FabSwingers.com forum: When people look at you....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like eyes meet at a supermarket but stare you straight into your eyes and then make it a point to do the same multiple times without a smile on their face isn't that awkward flirting?

I am a terrible flirt anyway, but she was terribly bad.

How good are your flirting skills?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or she was blind?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Maybe she wasn't flirting.

I don't flirt.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I assume they can’t see very well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or she was blind?"

She was definitely staring me square in the eyes, but yeah you are right to even look twice at me let alone 5 times. She must have been blind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe she wasn't flirting.

I don't flirt. "

So what do you do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I assume they can’t see very well. "

Thanks very much. Kick a man when he is down

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt call that flirting

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I assume they can’t see very well.

Thanks very much. Kick a man when he is down

I mean’t if they were looking at me!

Maybe she thought she knew you, but didn’t want to stare, but wanted to make sure? I do that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldnt call that flirting"

Agreed.

But why purposely make a point of moving near me and making eye contact so much, I mean she was definitely not my type. But she was obviously staring at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was she the security guard maybe

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By *anmyraWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

If someone did that to me I'd think they were being aggressive!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Maybe she wasn't flirting.

I don't flirt.

So what do you do?"

In public? Go about my business.

Anything Fab related? Be friendly and hope for the best.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I wouldnt call that flirting

Agreed.

But why purposely make a point of moving near me and making eye contact so much, I mean she was definitely not my type. But she was obviously staring at me."
she sounds creepy to me. I dont flirt as such im just a smiley chatty person6

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

She might have thought it was a smouldering look.

You should have smiled at her

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Was she the security guard maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was she the security guard maybe

Ha, definitely not dressed like one. And was wearing a really short dress.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm occasionally caught staring at people. I'm not. I'm lost in thought and not even looking.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Was she the security guard maybe

Rumbled by the store detectuve

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I wouldnt call that flirting

Agreed.

But why purposely make a point of moving near me and making eye contact so much, I mean she was definitely not my type. But she was obviously staring at me."

Two options. She was hoping you'd open up a conversation. She's not aware of personal space.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If someone did that to me I'd think they were being aggressive!!"

I understand what you mean, but she wasn't staring angrily at me. It's hard to explain, I'm a very relaxed guy but can tell if someone is being aggressive and she was anything but. But that was like she was waiting for me to do something? Maybe ? I do t know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe she wasn't flirting.

I don't flirt.

So what do you do?

In public? Go about my business.

Anything Fab related? Be friendly and hope for the best. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d just assume some one had a problem with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She might have thought it was a smouldering look.

You should have smiled at her

Probably should have, but then she may have thought I fancied her. Which definitely wasn't the case.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Store security deffo.She clocked the frozen chicken in your gusset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give em the finger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Store security deffo.She clocked the frozen chickenskin handbag in your gusset."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like eyes meet at a supermarket but stare you straight into your eyes and then make it a point to do the same multiple times without a smile on their face isn't that awkward flirting?

I am a terrible flirt anyway, but she was terribly bad.

How good are your flirting skills?"

No usually they are trying to work out if you were the chap they are after on crimewatch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like eyes meet at a supermarket but stare you straight into your eyes and then make it a point to do the same multiple times without a smile on their face isn't that awkward flirting?

I am a terrible flirt anyway, but she was terribly bad.

How good are your flirting skills?"
insurmountable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I finger em in the lettuce aisle"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"She might have thought it was a smouldering look.

You should have smiled at her

Probably should have, but then she may have thought I fancied her. Which definitely wasn't the case."

Ah. Let's hope she picks on a willing victim next time

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"She might have thought it was a smouldering look.

You should have smiled at her

Probably should have, but then she may have thought I fancied her. Which definitely wasn't the case."

Shrug. Women are expected to smile for no good reason. Maybe you're just happy or friendly! It can't be that bad! Etc.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Axe murderer Aisle Seven"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She might have thought it was a smouldering look.

You should have smiled at her

Probably should have, but then she may have thought I fancied her. Which definitely wasn't the case.

Shrug. Women are expected to smile for no good reason. Maybe you're just happy or friendly! It can't be that bad! Etc. "

I'm always friendly

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

She was probably thinking " wtf is he staring at, I'm going to bop him one if he carries on" .....happy I helped

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Maybe you took the last of something she wanted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She was probably thinking " wtf is he staring at, I'm going to bop him one if he carries on" .....happy I helped

Thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe you took the last of something she wanted "

Not at all haha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"She might have thought it was a smouldering look.

You should have smiled at her

Probably should have, but then she may have thought I fancied her. Which definitely wasn't the case.

Shrug. Women are expected to smile for no good reason. Maybe you're just happy or friendly! It can't be that bad! Etc.

I'm always friendly

So you should have smiled!

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

It might have been me I didn't have my glasses on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or on the spectrum and socially unaware. Not as uncommon as one would think.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Women do flirt with men though and sometimes use intense staring to try and open up a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She might have thought it was a smouldering look.

You should have smiled at her

Probably should have, but then she may have thought I fancied her. Which definitely wasn't the case.

Shrug. Women are expected to smile for no good reason. Maybe you're just happy or friendly! It can't be that bad! Etc.

I'm always friendly

So you should have smiled! "

It's been a long day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It might have been me I didn't have my glasses on

I think it may have been lol.

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