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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England

....starting to get a bit fed up and disillusioned with this site. Also starting to realise why there's so many bi-curious males!!! Because no matter how polite we are to single females and couples they either ignore us completely or slate us without a reason.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site hasn’t made me bi curious at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say all are slated but there are a lot of arsy/abusive/bad mannered ones. But then you get couples that are equally unplesent too.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not sure negativity is going to help.

If I was looking to meet guys your status would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure negativity is going to help.

If I was looking to meet guys your status would put me off. "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"This site hasn’t made me bi curious at all "

Damn

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'll never understand people who change sexuality based on what attention they are or are getting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll never understand people who change sexuality based on what attention they are or are getting. "

Yes I don’t understand this either

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England


"Not sure negativity is going to help.

If I was looking to meet guys your status would put me off. "

So would "sitting at home drinking tea and watching antiques roadshow" be better?

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

I reckon the key to success on here as a single male is to show patience and maturity. Don’t blame the site or the people on it, merely self reflect and think of how you can put more of your personality across in an original way and you’re golden. That’s what’s worked for me anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll never understand people who change sexuality based on what attention they are or are getting. "

Me neither!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll never understand people who change sexuality based on what attention they are or are getting. "

You can't change your sexuality. However, you may not have realised it yet...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"So would "sitting at home drinking tea and watching antiques roadshow" be better? "

Yes.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I reckon the key to success on here as a single male is to show patience and maturity. Don’t blame the site or the people on it, merely self reflect and think of how you can put more of your personality across in an original way and you’re golden. That’s what’s worked for me anyhow"

I think so.

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford


"....starting to get a bit fed up and disillusioned with this site. Also starting to realise why there's so many bi-curious males!!! Because no matter how polite we are to single females and couples they either ignore us completely or slate us without a reason. "

It’s frustrating at times for all of us. We’ve been let down 3 times today alone ..

You win some, you lose some. No rhyme nor reason on Fab!!

Just have to go with it. Or go...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I reckon the key to success on here as a single male is to show patience and maturity. Don’t blame the site or the people on it, merely self reflect and think of how you can put more of your personality across in an original way and you’re golden. That’s what’s worked for me anyhow"

This man is very wise and he's right

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England


"I reckon the key to success on here as a single male is to show patience and maturity. Don’t blame the site or the people on it, merely self reflect and think of how you can put more of your personality across in an original way and you’re golden. That’s what’s worked for me anyhow

This man is very wise and he's right "

Completely agree. But it's a lot harder for single males than it is for females and couples. And it's not a "woe is me" post as someone previously stated. Just think there's very uneven balance on this site. Only voicing my opinion

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I reckon the key to success on here as a single male is to show patience and maturity. Don’t blame the site or the people on it, merely self reflect and think of how you can put more of your personality across in an original way and you’re golden. That’s what’s worked for me anyhow

This man is very wise and he's right

Completely agree. But it's a lot harder for single males than it is for females and couples. And it's not a "woe is me" post as someone previously stated. Just think there's very uneven balance on this site. Only voicing my opinion "

That's true. But take it or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon the key to success on here as a single male is to show patience and maturity. Don’t blame the site or the people on it, merely self reflect and think of how you can put more of your personality across in an original way and you’re golden. That’s what’s worked for me anyhow

This man is very wise and he's right

Completely agree. But it's a lot harder for single males than it is for females and couples. And it's not a "woe is me" post as someone previously stated. Just think there's very uneven balance on this site. Only voicing my opinion "

Have you ever visited India , China, or Korea?

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England


"I reckon the key to success on here as a single male is to show patience and maturity. Don’t blame the site or the people on it, merely self reflect and think of how you can put more of your personality across in an original way and you’re golden. That’s what’s worked for me anyhow

This man is very wise and he's right

Completely agree. But it's a lot harder for single males than it is for females and couples. And it's not a "woe is me" post as someone previously stated. Just think there's very uneven balance on this site. Only voicing my opinion

Have you ever visited India , China, or Korea?"

Not in the last couple of weeks.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The balance is uneven. But that's down to a) socialisation of boys and girls about their sexuality, and b) the awful fresh meat treatment single women (and possibly couples) are subjected to when they join Fab.

Fix those, and it'll be more even.

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England


"The balance is uneven. But that's down to a) socialisation of boys and girls about their sexuality, and b) the awful fresh meat treatment single women (and possibly couples) are subjected to when they join Fab.

Fix those, and it'll be more even. "

Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The balance is uneven. But that's down to a) socialisation of boys and girls about their sexuality, and b) the awful fresh meat treatment single women (and possibly couples) are subjected to when they join Fab.

Fix those, and it'll be more even.

Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century "

Yes, but it's still overwhelming and off-putting.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century "

We are fully aware of this

Let those fools filter themselves out and you just make yourself, your profile and you forum posts better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The balance is uneven. But that's down to a) socialisation of boys and girls about their sexuality, and b) the awful fresh meat treatment single women (and possibly couples) are subjected to when they join Fab.

Fix those, and it'll be more even.

Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century "

What else should they have to say? The women are on here with their tits and arse out, they need a shag. Plus it's difficult to type one handed.

Fk nw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just you OP, I'm doing great

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The balance is uneven. But that's down to a) socialisation of boys and girls about their sexuality, and b) the awful fresh meat treatment single women (and possibly couples) are subjected to when they join Fab.

Fix those, and it'll be more even.

Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

What else should they have to say? The women are on here with their tits and arse out, they need a shag. Plus it's difficult to type one handed.

Fk nw "

I got the fresh meat treatment with no photos at all. Nor mention of my tits, arse, mouth, or pussy.

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England


"Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

We are fully aware of this

Let those fools filter themselves out and you just make yourself, your profile and you forum posts better "

Didn't realise my profile and me. were that bad. Ah well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The balance is uneven. But that's down to a) socialisation of boys and girls about their sexuality, and b) the awful fresh meat treatment single women (and possibly couples) are subjected to when they join Fab.

Fix those, and it'll be more even.

Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

What else should they have to say? The women are on here with their tits and arse out, they need a shag. Plus it's difficult to type one handed.

Fk nw

I got the fresh meat treatment with no photos at all. Nor mention of my tits, arse, mouth, or pussy. "

"Woman"

*spurt*

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

We are fully aware of this

Let those fools filter themselves out and you just make yourself, your profile and you forum posts better

Didn't realise my profile and me. were that bad. Ah well. "

If you're not getting anywhere, the easiest thing to do is see if you can improve yourself.

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England


"I think it's just you OP, I'm doing great "

Doing very well myself thanks mate. Like I said just voicing an opinion

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England


"Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

We are fully aware of this

Let those fools filter themselves out and you just make yourself, your profile and you forum posts better

Didn't realise my profile and me. were that bad. Ah well.

If you're not getting anywhere, the easiest thing to do is see if you can improve yourself. "

Excuse me???

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

We are fully aware of this

Let those fools filter themselves out and you just make yourself, your profile and you forum posts better

Didn't realise my profile and me. were that bad. Ah well.

If you're not getting anywhere, the easiest thing to do is see if you can improve yourself.

Excuse me??? "

Since your current approach is no longer working, it was a suggestion to see what you can do to improve.

For example, I would suggest a less generic profile.

If you must post a status, make it something other than "I'm horny" "Need a shag" "Fab is pointless" type of thing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

We are fully aware of this

Let those fools filter themselves out and you just make yourself, your profile and you forum posts better

Didn't realise my profile and me. were that bad. Ah well.

If you're not getting anywhere, the easiest thing to do is see if you can improve yourself.

Excuse me??? "

That wasn't an insult.

You can't make the numbers even. You can't make people reply.

You can ask why they're not replying and if there's anything you can do about it.

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England


"Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

We are fully aware of this

Let those fools filter themselves out and you just make yourself, your profile and you forum posts better

Didn't realise my profile and me. were that bad. Ah well.

If you're not getting anywhere, the easiest thing to do is see if you can improve yourself.

Excuse me???

That wasn't an insult.

You can't make the numbers even. You can't make people reply.

You can ask why they're not replying and if there's anything you can do about it. "

can't teach people good manners.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you're referring to replying, I suggest you look into the norms and FAQ here.

If you're talking about me, I suggest you consider that I was offering constructive criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what now? What you gonna do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really see what point anyone is making in this post, including the OP. I would however advise that when totally ignoring advice it's alway best to be honest about it and never start your sentences with "but".... just tell them to fuck right off buddy....

Peace and love etc

(waits for it..... )

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By *ewforestguy OP   Man
over a year ago

England


"So what now? What you gonna do?"

absolutely nothing. just expressing an opinion. have a good evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what now? What you gonna do?

absolutely nothing. just expressing an opinion. have a good evening"

I see.

Same to you.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Weep, you girls. My penis has given you up. Now it penetrates men's behinds. Goodbye, wondrous femininity!

Graffiti from Pompeii, Not portsmouth, the other one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeaaaaah you tell ‘em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair comment. But the "fresh meat" mentality is from neanderthal cave men types who think "fancy a shag love" is the chat up line of the century

We are fully aware of this

Let those fools filter themselves out and you just make yourself, your profile and you forum posts better

Didn't realise my profile and me. were that bad. Ah well.

If you're not getting anywhere, the easiest thing to do is see if you can improve yourself.

Excuse me???

Since your current approach is no longer working, it was a suggestion to see what you can do to improve.

For example, I would suggest a less generic profile.

If you must post a status, make it something other than "I'm horny" "Need a shag" "Fab is pointless" type of thing. "

But they are the most attractive updates

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"So what now? What you gonna do?

absolutely nothing. just expressing an opinion. have a good evening"

The numbers and looking for a single girl ( woman) don't help any single man, sorry.

Be you and look for what you want.

As a forum legend would say ' patience is the key '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon the key to success on here as a single male is to show patience and maturity. Don’t blame the site or the people on it, merely self reflect and think of how you can put more of your personality across in an original way and you’re golden. That’s what’s worked for me anyhow

This man is very wise and he's right

Completely agree. But it's a lot harder for single males than it is for females and couples. And it's not a "woe is me" post as someone previously stated. Just think there's very uneven balance on this site. Only voicing my opinion

Have you ever visited India , China, or Korea?

Not in the last couple of weeks. "

Try being a black in these places when white skin is desired...... now think about that the next time you feel it’s hard for a single male on Fab....

So cheer up and remember it could always be worse......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Whoever is crying about being black needs tonman the fuck up! Loads of profiles say black only

Lol... I been on here ain’t had a reply lol. Race is nothing to do with it "

They're talking about being black in other countries. Yikes

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Cant say I've ever had a problem. But then I can take it or leave it and I'm not desperate to sleep with just anyone that puts a meet up. Personally I live by the rule of dont expect anything then you wont be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoever is crying about being black needs tonman the fuck up! Loads of profiles say black only

Lol... I been on here ain’t had a reply lol. Race is nothing to do with it

They're talking about being black in other countries. Yikes "

I have never complained about being black nor will I ever....

I was just trying to make the OP see that whenever you’re upset about something in life , always .... remember it can be worse.....

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