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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What makes the other half good in bed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

above all else it has to be chemistry

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"What makes the other half good in bed ?"

Selflessness....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Instinct, reading each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intuition

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"above all else it has to be chemistry "

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

Consideration

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Chemistry, passion, trust, being able to read me like a book. Being VWE and giving good cuddles helps too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely it's all chemistry. That connection leads to fireworks.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

A big baseball bat dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"A big baseball bat dick"

Jokes. Chemistry or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing my mind

The way her body reacts

The sounds and breathing changes

Does she inspire me

Make me feel exited

How orgasmic is she

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Sheer lust..

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Someone who doesn't snore and nick all the quilt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have sufficient experience to answer this well, but enthusiasm, passion, self knowledge, an adventurous, experimental spirit, sensuality and willingness to respond to their partner’s body plus that elusive chemistry would be how I’d describe it

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Chemistry and communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all down to chemistry

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Definitely chemistry

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Variation, He knows where my buttons are, when to push them, & just as importantly when not to.

Mostly I'd say its his ability to read my sexual moods, sometimes I want lazy sex, sometimes I want to hang from the light fittings & be freaky, sometimes I want to get the toys out for a while.

Almost always he knows which before I do. I think its because we both work from home & have been together almost 24/7/365 for the past seven years. Still find ourselves squeezing each others bums on the way to our respective working areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t have sufficient experience to answer this well, but enthusiasm, passion, self knowledge, an adventurous, experimental spirit, sensuality and willingness to respond to their partner’s body plus that elusive chemistry would be how I’d describe it"

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not telling as I want to keep him

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Spot on! "

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol helps.....

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Minimum of two tight holes and at least one wet one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A big baseball bat dick

Jokes. Chemistry or something

Wet myself laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry brings it to the next level, and I'm told the ability to go for as long as she pleases definitely helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chemistry brings it to the next level, and I'm told the ability to go for as long as she pleases definitely helps

Chemistry is always needed

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"A big baseball bat dick

Jokes. Chemistry or something

Wet myself laughing

Will a rounders bat do?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Sense of fun - sex should never be serious. Passionate and intense but always fun. Experimental, spontaneous, sensual and FUN!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Sense of fun - sex should never be serious. Passionate and intense but always fun. Experimental, spontaneous, sensual and FUN!"

Sounds boring

It should be more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% trust!

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Passion. And stamina

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"100% trust!"

Would you settle for 35%?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A connection

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it just happens. My girl and I are like a fight scene out of taken or the matrix where all the moves and hands hit the right place at the right time, full of passion, anger, emotion and soul. I think good sex is like a soul exchange.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think it just happens. My girl and I are like a fight scene out of taken or the matrix where all the moves and hands hit the right place at the right time, full of passion, anger, emotion and soul. I think good sex is like a soul exchange.....

That's a good description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bacon sandwich before during or after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bacon sandwich before during or after"

During?????

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

*wanders off to find his chemistry degree certificate because apparently everyone is looking for it*

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Bacon sandwich before during or after

During?????"

Bacon bagette??

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"*wanders off to find his chemistry degree certificate because apparently everyone is looking for it*"

I think I got a D.

It could explain a lot.

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By *inn_the_humanMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

She doesn't hog the covers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*wanders off to find his chemistry degree certificate because apparently everyone is looking for it*"

Lol. Mrs x

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

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Slow and unrushed, with soft touch and soft kissing lips

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"*wanders off to find his chemistry degree certificate because apparently everyone is looking for it*"

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"*wanders off to find his chemistry degree certificate because apparently everyone is looking for it*"

Or psychology

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Not freaking out when one of us starts bleeding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on! "

Good guesswork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes the other half good in bed ?"
it has to be biology

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Someone who doesn't snore and nick all the quilt!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the soul exchange. I’ve experienced it so infrequently that that is the best way I could imagine of summing it up in two words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*wanders off to find his chemistry degree certificate because apparently everyone is looking for it*"

I have a degree in chemistry too, it's never helped me with my relationships.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it has to be the history

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Listening to her body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it has to be and theirs a lesson to be learnt here the sociology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bacon sandwich before during or after"

Fry an egg on her arse

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Communication. You can have all the chemistry in the world but if you can't bring yourself to say "that's thing's not working for me, I love it when you move your tongue like this instead" then it's not going to be great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Communication. You can have all the chemistry in the world but if you can't bring yourself to say "that's thing's not working for me, I love it when you move your tongue like this instead" then it's not going to be great."

Agree... chemistry is only one component. Communication the other, not only being able to take direction but actually doing it.

For me it’s men that understand that the lead up and build up to sex is just as important as sex.

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

Listening and watching how her body react.

If you pay close attention you will see when to go faster or slower so you can build and build the sense of excitement

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Warm hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely chemistry. Playfulness, consideration, the matrix analogy is a good one! It's that certain something that just happens. The difference between just a shag and a great session.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please

It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please

It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other. "

Instructions tattooed on?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please

It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other.

Instructions tattooed on?

I love tattoos so I wouldn't mind. "Vag on here" would be so hot.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Someone who doesn't starfish, pinch the duvet and snore would be a good starting place

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please

It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other.

Instructions tattooed on?

I love tattoos so I wouldn't mind. "Vag on here" would be so hot.

Can you read really small print?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not freaking out when one of us starts bleeding"

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Learning during the Discovery of someone new. Selfless in applying what is learned. Fun together is better than when only one has fun out of the two (or more).

The longer the date the more is learned. Repeat dates also. More can be explored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not farting or snoring. Not necessarily in that order.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Don’t breathe in my face that is the absolute most important rule

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"What makes the other half good in bed ?"

Keeping to their own fucking side. And bringing me a cuppa in the morning.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"What makes the other half good in bed ?

Keeping to their own fucking side. And bringing me a cuppa in the morning."

And keeping their freezing cold feet off me.. just no need

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

This is a lovely description

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Chemistry, lust, that mutual want and desire to please

It's also about the ability to listen and read the other person's body. The best sex I've had has been where you just connect and read each other. "

Well, that comes naturally to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry, the reaction to the way each other’s bodies respond. Lust and the desire for each other x

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Respect, not treating the other as an object or convenience

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