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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So am doing a small moan here.

Just lately, I've been looking over fab and the number of people saying about time-wasters is unreal am not moaning about them more of the actual time-wasters.

am a genuine guy who tries his best to meet people for mutual and regular fun, so each time I see a notice about another time waster it gets me more un-motivating, seeing that's another one that knocks people off from actually finding people who want to meet.

Am not just seeing single guys thou am seeing tonnes of different profiles lately doing it.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Keep in mind that a lot of people complain about timewasters when their time hasn't actually been wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also people who do meet don't complain.

Rubi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half the time people roll out the time waster label for someone who just doesn't want to meet them. Its the guaranteed-a-fuck.com attitude some have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 1 last night that feel asleep and 1 tonight that never bothered to let me know he was not coming ,I told him to let me know 2 hrs before if he was not coming and he said ,I will be there ,Now I see he has blocked me that will be so I dont tell everyone what a TIME WASTER HE IS ,I get sick of them ,they should be named and blocked ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never wasted anyone,s time but had it done to me lots of times ,

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

This is why we now meet in clubs we are going anyway and if they don’t turn up the night is not wasted

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

We've had to cancel 2 meets this week due to Mr KC being ill. We gave notice to both couples. One couple didn't acknowledge us back and the other were absolutely ok & we'll rearrange.

The first couple obviously feel we've wasted their time but y'know life happens. We've had 17 meets in 6 months & these are the first we've cancelled.

Other people have cancelled us but they haven't wasted our times - we still got to chat and we weren't literally sat there waiting for them

Some people just need to get a perspective on life a little more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make wiser choices and your time will be wasted less

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"I have had 1 last night that feel asleep and 1 tonight that never bothered to let me know he was not coming ,I told him to let me know 2 hrs before if he was not coming and he said ,I will be there ,Now I see he has blocked me that will be so I dont tell everyone what a TIME WASTER HE IS ,I get sick of them ,they should be named and blocked ,"

You can report them to admin for what use that is....

I've had refusals to open the front door, folk that look NOTHING like their photos. Couples that chat for months and keep me hanging on to promises of a meet while doing nothing but ask if I have any videos or more photos. Those who claim they are interested yet months later we still haven't got off the starting line. Yes meets arranged then they go quiet for a few days before, those that cancel on the day leaving me with no hope of organising a replacement meet. So damn annoying and seems worse than it used to be a few years back on here..

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

On yes.... add false addresses to the list along with female partners who are suddenly not playing leaving only the man.

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By *reme eggMan
over a year ago

East Retford

Shocking keep arranging a meet with my fb and no one ever turns up!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So am doing a small moan here.

Just lately, I've been looking over fab and the number of people saying about time-wasters is unreal am not moaning about them more of the actual time-wasters.

am a genuine guy who tries his best to meet people for mutual and regular fun, so each time I see a notice about another time waster it gets me more un-motivating, seeing that's another one that knocks people off from actually finding people who want to meet.

Am not just seeing single guys thou am seeing tonnes of different profiles lately doing it."

People also use the time waster label if you don't let the guy shag you. E.g. Met a couple in a pub, he was an arse. We finished our drinks and said a polite no thankyou . Next was all over forums , chat and sending messages to our friends list slating us. Time wasters was a more polite reference

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Another kind of timewaster... You spend weeks messaging, friends, swap photos etc then they suddenly stop replying to your messages but remain friends and keep logging into FAB . My fingers are getting shorter messaging these wasters.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Another kind of timewaster... You spend weeks messaging, friends, swap photos etc then they suddenly stop replying to your messages but remain friends and keep logging into FAB . My fingers are getting shorter messaging these wasters."

I would say they got bored with the messages rather than timewasters

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Another kind of timewaster... You spend weeks messaging, friends, swap photos etc then they suddenly stop replying to your messages but remain friends and keep logging into FAB . My fingers are getting shorter messaging these wasters.

I would say they got bored with the messages rather than timewasters"

That's a negative assumption

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

A time waster is someone who arranges a date and time and doesn't turn up! Simple!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Another kind of timewaster... You spend weeks messaging, friends, swap photos etc then they suddenly stop replying to your messages but remain friends and keep logging into FAB . My fingers are getting shorter messaging these wasters.

I would say they got bored with the messages rather than timewasters

That's a negative assumption "

It's true though, they haven't wasted anyone's time, they just don't want to talk anymore.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Another kind of timewaster... You spend weeks messaging, friends, swap photos etc then they suddenly stop replying to your messages but remain friends and keep logging into FAB . My fingers are getting shorter messaging these wasters.

I would say they got bored with the messages rather than timewasters

That's a negative assumption "

Same as assuming they are timewasters because the chat has dried up

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