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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi! As my profile indicates, my sexual proclivity gravitates towards the above mentioned group.

My point in posting this is to articulate my frustration at circumstances that arise in my pursuit of meets and the supposed reasoning behind them.

Why is it that many gurls write updates bemoaning their displeasure at men's lack of genuine intent yet when a man tries to establish a rapport, sends face pics,phone numbers has multiple verifications and is polite etc, gets ignored yet still the "updates" continue?

Am I the only one that notices this?

It strongly suggests either a time waster, fantasist or a fake profile.

If someone isn't psychologically prepared to meet for an intimate encounter then that's fine but why delude yourself it's not your own doing?

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"Hi! As my profile indicates, my sexual proclivity gravitates towards the above mentioned group.

My point in posting this is to articulate my frustration at circumstances that arise in my pursuit of meets and the supposed reasoning behind them.

Why is it that many gurls write updates bemoaning their displeasure at men's lack of genuine intent yet when a man tries to establish a rapport, sends face pics,phone numbers has multiple verifications and is polite etc, gets ignored yet still the "updates" continue?

Am I the only one that notices this?

It strongly suggests either a time waster, fantasist or a fake profile.

If someone isn't psychologically prepared to meet for an intimate encounter then that's fine but why delude yourself it's not your own doing?

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Maybe it's because your profile is hidden

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Or maybe they just don't fancy you either. It is allowed. To dismiss everyone that doesn't want to meet you as a "time waster, fantasist or a fake profile" is plain rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's pointless NOT hiding it, as gurls NEVER initiate contact with male admirers, surely you know this?

This mirrors heterosexual dating sites too obviously where its customery for men to "chase" or"woo" the female.

Or are you one of those rare unicorns that send ice breakers?

I've met several gorgeous gurls over the years on here and have verifications.

It's difficult because each person has their own criteria, so they concoct a hard and fast set of rules often based on bad experiences with other members, which has zero baring on who is currently pursuing them.

Hence the example I gave in the initial text.

The individual concerned seen my attached face and body photos and said they were attracted to me and liked my verifications.

So it's extremely illogical to suddenly back out.

This person also looks amazing yet, somehow, always manages to end up being "stood up".

I'm just sounding off, nothing personal, it's just annoying when you're genuine and forthcoming with photos, phone numbers etc to get messed around.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"It's pointless NOT hiding it, as gurls NEVER initiate contact with male admirers, surely you know this?

This mirrors heterosexual dating sites too obviously where its customery for men to "chase" or"woo" the female.

Or are you one of those rare unicorns that send ice breakers?

I've met several gorgeous gurls over the years on here and have verifications.

It's difficult because each person has their own criteria, so they concoct a hard and fast set of rules often based on bad experiences with other members, which has zero baring on who is currently pursuing them.

Hence the example I gave in the initial text.

The individual concerned seen my attached face and body photos and said they were attracted to me and liked my verifications.

So it's extremely illogical to suddenly back out.

This person also looks amazing yet, somehow, always manages to end up being "stood up".

I'm just sounding off, nothing personal, it's just annoying when you're genuine and forthcoming with photos, phone numbers etc to get messed around.

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Yes I agree but if you had, say, initiated contact with me and I then look at your profile and it is hidden then that would put me off. Would put most people off I guess. Why have you hidden it?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi! As my profile indicates, my sexual proclivity gravitates towards the above mentioned group.

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How do we know this when your profile is hidden ?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

'It's pointless NOT hiding it, as gurls NEVER initiate contact with male admirers, surely you know this?'

I call bollocks on this statement ! NEVER so you've seen my messages to admirers have you ?

There are always two sides to every story and your attitude certainly makes me wonder about what actually happened to put this girl off you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Single men here looking for most types of people struggle to gain message, social and meet contact with others because they are in extreme abundance and everyone knows who they fancy as well as their preferences.

If anyone finds their current approach isn't working, it's valid to aim to improve it, rather than trying to force others to change their approach, so it might up your chances.

Hidden profiles will probably make it tougher too.

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