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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they love the forum posts that are slagging them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*GettingItWrongSince2010

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

"

Great post .. Exactly why the nice ones stand out .. Shame about all the time wasters and wannabes that spoil it for the polite and respectful guys on here.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Well for a start probably at least 50% of them aren’t single

Of those that remain, there’s a reason why they’re single!

Oops, just realised that also therefore applies to me

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm nice and don't do the naughty things you say OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm nice and don't do the naughty things you say OP "

Awwwwwww. Flower

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

Great post .. Exactly why the nice ones stand out .. Shame about all the time wasters and wannabes that spoil it for the polite and respectful guys on here. "

They do? That's news to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because as your post says OP some single guys just think it's acceptable to send unwanted cock pics regardless what is started on your profile and unfortunately all singles guys seem to get tarred with the same brush which is unfair,so a big shout out to the lovely respectable single guys on fab

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I'm nice and don't do the naughty things you say OP

Awwwwwww. Flower "

You can call me flower if you want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

Great post .. Exactly why the nice ones stand out .. Shame about all the time wasters and wannabes that spoil it for the polite and respectful guys on here. "

They don’t spoil it for anyone but themselves.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Lots of people get it wrong on here, not just men. And on the flip side, most of my very best messages come from men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

"

The nice ones don't struggle as much as you suggest.

Not convinced that's it's about being nice or not whether one struggles or not either.

Those who don't struggle have the right combination of things like, realism, respect, knowing what they want and don't want, persistent with it, patience, continuity with people, make friends, listens to what she likes and doesn't like, enjoy some social aspects, know who they are and understand fab is a smaller part of life than many expect it to be.

I'm sure there's a few more things to add but it's a start on the right path.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a nice guy, I found it incredible easy to find what I was looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

Great post .. Exactly why the nice ones stand out .. Shame about all the time wasters and wannabes that spoil it for the polite and respectful guys on here.

They don’t spoil it for anyone but themselves. "

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

And the award for fridays have a go at guys goes to..round of applause please.

I offer a solution to you op. Your choice whether you use it.

Block those genders who cause you grief. No unsolicited cock photos.

No come suck my cock messages.

If you would like to converse with someone of that gender go find them you can instigate the contact .. you may find using your energy in a positive way more beneficial than in a negative.

Einstein said to do the same thing over and over again and expect a diffdrent result was insane.

Your choice .

P.S.

This has been done to death.. guys will be along shortly saying I never do those things and ladies and ciuples will be along to say similar, they'll be similar responses to yesterdays thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the award for fridays have a go at guys goes to..round of applause please.

I offer a solution to you op. Your choice whether you use it.

Block those genders who cause you grief. No unsolicited cock photos.

No come suck my cock messages.

If you would like to converse with someone of that gender go find them you can instigate the contact .. you may find using your energy in a positive way more beneficial than in a negative.

Einstein said to do the same thing over and over again and expect a diffdrent result was insane.

Your choice .

P.S.

This has been done to death.. guys will be along shortly saying I never do those things and ladies and ciuples will be along to say similar, they'll be similar responses to yesterdays thread. "

Yep

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The nice guys i know dont struggle

In fact they do very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The nice guys i know dont struggle

In fact they do very well"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moral guardian of the forums has spoken.

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By *rl322Man
over a year ago

wr11

Here here completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here here completely agree"

With all of it, or just in general ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

"

This is why the nice ones stand out. Because the silly ones are so silly. They think it’s dial a shag. Hope you find a diamond. - Mrs

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork


"why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

Great post .. Exactly why the nice ones stand out .. Shame about all the time wasters and wannabes that spoil it for the polite and respectful guys on here. "

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

"

I’ve made some great friends on here have respect and think I’m as polite as I amin every day life I haven’t found what I’m looking for yet .... also I don’t send cock pictures to be honest I’m an absolute catch but no ones hooked me yet sense of humour too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can only try our best lol. I don’t feel I’m doing much wrong! If I’m asked for a face pic I send one. I’m polite, I want to get to know some good people have great times socially. But still not having much luck! A lot of couples profiles on here are just as fake as the single lads. And the sort of couples I do want to get to know that look like they’ve been round the scene for a while an do party’s an socials won’t even entertain me. So my answer to this is don’t rely on the site. I’ve got to pluck me courage up an attend some different clubs to my local. But best of luck to all the other genuine lads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single man bashing threads...

Oh joy.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"why are all the nice guys on here finding it hard to find what they are looking for

Why do some think it ok to message to say come over girl and suck me cock

why when you put on your profile no cock photos they send them

Why do some on here think it fuck and go when swinging is about friendship and respect and fun to add to the list

So my point why do so many single men on here get it so wrong

"

Because all single men get tarred with the same brush.

Some woman want what they cant have and get a twisted buzz from stealing another womans man. Its like the forbidden fruit.

The chase is always better than the catch.

If you are single there is no chase so no real demand.

A man who has a partner will have NO problem getting another partner but a single man will struggle.

Its a fact!

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