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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Do you go with your gut instinct about a person or.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation in my opinion.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, it's not reliable.

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Depends on the situation in my opinion."

Yeah but do you get a feeling about a person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, over time, but I'm aware I do that so tend to fight it a little because been proven wrong many times in the past.. not so much lately though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your Gut instinct .

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Go with your Gut instinct ."

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep it’s the only thing that’s ever right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation in my opinion.

Yeah but do you get a feeling about a person?"

Depends on circumstances!

You can't apply a set rule for everything.

If you never use gut feeling you don't learn.

If you don't give people benefit of the doubt, you have trust issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More intuition which is a bit of gut instinct and part from things they have said/typed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gut instinct is rarely wrong about people and situations. It's not perfect, but I go with it anyway.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)


"Go with your Gut instinct ."
the times i haven't I've regretted it x

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By *orthern PowerhouseMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Not ruled by it but do take notice of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go with my vagina instinct

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. I don't totally write someone off over my initial impression but I've had many situations where I've ignored my gut and wished I hadn't. It seems to be right 99% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go with Sam's, he is ridiculously good at reading people, text, expressions and mannerisms, he's basically a short Sherlock without the hat.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely go with my gut feeling

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Definitely go with my gut feeling"

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

definitely gut instinct

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I use evidence available most of the time. My gut isn't wise.

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"definitely gut instinct"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always trust in heuristics (gut feeling)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

On here every single time used gut instinct. Never let me down yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% if my gut instinct tells me something its right.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Happy to give people the benefit of the doubt, but when my spider senses start to tingle, it's Mr Gut all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like a superpower

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Like others have said, I especially go with my gut instinct on here.

I am pretty good at noticing discrepancies and my brain files them away for future use.

I have usually regretted it if I have gone against my gut instinct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually do, and when I don't I wish I had, but it's not always right. It's a tricky balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely..it's never let me down yet

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"Do you go with your gut instinct about a person or....."

On this site, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you go with your gut instinct about a person or....."

Yes.

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go with my vagina instinct "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes. You ignoring your gut instinct is a dangerous thing to do. We pick up on far more sub conscious signals than you think.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Absolutely I do it in lots of situations, it's there for a reason

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

No, I'm usually good at sussing people out by their affect especially on here, as for the "their so different in real life" o please if you act like a knob online your a knob ....or knobess "cough"

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Yes, always

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Do you go with your gut instinct about a person or.....

Yes.

Absolutely. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely go with it. We ignored it once on here, never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I base my decisions on how they behave. Particularly I pay attention to whether what they say and what they do are consistent.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No I base my decisions on how they behave. Particularly I pay attention to whether what they say and what they do are consistent."

Yes, too many people will ignore the difference between words and actions.

There's a guy (whose name typically, I can't remember) who does talks on this stuff. He starts by asking who's left their kids with babysitters, then asks who isn't completely happy about the babysitter, then says "what are you doing here? Go home".

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I go with my gut instinct

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes..always.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I don't trust it totally but its rarely wrong expecialy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I base my decisions on how they behave. Particularly I pay attention to whether what they say and what they do are consistent.

Yes, too many people will ignore the difference between words and actions.

There's a guy (whose name typically, I can't remember) who does talks on this stuff. He starts by asking who's left their kids with babysitters, then asks who isn't completely happy about the babysitter, then says "what are you doing here? Go home". "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't trust it totally but its rarely wrong expecialy on here."

I think it's easy to confuse but instinct and nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go with my gut instincts, never let me down before and majority of times its proved to right

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Not always but I should more often.

Many times I have ignored it and I've regretted it later.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes gut instinct

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yes gut instinct "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Gut instinct for me is a double edged sword. I actively try to find fault due to past experiences. If I listened to my gut I probably wouldn't get out of the bed in the morning. So I try and be more logical rather than go with my gut

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Can people stop bringing issues you have had with other people onto the forum please or you may find you can't post at all. If you are going to answer a general question, keep it general

Moving on is a good option

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Absolutely I do it in lots of situations, it's there for a reason"

It is there for a reason. The way people handle themselves speaks volumes.

If something doesn't feel right then there's usually a reason for it.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'd say I go by logic and gut. Either way if something feels off then I'd probably back off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gut instinct for me is a double edged sword. I actively try to find fault due to past experiences. If I listened to my gut I probably wouldn't get out of the bed in the morning. So I try and be more logical rather than go with my gut "

If your past experiences taught you to be wary, be wary.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I do with emails and private messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation in my opinion.

Yeah but do you get a feeling about a person?

Depends on circumstances!

You can't apply a set rule for everything.

If you never use gut feeling you don't learn.

If you don't give people benefit of the doubt, you have trust issues."

If your gut is screaming there's something wrong, surely it's not a good idea to give them benefit of doubt.

Or do you mean it's a no win situation?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, my gut instinct is rarely wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your gut, but develop and understand it, don't miss out through fear

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I will try again. I also read between the lines and how they word things. For example all those that start the message with whats a nice girl like you doing on here tells me your a mysogonstic twat and i dont have to read anymore of your message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... but with a benefit of doubt..and if there are any doubts i look for evidence and inconsistency. And then decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gut is natures way of telling you to get the f outta there or be cautious.

I always trust my gut. As an ex soldier while on tour my gut has my life more than once so i listen to what it tells me and continue to do so.

Your instinct combines everything you see, hear and feel into one thing and once refined is very rarely wrong.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes and its usual right x

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Oh Definately go with my gut

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s never been wrong yet.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Whilst still being someone who looks for the good in people, I do listen to my gut too. It's pretty reliable.

Mrs TMN x

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Gut instinct every time, never failed me yet. I've got to be certain in my own mind especially if I am inviting them into my home.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Gut instinct is helpful but for many things it's limited. Often it's useful to use our rational mind to evaluate what we know - including gut feelings.

Certainly if someone hits me strongly as wrong for me, it's quite unlikely that I'll reach a conclusion that they have promise.

Sometimes we may repeat patterns that aren't the best for us, because our gut instinct may be comfortable with someone who's similar to others that we've known. Their familiarity may seem less unsettling than someone who's very different but possibly groundbreaking for us.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

All my gut ever says is feed me.

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"All my gut ever says is feed me."

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Next time you eat something dodgy and you get a pain in the gut and it starts rumbelling just ignore it and try telling yourself you dont need to get to the toilet.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I always trust my instincts, I do however give chances to certain people

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Gut instinct every time, never failed me yet. I've got to be certain in my own mind especially if I am inviting them into my home. "

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yep 100% Always go with my instinct. Hardly ever been wrong.

Jo.Xx

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

The scientific method and experience is what I go with and it has taught is that most of the gut instincts are usually right so I listen them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut instinct is always a good one to go by. If something doesn't feel right...well it probably isn't ha

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