s not necessarily a game at all, it only becomes a game if it’s a deliberate attempt to hook people into something without their awareness in order to manipulate them. Some people are more reserved than others. That might be seen as intriguing. In other cases it’s just a sense of depth yet to be revealed. In other cases it’s the hint of a characteristic that you can only find out by getting to know that person better." That's beautifully put. I am reserved to the point, where I am just not at all ![]() | |||
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" Be who you are. I much prefer authenticity. It’s not necessarily a game at all, it only becomes a game if it’s a deliberate attempt to hook people into something without their awareness in order to manipulate them. Some people are more reserved than others. That might be seen as intriguing. In other cases it’s just a sense of depth yet to be revealed. In other cases it’s the hint of a characteristic that you can only find out by getting to know that person better. That's beautifully put. I am reserved to the point, where I am just not at all ![]() You’re right. I don’t think you can be deliberately intriguing. That’s more how someone experiences you. I think trying to be intriguing will just come across as game-playing. | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() So where do I put my Grosz? Always struggled with that one.. | |||
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" I avoid sex chat for as long as possible and reccomend most men do same thing. As nearly all men get graphic right from the get go.. You think those that need to take heed of this will actually do so? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Well if it was me, in the spare room when the mother-in-law came to stay - You certainly have, erm.. intriguing taste! ![]() ![]() | |||
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